This document outlines topics for Christian marriage counseling sessions, including choosing a partner, communication, eliminating anger, sex before marriage, and depression. It provides an overview of each topic, intended beneficiaries, and copyright information for the counseling organization. Key topics include fundamentals of marriage, choosing a Christian partner considering culture and temperament, effective communication techniques, dealing with anger, intimacy in marriage, attaining a near-perfect marriage, and sanctity of marriage versus government policies. Addictions and depression are also addressed. Contact information is provided for further resources.

1. CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE TOPICS
Written & Presented by:
Elder Sam Obeng Tuudah
CPT, FFA, FIPA, FGIM (East London Bible College Graduate)
Marriage Counsellor
SOT Relationship Consultancy Services™
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Ken Hakuta
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1. ABC OF CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Those contemplating
Marriage, Married Partners, Parents,
Pastors & Church Leaders, etc.
Topic covers general marriage issues
Mr Husband & Mrs Wife qualities
(exemplified)
FUNDAMENTALS OF ALL MARRIAGES

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2. CHOOSING A PARTNER
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Those contemplating
Marriage, Married Partners, Parents, Pastors
& Church Leaders, etc.
Strategic Objective & Planning
Christianity – Who is a Christian?
Culture & effects in Marriage
Temperaments

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3. MARRIAGE OVERVIEW
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Married Partners, Parents,
Those Contemplating Marriage, Pastors &
Church Leaders, etc.
Hebrew word “DEBAK”
What is Christian Marriage?
“Help meet” translation confusion

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4. COMMUNICATION
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Married Partners, Parents, Those
contemplating Marriage, Pastors & Church
Leaders, etc
A MUST-HEAR TOPIC
What is COMMUNICATION?
The 4-Second Decision-making
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Aids to Communication
Total Communication
Effective Communication

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5. ELIMINATING ANGER
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Married Partners, Parents,
Those contemplating Marriage, Divorcees,
Pastors & Church Leaders, etc.
What is anger?
Many objects to which anger is directed.
Diseases caused by anger.
How to eliminate anger in marriage.

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6. MARRIAGE IN THIS FAST-
MOVING WORLD OF TEMPTATION
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Married Partners, Parents,
Those contemplating Marriage, Church
Leaders, etc.
What is “marriage”? – Legal definition.
Positive sides of information technology.
Negative sides of information technology.
Technological effects on marriage.

8. 7. 25 Most POSSIBLE PROBLEMS
,Every Adult – Married Partners, Parents,
Those contemplating Marriage, Divorcees,
Pastors & Church Leaders, etc.
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1. Anger 10. Marry to convert. 19. Dialect
2. Communication 11. Leadership 20. Public Perceptions
3. Money 12. Religion 21. Race
4. Sex 13. Fear 22. Trust
5. No Time & Attention 14. Globalisation 23. Cooking skills
6. Education/Profession 15. Sickness 24. Your dressing
7. “Troublesome In-laws
8. Friends8. Friends
9. Respect each other
16. Occult
17. Age v Sex life
18. Culture
25. Love

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8. CLIMAX OF INTIMATE
MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Married Partners, Parents,
Those contemplating Marriage, Church
Leaders, etc.
What is “ORGASM”? - Half the battle.
Knowing parts of sex organs.
“Organism” Incapability causes.
Temperaments.

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9. PERFECT MARRIAGE
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Married Partners,
Parents, Those contemplating Marriage,
Divorcees, Pastors & Church Leaders,
etc.
Is there anything like a perfect
marriage?
Things to do to attain near-perfection.
Questions & Answers Session.

11. 10. THE SANCTITY OF
MARRIAGE
Every Adult – Married Partners, Parents,
Those contemplating Marriage, Divorcees,
Pastors & Church Leaders, etc.
The essence of sanctity of marriage
Christian marriages are threatened by
Government-endorsed Gay & Lesbian acts
How can Christian churches guide sanctity…?
Questions & Answers Session
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12. 11. TEN (10) BENEFITS OF SEX
IN CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE
Every Adult – Married Partners, Parents,
Those contemplating Marriage, Divorcees,
Pastors & Church Leaders, etc.
The benefits for lasting marriage
Christian marriages are threatened by
Government-endorsed Gay & Lesbian acts
Compare these 10 benefits with Gay & Lesbian
acts
Questions & Answers Session 12

13. 12. SEXUAL/ALCOHOL ADDICTIONS
Addict’s life becomes unmanageable:
 Neglect of spiritual life
 Loss of friendships
 Unusual dreams
 Changes in eating and sleeping patterns
 Decreased ability to work or function
 Financial problems
 Degrading behaviour
 Accidents, illnesses or injury due to stress/addiction
 Suicide attempts and thoughts, etc.
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14. 13. SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, ETC,
Do you have sex before marriage?
Do you have sex without marriage?
Do you have sex for pleasure?
Absolutely not! WHY?
(a). The lady has broken her virginity
(b). The boy now has the decider
(c). It is fornication
(d).Spiritual union > I Corinthians 6:16 (15-17
(e). Guilty conscience (worry, anxiety or depression)
(f). The guilt of fornication will resonate when fornication is..
(g) The gateway for other sins is fornication
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15. 14A. SEXUAL/ALCOHOL ADDICTIVE
SYSTEMS
Belief System
Impaired Thinking
Addictive Cycle
Unmanageability
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16. 14B.ADDICTIVE CYCLE
Preoccupation
Ritualisation
Sexual
Compulsivity
Despair
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15. DEPRESSION
BENEFICIARIES OR RIGHT ATTENDEES
Every Adult – Those contemplating
Marriage, Married Partners, Parents,
Pastors & Church Leaders, etc.
Types: Worry, anxiety, etc (over 10)
Causes & Remedies – medication &
nutritional
SILENT EXECUTIONER OF SPIRIT &SOUL

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 > ANCILIARY/BONUS TOPICS
1. Spirit, Soul & Body
2. Prayer – Parts 1, 2 & 3
3. Christian Maturity – My COP Old Magazine Article
4. Who are “You”?
5. As a person thinks, so is s/he.
6. Where do we go when we die?
7. Who is a Christian?
8. Sermon On The Mount
9. Meanings of “Numerical Numbers”

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MY PERSONAL IDENTITY CHECK
 Please feel free to contact:
Rev (Dr) Opoku Onyinah, Chairman of the
Church of Pentecost, General
Headquarters, P O Box 2194, Accra,
Ghana, West Africa.
Telephone Numbers: +233 (0) 302
777611/772413/910646/8
Fax Nos: +233 (0) 302 774721/760295
E-Address: oonyinah@hotmail.com
Mobile Number +233 (0) 244 218 170