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Meet Siew Yue Killingley
  Personal details:
  Born Leong Siew Yue, Kuala
  Lumpur, Malaya (now Malaysia),
  17th December 1940.
• Married Dermot Killingley 1963
• First visited Britain and the
  Republic of Ireland for six months
  in 1965; lived in Britain since
  1968.
• Died Newcastle upon Tyne, 8th
  June, 2004.
Education:
• St Mary‟s School, Kuala Lumpur
  1947-1957 Victoria Institution, Kuala
  Lumpur 1957-59.
• University of Malaya 1960-66.
• School of Oriental and African
  Studies, University of London 1968-
  70.
Languages:
• Bilingual in English and Cantonese; fluent in French and Mandarin; able
  to read Old English, Middle English and Latin; some German, Sanskrit
  and Hindi.

  Degrees:
• BA (Hons) in English (Upper Second),
  University of Malaya, 1963.
• MA (Linguistics), University of Malaya, 1966.
• PhD (Linguistics), University of London, 1972.

  Performing Arts:
• Royal Academy of Dancing Certificate in Ballet in Education, Grade V
  Honours, 1957.
• Associated Board of the Royal Schools of Music Pianoforte Grade 3
  (Merit), 1991; Flute Grade 8 (Merit), 1992.
Teaching:
• 1961-7: Taught English language, literature, phonetics, and linguistics at
  various schools in Selangor, Malaysia and at the University of Malaya.

• 1970-2: Tutorial Assistant in Linguistics and Phonetics, School of English,
  University of Newcastle.

• 1972-80: Lecturer in English (Senior lecturer 1979), St. Mary's College of
  Education, Newcastle.

• 1987-8: Tutor in Community Interpreting and Bilingual Skills, College of Arts
  and Technology (now Newcastle College).

• 1988-2002: Tutor in courses on linguistics, language and the community in the
  Centre for Continuing Education (now Lifelong Learning), University of
  Newcastle. This included course in Chinese Language and Culture, 1994-
  2002.

• 2002-2004: Tutor in Chinese Language and Culture, Workers‟ Educational
  Association.
Voluntary work
• Interpreting in Cantonese and
  English at various times in
  Newcastle and Northumberland.
• 1991-7: Editor of monthly British
  Linguistic Newsletter and ex-officio
  Committee Member of the
  Linguistics Association of Great
  Britain.

  Publishing:
• 1981: Founded Grevatt & Grevatt,
  non-commercial publishers.
SHORT STORY:
A QUESTION OF DOWRY
Plot Summary
• An Indian girl, Sivasothie was going to be engaged
  & married to a young man, Thiruchelvam who was
  chosen by the family.
• Thiruchelvam was a doctor.
• Sivasothie‟s parents were preparing dowry, a sum
  of twenty thousand dollars to the bridegroom‟s
  family.
• They even had a gold necklace as a personal
  present to their daughter when she was going to
  be wedded.
• Problem arose when Sivathosie‟s father,
  Mr. Ramachandran told his wife that they
  cannot afford to give the dowry and the
  necklace.
• This is because the wife‟s piece of land
  was disvalued to be sold & it was the only
  way to pay the dowry.
• Mr. Ramachandran called the future son-
  in-law to come to their house.
• Mr. Ramachandran told Thiruchelvam
  the truth about the dowry matters.
• Knowing this, Thiruchelvam rejected the
  marriage because the bride‟s family
  could not afford to give the dowry as
  promised.
• Sivasothie felt sad & hurt for she had to
  forget the marriage & after all, she began
  to like Thiruchelvam.
Literary Criticism

         Cultural




         AQoD
Gender              Social
CULTURAL
Dowry
• In India, dowry or dahej is the payment in
  cash or/and kind by the bride‟s family.
• Originated in upper caste families as
  wedding gift.
• To help with marriage expenses and a form
  of insurance in case her in-laws mistreated
  her.
• Although dowry is legally prohibited in 1961, it
  continually to be highly institutionalized.
• The groom usually demands a large sum of
  money, farm, animals etc.
• Eg: In the story, Thiruchelvam‟s family
  demanded twenty thousand dollars as the dowry
  from the bride‟s family.
  – E1: “Twenty thousand dollars is not to be scoffed at
    – that‟s more than I can say what Thangathurai gave
    his daughter when our son married her..” pg 31.
• However, they could not afford to pay the dowry and
  the necklace for they had only a piece of disvalued
  land which cost them less than the amount they
  wanted it to be sold.
   – E1: “Come now, wife!..Don‟t you remember? We have only
     one piece of land left from your dowry – we sold the other
     two for our third and fourth sons‟ weddings.”pg 32.
   – “About the land, I‟m afraid it is impossible to sell it at a
     quarter of its former price. You see, water has been
     seeping out from some well for about ten years and so the
     land is now too marshy for house-holding.” pg 32.
Arranged Marriage
• Indian generations are traditionally
  engaged in an arranged marriage by
  their elders.
• Marriage is not only necessity for girl but
  a religious sacrament as well, since it
  was believed that a female virgin could
  never attain spiritual enlightenment in
  this world.
• As we read through the story, the daughter is going to
  be engaged to a doctor.
   – E: “Sivasothie, you are a very lucky girl. You‟ll have a doctor
     for your husband – and Mrs Muthu will have a fit from envy.”
     pg 33.
• However, due to the incapability of the bride‟s family to
  fulfill the dowry as promised, the wedding had be
  called-off.
   – E: “Thiruchelvam, having less faith in Mrs Ramachandran‟s
     father, believed the news about the devalued land…Mr
     Ramachandran had to let his wife and daughter know about
     the changed situation.”
• Though it is not stated directly in the
  short story that the marriage is
  arranged, logically we know the
  bridegroom and the bride seem to just
  meet and barely know each other.
• In addition, if the marriage is based on
  love, the man would defend the
  marriage instead of rejecting it because
  of the dowry.
SOCIAL
Social Class
                Comparison between the Groom’s and the Bride’s Social Class


         Thiruchelvam (The Groom)                         Sivasothie (The Bride)


Well educated (example)                       Unstated education


Stable income                                 Unknown income source


Doctor                                        Jobless


Upper class family                            Middle class family
GENDER:
FEMINISM
Patriarchal Power
• Man is on top of the family pyramid
• In Indian beliefs, a marriage is arranged by the
  father and if he died his role will be taken by a
  girl‟s brothers instead of the mother.
• In general, man insists that a women‟s place is
  only at home and she is satisfied by serving her
  family and fulfilling the needs of her household
  members.
• The short story itself contains a lot of
  examples on man‟s power ruling over
  women‟s.
• It is the women who are responsible for the
  household and take as an example, in this
  story, Mrs Ramachandran has worked hard
  for the festive and preparation for the
  engagement.
  –E: “Mrs Ramachandran flew here and there, as
   fast as her 160 pounds would allow her, and
   helped with her commanding suggestions.”
• It is very important for the women to obey
  the men in Indian‟s tradition.
• Mrs Ramachandran has been mentioned to
  be a respectful and obedient wife.
  –E: “She went out dutifully, for she managed
   her husband well – obeying him in the little
   things with such readiness that he thought
   himself as lord of everything as well.
• Even if it is not her willingness to call-off
  the wedding, she still respects her
  husband, Mr Ramachandran‟s decision.
  –E: “Well,‟ commented Mrs Ramachandran
   stoically, „there‟s more than one doctor in
   our community, and it‟s up to you,
   Ramachandran, to do your duty as a
   father.”
Bibliography
Fernando Llyod. (1968). 22 Malaysia Stories.
  Singapore: Heinemann Asia.

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A Question of Dowry

  • 1.
  • 2. Meet Siew Yue Killingley Personal details: Born Leong Siew Yue, Kuala Lumpur, Malaya (now Malaysia), 17th December 1940. • Married Dermot Killingley 1963 • First visited Britain and the Republic of Ireland for six months in 1965; lived in Britain since 1968. • Died Newcastle upon Tyne, 8th June, 2004.
  • 3. Education: • St Mary‟s School, Kuala Lumpur 1947-1957 Victoria Institution, Kuala Lumpur 1957-59. • University of Malaya 1960-66. • School of Oriental and African Studies, University of London 1968- 70.
  • 4. Languages: • Bilingual in English and Cantonese; fluent in French and Mandarin; able to read Old English, Middle English and Latin; some German, Sanskrit and Hindi. Degrees: • BA (Hons) in English (Upper Second), University of Malaya, 1963. • MA (Linguistics), University of Malaya, 1966. • PhD (Linguistics), University of London, 1972. Performing Arts: • Royal Academy of Dancing Certificate in Ballet in Education, Grade V Honours, 1957. • Associated Board of the Royal Schools of Music Pianoforte Grade 3 (Merit), 1991; Flute Grade 8 (Merit), 1992.
  • 5. Teaching: • 1961-7: Taught English language, literature, phonetics, and linguistics at various schools in Selangor, Malaysia and at the University of Malaya. • 1970-2: Tutorial Assistant in Linguistics and Phonetics, School of English, University of Newcastle. • 1972-80: Lecturer in English (Senior lecturer 1979), St. Mary's College of Education, Newcastle. • 1987-8: Tutor in Community Interpreting and Bilingual Skills, College of Arts and Technology (now Newcastle College). • 1988-2002: Tutor in courses on linguistics, language and the community in the Centre for Continuing Education (now Lifelong Learning), University of Newcastle. This included course in Chinese Language and Culture, 1994- 2002. • 2002-2004: Tutor in Chinese Language and Culture, Workers‟ Educational Association.
  • 6. Voluntary work • Interpreting in Cantonese and English at various times in Newcastle and Northumberland. • 1991-7: Editor of monthly British Linguistic Newsletter and ex-officio Committee Member of the Linguistics Association of Great Britain. Publishing: • 1981: Founded Grevatt & Grevatt, non-commercial publishers.
  • 8. Plot Summary • An Indian girl, Sivasothie was going to be engaged & married to a young man, Thiruchelvam who was chosen by the family. • Thiruchelvam was a doctor. • Sivasothie‟s parents were preparing dowry, a sum of twenty thousand dollars to the bridegroom‟s family. • They even had a gold necklace as a personal present to their daughter when she was going to be wedded.
  • 9. • Problem arose when Sivathosie‟s father, Mr. Ramachandran told his wife that they cannot afford to give the dowry and the necklace. • This is because the wife‟s piece of land was disvalued to be sold & it was the only way to pay the dowry. • Mr. Ramachandran called the future son- in-law to come to their house.
  • 10. • Mr. Ramachandran told Thiruchelvam the truth about the dowry matters. • Knowing this, Thiruchelvam rejected the marriage because the bride‟s family could not afford to give the dowry as promised. • Sivasothie felt sad & hurt for she had to forget the marriage & after all, she began to like Thiruchelvam.
  • 11. Literary Criticism Cultural AQoD Gender Social
  • 13. Dowry • In India, dowry or dahej is the payment in cash or/and kind by the bride‟s family. • Originated in upper caste families as wedding gift. • To help with marriage expenses and a form of insurance in case her in-laws mistreated her.
  • 14. • Although dowry is legally prohibited in 1961, it continually to be highly institutionalized. • The groom usually demands a large sum of money, farm, animals etc. • Eg: In the story, Thiruchelvam‟s family demanded twenty thousand dollars as the dowry from the bride‟s family. – E1: “Twenty thousand dollars is not to be scoffed at – that‟s more than I can say what Thangathurai gave his daughter when our son married her..” pg 31.
  • 15. • However, they could not afford to pay the dowry and the necklace for they had only a piece of disvalued land which cost them less than the amount they wanted it to be sold. – E1: “Come now, wife!..Don‟t you remember? We have only one piece of land left from your dowry – we sold the other two for our third and fourth sons‟ weddings.”pg 32. – “About the land, I‟m afraid it is impossible to sell it at a quarter of its former price. You see, water has been seeping out from some well for about ten years and so the land is now too marshy for house-holding.” pg 32.
  • 16. Arranged Marriage • Indian generations are traditionally engaged in an arranged marriage by their elders. • Marriage is not only necessity for girl but a religious sacrament as well, since it was believed that a female virgin could never attain spiritual enlightenment in this world.
  • 17. • As we read through the story, the daughter is going to be engaged to a doctor. – E: “Sivasothie, you are a very lucky girl. You‟ll have a doctor for your husband – and Mrs Muthu will have a fit from envy.” pg 33. • However, due to the incapability of the bride‟s family to fulfill the dowry as promised, the wedding had be called-off. – E: “Thiruchelvam, having less faith in Mrs Ramachandran‟s father, believed the news about the devalued land…Mr Ramachandran had to let his wife and daughter know about the changed situation.”
  • 18. • Though it is not stated directly in the short story that the marriage is arranged, logically we know the bridegroom and the bride seem to just meet and barely know each other. • In addition, if the marriage is based on love, the man would defend the marriage instead of rejecting it because of the dowry.
  • 20. Social Class Comparison between the Groom’s and the Bride’s Social Class Thiruchelvam (The Groom) Sivasothie (The Bride) Well educated (example) Unstated education Stable income Unknown income source Doctor Jobless Upper class family Middle class family
  • 22. Patriarchal Power • Man is on top of the family pyramid • In Indian beliefs, a marriage is arranged by the father and if he died his role will be taken by a girl‟s brothers instead of the mother. • In general, man insists that a women‟s place is only at home and she is satisfied by serving her family and fulfilling the needs of her household members.
  • 23. • The short story itself contains a lot of examples on man‟s power ruling over women‟s. • It is the women who are responsible for the household and take as an example, in this story, Mrs Ramachandran has worked hard for the festive and preparation for the engagement. –E: “Mrs Ramachandran flew here and there, as fast as her 160 pounds would allow her, and helped with her commanding suggestions.”
  • 24. • It is very important for the women to obey the men in Indian‟s tradition. • Mrs Ramachandran has been mentioned to be a respectful and obedient wife. –E: “She went out dutifully, for she managed her husband well – obeying him in the little things with such readiness that he thought himself as lord of everything as well.
  • 25. • Even if it is not her willingness to call-off the wedding, she still respects her husband, Mr Ramachandran‟s decision. –E: “Well,‟ commented Mrs Ramachandran stoically, „there‟s more than one doctor in our community, and it‟s up to you, Ramachandran, to do your duty as a father.”
  • 26. Bibliography Fernando Llyod. (1968). 22 Malaysia Stories. Singapore: Heinemann Asia.