Sex

1. SOT Relationship Services
(Division of SOT Management Training Academy)
Elder Sam Obeng Tuudah [1] Marriage Counsellor
“Is it good and/or permissible to have sex before marriage or
otherwise as stated above?
Absolutely not!
WHY?
Here are some seven (7) reasons – (Even though there are other reasons).
(a). The lady has broken her virginity;
(b). The boy now has the right to decide whether to dump her or go ahead with
the marriage;
(c). It is fornication and the Bible has a lot to say about fornication
1 Corinthians 5:1;
(d).Your spiritual union with someone who has not been blessed in the Church
for you alone – I Corinthians 6:16 (15-17);
(e).When even the marriage becomes a reality, the lady will be having negative
thoughts as to whether the man may do the same with other ladies as he did with
her before marriage – guilty conscience may lead to worry, anxiety or
depression);
(f). The guilt of fornication will resonate with you whenever someone mentions
„FORNICATION‟. “The wicked are edgy with guilt, ready to run off even when
no one’s after them” Proverbs 28:1a;
(g) Most of the evils mentioned in the New Testament start with fornication –
(eg. Colossians 3:5 & Romans 1:29 – Why? The gateway for other sins to
enter into the human body is FORNICATION.”
Personally Asked & Answered by:
Elder Sam Obeng Tuudah
Marriage Counsellor
Pentecost International Worship Centre (PIWC- Kokomlemle, Accra)
& Church of Pentecost, London, U K.
“Real enjoyable sex life goes with orgasm. Search for it. Your ignorance
may slip your marriage downhill.” Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 88)

2. SOT Relationship Services
(Division of SOT Management Training Academy)
Elder Sam Obeng Tuudah [2] Marriage Counsellor
“Sex is the prime purpose of marriage and lasting marriage happiness.”
Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 102)
“Sex is created by God to be enjoyed within the confines of marriage.
Impatience, fear, misinformation and irresponsibility particularly on
the side of the male partner - have compelled female partners to see sex
as painful, detestable and not enjoyable act. Seek professional help if
you are not enjoying this delicacy of marriage - unless you have some
physical medical problems – then see a physician.” Sam Obeng Tuudah
(Quote 140).
1. Anger. “Anger is a choice.” Tim LaHaye (A good marriage book worth reading);
2. Communication. “Communication is life. No communication is death.” Sam
Obeng Tuudah (Quote 4);
3. Money. “You cannot serve God and mammon.” Matthew 6.24;
4. Sex. “Sex is the prime purpose of marriage and lasting marriage happiness.” Sam
Obeng Tuudah (Quote 102);
5. No Time & Attention for Partner: “Sharing your lives together as
married partners is a cherished virtue.” Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 423);
6. Education/Profession. “The highest educated people are the most
humble in any advanced society.” Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 187);
7. “Troublesome In-laws [“Dad or mum”; “brother or sister.” - (eliminate
them in your major family decision-making process)]” Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 424);
8. Friends. “Show Me Your Friends, I‟ll Tell You Who You Are.” Jan Johnston;
9. Respect each other. “Reciprocation of love from fellow human beings is
harmonious and lovely for living.” Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 427);
10. Marry to convert. “Only Jesus Christ can convert a sinner to
repentance.” Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 357);
11. Leadership v Marriage. “Dictators don‟t condescend to their marriage
partners or spouses." Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 189);
12. Religion (eg. Christian v Moslem, Catholic v Pentecostal, Jew v Non-Jew,
Buddhist v Sikh, Pagan v Christian, Goggle-search “World Religions”);
25 Most POSSIBLE CAUSES OF marital PROBLEMS & divorce

3. SOT Relationship Services
(Division of SOT Management Training Academy)
Elder Sam Obeng Tuudah [3] Marriage Counsellor
13. Fear (366 “Fear not” in the Bible);
14. Globalisation of marriages;
15. Sickness (Note & remember “Your marriage vows.”);
16. Occult [wife > friends for sex - (Some incognito religious sects
and/or occults share their wives with their occult members)];
17. “Age v Sex life [Older partner (lower propensity to perform) v younger
partner (higher degree of energy to act)].” Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 428);
18. Culture. “Tribalism and racism are cancerous in every community.” Sam
Obeng Tuudah (Quote 358);
19. Dialect (My story Akan/Ga –“Speaking a language with your friends or close
family ties which the other partner doesn‟t understand estranges him/her.” Sam Obeng
Tuudah (Quote 425);
20. Public Perceptions (Be warned - What people say about you and your
partner); “Ridiculing your partner in public or in front of your friends or family is a big
humiliation – a pill harder to swallow.” Sam Obeng Tuudah (Quote 426);
21. Race (Africans v White race);
22. “Trust is even more important than love.” Jeffery Gitmore;
23. Cooking skills – mum v bride. “You mum has many years of
cooking skills than your wife. Don’t compare the two important women of your life” ;
24. Your Partner’s dressing – Either complimentary or condemnation?;
25. Love. Without love, forget it.
To continue to learn for excellence in your marriage journey please clink, read and
complement your relationship with the contents on my website below:
http://samtuudah.wordpress.com
Again, please follow me on Facebook – Many topics have been treated thereon
when you search for “Sam Tuudah posts”.
“If a man truly wants to
communicate with his
wife, he must enter her
world of emotions.”
Gary Smalley
“If you love me,
Tell me so;
If you tell me so,
Love me so.”

4. SOT Relationship Services
(Division of SOT Management Training Academy)
Elder Sam Obeng Tuudah [4] Marriage Counsellor
TEN (10) BENEFITS OF SEX
1. Intimacy [(2 = 1) Unifier]: Ecclesiastes 4:11; 1 Corinthians 7 :4-5
“Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm;
But how can one be warm alone?” Ecclesiastes 4:11 NKJV (Read 1 Corinthians, 7:4-5);
2. Reproduction - Genesis 1:28; Psalm 127:3;
“Then God blessed them, and God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply; fill the
earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air,
and over every living thing that moves on the earth." Genesis 1:28 NKJV Bible
“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord.” “The fruit of the womb is a
reward”. Psalm 127:3 NKJV Bible;
3. Improves skin health (Medically tested);
4. Release stress. (Medically tested) 1 Corinthians 7:5
“Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give
yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not
tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” NKJV Bible;
5. Sleep well – Sleeping tablets. (Medically tested) Amos 3:3 [Please be careful which Bible
you read] – Homosexuals may justify themselves with this scripture reference in the
different Bible]. “Do two men walk together unless they have made an
appointment.” The New Inductive Study Bible. – NTSB [May be a wrong interpretation or
translation?] “Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?” NKJV Bible [I prefer
this interpretation];
6. Enhances cardiovascular health (Exercise) (Medically tested);
7. Reduces constant headaches/depression (Medically tested);
8. Reduces risk of cancer – Prostate cancer, etc. (Medically tested);
9: Sex boost self-esteem – Married couples find fulfilment in life. Unmarried people
sin and disgusted in sequential relationships. Divorcees lack and don’t get often.;
10: “Sex is a neutralising agent for marriage conflicts. Tension is uncommon in all
relationships. After sex tension subsides and coolly and calmly dies down.” Sam
Obeng Tuudah (Quote 419).
Composed & Presented by:
Elder Sam Obeng Tuudah
PIWC – Kokomlemle, Accra
And/or
Church of Pentecost, London, UK