This document provides tips for parents on discussing adoption with their children. It recommends keeping early explanations simple so children can understand. It suggests telling children their birth parents cared for them but could not care for them themselves, so they were adopted into a loving family. It also advises explaining adoption is not a punishment and children did nothing wrong. As children grow older, parents should be ready to discuss adoption more. The timing depends on including it naturally over time, waiting for children to ask questions, or bringing it up proactively. Speaking to other adoptive parents can help make these conversations easier.