Work Life Balance in a New World of Work
Work Life Balance?
Separation
         Integration
Symptoms


Causes
Balance
          Control
Control:

Having the self-confidence to make choices

and deal with the consequences.
Every choice has consequences


                               clock or compass?
             now or later?

       freedom or pressure?
      pressure or stress?
   act or react?               quality of quantity?
 responsible or guilty?
                              office or elsewhere?
 heart or mind?
                                 stay or go?
 mail or meeting?
partner or work?                on or off?
We have to think, weigh, choose,
decide and …..




               live with the consequences!
Every choice has a consequence…
  partner             children


friends                   family

parents                   social circles


     your work         you!
multi-tasking was
                        the old answer

                     Make clean breaks and
„continuous partial attention‟ is fatal
                     give your undivided
                     attention to whatever it
                     is you‟re doing.
‘success’       ‘failure’     ‘success’



            self-confidence
Strong




Smart
Lack of balance is a
gliding slope
Lack of balance is a
gliding slope

                              quantity




a lot of work but temporary
usually feels good
Time Management
Lack of balance is a
gliding slope

                                    quantity


                                      quality
no energy for important things
we try to do „it‟ right
instead of doing the right things
Rethink the „why‟ of your goals
Lack of balance is a
gliding slope

                            quantity


                              quality

victim, not in control   psychological
„Is this all?‟
rethink your goals
Do you hold on to the old techniques

  or will you embrace the chaos?
To most people a good WLB
                     is about leaving the office at
                     a reasonable hour.




 As if there was still
a clear line between
 work and personal!
1. mobility & mobile devices
2. the world is flat
3. productivity
4. Facebook, LinkedIn, Xing, etc
5. Everyone has access
extra freedom?




         extra pressure?
Ask yourself:


in this „chaos‟

do I have the self-confidence to make

my choices and deal with the consequences?
Of our
working
day we
          about 2 hrs
spend…
          on personal
          issues
Private emails (72%)
     Private phone calls (71%)
Internet for personal use (66%)
   Finding another job(14% )
Running errants, shopping, etc.
It is not a one      way street anymore



Work comes into         just as much as
our personal lives      the other way
                        around!
Clear boundaries no longer exist
“Problems cannot be
   solved at the same
 level of thinking with
      which they were
              created.”
Traditional

Work daytime
(on weekdays)




Personal time
in the evening
and weekend
Traditional

Work daytime
(on weekdays)




Personal time
in the evening
and weekend
‘Continuous Partial Attention’




                        Watch the clean breaks
Stop multitasking

Concentrate and focus instead

Make choices and deal with consequences


Focus on quality not on quantity

Ask yourself: What makes sense for me?

Formulate some goals for your personal life!
For results in your life


          You have to do something!
Did you ever hear yourself say….

„yes, but if only my manager…..‟
„yes, in this company, …‟
„yes, but under the current
circumstances…‟
You cannot
 influence the wind,

so start managing
          your sails!
So again:
For results in your life

           You have to do something!
Important & urgent




S   M   T    W               F   S

              Planned quality
Action
Quality        &
             Focus




          Temptation
Control:

The self-confidence to make your choices

and deal with the consequences.
So all change comes from…. unreasonable people!



 Unreasonable people try to adapt the world to them




Reasonable people adapt themselves to the world.



                                  George Bernhard Shaw

Wlb 1.0