Introduction to ArtificiaI Intelligence in Higher Education
What if? q#1 oct edit
1. What if belongingness is
misunderstood?
5 essentials for
belonging:
1. Attachment is a pre-
eminent need
2. Safety and agency
3. Significance
4. New skills
5. Hope – never expect a
child to arrive with their
own hope
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2. Attachment Modes
Question 12
Central to emotional
openess, emotional
availability, emotional
responsiveness to others
Foundational for sufficient
emotional readiness for
school
Attachment modes
create relationship when
children are alarmed by
feelings of separation
6 Attachment Modes
1. Senses
2. Sameness
3. Belonging & Loyalty
4. Significance
5. Love
6. Being fully known
3. Attachment through senses
Question 13
Smells, sights, sounds
can be overwhelming
Pace is too fast/slow
Personal space
Senses guide/interfere
our conscious attention
Rest/digest mechanism
Use ongoing “orientation” to
guide & coach to relax a
child in this new context
4. Attachment through sameness
Question 14
Sameness evokes
emulation of adult
Child tends to take our
point of view, repeat our
words, believe what we
say, follow our directions
Child needs sameness
when: the child
expresses a sense of
feeling “different” or not
belonging, fear they are
not normal, say they
don’t have friends,
cannot initiate play with
others, or cannot work in
groups
5. Attachment through belonging
and loyalty
Question 15
Promote feelings of
belonging by saying: I
chose you, I care
about you, I missed
you, you come up with
good ideas for this
class
Legitimize strong
emotions by saying:
that was frustrating,
that was alarming, that
is a lonely feeling
6. Attachment through belonging
and loyalty
Question 16
Promote feelings of
loyalty by saying:
I understand you
I hear you
I see your strong feelings
I like to hear what you think
I like to see what you make
I will wait for you
I will listen to you
Comments need to be
personalized and heart
felt
7. Attachment through significance
Question 17
Each child has their
own journey through
sameness, belonging
and loyalty, toward
significance
Love and Being Known
follow but will wax and
wane through our
lifetime
8. What if belongingness is
misunderstood?
5 essentials for
belonging:
Attachment – is a pre-
eminent need
Safety and agency
Significance
New skills
Hope – never expect a
child to arrive with their own
hope
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9. What if belongingness is
misunderstood?
5 essentials for
belonging:
Attachment – is a pre-
eminent need
Safety and agency
Significance
New skills
Hope – never expect a
child to arrive with their own
hope
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10. What if belongingness is
misunderstood?
5 essentials for
belonging:
Attachment – is a pre-
eminent need
Safety and agency
Significance
New skills
Hope – never expect a
child to arrive with their
own hope
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11. Tools for Belongingness
Be aware of individual sensory sensitivities
Ongoing “orientation”
Procedural or Emotional orientation
Use “sameness” to build connections
“Connect before you direct”
Enhance connections with statements of
belonging, loyalty, & significance
Look for signs of improved Attachment from
students
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