Coaching and mentoring



  by Toronto Training and HR

        February 2012
3-4     Introduction to Toronto Training and HR
           5-6     Definitions
Contents   7-9
           10-11
                   Standards to achieve
                   Behaviours that foster dependency and kill initiative
           12-13   Recent shifts in mentoring
           14-15   Mentoring with SMART objectives
           16-17   Key roles in mentoring
           18-19   Reciprocal mentoring
           20-21   Mentoring dos and don’ts
           22-24   Why mentoring or coaching programs fail
           25-26   How mentoring or coaching programs succeed
           27-29   Making coaching effective
           30-31   Coaching as part of the normal process of
                   management
           32-33   Training managers as coaches
           34-35   Hidden roles of managerial coaches
           36-38   Coaching skills
           39-40   Key features of effective coaching
           41-42   Coaches as catalysts
           43-44   Why coaching may not suit your organization
           45-46   Common mistakes when coaching sales reps
           47-49   Why don’t all managers coach?
           50-52   Coaching and mentoring trends
           53-54   Case study
           55-56   Conclusion and questions
Introduction




     Page 3
Introduction to Toronto Training
            and HR
• Toronto Training and HR is a specialist training and human
  resources consultancy headed by Timothy Holden
• 10 years in banking
• 10 years in training and human resources
• Freelance practitioner since 2006
• The core services provided by Toronto Training and HR are:
              - Training event design
              - Training event delivery
              - Reducing costs
              - Saving time
              - Improving employee engagement & morale
              - Services for job seekers

                            Page 4
Definitions




    Page 5
Definitions
Coaching
Mentoring




                Page 6
Standards to achieve




         Page 7
Standards to achieve 1 of 2
An understanding of coaching and mentoring as
processes that involve reciprocal learning, not a
situation in which the coaches and mentors should
be assuming a dominating or manipulative role
A clear business case for their introduction, with
an agreed process for supervising coaches and
mentors and for monitoring outcomes
An adequate resource base, adjustment in the
workloads of those involved and support for
coaches and mentees in their development

                      Page 8
Standards to achieve 2 of 2
An up to date database of potentially suitable
coaches and mentors, plus a skilled selection and
training process against clear and relevant criteria
Careful piloting of initiatives, and the highlighting
of their benefits across the organization to ensure
understanding of the way in which the processes
operate and of their value




                        Page 9
Behaviours that foster
  dependency & kill
      initiative




         Page 10
Behaviours that foster
   dependency & kill initiative
Telling employees how to do their jobs
Giving employees solutions for their operational
issues without getting their input
Making decisions that employees could make for
themselves




                      Page 11
Recent shifts in mentoring




           Page 12
Recent shifts in mentoring
Mentoring can occur in one-to-one, group, and
situational interactions
The terms “learner” and “advisor” have a broader
reach than “mentee” and “mentor”
Advancement can be a benefit of mentoring, but it
is not its purpose
Mentoring should be used to learn across the
hierarchy of an organization
Mentoring does not need to be time consuming or
face-to-face

                     Page 13
Mentoring with SMART
     objectives




        Page 14
Mentoring with SMART
            objectives
SMART
represent a challenge or a stretch for the mentee
focus on the future development of the mentee
are concrete and clear
seek a quantitative or qualitative improvement that
can be demonstrated or measured
are directly linked to the question, “Why?” “Why is
this goal important to your development and
success?”
require more than one strategy to achieve them

                      Page 15
Key roles in mentoring




         Page 16
Key roles in mentoring
Guide
Ally
Catalyst
Advocate




               Page 17
Reciprocal mentoring




        Page 18
Reciprocal mentoring
Definition
Benefits




                 Page 19
Mentoring dos and don’ts




          Page 20
Mentoring dos and don’ts
Employer
Mentor
Mentee




              Page 21
Why mentoring or
coaching programs fail




         Page 22
Why mentoring or coaching
      programs fail 1 of 2
No clear definition of what mentoring means and
what coaching means and, more importantly, who
should assume what roles
No clear guidelines as to what the mentor should
be assisting with or addressing and what the
coach should be assisting with or addressing
Having the mentor and mentee in a direct
reporting relationship



                     Page 23
Why mentoring or coaching
      programs fail 2 of 2
The role of mentor and coach being handled by
the same individual
No formal training for the role of mentor or coach




                      Page 24
How mentoring or
coaching programs
     succeed




       Page 25
How mentoring or coaching
      programs succeed
Being well planned and fully integrated with other
developmental activities
Being supported by senior management (C-level
sponsorship)
Requiring mandatory training for all those
designated as mentors and coaches




                      Page 26
Making coaching effective




           Page 27
Making coaching effective 1 of 2
Put your own “stuff” to the side and make yourself
available
Ask more questions, make fewer
declarations, allowing employees to generate
solutions
Really listen to the people you work with and
implement suggested solutions
Create action plans with your employees



                      Page 28
Making coaching effective 2 of 2
Learn to celebrate success and say thank you
Build on people’s strengthens rather than
weaknesses
Sustain the momentum and follow up on progress




                    Page 29
Coaching as part of the
  normal process of
    management




          Page 30
Coaching as part of the normal
   process of management
Making people aware of how well they are
performing
Controlled delegation
Using whatever situations arise as opportunities to
promote learning
Encouraging people to look at higher-level
problems and how they would tackle them




                      Page 31
Training managers as
       coaches




        Page 32
Training managers as coaches
Set out a clear case
Keep it informal
Demystify the process
Focus on what works
Build in sustainability
Emphasize success
Coaching is not for everyone




                      Page 33
Hidden roles of managerial
         coaches




           Page 34
Hidden roles of managerial
             coaches
Organizational translator
Performance consultant
Developmental assessor
Cognitive mentor
Brand advisor




                      Page 35
Coaching skills




      Page 36
Coaching skills 1 of 2
COACHING IS MOST EFFECTIVE WHEN:
The coach understands that his or her role is to
help people to learn
Individuals are motivated to learn
Individuals are given guidance on what they
should be learning and feedback on how they
should be doing




                      Page 37
Coaching skills 2 of 2
COACHING IS MOST EFFECTIVE WHEN:
Learning is an active rather than a passive process
The coach listens to individuals to understand
what they want and need
The coach adopts a constructive
approach, building on strengths and experiences




                      Page 38
Key features of effective
       coaching




           Page 39
Key features of effective coaching
 Active listening
 Questioning
 Giving praise and recognition
 Building rapport
 Creating trust
 Being non-judgemental
 Being candid and challenging
 Giving encouragement and support
 Focusing on future opportunities


                     Page 40
Coaches as catalysts




        Page 41
Coaches as catalysts
Be   curious
Be   proactive
Be   observant
Be   courageous




                  Page 42
Why coaching may not suit
   your organization




           Page 43
Why coaching may not suit your
        organization
You confuse a coach with a consultant
You confuse a coach with a therapist
You aren’t committed to changing
Your expectations are unreal
You hide crucial details
You doubt the process
You don’t take action




                     Page 44
Common mistakes when
  coaching sales reps




         Page 45
Common mistakes when
       coaching sales reps
Confusing coaching with evaluations
Treating coaching as a low priority
Finding an excuse not to coach
Providing vague feedback
Coaching by example




                     Page 46
Why don’t all managers
       coach?




         Page 47
Why don’t all managers coach?
            1 of 2
They don’t understand the value or importance of
coaching
They don’t possess the skills to coach others
Even if they understand the importance and have
the skills, they don’t have the time




                     Page 48
Why don’t all managers coach?
            2 of 2
OVERCOMING THESE BARRIERS
Build the personal case for coaching
Establish some firm expectations
Teach coaching skills and put them into practice
Give a manager a coach
Reward the best coaches with the best jobs




                      Page 49
Coaching and mentoring
        trends




         Page 50
Coaching and mentoring trends
           1 of 2
COACHING
Who delivers coaching in the organization?
Evaluation
Purpose of coaching
Agendas




                      Page 51
Coaching and mentoring trends
           2 of 2
MENTORING
How does mentoring happen?
Who receives mentoring?




                   Page 52
Case study




   Page 53
Case study




   Page 54
Conclusion & questions




         Page 55
Conclusion & questions
Summary
Videos
Questions




               Page 56

Coaching and mentoring February 2012

  • 1.
    Coaching and mentoring by Toronto Training and HR February 2012
  • 2.
    3-4 Introduction to Toronto Training and HR 5-6 Definitions Contents 7-9 10-11 Standards to achieve Behaviours that foster dependency and kill initiative 12-13 Recent shifts in mentoring 14-15 Mentoring with SMART objectives 16-17 Key roles in mentoring 18-19 Reciprocal mentoring 20-21 Mentoring dos and don’ts 22-24 Why mentoring or coaching programs fail 25-26 How mentoring or coaching programs succeed 27-29 Making coaching effective 30-31 Coaching as part of the normal process of management 32-33 Training managers as coaches 34-35 Hidden roles of managerial coaches 36-38 Coaching skills 39-40 Key features of effective coaching 41-42 Coaches as catalysts 43-44 Why coaching may not suit your organization 45-46 Common mistakes when coaching sales reps 47-49 Why don’t all managers coach? 50-52 Coaching and mentoring trends 53-54 Case study 55-56 Conclusion and questions
  • 3.
  • 4.
    Introduction to TorontoTraining and HR • Toronto Training and HR is a specialist training and human resources consultancy headed by Timothy Holden • 10 years in banking • 10 years in training and human resources • Freelance practitioner since 2006 • The core services provided by Toronto Training and HR are: - Training event design - Training event delivery - Reducing costs - Saving time - Improving employee engagement & morale - Services for job seekers Page 4
  • 5.
  • 6.
  • 7.
  • 8.
    Standards to achieve1 of 2 An understanding of coaching and mentoring as processes that involve reciprocal learning, not a situation in which the coaches and mentors should be assuming a dominating or manipulative role A clear business case for their introduction, with an agreed process for supervising coaches and mentors and for monitoring outcomes An adequate resource base, adjustment in the workloads of those involved and support for coaches and mentees in their development Page 8
  • 9.
    Standards to achieve2 of 2 An up to date database of potentially suitable coaches and mentors, plus a skilled selection and training process against clear and relevant criteria Careful piloting of initiatives, and the highlighting of their benefits across the organization to ensure understanding of the way in which the processes operate and of their value Page 9
  • 10.
    Behaviours that foster dependency & kill initiative Page 10
  • 11.
    Behaviours that foster dependency & kill initiative Telling employees how to do their jobs Giving employees solutions for their operational issues without getting their input Making decisions that employees could make for themselves Page 11
  • 12.
    Recent shifts inmentoring Page 12
  • 13.
    Recent shifts inmentoring Mentoring can occur in one-to-one, group, and situational interactions The terms “learner” and “advisor” have a broader reach than “mentee” and “mentor” Advancement can be a benefit of mentoring, but it is not its purpose Mentoring should be used to learn across the hierarchy of an organization Mentoring does not need to be time consuming or face-to-face Page 13
  • 14.
    Mentoring with SMART objectives Page 14
  • 15.
    Mentoring with SMART objectives SMART represent a challenge or a stretch for the mentee focus on the future development of the mentee are concrete and clear seek a quantitative or qualitative improvement that can be demonstrated or measured are directly linked to the question, “Why?” “Why is this goal important to your development and success?” require more than one strategy to achieve them Page 15
  • 16.
    Key roles inmentoring Page 16
  • 17.
    Key roles inmentoring Guide Ally Catalyst Advocate Page 17
  • 18.
  • 19.
  • 20.
    Mentoring dos anddon’ts Page 20
  • 21.
    Mentoring dos anddon’ts Employer Mentor Mentee Page 21
  • 22.
    Why mentoring or coachingprograms fail Page 22
  • 23.
    Why mentoring orcoaching programs fail 1 of 2 No clear definition of what mentoring means and what coaching means and, more importantly, who should assume what roles No clear guidelines as to what the mentor should be assisting with or addressing and what the coach should be assisting with or addressing Having the mentor and mentee in a direct reporting relationship Page 23
  • 24.
    Why mentoring orcoaching programs fail 2 of 2 The role of mentor and coach being handled by the same individual No formal training for the role of mentor or coach Page 24
  • 25.
    How mentoring or coachingprograms succeed Page 25
  • 26.
    How mentoring orcoaching programs succeed Being well planned and fully integrated with other developmental activities Being supported by senior management (C-level sponsorship) Requiring mandatory training for all those designated as mentors and coaches Page 26
  • 27.
  • 28.
    Making coaching effective1 of 2 Put your own “stuff” to the side and make yourself available Ask more questions, make fewer declarations, allowing employees to generate solutions Really listen to the people you work with and implement suggested solutions Create action plans with your employees Page 28
  • 29.
    Making coaching effective2 of 2 Learn to celebrate success and say thank you Build on people’s strengthens rather than weaknesses Sustain the momentum and follow up on progress Page 29
  • 30.
    Coaching as partof the normal process of management Page 30
  • 31.
    Coaching as partof the normal process of management Making people aware of how well they are performing Controlled delegation Using whatever situations arise as opportunities to promote learning Encouraging people to look at higher-level problems and how they would tackle them Page 31
  • 32.
    Training managers as coaches Page 32
  • 33.
    Training managers ascoaches Set out a clear case Keep it informal Demystify the process Focus on what works Build in sustainability Emphasize success Coaching is not for everyone Page 33
  • 34.
    Hidden roles ofmanagerial coaches Page 34
  • 35.
    Hidden roles ofmanagerial coaches Organizational translator Performance consultant Developmental assessor Cognitive mentor Brand advisor Page 35
  • 36.
  • 37.
    Coaching skills 1of 2 COACHING IS MOST EFFECTIVE WHEN: The coach understands that his or her role is to help people to learn Individuals are motivated to learn Individuals are given guidance on what they should be learning and feedback on how they should be doing Page 37
  • 38.
    Coaching skills 2of 2 COACHING IS MOST EFFECTIVE WHEN: Learning is an active rather than a passive process The coach listens to individuals to understand what they want and need The coach adopts a constructive approach, building on strengths and experiences Page 38
  • 39.
    Key features ofeffective coaching Page 39
  • 40.
    Key features ofeffective coaching Active listening Questioning Giving praise and recognition Building rapport Creating trust Being non-judgemental Being candid and challenging Giving encouragement and support Focusing on future opportunities Page 40
  • 41.
  • 42.
    Coaches as catalysts Be curious Be proactive Be observant Be courageous Page 42
  • 43.
    Why coaching maynot suit your organization Page 43
  • 44.
    Why coaching maynot suit your organization You confuse a coach with a consultant You confuse a coach with a therapist You aren’t committed to changing Your expectations are unreal You hide crucial details You doubt the process You don’t take action Page 44
  • 45.
    Common mistakes when coaching sales reps Page 45
  • 46.
    Common mistakes when coaching sales reps Confusing coaching with evaluations Treating coaching as a low priority Finding an excuse not to coach Providing vague feedback Coaching by example Page 46
  • 47.
    Why don’t allmanagers coach? Page 47
  • 48.
    Why don’t allmanagers coach? 1 of 2 They don’t understand the value or importance of coaching They don’t possess the skills to coach others Even if they understand the importance and have the skills, they don’t have the time Page 48
  • 49.
    Why don’t allmanagers coach? 2 of 2 OVERCOMING THESE BARRIERS Build the personal case for coaching Establish some firm expectations Teach coaching skills and put them into practice Give a manager a coach Reward the best coaches with the best jobs Page 49
  • 50.
  • 51.
    Coaching and mentoringtrends 1 of 2 COACHING Who delivers coaching in the organization? Evaluation Purpose of coaching Agendas Page 51
  • 52.
    Coaching and mentoringtrends 2 of 2 MENTORING How does mentoring happen? Who receives mentoring? Page 52
  • 53.
    Case study Page 53
  • 54.
    Case study Page 54
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