The document discusses the concept of "guru love" and how early relationships with parents can impact people later in life. It states that mothers are often the "gurus of love" for newborn children, regardless of the mother's situation. It then explains how unresolved issues from dysfunctional parental love can become "hardwired" in people if not addressed. The document also discusses how unconditional love in romantic relationships requires both partners to cooperate in looking past each other's struggles in order to see each other's perfection. It stresses the importance of both individuals being in a place of high self-love for the relationship to reach a space of true freedom through mutual unconditional love.

1. Guru Love
February 25, 2010
Mothers are Guruʼs to the newborn. Good ones, great ones,
or troubled ones but, guruʼs of love for the innocent child
never the less. I was raised by a ʻsingle, teenage, high school
dropout motherʼ the first two years. She was from the same
town where they filmed ʻThe Officer & Gentlemanʼ starring Richard Gere (ironically
across the street from where my center is now). Dad was a Naval Officer similar to that
in the movie filmed here and, was away those first 2 years. ʻGuru loveʼ has nothing to do
with status or education.
Later when kids become adults, the effects become apparent. Never does one need to
stay ʻmoldedʼ to some dysfunctional love from a parent but, few seem to be open to
rising above the unclaimed issues that become hardwired if not ʻunattachedʼ from.
Unrepaired love moves through infinite generations of beleaguered souls. Male and
female are blinded from knowing real love but settle for some form of ʻfunctionalʼ love to
struggle through lifeʼs consequent turmoils. Busyness with outer endeavors for survival,
children and, all kinds of commitments, pile up to bury any attention to oneʼs personal
evolvement.
When two people merge with ʻunfixedʼ
issues, love will never reach an
ʻunconditionalʼ state without a mutual
focus of seeing and acting through and
beyond the fixed issues. Each person is
ʻperfectʼ as much as a human can be but,
they either canʼt see that or,
circumstances may cloud the perfection.
If one partner truly loves themselves,
they can see the others struggle but, can
also see them in their perfection. The
ʻstruggling partnerʼ must be willing to cooperate in the
relationship to reach for higher love at all points. Both partners are always equal in love
but rarely do two people acknowledge that. There is no higher and lower, only some
kind of ʻdarknessʼ where the light doesnʼt shine to see the truth. Itʼs not about ʻchanging
oneʼ but, uncovering the attached to falseness.
At this stage of life, the female can rarely elevate a male in lower ʻself loveʼ to a higher
place that she is in. Itʼs very important for a female seeking a ʻreal, unconditional love
affairʼ to find a male who is in that place already and, be open to uncover obstacles.
With few exceptions, females rise in a coupling, males slip with other interests followed
by the female then stopping her full expressions of love. Love must be the ʻguruʼ to meet
and bond with. A male already bonding with that may pull up his mate but, very unlikely
the other way around. Females are good at receiving as long as the male is good at
giving and, in a strong self love place. Freedom in a coupling only happens in a space
of unconditional mutual love.
Yesss Self Love Center
ArhatraOsho@yahoo.com