19. A learned defense
● Procrastination is a learned protective
reaction to pressure, feeling
overwhelmed, and fear of failure and of
success
● If these underlying fears are allayed, the
learned tactic of procrastination can
rapidly be unlearned
20. Procrastination is rewarding
● We express resentment / exercise control
● It lessens your fear of failure
● It temporarily reduces anxiety
● Someone else will do it
23. How procrastination works
1.You give a task the power to determine your
worth and happiness - so you never make a
full effort
2.You raise the board
3.You catastrophize
26. 3 major blocks
● Fear of being overwhelmed
● Fear of finishing
● Fear of failure / perfectionism
27. Signs of
perfectionism
● Anything I do, I
should do well
● Your parents were
stingy with
praise
● Mediocrity is
death
● I am what I do
28. Perfectionism in you
● Proof of your worth
● Prediction that success = happiness
● Prediction that failure = catastrophe
● Focus on psychological self protection
from fear of failing
29. Procrastination
03
01 02
Perfectionism & fear of
failure
Self criticism, anxiety and
depression
Loss of confidence
Stronger need to escape
through procrastination
Greater fear of failure
05
01
02 03
04
30. Now Habit Tools
● Plan backwards
● Work of worrying
● Persistent starting
31. Worry and anxiety ≠ safety. Create a safety net
● What would I do if the worst happened?
● What alternatives would I have?
● Is there anything I can do now to increase
my chances of achieving my goal?
● What can I do now to lessen the probability
of this occurring?
32. Create a varied
sense of self
● You are not just
your job
● Not all of you
sucks at once
35. Negative self talk
● Creates inner conflict
● Reinforces victimhood, burden, resistance
to authority
● Confirms belief others make us do things
against our will
● Creates an image of ourselves defeated by
small tasks, overburdened, working without
joy
36. I have to...
● I have to, if I was powerful I wouldn’t
● Your brain must simultaneously tackle two
conflicting situations: providing the
energy for the imposed task, and
providing the energy to resist threats to
the integrity of the self, with either the
stress or depressive response
37. I should...
● Should compares ideal vs. bad reality
● Negative comparison with no way to get from
where you are to where you want to be
● Bad self leadership
38. Say NO
● No, I need time to think about that
● No, that won’t enable me to do a good job
● No, that does not align to our values
● Yes, I’d love to, but I have prior
commitments
39. Use this language:
From To
I have to I choose to
I must be perfect I can be human
How much can I do in 15 minutes?
I must finish When can I start?
This is too big I can take one small step /
draft
I should have done something
different
What can I do now?
I don’t have time for fun I must make time for fun
46. I choose to start on one
small imperfect step knowing I
have plenty of time for play
47. The unschedule & persistent starting
● 30 minutes is enough time to do quality
work
● Keep starting, finishing will take of
itself
● Sense of accomplishment
● Builds up desire to work
● Guarantees guilt free play
● Notice your patterns
50. Each time you make a conscious decision to
create safety for yourself and to speak the
language of the producer, you will be
unlearning the habits of a procrastinator while
strengthening the new healthy habits of a
producer
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Editor's Notes
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Most of us who consider ourselves procrastinators meet deadlines and avoid serious penalties
Procrastination is not the problem. It’s a symptom
They’ll fire me. Cant sleep.
Small error = u suck
Doing too much prep work
The fear of judgement is the key fear that stems from over-identifying who you are, your worth as a person, with your work
The gift of fear
Hospital patients delay taking medicine
The more you feel work takes you away for fun, the more you will resist
Do you know what you did, how much time was lost, and what you were feeling that led you to procrastinate?. its a system to make it easier for you to gain control of your time and your behavior patterns
B. You raise your own board and C. light your own fire. How do you feel? Scared or blocked
Everyone has something they do without hesitation
Manifestations of anxiety or fear
Type A is encouraged in society
Self protect from fear of failure
Never make a full effort
Do this or else
Mediocrity is death
Success ≠ Lack of Failure
Worry on purpose to create a safety net. Worry is your body’s instinct that there is potential danger. Safe exit to run to Create an action plan, otherwise worry is trapped enrgy. Use stress the way it was intended, as positive energy. = self confide
nce
Reverse psychology
Your self worth does not come from what you do. Stop being a bleep to yourself.
Were you victimized, or are you a victim?
Self fulfilling prophecy No win situation. Eithr punished or go agasint my self worth
Body reacts to inner conflict with the stress response, adrenaline
Negotiate treaties between countries about to go to war
increases the feelings of inner worth
Decrease fear/anxiety
Reverse psychology
85%
Flow state
Its only the 1st drafvt
Parkinson’s law Work expands to fill the time available for its completion.