The Inner Critic is the main source of our biggest blocks to perform at our best. Fortunately, there are simple and effective ways to banish the inner critic in order to do our best work as contributors, collaborators, and leaders. First, you’ll discover the three mental power tools that you already possess to stop the inner critic in its tracks. Then you’ll learn methods for dealing with the fear of being judged and criticized, how to transform highly critical self-talk into that of approval and encouragement, and ways to feel like your ideas are good enough and stop committing “ideacide.” By the end, you’ll have a roadmap of how to get unstuck, do your best work, and channel your creativity as a force for positive change in the world.

1. Reduce Anxiety, Unblock
Creativity, and Up-level Leadership
Denise Jacobs • Emergent Leaders Summit •
30 April - 1 May 2020

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3. WHAT’S
BLOCKING
US?

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So…a lot is
happening
right now
https://www.flickr.com/photos/corneveaux/3248566797/

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FUD =
Fear
Uncertainty
Doubt
https://www.flickr.com/photos/tom_lin/3193080175/

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VUCA
volatility
uncertainty
complexity
ambiguity

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Our inner critics
Photo source: Flickr

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Affects thinking
https://www.flickr.com/photos/falequin/8443342362/

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The inner critic is a HUGE blocker
http://www.flickr.com/photos/richardwinchell/130344669/

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Mind &
perception
management
https://www.flickr.com/photos/anieto2k/15675189976/

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Creative & innovative thinking

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Lead powerfully
https://www.flickr.com/photos/newamericanleadersproject/6959863273/

13. MENTAL
MANAGEMENT

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We can
control what’s
going on in
here
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tiarescott/3211540197/

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S.H.I.F.T.
C R E AT I V E D O S E :
Stay present:
Take several deep breaths to get yourself grounded and back into your body.
Have compassion:
Understand that you’re feeling scared and commit to giving yourself comforting messages.
Invoke mindfulness:
Realize that you are not your thoughts and that you have the power to observe them without reacting to them.
Focus attention:
Choose to place your attention on alternative thoughts.
Trust your ability to problem-solve:
Know that the creative part of you exists and it will come out when you relax.

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We have (mental)
Power Tools
http://www.flickr.com/photos/techshop/2832912619/

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Neuroplasticity
https://www.flickr.com/photos/arselectronica/13994747444

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Attention & Focus
https://www.flickr.com/photos/77654185@N07/8428225936

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Mindfulness
http://www.flickr.com/photos/eldave/3065425105/

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Shift Focus
L E T ’ S D O T H I S :
Photo: Mind The Product SF 2019

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Self-Compassion
https://www.flickr.com/photos/samanthasteele/3983046067/

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Self-Compassion Template
C R E AT I V E D O S E :

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Reduce anxiety, boost creative
problem-solving, and own your expertise
https://www.flickr.com/photos/jeronimooo/9640105244/

24. REDUCE
ANXIETY

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Know what throws
you off track

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Beware of comparisons!
Creative Dose:

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Social Media Intentionality
C R E AT I V E D O S E :

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Rumination

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Thoughts on replay
https://www.flickr.com/photos/lifethroughjournals/37465392494/

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Anti-Rumination Hand-Squeeze
C R E AT I V E D O S E :

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Word Choice
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mythoto/3822942678/

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Say This, Not That - part 1
C R E AT I V E D O S E :
“Unexpected”
“New”
“Cautious”
“Prepare”
“Temporary changes”
“This is unusual”
“Uncertain” —>
“Unprecedented” —>
“Scared” —>
“Panic” —>
“Trying times” —>
“This is crazy” —>
https://www.instagram.com/p/B9zXajnJpJw/

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Say This, Not That - part 2
C R E AT I V E D O S E :
“I choose to/I get to”
“I want to”
“I will/I decide”
“When can I?”
“I have to” —>
“I ought to” —>
“I should” —>
“I must” —>

35. UNBLOCK
CREATIVITY

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Idea flow?
Blocked!
Photo: Denise Jacobs

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Work with your hands
C R E AT I V E D O S E :

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My creativity exploded
Photos: Denise Jacobs

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Unblock creative-thinking
https://pixabay.com/en/paint-makeup-cracky-girl-cosmetics-2985569/

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– B R U C E N U S S A U M , C R E AT I V I T Y I N T E L L I G E N C E
“Creativity is about recognizing patterns and
seeing connections.”

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What’s in the box?
L E T ’ S D O T H I S !

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Kill the culture of
“ideacide”

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The “stupid” ideas
may be the best!
StartSometihingStupid.com

44. OWN
YOUR
EXPERTISE

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Feel like an impostor?
https://www.flickr.com/photos/neogabox/4251913740

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Impostor syndrome runs rampant
among leaders and high achievers

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Inner critic gets stronger
as the stakes get higher

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Women are
highly susceptible

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There’s paradox
with impostor syndrome
http://www.flickr.com/photos/x1brett/2279939232/

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Remember the Impostor Syndrome Paradox
C R E AT I V E D O S E :
You will only experience impostor
syndrome when you are
competent and skilled.
(re-read this as many times as necessary.)

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“I’m really good at…”
L E T ’ S D O T H I S !

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Share Your Expertise
C R E AT I V E D O S E :

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A stronger leader
http://www.flickr.com/photos/opensourceway/4387501000/

54. STEP INTO
YOUR
POWER &
LEAD
POWERFULLY

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Learning a whole
new approach

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An improved
mind-frame +
Stepping into
your power
https://www.flickr.com/photos/drainrat/16666157505/

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Unreasonable
standards
http://www.flickr.com/photos/diepuppenstubensammlerin/7648792510/

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Inner struggles will still exist
http://static.ipaustralia.com.au/store3/10/78/1078354.1.high.jpg

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Excellence≠Perfection
Creative Dose:

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Satisfice It
C R E AT I V E D O S E :
https://www.flickr.com/photos/sleepyvalley/3650673328
SASTIFICE =
SUFFICIENT + SATISFACTORY

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S.H.I.F.T.
C R E AT I V E D O S E :
Stay present:
Take several deep breaths to get yourself grounded and back into your body.
Have compassion:
Understand that you’re feeling scared and commit to giving yourself comforting messages.
Invoke mindfulness:
Realize that you are not your thoughts and that you have the power to observe them without reacting to them.
Focus attention:
Choose to place your attention on alternative thoughts.
Trust your ability to problem-solve:
Know that the creative part of you exists and it will come out when you relax.

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What would you be able to do with
a banished inner critic?
https://www.flickr.com/photos/rvm_71/5011353192/

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“If I didn’t have an Inner Critic, I would…”
L E T ’ S D O T H I S !
https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Before_I_die_I_want_to_write_an_album._(6123412737).jpg

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Didn’t believe it
possible
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mahalie/276780530/

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A toolbox
https://www.pexels.com/photo/construction-work-carpenter-tools-3327/

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Show up stronger
in this new era

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Tons more
tools in my
book!

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DeniseSlides.com

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My courses on LinkedIn Learning
Go to
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