The document discusses the flawed mentality many men have regarding relationships, likening it to a childhood mindset where desires are fulfilled without effort. It emphasizes that attraction must be actively created and maintained to earn a woman's affection, rather than relying on personal achievements or a sense of entitlement. The author argues that these outdated beliefs hinder men's understanding of modern dating dynamics.

2. Many guys approach girls and creating
relationships with girls with a
childhood mindset.

3. When we're kids, everything we want
is given to us by adults.

4. We cry out, and they give us what we
want.

5. Usually to shut us up.

6. If you think about this model of the
world, a lot of "adult" behavior makes
a lot of sense.

7. People want stuff "just because."

8. We've been conned into thinking that
we can get something simply because
it's our "right" or we "deserve it."

9. But here's the shocker.

10. If whatever you want has to come
from somebody else (girl related or
not) they aren't going to give you
squat unless you've got something
they want.

11. Even when politicians promise us the
moon, they're still using this model.

12. They promise a bunch of stuff IN
EXCHANGE for our votes.

13. But with so many leaders (political,
religious, corporate, etc) promising us
stuff, it's easy to stay stuck in the
childhood model.

14. Where we think we just need to
"express ourselves" and we'll get some
kind of "reward."

15. What's worse, is many guys fall into
the "any-work-equals-reward"
mindset.

16. This is just as deadly.

17. For example, they tell themselves
they've gone through college, have
gotten their degree, have a decent job,
and decent financial situation, so they
"deserve" some kind of beautiful and
loyal wife.

18. Unfortunately, it doesn't work like
that.

19. No girl is going be interested in you
simply because of all the "work"
you've done on yourself.

20. The ONLY REASON a girl is going to
become interested in you is if you get
her feeling those feelings that we
collectively refer to as "attraction."

21. Only be creating and maintaining
attraction will she give you the
affection and companionship you'd
like.

22. Even then it's ALWAYS conditional.

23. As soon as the attractions's gone, so is
she.

24. Not only do you have to BUILD IT, but
you've got to MAINTAIN IT.

25. Now, many guys will scream and cry
that this isn't fair.

26. That "back in the good old days" all
you had to do was get a job and sexy
loyal girls would fall from the heavens
directly into your arms.

27. But it was really not like that.

28. Think of this in terms of Newton's
Second Law of Motion:

29. "For every action, there is an equal
and opposite reaction."

30. To put it in terms of dating, it might go
like this:

31. "For every loyal and attractive
girlfriend, there's an equal and
opposite attraction-creating
boyfriend."

32. It's actually pretty simple.

33. You want a high quality woman?

34. An attractive lady that will be
affectionate and loyal?

35. Create attraction, and maintain
attraction.

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