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2. Taking a big picture look is a big help in
a lot of situations.

3. Finding a suitable partner is no
different.

4. So if you're wondering how to best go
about finding a girlfriend, this may
help give you another perspective.

5. One of the biggest problems facing
mankind is that we are living in a
modern world with a caveman brain.

6. We lived as hunter-gatherers for
hundreds of thousands of years.

7. Before we were even human, really.

8. So the instincts that kept us safe, alive
and thriving are still very powerful.

9. Consider hunger.

10. Back then, food was scarce. So those
that had genes that made them eat
until they couldn't move any chance
they got tended to last longer.

11. Those that had genes that made them
always worry about their figures
didn't.

12. Consequently, all humans today, when
presented with cheap and plentiful
food tend to get fat.

13. It's very HARD to simply not eat when
the opportunity is right in front of
you.

14. All of our other instincts are the same
way.

15. They helped us then, but now, not so
much.

16. One thing to understand is how male-
female relationships were back then.
They were much different than they
are now.

17. Much of what we expect now is really
a very recent addition, and often times
just not true.

18. Most people have been brainwashed
into thinking that partnership between
males and females should be about
fantastic feelings and sex that never
ends.

19. That's partly true.

20. That's the attraction that brings us
together in the first place.

21. But it's not what keeps us together.

22. What keeps us together?

23. If we look back in our common
ancestry, we'll see the difference.

24. A mutual cooperation in the creation
of wealth.

25. Men and women were attracted
because of physical reasons.

26. They stayed together for economic
reasons.

27. Meaning they were both on the same
team.

28. They were both pursuing the same
goal. They wanted as much wealth as
they could get, for the family.

29. And when the kids got old enough,
that was their job too.

30. To create as much wealth as they
could to keep the family safe and
secure.

31. This was true all the way up to the
industrial revolution.

32. Only after that did it start to be
possible for one person to make
enough money for the whole family.

33. That's when all these crazy notions
about lifelong romance and sappy love
stories started to become popular.

34. If that's ALL you're looking for, you'll
certainly find it. But it won't last long.

35. How can you apply this to modern
dating?

36. Just ask yourself, next time you're
thinking about approaching a girl:

37. "Do I want her on my team, to help me
create wealth for my future family?"

38. And she should be asking herself the
same question about you, so you'd
better be ready to answer.

39. Not directly of course, but through
your approach to relationships and
life.

40. This can go a long ways it getting rid of
that approach anxiety that's based on
false ideas about human relationships.

41. Something to think about next time
you're out looking for ladies.
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