Mindfulness is about being present in the moment and accepting feelings, thoughts, and sensations calmly. The document outlines 11 tools for mindful parenting: 1) Observation of time, space, body, and environment; 2) Acknowledging thoughts and feelings without judgment; 3) Accepting people and situations as they are instead of how they "should" be; 4) Letting go of expectations; 5) Being curious; 6) Letting go of control; 7) Watching resistance; 8) Becoming comfortable with discomfort; 9) Being compassionate; 10) Being grateful; 11) Meditating to focus on the present moment. The overall message is that mindfulness begins with presence - for children, families,
Reclaim your Power with Forgiveness, Love and Truth -- Week 4Ranjana Appoo
Seeing with the eyes of Love and Truth
Many of us when we look in the mirror see ourselves through eyes that judge, we are focused on appearances, we notice our age, the wrinkles, tiredness, skin deep beauty (or lack of), and so on. Every now and then we can see past the body-mind and something happens, we really see. And this can be a profound empowering experience.
The secret to time-outs that work -- parenting and discipline advice from zer...Tracy Cutchlow
Quick: What’s the easiest thing to say when your kid misbehaves? “That’s it — time-out!” Easy, yes. But effective? Not the way most of us do it.
Find out how in this excerpt from "Zero to Five: 70 Essential Parenting Tips Based on Science." (5 stars on Amazon: http://amzn.to/1NUuJuz)
Tantrums can be very trying as Parents. How to manage your Child's Tantrum. Understanding tantrums. What to do in the event of a Tantrum. Easy to follow strategies.
Reclaim your Power with Forgiveness, Love and Truth -- Week 4Ranjana Appoo
Seeing with the eyes of Love and Truth
Many of us when we look in the mirror see ourselves through eyes that judge, we are focused on appearances, we notice our age, the wrinkles, tiredness, skin deep beauty (or lack of), and so on. Every now and then we can see past the body-mind and something happens, we really see. And this can be a profound empowering experience.
The secret to time-outs that work -- parenting and discipline advice from zer...Tracy Cutchlow
Quick: What’s the easiest thing to say when your kid misbehaves? “That’s it — time-out!” Easy, yes. But effective? Not the way most of us do it.
Find out how in this excerpt from "Zero to Five: 70 Essential Parenting Tips Based on Science." (5 stars on Amazon: http://amzn.to/1NUuJuz)
Tantrums can be very trying as Parents. How to manage your Child's Tantrum. Understanding tantrums. What to do in the event of a Tantrum. Easy to follow strategies.
How to Deal with Stress in Children - Children can also experience stress and when it does not treated properly. It can cause disease physically, emotionally and mentally. So, how do you as a parent know the symptoms of stress in children? What caused it? What can be done to help the child out of stress?
Techniques that Every Parent with an Anxious Child Should TryRenee Cozzette
To lead a healthy life and to generate your children's life in a right way these techniques are really helpful.If you want to reduce your child's anxiety follow these techniques.
A Presentation on Peace of Mind
Peace of mind is a mental state of calmness or tranquility, a freedom from worry and anxiety.
This will help everyone to Obtain peace in there life in 15 simple ways.
Baby’s emotional experience is of rage, utter misery, terror or ecstasy. He makes early decisions in response to these intense feelings. Thus it is not surprising that the decisions are often extreme.
TheOtherDoor (TOD) portal is a hub for improving your confrontational abilities. 'Confrontational' is big word to describe any situation involves opposing points of view. Whether when negotiating a deal with a business partner, trying to resolve a conflict with a peer or when selling your products to a client you are within a confrontational situation.
This power point presentation has been made by Dr. K.A. Selvakumaran during the refresher course held at R.M.K. College of Engg. and Technology, Puduvoyal, Tamilnadu, India, during December 2013
Letting Go & Letting Go of Stories You Tell Yourself. A self-guided journey for women of color over 40 to learn to let go of limiting beliefs and behavior patterns. Learn to let go of negative thought and emotions in order to manage stress, decrease anxiety, and increase your mental wellbeing.
Read the full blog post here: https://macalarose.com/blogs/mindful-living/letting-go-releasing-the-thoughts-and-emotions-that-weigh-you-down
How to Deal with Stress in Children - Children can also experience stress and when it does not treated properly. It can cause disease physically, emotionally and mentally. So, how do you as a parent know the symptoms of stress in children? What caused it? What can be done to help the child out of stress?
Techniques that Every Parent with an Anxious Child Should TryRenee Cozzette
To lead a healthy life and to generate your children's life in a right way these techniques are really helpful.If you want to reduce your child's anxiety follow these techniques.
A Presentation on Peace of Mind
Peace of mind is a mental state of calmness or tranquility, a freedom from worry and anxiety.
This will help everyone to Obtain peace in there life in 15 simple ways.
Baby’s emotional experience is of rage, utter misery, terror or ecstasy. He makes early decisions in response to these intense feelings. Thus it is not surprising that the decisions are often extreme.
TheOtherDoor (TOD) portal is a hub for improving your confrontational abilities. 'Confrontational' is big word to describe any situation involves opposing points of view. Whether when negotiating a deal with a business partner, trying to resolve a conflict with a peer or when selling your products to a client you are within a confrontational situation.
This power point presentation has been made by Dr. K.A. Selvakumaran during the refresher course held at R.M.K. College of Engg. and Technology, Puduvoyal, Tamilnadu, India, during December 2013
Letting Go & Letting Go of Stories You Tell Yourself. A self-guided journey for women of color over 40 to learn to let go of limiting beliefs and behavior patterns. Learn to let go of negative thought and emotions in order to manage stress, decrease anxiety, and increase your mental wellbeing.
Read the full blog post here: https://macalarose.com/blogs/mindful-living/letting-go-releasing-the-thoughts-and-emotions-that-weigh-you-down
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Kids are much smarter than most people realize. They have a deep understanding of their feelings and an awareness and sensitivity to the world around them.
While young children may not understand big words like interconnectedness and consciousness, they do understand the meaning behind these terms when explained to them properly.
Better than even some adults who have deeply ingrained habits of constantly being lost in thought, children are often able to pick up mindfulness and meditation much easier and faster.
Many people need parenting tips for toddlers. Toddlers are at the age where they want to be independent but still need a lot of help. Toddlers are well known for having a tantrum no matter where they are at. It is best to encourage your child to listen very well and cooperate with you. Just by following these few simple steps you will have a much happier toddler and a much happier you.
Always show your toddler how much you love them, toddlers love the attention lot, lots of hugs and kisses and playtime reassure them how much they are loved. You want the positive attention to way out number the negative attention they get. And praising your toddler for what they do right will usually keep them wanting to follow the rules.
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Mindfulness. It’s a pretty straightforward word. It suggests that the mind
is fully attending to what’s happening, to what you’re doing, to the space you’re
moving through. That might seem trivial, except for the annoying fact that we
so often veer from the matter at hand. Our mind takes flight, we lose touch with
our body, and pretty soon we’re engrossed in obsessive thoughts about something that just happened or fretting about the future. And that makes us anxious.
1. 11 Tools for Mindful Parenting
Mindfulness
Mindfulness is achieved by becoming aware of the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and
accepting feelings, thoughts and bodily sensations. To be mindful is to be truly alive, present to what
you are doing and in harmony with those around you.
1. Observation
Observation is a powerful tool. By noticing the sensations of time, space and of our body and
environment we can acknowledge the impact it may has for our behaviour, interaction with
others and stimulation of our nervous system. This is true for the child and for ourselves.
2. Acknowledgment
Simply by acknowledging anything in the present moment e.g. that you have a thought, the
child is hungry, you are tired, the lights are very bright, the noise level is high, you are
frustrated etc. we can suspend judgement and allow empathy for the child, yourself or the
situation.
2. 3. Accept people and situations as they are
Instead of jumping to conclusion, labeling a child, or thinking how the child or situation
‘should’ be, allow the benefit of doubt and allow. When we stop trying to change a person and
start accepting for who he or she is, we are able to be with them, embrace the challenge and
start enjoying the experience.
4. Let go of expectations
This is similar to the previous statement, but it is useful to start watching, whether you have
an expectation to a situation. Then you may ask yourself where this expectation is coming from
and whether it serves the situation. E.g. you have planned a fun trip to the aquarium so the
children will have a great time. So your expectation is for the children to have a great time.
But for whatever reason they don’t enjoy the trip. As a result you may get angry, anxious,
nervous, frustrated, or you may feel not good enough. But if you go to the aquarium just for an
experience, without the expectation, how a great time or fun time should look like, then most
likely you will be ok, with whatever mood the children are.
5. Be curious
Being curious is a life-saver. Let go of what you think you know, ask more questions, notice
more clues. Be curious about behaviour, be curious about expressions, and be curious about
your feelings. Acknowledge your thoughts and become curious about them too.
6. Let go of control
We often think we control things…but it is only an illusion. Life is uncontrollable. Just when we
think we have things under control, something unexpected comes up to disrupt everything. And
then we are frustrated because things didn’t go the way we wanted. Instead, practice letting
go of control and learn to flow. An example would be you used your time efficiently and you
have just got your toddler dressed. You are perfectly on time to get to playgroup, before the
sign says: “sorry full”, when your toddler soils his diaper. You rush and try to change his diaper
and clothes again, now your toddler has a temper tantrum.
7. Watch your resistance
When something feels uncomfortable or we have to make a change, we will meet our
resistance. It’s part of wanting to keep things the same and/or under control. An example
would be you are with a child who is whining a lot or has a high pitched voice. You may have so
much resistance to that sound of the voice that you don’t even want to be with the child. You
will have resistance to care and be loving. But the voice or child isn’t really the problem… it is
your resistance to the voice.
8. Become OK with discomfort
This can be a big one. Because of the unease or unwillingness to be in discomfort many of us
build resistance up. And to be able to keep our resistance we start to justify and blame
something or somebody for our situation. Here we have to go back to step one and start
noticing our resistance, start observing how we build resistance and the way we justify. But
we can learn to expand our comfort zone and to become OK with discomfort.
3. 9. Be compassionate
Yes compassion can change the way you feel about the world and compassion for yourself can
be life-changing. We do forget though to be compassionate, especially for ourselves!
Living mindful is about remembering to be compassionate after you had forgotten.
10. Be grateful
Life is a miracle and once we stop complaining and start being grateful for the little things and
big things in life, we will be happier. Life is amazing.
11. Meditate
Last but not least, I finally suggest to try meditation. It is not complicated. We turn our
attention to our body and our breath. And we will notice our thoughts wandering off and all we
do is remembering to turn our attention back to our body and breath. Meditation is not about
being thought-free, or stress-free. Meditation is about noticing how our mind likes to change
our focus. Meditation is about being alert and awake. During meditation we are not going into a
dream state and allow our mind to wander off or getting lost.
Meditation practice is a practice of noticing. And meditation is a practice of being as present as
possible in the moment.
Ultimately that’s what we want to be: present in the very
moment for our children, our families and for ourselves.
This is where mindfulness begins.