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2. Most guys have problems with
women.

3. Not that they'd admit it, but they do.

4. This is perfectly normal.

5. Life is filled with problems.

6. Otherwise it would be easy, and
nothing would be exciting.

7. Once I was at this investment seminar,
and the guy said that no matter how
your investment works out, you'll be
kicking yourself.

8. If you lose money, you'll tell yourself
you never should have made the
investment.

9. If you make money, you'll tell yourself
you should have bought more.

10. This is similar to that statement that
there are two tragedies in life.

11. One is not getting what you want. The
other is getting what you want.

12. Why do they say this?

13. Because all the action is in the pursuit.

14. If you've ever had a really big,
important, out there goal, that you
ACHIEVED, you will likely have
experienced "let down."

15. Once you get it, and the excitement
wears off, you can feel pretty
depressed.

16. After all, if every waking minute has
been spent over the last few years
pursuing the biggest goal of your
dreams, and suddenly that motivating
energy is gone, it can feel pretty
terrible.

17. What's this got to do with women?

18. Let's say you see that girl over there.

19. You'd love to talk to her.

20. So long as you really believe you've got
a chance, you feel pretty good.

21. Maybe you get her number and you're
trading texts and calls for a couple
weeks.

22. All the while imagining how awesome
it's going to be once you get together.

23. Then you start seeing each other, and
getting physical.

24. Then you start to feel awesome when
you imagine if you were to become
exclusive, and you wouldn't have to
worry any more.

25. Then you become exclusive, and that's
when the problems start for some
folks.

26. You've finally got what you want, but
that wonderful energy of imagining a
better future starts to slip.

27. Pretty soon you're going through the
motions, and your eyes start to
wander.

28. Trouble starts, and before you know it,
it's all over.

29. How can you avoid this?

30. It takes some work at the beginning,
but it's possible.

31. It requires you set it up so that you
ALWAYS have something better to look
forward to in the future.

32. This requires you KNOW what you
want in the future, other than a
relationship.

33. It also requires you take the additional
time and effort to find a girl that ALSO
wants that same thing.

34. So you can pursue it together.

35. This is the real glue that binds people
together for decades.

36. Doesn't matter what that "thing" is.

37. Hobby, sport, financial goals, artistic
goals, your own business, whatever.

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