2. Controlling The Teenager
• There has been parenting on
teenager which is not easy. You
might be exhausted from
staying awake in the night who
are worried about the child.
They are involved with it. You
may have lost hope in the failed
attempts to talk and the fights
are endless. It has been open
defiance and the moodiness is
not mentioned. The emotions
are intense and the conduct is
reckless and impulsive.
3. Connection with Teen Having
Trouble
• It is going to be tough to believe as the anger of
child or indifference towards the person is seen.
The teens are looking for approval from parents.
The face-to-face connection has been positive and
it is really quick way to decrease the level of stress
through concentrating on nervous system.
4. Awareness on Personal Levels of
Stress
• Those who are upset or angry, it is
definitely not the right time to talk
with the teenager. You need to wait
till you are relaxed and get
sufficient energy prior to the
conversation. You are going to
have patience along with the
positive energy.
5. Be Present for The Teenager
• There is offer for conversation with the son or daughter with coffee and they are going to be
wished using sarcastic gesture. It is essential to demonstrate that the writer is present. You
can carry on sitting for the time of meal without phone or television. It is important to observe
at the time of speaking and invite that person to stare at you. You should not be frustrated
when the efforts are shrugs or grunts in monosyllabic form.
6. Search For
The Common
Point
• It is important to talk about the appearance of the
teen or clothes which is going to be the right way
to start the argument. The student will get certain
areas which has a common ground. The sons and
fathers get associated in sports. The daughters
and mothers talk about movies or gossips. The
goal should not to become the best friend for the
teen. It is important to look for common interests
that you can discuss peacefully. After talking, the
teen is going to feel quite happy.
7. Hope for Rejection
• There are attempts from teen
to link with the irritation and
anger. We may associate with
different negative reactions. It
is important to be relaxed and
permit the teen space to cool
down. We can start once again
afterwards as we become calm.
The process of connecting with
the teenager needs effort and
time.
8. Tackle with Violence and Anger of Teen
• When you become the parent of boy under
teenager group, the person might be
aggressive or angry. He might show violent
nature or be in fear. The news might enter
through phone call or someone knocking at
the door that there might be harm to the son,
or he had injured others seriously.
9. Set Up Rules
• As the teen and the parent
are calm, we must share that
we do not find anything
wrong with our feeling of
being angry. On the other
hand, they are not
acceptable in expressing.
When the teen becomes
angry, they are going to see
the results. The teens
require rules and
boundaries.
10. Become Conscious About
the Signs of Anger
• The teen might suffer from headaches or begin with
rage. There are some class in school which cause
anger. Warning signs are pointed out by the teens as
the temper increases. They are going to take
initiatives to reduce anger prior till it loses control.
11. Take Initiative on Anger
Management • The teen should not be
assisted when they become
angry. It might be difficult
that you need to be calm
and stay balanced
irrespective of the
provocation from the child.
As the family members begin
screaming or hit one
another, the teen will think
that they are the right way of
showing anger.
12. Identify The Signs of Depression
in Teen • School Problems. There are
problems of concentration
or lack of energy related to
depression among teen. This
results in the fall in
attendance and decline in
the grade.
• Going away. There are teens
suffering from depression
who share their idea of
running away from home.
• Alcohol and Drug
Abuse. The teens might
utilize drugs or alcohol as a
way of curing depression.
13. Develop
The
Structure
• The teens might be screaming and
they are involved in an argument with
you on discipline and rules. The
structure like mealtime on regular
basis and bedtime, create safety
among the teen. When the parents sit
with the teen during dinner or
breakfast, they offer an amazing
opportunity to teen.
14. Decrease
The
Screen
Time
• The relationship is direct between TV
shows showing violence. There are
movies showing violent content. There
are Internet content along with video
games showing violent content. It
creates violence among the teenagers.
Significant screen time will affect the
development of brain. The time has
been limited on access to electronic
device. The usage of phone should be
restricted in the night to guarantee the
child needs sufficient sleep.
15. Motivation
for Exercise
• The depression will be reduced
through daily exercise. It will
improve the level of energy and
uplift the mood. The sleep
patterns will be regulated. The
self-esteem of the teen will be
improved. When the parents
want the teen to accomplish
anything by playing the video
games, they can motivate them
to get involved in video games
which are activity-based. These
games can be played standing
or the user can move and play
the game. It can be simulation
of dancing or skateboarding. As
the exercise turns into habit, the
teen will be motivated to check
the sport in real life.