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2. They say hindsight is 20-20.

3. That's kind of true, but sometimes it's
pretty dangerous.

4. Looking back into history can be
helpful, but only when you take in the
ENTIRE history.

5. There's all kinds of movies where
people go back in time and change
one simple thing with disastrous
results in the present.

6. When people reminisce about the
past, it's common to wish one or two
elements were different, and
everything else was the same.

7. This is pretty impossible when you
really think about it.

8. Every incident in human life is the
culmination of billions of random
variables all operating according to
different principles.

9. Since the human brain is limited in its
understanding, we often perceive
things that are much simpler than they
really are.

10. For example, a lot of guys would like
things to be the way like they were in
the "old days."

11. Maybe they imagine their
grandparents hooking up, dating a few
times, and then having a relationship
without much issue.

12. They compare that to their
experiences today, and see a huge
difference.

13. The conclusion is usually that women
today are much different than women
of yesteryear.

14. There's a couple things going on here
that makes that seem correct, when
it's not true at all.

15. One thing is something called
"survivorship bias."

16. This means we focus only on the few
people that were successful, even
when they are the exception to the
rule.

17. If you only focus on your happily
married grandparents, for example,
you're ignoring all the people on
planet Earth their same age who aren't
so happy.

18. Another problem comes when guys
hook up with girls and have sex.

19. Then there emotions get involved, and
they try to turn a short term fling
(based on how it was created) into a
long term relationship.

20. Unfortunately, long term relationships
only really work out when people
genuinely like each other beyond
those feelings of lust.

21. Anybody you meet under the cover of
lust may or may not fit that
description.

22. Sure it can happen, but when you
consider how diverse people are, it's
unlikely you'd meet your soul mate the
same way you'd meet a short term
fling.

23. So, what's the answer?

24. All this can easily be take care of with
criteria.

25. Find out what kind of relationship
you'd like.

26. Find out what kind of person you'd like
it with.

27. Find out a way to determine if they are
a close enough match BEFORE you get
too physical and your emotions get
involved.

28. Sure, in the short term, it's not a lot of
fun.

29. But in the long term, you'll be much,
much better off.

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