3. Distinguishing Features of Children’s Attachment Styles yes no yes and no a little no a lot upset, then calm little reaction very anxious happy little reaction ambivalent (relief/anger) Secure Avoidant Anxious Ambivalent Free to explore the environment? Anxious around strangers? Reaction to separation? Reaction to reunion?
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8. Adult Attachment Styles Positive Model of Others Negative Model of Others Positive Model Of Self Negative Model of Self Secure (I’m okay, you’re okay) Preoccupied (I’m not okay, you’re okay) Dismissive (I’m okay, you’re not okay) Fearful (I’m not okay, you’re not okay)