http://mindpersuasion.com/ Most people spend thousands of dollars and lots of time on dating coaches. Luckily, you can easily be your own coach. http://mindpersuasion.com/products/

2. Most guys do very well when they
have a "dating coach."

3. But the reason isn't why most people
think.

4. Dating coaches don't know anything
more than your random Internet
Keyboard jockey.

5. But what they DO do (if they are worth
their fees) is keep you honest.

6. When you think about it, most
coaches are like this.

7. Even sports coaches.

8. Some of the greatest coaches of all
time were lousy players.

9. They aren't great coaches because of
their playing skills.

10. They are great coaches because they
have an objective view of their players.

11. Their strengths, their weaknesses.

12. And most crucially, specific exercises to
turn their weaknesses into strengths.

13. So if you were to hire an expensive
dating coach, this is what they'd do.

14. They'd ask you about your strengths
and weaknesses.

15. The part of dating that is easy, and the
part that is hard.

16. Then they'd simply give you
homework assignments, to keep
practicing the hard stuff, until it
becomes easy.

17. Then you'd just keep getting better
and better.

18. Then they'd help you elicit the criteria
that is most important to you in
finding your ideal dream girl.

19. Then they'd help you come up with
strategies and techniques to "test her"
for those criteria without spending a
lot of time and money.

20. Usually on the first couple of dates.

21. How much would a coach like this
cost?

22. Probably a few thousand dollars.

23. How long would it take?

24. Maybe a few months.

25. And for a lot of guys, this would be
money well spent.

26. Think about it, if you could spend five
grand, and be pretty much guaranteed
that within six months you'd be in a
relationship with your dream girl,
wouldn't it be worth it?

27. What's that?

28. Don't have five grand laying around?

29. No problem!

30. Why?

31. Because you can be your own coach.

32. You've just got to create some "space"
to be a coach, and then use the rest of
the time to be a "player."

33. How do you do that?

34. First, you've got to identify your
strengths and weaknesses.

35. Then, as a coach, you've got to give
yourself assignments.

36. Do this at night.

37. Daily journaling is a great way to do
this.

38. Simply write down anything you did to
further your skills.

39. Then write down something you could
do the very next day that would
further them even more.

40. Do this while being completely
objective.

41. Then simply take that as your next
day's assignment.

42. Some days you'll do fine.

43. Some days you won't.

44. Big deal.

45. But you'll continue to make forward
progress.

46. This does require you be honest with
yourself.

47. And this does require you actually DO
your daily assignments.

48. But if you do, amazing things will
happen.

49. Are you willing?
mindpersuasion.com