The document discusses the misconception that skills in dealing with women can be mastered once and for all. It emphasizes that relationships are dynamic and require ongoing effort and adaptation, regardless of past experiences or teachings. The writer encourages embracing the challenges of interacting with women as a valuable part of life rather than seeking quick fixes.

2. Most people have this belief,
consciously or unconsciously, that
their relationships with women is
some kind of "skill" that once they
"get" they don't have to worry about
"that part of their life" anymore.

3. Now, let's think about this for a
minute.

4. Being able to deal with women, all
women, is a skill that you need to
learn only once.

5. Like how to drive, how to bake a cake,
how to dance, etc.

6. What happens when you get married?
Does your wife never change?

7. Does she not change her goals, beliefs,
communication style, and what's
important to her?

8. What if you have a daughter?

9. Will you know what to do, how to
handle her own unique problems and
difficulties, as they come up, since
you've got your "women skills" all
squared away?

10. Obviously not.

11. Not even close.

12. Even the most dedicated fathers and
husbands NEVER feel like they are "on
top of things."

13. So if you're looking for some quick
magic system that will get the girl, so
you can go back to whatever you were
doing before, you're going to be
looking for a while.

14. Like forever.

15. The truth is that all human
relationships, even the best and
deepest friendships, are always
changing.

16. Suppose you had a proposition for
your best friend.

17. Even this may take some time to think
about how to present it to them so
they'd go for it.

18. If you know any guy who's been
married, happily, for a long while, you
know even then getting up the
courage to present a situation to his
wife can be anxiety ridden, and far
from easy.

19. So, why do so many people treat
meeting women like it's something
that can be learned from reading an
eBook or attending some guru's latest
boot camp?

20. Because deep down most guys are
terrified.

21. They hope that maybe, just maybe,
this guru has discovered some ancient
secrets of Atlantis or has channeled
some new technology from another
dimension.

22. But in reality, the best thing would be
to simply accept that interacting with
women is ALWAYS going to be one of
the biggest and greatest mysteries on
planet Earth.

23. (Don't worry, women feel the same
frustrations about men, despite what
they say.)

24. Now, you could throw in the towel.

25. Take your ball and go home.

26. Convince yourself there's some
conspiracy against lazy men who are
afraid to get their hands dirty.

27. But where's the fun in that?

28. Dealing with women, interacting with
them, talking to them, dating them
(etc!) is one of the best parts of life.

29. It's never going to be straightforward.

30. It's never going to seem easy.

31. It's never going to feel like you've "got
it handled."

32. But so what?

33. Get in the game.

34. Fall on your face.

35. Get back up and try again.

36. Stop making excuses.

37. Get in there and
get some!
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