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Are you
Feel like you are Losing It?
STRSS
Stress…
• Researchers define stress as a physical,
mental, or emotional response to events
that causes bodily or mental tension.
Simply put, stress is any outside
force or event that has an
effect on our body or mind.
While incarcerated prisoners
make twenty decisions a day,
those of us walking the
streets make one hundred &
twenty decisions a day.
-Prison Fellowship
What Causes Us Stress?
Missing Bus,
Traffic Jams,
Honking on Roads,
People Coming Between Your Vehicles
Late for Office
Shouting by BOSS
Subordinates Not Up to The Mark.
More expectations
To be 100% perfect always attitude.
Fall seven times,
stand up eight.
~ Japanese Proverb
What Causes Us Stress….
Rumors Stereotypes
Gossip Expectations
Relationships Homework Tests
Bully Siblings Parents
Assignments Deadlines Hormones
Jobs Drinking Drugs
Smoking Authority Rules
Cheating Peer Pressure
Money
Worries
I am an old man and have known a
great many troubles- but most of them
never happened!
Mark Twain
What Causes Us Stress….
Likes or Dislikes Do Not Happen
Members of Family do not Behave as You Want
People Drive Carelessly Without any Discipline
Bus is Not Coming On Time
The Lift Is Taking So Much Time to Come
Required Data Immediately is not Available At
Office
We Find The News Only Regarding Accidents,
Murders, Kidnaps, Atrocities On Women, Natural
Calamities, Etc Causing Negative Reaction In Mind
I am not discouraged because
every wrong attempt discarded
is a another step forward.
~ Thomas Alwa Edison
Is All Stress Bad?
• Moderate Levels of Stress May Actually Improve
Performance and Efficiency
• Too Little Stress May Result in Boredom
• Too Much Stress May Cause an Unproductive
Anxiety Level
When it is dark enough,
you can see the stars. -
-Charles Beard
Signs of Stress
• Physical
– Headache
– Back Pain
– Fatigue
– Aches and Pains
• Mental
– Difficulty Concentrating
– Increased Errors
– Poor Decision Making
Our greatest glory is not in
never failing, but in
rising every time we fall.
~ Confucius
Negative Effects of Stress
1. Physical
- Weight gain/loss, Unexpected Hair Loss
- Heart Palpitations, High Blood Pressure
2. Emotional
- Mood Swings, Short Temper, Anxiety
- Inability to Relax, Loneliness, Relationship
with Family Members is at stake,
Hopelessness
- Can lead to Depression, Serious Mental
Aberrations like Paranoia and Delusions
- Suicidal Behaviour
- Can also lead to unhealthy coping strategies
(i.e. alcohol, Drugs, Smoking, Caffine, etc)
Daily Stress
• Every day stressors and hassles can be a
source of distress for you!
Do not take life too
seriously. You will
never get out of it
alive.
 Elbert Hubbard
Major Types of Stress
• Frustration: blocked goal
• Conflict: incompatible
motivations
– Approach-approach
– Approach-avoidance
– Avoidance-avoidance
• Change: having to adapt
– Social Readjustment Rating
Scale
– Life Change Units
• Pressure
– Perform/conform
Stress
• Manage Your Stressors or the Stress WILL
find and MANAGE you!
“Men are disturbed not
by things but by the views they
take of them”
Epictetus
Greek Philospher
FOUR TYPES OF STRESS
1. General Stress:
– Everyone has this kind
of stress
– It resolves itself
within a day or two
– No intervention is
necessarily required
FOUR TYPES OF STRESS
2. Cumulative Stress:
– Stress builds up in your
body
– It becomes more difficult
to alleviate your
symptoms
– You may have more
serious physical symptoms
– You may have more
serious mental anguish
FOUR TYPES OF STRESS
3. Acute Traumatic Stress:
– Critical Incident Stress
– Produces considerable
psychological distress
– A normal reaction to
abnormal events
FOUR TYPES OF STRESS
4. Post Traumatic Stress:
– Severe stress produced by
severe psychological
trauma
– Created by unresolved
Critical Incident Stress
– Produces lasting changes
Optimists do not put off happiness until
they reach the finish line.
They enjoy pursuing their goals daily.
~ Dr. Michael Miller
Keep going. There is always a chance that
you will stumble onto something terrific. I
have never heard of anyone stumbling over
anything while he was sitting down.
~ Charles Kettering
Make the most of the best and the
least of the worst.
~ Dr. Gary Rosberg
Problems are only
opportunities in work
clothes. Henry Kaiser
Short Term Physical Stress
Symptoms
– Dry mouth
– Cool skin
– Cold hands and feet
– Increased sweating
– Rapid breathing
– Faster heart rate
– Tense muscles
– Feelings of nausea
– Butterflies in your
stomach
– Diarrhea
– A desire to urinate
Long Term Physical Stress
Symptoms
– Insomnia
– Change in Appetite
– Sexual disorders
– Aches and pains
– Frequent colds
– Feelings of intense
and long-term
tiredness
– Prone to illness
What does not work in dealing
with stress!
• Avoiding the stressors…
• Worrying
• Blowing up
• Negative attitude
• Self destructive actions
BEHAVIORAL STRESS
SYMPTOMS
• Yawning
• Talking too fast
• Talking too loud
• Fiddling
• Twitching
• Nail biting
• Grinding teeth
• Drumming fingers
• Pacing
• Over reacting
• Emotional
• Defensive
• Irritable
• Irrational
• Defensive
• Hostile
• Critical
• Aggressive
Keep going. There is always a chance that
you will stumble onto something terrific. I
have never heard of anyone stumbling over
anything while he was sitting down.
~ Charles Kettering
Stress & Stressor
“Its not stress that kills us, it is our reaction
to it.”
Hans Selye
Steps To Managing Stress
 Step 1: Identify if you are stressed.
 Step 2: Identify the stressor.
Steps To Managing Stress
 Step 3: Identify the reason for the stressor.
Steps To Managing Stress
 Step 4: Select an appropriate stress management
strategy and apply it.
Steps To Managing Stress
Steps To Managing Stress
 Step 5: Evaluate.
What can I do?
• Exercise:
–At least twenty minutes,
five times a week
–break a sweat, to
release endorphins
Exercise
 Provides a break
from reality
 Improves mood
and self-esteem
What is your favorite exercise?
•Running
•Weight Lifting
•Walking
•Swimming
•Skateboarding
•Basketball
If you clutter up your mind with minutiae, it doesn’t leave
any room for the bigger issues!
The time to relax is
when you don’t have
time for it.
 Sydney Harris
• Talk things out with someone
you trust - a family member or
a good friend
• listen to your favorite music
• learn how to breath properly
• practice yoga
• read a book or watch comedy
on TV
• Dance
• play with a pet
• work in your garden
• do one thing at a time
• Make an increased effort to
organize your life
• Ask for help
• Delegate things when you need to
• have a good relation with your
partner & family
• no need to be perfect
• be a fighter
• smile
• Laugh
• Send card, letter, email to friend
• Learn to manage your anger
• Anger affects your health
• Anger causes you to over react
to many situations
• triggered when our ego is hurt
• When situations fall short of
our expectations
• It destroys our inner harmony
• blocking us from loving
• separates us from everybody
including loved ones
• We get angry often
because someone did not
do what we thought they
should
• Rethink the situation and
learn to be more flexible
• Fill your life with fun things to
do!!!!
• Keep your sense of humor!!!!
• We call it : PLAY THERAPY
• Pro Act & Not REACT
• No Answers for questions like
• Why got job here?,
• Why got married to this
person?, why this life?,
• why this crises? and
• Why only me?
• Take charge of your life.
• Act appropriately -don’t
simply react to stressful
situations
• Find balance in all that you
do.
• Stop asking WHY for all the
situations There may not be
Answers to all questions.
• start pro acting-- by carrying
an umbrella, by keeping your
surroundings/office clean.
• Too many people look
for an easy answer to
stress management
by misusing
• Alcohol
• Drugs
• Marijuana
• Medicines & Pills
The girl who can’t
dance says the band
can’t play.
 Yiddish Proverb
The best way out of a
difficulty is through
it!
 Anonymous
Do not say YES when you want to
say NO
Know your limits whether in
personal & professional life
taking on more than you can
handle is a sure fire
Quit blaming yourself as well as
others
 Be proactive in finding peace
Avoid the persons who stress you
Avoid unwanted discussions
Take control of your environment
If TV becomes boring switch off
 if traffic is tense take different
route if available
listen to music
CERTAIN THINGS CAN NOT BE
CHANGED ACCEPT IT
 ILLNESS
 Calamities,
 Work place
 Boss
 Wife / Husband.
In such cases Get Help from
Family, Friends, Colleagues.
Best way is to accept things as they are
 view the stress in a
positive way
 in stead of fuming at
traffic jam listen to your
favorite music
 Stop demanding
perfection
 Set reasonable standards
 Eliminate words such as
Always, Never, Should,
and Must
No pessimist ever discovered
the secrets of the stars or sailed
to an uncharted land or pened a
new heaven to the human spirit.
~ Helen Keller
•Rest:
–Get a minimum
of six hours of
continuous rest
• RELAAAAAAX
RELAXATION
long walk
light exercises
deep breathing
Meditation
 yoga
music
Dissolve Worry & Anxiety
1.Worry separates from
everybody
2.Chinta Chita Samaan Hai
3.never helped in solving
problems
4.produces harmful toxins and
blocks our emotions
To err is human;
to forgive is divine.
To forgive is to set a
prisoner free and discover the
prisoner was YOU! -Unknown
Take Time
You can take little steps that will lead to big steps. Change
the things that you can change.
Dr. Alice Doumar
Learn to FORGIVE yourself
and others.
It allows room for kindness
and self liberation
nurtures a sense of calmness
you remove the toxic feelings
from your life
heals inner wounds
heals life and sets people free
from bondage
Let go off burdens
CONTENTMENT
 Be happy with what you have
 human mind always wants more and more
 There is no end for wants
 The happiness will come once we get it or acquire it
 After sometime it becomes old and search for new happiness
goes on

Stress

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    Feel like youare Losing It?
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    Stress… • Researchers definestress as a physical, mental, or emotional response to events that causes bodily or mental tension. Simply put, stress is any outside force or event that has an effect on our body or mind.
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    While incarcerated prisoners maketwenty decisions a day, those of us walking the streets make one hundred & twenty decisions a day. -Prison Fellowship
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    What Causes UsStress? Missing Bus, Traffic Jams, Honking on Roads, People Coming Between Your Vehicles Late for Office Shouting by BOSS Subordinates Not Up to The Mark. More expectations To be 100% perfect always attitude.
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    Fall seven times, standup eight. ~ Japanese Proverb
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    What Causes UsStress…. Rumors Stereotypes Gossip Expectations Relationships Homework Tests Bully Siblings Parents Assignments Deadlines Hormones Jobs Drinking Drugs Smoking Authority Rules Cheating Peer Pressure Money
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    Worries I am anold man and have known a great many troubles- but most of them never happened! Mark Twain
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    What Causes UsStress…. Likes or Dislikes Do Not Happen Members of Family do not Behave as You Want People Drive Carelessly Without any Discipline Bus is Not Coming On Time The Lift Is Taking So Much Time to Come Required Data Immediately is not Available At Office We Find The News Only Regarding Accidents, Murders, Kidnaps, Atrocities On Women, Natural Calamities, Etc Causing Negative Reaction In Mind
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    I am notdiscouraged because every wrong attempt discarded is a another step forward. ~ Thomas Alwa Edison
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    Is All StressBad? • Moderate Levels of Stress May Actually Improve Performance and Efficiency • Too Little Stress May Result in Boredom • Too Much Stress May Cause an Unproductive Anxiety Level
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    When it isdark enough, you can see the stars. - -Charles Beard
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    Signs of Stress •Physical – Headache – Back Pain – Fatigue – Aches and Pains • Mental – Difficulty Concentrating – Increased Errors – Poor Decision Making
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    Our greatest gloryis not in never failing, but in rising every time we fall. ~ Confucius
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    Negative Effects ofStress 1. Physical - Weight gain/loss, Unexpected Hair Loss - Heart Palpitations, High Blood Pressure 2. Emotional - Mood Swings, Short Temper, Anxiety - Inability to Relax, Loneliness, Relationship with Family Members is at stake, Hopelessness - Can lead to Depression, Serious Mental Aberrations like Paranoia and Delusions - Suicidal Behaviour - Can also lead to unhealthy coping strategies (i.e. alcohol, Drugs, Smoking, Caffine, etc)
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    Daily Stress • Everyday stressors and hassles can be a source of distress for you!
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    Do not takelife too seriously. You will never get out of it alive.  Elbert Hubbard
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    Major Types ofStress • Frustration: blocked goal • Conflict: incompatible motivations – Approach-approach – Approach-avoidance – Avoidance-avoidance • Change: having to adapt – Social Readjustment Rating Scale – Life Change Units • Pressure – Perform/conform
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    Stress • Manage YourStressors or the Stress WILL find and MANAGE you!
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    “Men are disturbednot by things but by the views they take of them” Epictetus Greek Philospher
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    FOUR TYPES OFSTRESS 1. General Stress: – Everyone has this kind of stress – It resolves itself within a day or two – No intervention is necessarily required
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    FOUR TYPES OFSTRESS 2. Cumulative Stress: – Stress builds up in your body – It becomes more difficult to alleviate your symptoms – You may have more serious physical symptoms – You may have more serious mental anguish
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    FOUR TYPES OFSTRESS 3. Acute Traumatic Stress: – Critical Incident Stress – Produces considerable psychological distress – A normal reaction to abnormal events
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    FOUR TYPES OFSTRESS 4. Post Traumatic Stress: – Severe stress produced by severe psychological trauma – Created by unresolved Critical Incident Stress – Produces lasting changes
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    Optimists do notput off happiness until they reach the finish line. They enjoy pursuing their goals daily. ~ Dr. Michael Miller
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    Keep going. Thereis always a chance that you will stumble onto something terrific. I have never heard of anyone stumbling over anything while he was sitting down. ~ Charles Kettering
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    Make the mostof the best and the least of the worst. ~ Dr. Gary Rosberg
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    Problems are only opportunitiesin work clothes. Henry Kaiser
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    Short Term PhysicalStress Symptoms – Dry mouth – Cool skin – Cold hands and feet – Increased sweating – Rapid breathing – Faster heart rate – Tense muscles – Feelings of nausea – Butterflies in your stomach – Diarrhea – A desire to urinate
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    Long Term PhysicalStress Symptoms – Insomnia – Change in Appetite – Sexual disorders – Aches and pains – Frequent colds – Feelings of intense and long-term tiredness – Prone to illness
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    What does notwork in dealing with stress! • Avoiding the stressors… • Worrying • Blowing up • Negative attitude • Self destructive actions
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    BEHAVIORAL STRESS SYMPTOMS • Yawning •Talking too fast • Talking too loud • Fiddling • Twitching • Nail biting • Grinding teeth • Drumming fingers • Pacing • Over reacting • Emotional • Defensive • Irritable • Irrational • Defensive • Hostile • Critical • Aggressive
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    Keep going. Thereis always a chance that you will stumble onto something terrific. I have never heard of anyone stumbling over anything while he was sitting down. ~ Charles Kettering
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    Stress & Stressor “Itsnot stress that kills us, it is our reaction to it.” Hans Selye
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    Steps To ManagingStress  Step 1: Identify if you are stressed.
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     Step 2:Identify the stressor. Steps To Managing Stress
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     Step 3:Identify the reason for the stressor. Steps To Managing Stress
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     Step 4:Select an appropriate stress management strategy and apply it. Steps To Managing Stress
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    Steps To ManagingStress  Step 5: Evaluate.
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    • Exercise: –At leasttwenty minutes, five times a week –break a sweat, to release endorphins
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    Exercise  Provides abreak from reality  Improves mood and self-esteem
  • 52.
    What is yourfavorite exercise? •Running •Weight Lifting •Walking •Swimming •Skateboarding •Basketball
  • 53.
    If you clutterup your mind with minutiae, it doesn’t leave any room for the bigger issues!
  • 54.
    The time torelax is when you don’t have time for it.  Sydney Harris
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    • Talk thingsout with someone you trust - a family member or a good friend • listen to your favorite music • learn how to breath properly • practice yoga • read a book or watch comedy on TV • Dance • play with a pet • work in your garden • do one thing at a time
  • 56.
    • Make anincreased effort to organize your life • Ask for help • Delegate things when you need to • have a good relation with your partner & family • no need to be perfect • be a fighter • smile • Laugh • Send card, letter, email to friend
  • 57.
    • Learn tomanage your anger • Anger affects your health • Anger causes you to over react to many situations • triggered when our ego is hurt • When situations fall short of our expectations • It destroys our inner harmony • blocking us from loving • separates us from everybody including loved ones
  • 58.
    • We getangry often because someone did not do what we thought they should • Rethink the situation and learn to be more flexible
  • 59.
    • Fill yourlife with fun things to do!!!! • Keep your sense of humor!!!! • We call it : PLAY THERAPY • Pro Act & Not REACT • No Answers for questions like • Why got job here?, • Why got married to this person?, why this life?, • why this crises? and • Why only me?
  • 60.
    • Take chargeof your life. • Act appropriately -don’t simply react to stressful situations • Find balance in all that you do. • Stop asking WHY for all the situations There may not be Answers to all questions. • start pro acting-- by carrying an umbrella, by keeping your surroundings/office clean.
  • 61.
    • Too manypeople look for an easy answer to stress management by misusing • Alcohol • Drugs • Marijuana • Medicines & Pills
  • 62.
    The girl whocan’t dance says the band can’t play.  Yiddish Proverb
  • 63.
    The best wayout of a difficulty is through it!  Anonymous
  • 64.
    Do not sayYES when you want to say NO Know your limits whether in personal & professional life taking on more than you can handle is a sure fire Quit blaming yourself as well as others  Be proactive in finding peace Avoid the persons who stress you Avoid unwanted discussions Take control of your environment If TV becomes boring switch off  if traffic is tense take different route if available listen to music
  • 65.
    CERTAIN THINGS CANNOT BE CHANGED ACCEPT IT  ILLNESS  Calamities,  Work place  Boss  Wife / Husband. In such cases Get Help from Family, Friends, Colleagues. Best way is to accept things as they are
  • 67.
     view thestress in a positive way  in stead of fuming at traffic jam listen to your favorite music  Stop demanding perfection  Set reasonable standards  Eliminate words such as Always, Never, Should, and Must
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    No pessimist everdiscovered the secrets of the stars or sailed to an uncharted land or pened a new heaven to the human spirit. ~ Helen Keller
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    •Rest: –Get a minimum ofsix hours of continuous rest
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    RELAXATION long walk light exercises deepbreathing Meditation  yoga music
  • 73.
    Dissolve Worry &Anxiety 1.Worry separates from everybody 2.Chinta Chita Samaan Hai 3.never helped in solving problems 4.produces harmful toxins and blocks our emotions
  • 74.
    To err ishuman; to forgive is divine.
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    To forgive isto set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was YOU! -Unknown
  • 76.
    Take Time You cantake little steps that will lead to big steps. Change the things that you can change. Dr. Alice Doumar
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    Learn to FORGIVEyourself and others. It allows room for kindness and self liberation nurtures a sense of calmness you remove the toxic feelings from your life heals inner wounds heals life and sets people free from bondage Let go off burdens
  • 79.
    CONTENTMENT  Be happywith what you have  human mind always wants more and more  There is no end for wants  The happiness will come once we get it or acquire it  After sometime it becomes old and search for new happiness goes on