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CONFLICTS.   Alexander Goetz
poglavlje 1:
       communication
always
7%
            93%
  content


relation
content


relation
content
poglavlje 2:
       definition
even sharks...
have good sides
make problems visible

   create change


    deepen human relations


   tighten social cohesion

make life more interesting
basics
minimum two parties
  mutual field for conflict

   different view

  feelings
trial of mutual influence
minimum two parties
mutual field for conflict
different view
feelings
trial of mutual influence
poglavlje 3:
           types
personal




           fact-based
goal conflicts
  method conflicts
   value conflicts

    role conflicts

   allocation conflicts
  competition conflicts
need conflicts
goal conflicts

different goals inside the
same organization lead easily
to conflicts. one example is
the conflict between sales
and administration about the
settlement of applications.
the sales would like to see all
applications settled, but the
administration has rules to
follow, which sometimes
does’t allow the settlement of
applications.
method conflicts

the same goals are projected
but the ways (methods) to
reach the goals differ. a
classical example is the
struggle between the CEO
and the leading directors in
sales about the investments
to be done.
value conflicts

the activities of involved
people are in conflict with
their beliefs and values. one
example is the change of
sales talks, which can lead to
heavy conflicts between the
beliefs about the market-
needs.
role conflicts

a change inside the hierarchy
can create a role conflict, as
the new appointed manager
has to find his role inside his
new job.
allocation conflicts

allocation conflicts appear,
when limited material
(money, awards) or
immaterial goods (control)
are to be distributed or
allocated inside an
organization. tension is
created and can lead to deep
consequences inside the
social relations.
competition conflicts

the question about the
hierarchal leadership inside
an organization can lead to
heavy struggles for the “first
place”.
need conflicts

if persons are detained to
fulfill their personal needs, a
conflict can arise. an example
shows the person, who was
promised a car from the
company. he planned with it
already, but the award was
postponed and therefore lead
to a conflict.
poglavlje 4:
       diagnosis
competitive

   approach
                     co-operative


                  individual
                                    activity

analysis/guilt assignement


   perception



           evaluation of result
39 C                                 explosion

                                            chronical conflicts
38 C   open

                point of no return



37 C   latent




36 C
                                       implosion
9
  steps
to inhumanity
9
                    steps
                  to inhumanity




opinion hardens
9
                      steps
                    to inhumanity



debates/ polemics




  opinion hardens
action instead of words       9
                            steps
                          to inhumanity



     debates/ polemics




        opinion hardens
image & coalitions




action instead of words        9
                             steps
                           to inhumanity



     debates/ polemics




        opinion hardens
loss of integrity




      image & coalitions
                                                point of no return




action instead of words                        9
                                              steps
                                         to inhumanity



     debates/ polemics




        opinion hardens
loss of integrity
                                                             ultimatum/ threats




      image & coalitions
                                                point of no return




action instead of words                        9
                                              steps
                                         to inhumanity



     debates/ polemics




        opinion hardens
loss of integrity
                                                             ultimatum/ threats




      image & coalitions
                                                point of no return
                                                                       limited acts of reprisal




action instead of words                        9
                                              steps
                                         to inhumanity



     debates/ polemics




        opinion hardens
loss of integrity
                                                             ultimatum/ threats




      image & coalitions
                                                point of no return
                                                                       limited acts of reprisal




action instead of words                        9                             dissipation
                                              steps
                                         to inhumanity



     debates/ polemics




        opinion hardens
loss of integrity
                                                             ultimatum/ threats




      image & coalitions
                                                point of no return
                                                                       limited acts of reprisal




action instead of words                        9                             dissipation
                                              steps
                                         to inhumanity



     debates/ polemics
                                                                             joint abyss



        opinion hardens
poglavlje 5:
       solutions
conflict analysis
controversial subject


                      involved parties


                       visible effects


                      course of events

conflict analysis
                    preliminary result
conflict rules
avoid loss of oponent’s integrity
                 no past mistakes, stay with the topic



                       preserve your self-respect
                       step back in time to avoid loss of control



                           understand the other party
                           try to take the other party’s views




                           don’t try to change others
                           others will stay as they are



                       stand your ground cleverly
conflict rules         say what you want clear and convincing



                 reduce danger of follow-up conflicts
                 don’t involve uninvolved, forget what is resolved
goal
ideal




        goal
ideal   real




        goal
ideal   real
               retreat




        goal
content



relation
content




          relation
past



future
past




       future
positions



interests
positions




            interests
subjective



objective
subjective




             objective
exclusion



invitation
exclusion




            invitation
informal



formal
informal




           formal
intervention


prevention
intervention




               prevention
the big   the big
                                  secret    secret
      the big
       secret          the big
                        secret
             the big
              secret



the big
 secret




                                                     the big
                                                      secret




          the big
           secret
the big   the big
                                   secret    secret
      the big
       secret           the big
                         secret
             the big
              secret



the big
 secret
                       the        big
                              secret                  the big
                                                       secret




          the big
           secret
the big
 secret




            the big
             secret



  the big
   secret
idol
 the big
  secret




                                    the big
                                     secret



   the big
    secret   ... people do what they see.

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Conflict management

  • 1. CONFLICTS. Alexander Goetz
  • 2.
  • 3. poglavlje 1: communication
  • 4.
  • 6.
  • 7. 7% 93% content relation
  • 10.
  • 11.
  • 12.
  • 13. poglavlje 2: definition
  • 14.
  • 16.
  • 17. make problems visible create change deepen human relations tighten social cohesion make life more interesting
  • 18.
  • 20.
  • 21. minimum two parties mutual field for conflict different view feelings trial of mutual influence
  • 22.
  • 24.
  • 25. mutual field for conflict
  • 26.
  • 28.
  • 30.
  • 31. trial of mutual influence
  • 32.
  • 33. poglavlje 3: types
  • 34.
  • 35. personal fact-based
  • 36.
  • 37. goal conflicts method conflicts value conflicts role conflicts allocation conflicts competition conflicts need conflicts
  • 38.
  • 39. goal conflicts different goals inside the same organization lead easily to conflicts. one example is the conflict between sales and administration about the settlement of applications. the sales would like to see all applications settled, but the administration has rules to follow, which sometimes does’t allow the settlement of applications.
  • 40.
  • 41. method conflicts the same goals are projected but the ways (methods) to reach the goals differ. a classical example is the struggle between the CEO and the leading directors in sales about the investments to be done.
  • 42.
  • 43. value conflicts the activities of involved people are in conflict with their beliefs and values. one example is the change of sales talks, which can lead to heavy conflicts between the beliefs about the market- needs.
  • 44.
  • 45. role conflicts a change inside the hierarchy can create a role conflict, as the new appointed manager has to find his role inside his new job.
  • 46.
  • 47. allocation conflicts allocation conflicts appear, when limited material (money, awards) or immaterial goods (control) are to be distributed or allocated inside an organization. tension is created and can lead to deep consequences inside the social relations.
  • 48.
  • 49. competition conflicts the question about the hierarchal leadership inside an organization can lead to heavy struggles for the “first place”.
  • 50.
  • 51. need conflicts if persons are detained to fulfill their personal needs, a conflict can arise. an example shows the person, who was promised a car from the company. he planned with it already, but the award was postponed and therefore lead to a conflict.
  • 52.
  • 53. poglavlje 4: diagnosis
  • 54.
  • 55. competitive approach co-operative individual activity analysis/guilt assignement perception evaluation of result
  • 56.
  • 57. 39 C explosion chronical conflicts 38 C open point of no return 37 C latent 36 C implosion
  • 58.
  • 59. 9 steps to inhumanity
  • 60. 9 steps to inhumanity opinion hardens
  • 61. 9 steps to inhumanity debates/ polemics opinion hardens
  • 62. action instead of words 9 steps to inhumanity debates/ polemics opinion hardens
  • 63. image & coalitions action instead of words 9 steps to inhumanity debates/ polemics opinion hardens
  • 64. loss of integrity image & coalitions point of no return action instead of words 9 steps to inhumanity debates/ polemics opinion hardens
  • 65. loss of integrity ultimatum/ threats image & coalitions point of no return action instead of words 9 steps to inhumanity debates/ polemics opinion hardens
  • 66. loss of integrity ultimatum/ threats image & coalitions point of no return limited acts of reprisal action instead of words 9 steps to inhumanity debates/ polemics opinion hardens
  • 67. loss of integrity ultimatum/ threats image & coalitions point of no return limited acts of reprisal action instead of words 9 dissipation steps to inhumanity debates/ polemics opinion hardens
  • 68. loss of integrity ultimatum/ threats image & coalitions point of no return limited acts of reprisal action instead of words 9 dissipation steps to inhumanity debates/ polemics joint abyss opinion hardens
  • 69.
  • 70. poglavlje 5: solutions
  • 72. controversial subject involved parties visible effects course of events conflict analysis preliminary result
  • 74. avoid loss of oponent’s integrity no past mistakes, stay with the topic preserve your self-respect step back in time to avoid loss of control understand the other party try to take the other party’s views don’t try to change others others will stay as they are stand your ground cleverly conflict rules say what you want clear and convincing reduce danger of follow-up conflicts don’t involve uninvolved, forget what is resolved
  • 75.
  • 76. goal
  • 77. ideal goal
  • 78. ideal real goal
  • 79. ideal real retreat goal
  • 81. content relation
  • 83. past future
  • 85. positions interests
  • 87. subjective objective
  • 89. exclusion invitation
  • 91. informal formal
  • 93. intervention prevention
  • 94. the big the big secret secret the big secret the big secret the big secret the big secret the big secret the big secret
  • 95. the big the big secret secret the big secret the big secret the big secret the big secret the big secret the big secret the big secret
  • 96. the big secret the big secret the big secret
  • 97. idol the big secret the big secret the big secret ... people do what they see.

Editor's Notes

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  11. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
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  13. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  14. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  15. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  16. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  17. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  18. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  19. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  20. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  21. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  22. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  23. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  24. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  25. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  26. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  27. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  28. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  29. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  30. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  31. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  32. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  33. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  34. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  35. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  36. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  37. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  38. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  39. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  40. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  41. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  42. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  43. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  44. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  45. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  46. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  47. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  48. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  49. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  50. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  51. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  52. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  53. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  54. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  55. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  56. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  57. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  58. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  59. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  60. good morning\nsie koennen nicht “nicht kommunizieren”\n
  61. good morning\n
  62. good morning\n
  63. good morning\n
  64. good morning\n
  65. good morning\n
  66. good morning\n
  67. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  68. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  69. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  70. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  71. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  72. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  73. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  74. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  75. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  76. our main attention is focused on content\nand thats dangerous\n
  77. this is how conflicts start\n
  78. this is how conflicts start\n
  79. this is how conflicts start\n
  80. this is how conflicts start\n
  81. this is how conflicts start\n
  82. this is how conflicts start\n
  83. this is how conflicts start\n
  84. this is how conflicts start\n
  85. this is how conflicts start\n
  86. this is how conflicts start\n
  87. this is how conflicts start\n
  88. this is how conflicts start\n
  89. this is how conflicts start\n
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  120. without involved feelings no conflict\n
  121. without involved feelings no conflict\n
  122. without involved feelings no conflict\n
  123. without involved feelings no conflict\n
  124. without involved feelings no conflict\n
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  147. wie gehe ich an eine sache heran (unternehmensfuehrung)\n
  148. wie gehe ich an eine sache heran (unternehmensfuehrung)\n
  149. wie gehe ich an eine sache heran (unternehmensfuehrung)\n
  150. wie gehe ich an eine sache heran (unternehmensfuehrung)\n
  151. wie gehe ich an eine sache heran (unternehmensfuehrung)\n
  152. unterschiedliche werte treffen aufeinander\nman moechte, dass jemand sein verhalten aendert\n
  153. unterschiedliche werte treffen aufeinander\nman moechte, dass jemand sein verhalten aendert\n
  154. unterschiedliche werte treffen aufeinander\nman moechte, dass jemand sein verhalten aendert\n
  155. unterschiedliche werte treffen aufeinander\nman moechte, dass jemand sein verhalten aendert\n
  156. soll ich tun, was der andere von mir erwartet\n
  157. soll ich tun, was der andere von mir erwartet\n
  158. soll ich tun, was der andere von mir erwartet\n
  159. soll ich tun, was der andere von mir erwartet\n
  160. auch intellektuelle verteilung (konkurrenz)\n
  161. auch intellektuelle verteilung (konkurrenz)\n
  162. auch intellektuelle verteilung (konkurrenz)\n
  163. auch intellektuelle verteilung (konkurrenz)\n
  164. fuehrungsansprueche\n\n
  165. fuehrungsansprueche\n\n
  166. fuehrungsansprueche\n\n
  167. fuehrungsansprueche\n\n
  168. hinderung an der erfuellung eigener beduerfnisse\n
  169. hinderung an der erfuellung eigener beduerfnisse\n
  170. hinderung an der erfuellung eigener beduerfnisse\n
  171. hinderung an der erfuellung eigener beduerfnisse\n
  172. \n
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  174. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  175. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  176. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  177. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  178. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  179. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  180. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  181. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  182. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  183. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  184. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  185. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  186. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  187. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  188. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  189. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  190. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  191. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  192. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  193. perception: wahrnehmung: unangemessenes verhalten (auch freundlich)\nkompetitiv: relativer gewinn, gewinner-verlierer\nko-operativ: groesster gemeinsamer nutzen, gewinner-gewinner\nindividualistisch: groesster eigennutzen, gewinner\n
  194. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  195. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  196. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  197. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  198. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  199. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  200. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  201. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  202. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  203. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  204. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  205. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  206. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  207. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  208. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  209. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  210. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  211. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  212. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  213. implosion (inner quitting)\n
  214. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  215. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  216. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  217. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  218. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  219. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  220. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  221. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  222. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  223. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
  224. aus der kriegstheorie entlehnt\naction: show strength, irreversible action\n
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  240. when you are involved in a conflict\ndefine 3 possible outcomes\n you can live with\n
  241. when you are involved in a conflict\ndefine 3 possible outcomes\n you can live with\n
  242. when you are involved in a conflict\ndefine 3 possible outcomes\n you can live with\n
  243. when you are involved in a conflict\ndefine 3 possible outcomes\n you can live with\n
  244. when you are involved in a conflict\ndefine 3 possible outcomes\n you can live with\n
  245. when you are involved in a conflict\ndefine 3 possible outcomes\n you can live with\n
  246. when you are involved in a conflict\ndefine 3 possible outcomes\n you can live with\n
  247. when you are involved in a conflict\ndefine 3 possible outcomes\n you can live with\n
  248. we must learn to separate\nvery difficult\n
  249. we must learn to separate\nvery difficult\n
  250. we must learn to separate\nvery difficult\n
  251. we must learn to separate\nvery difficult\n
  252. we must learn to separate\nvery difficult\n
  253. good morning\n
  254. good morning\n
  255. good morning\n
  256. good morning\n
  257. good morning\n
  258. there are always common interests to be found\nseparate them from pure “positions”\n
  259. there are always common interests to be found\nseparate them from pure “positions”\n
  260. there are always common interests to be found\nseparate them from pure “positions”\n
  261. there are always common interests to be found\nseparate them from pure “positions”\n
  262. there are always common interests to be found\nseparate them from pure “positions”\n
  263. try to separate the objectives from\nthe subjective matters\n
  264. try to separate the objectives from\nthe subjective matters\n
  265. try to separate the objectives from\nthe subjective matters\n
  266. try to separate the objectives from\nthe subjective matters\n
  267. try to separate the objectives from\nthe subjective matters\n
  268. invite your oponents to find solutions\n
  269. invite your oponents to find solutions\n
  270. invite your oponents to find solutions\n
  271. invite your oponents to find solutions\n
  272. invite your oponents to find solutions\n
  273. its always good to have\nformal and informal mediators around your conflicts\nallows you to create more moving space\n
  274. its always good to have\nformal and informal mediators around your conflicts\nallows you to create more moving space\n
  275. its always good to have\nformal and informal mediators around your conflicts\nallows you to create more moving space\n
  276. its always good to have\nformal and informal mediators around your conflicts\nallows you to create more moving space\n
  277. its always good to have\nformal and informal mediators around your conflicts\nallows you to create more moving space\n
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