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3. One way to describe them is that the
process is a way to get an outcome.
4. Or you may say that a process is made
of many, many outcomes that lead to a
greater outcome.
5. Or you may say that a process is a
consistently evolving system based on
tons of interdependent variables and
feedback loops. An outcome is an
event in time or a thing.
27. Neither person is willing to put in any
work after the lovey dovey sex magic
ends, and the real give and take
begins.
28. Of course, if all you care about is the
lovey dovey super sex part, and you're
happy to be a serial monogamist your
entire life, more power to you.
30. But if you want something more,
you've got to understand that ALL
aspects of human relationships RARELY
leave the process stage.
31. Unless you're at a funeral, and your
throwing dirt on a dead dude in a box.
32. So next time your out in a social
setting, and you see some girl you'd
like to talk to, think of your potential
interaction with her as one long
process.
33. Instead of saying, "how can I GET some
of that," which implies you're going
after some static "thing," think more in
process terms.
34. "How can I create a sustained
interaction with that person that will
satisfy both of our wants and needs in
a way that will make us both better off
than we are now?"
35. Or if that sentence is too long, how
about this one: