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SELF IMAGE
A POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE
OUTLOOK
POSITIVE THINKING







Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits
into the mind thoughts, words and images that
are conducive to growth, expansion and success.
It is a mental attitude that expects good and
favorable results.
A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health
and a successful outcome of every situation and
action.
Positive thinking helps with stress management
and can even improve ones health.
SELF IMAGE
 Self-image

is how you view yourself, your
characteristics and abilities.
 It is the value you place on yourself and
how worthy you feel.
 Self-image is influenced by your selfesteem and your body image.
FACTORS THAT AFFECT ONE’S
SELF-IMAGE












Peers
Friends
Mentors
Parents
Teachers
Media
Television
Movies
Magazines
Successes
Failures
CORRELATION BETWEEN POSITIVE
THINKING AND SELF IMAGE

Positive
Thinking
Self Image

Positive
Thinking
1.00

Self Image

0.78

1.00

0.78
Women In The Media
•Women are used much more than men
•Media teaches women to measure themselves in terms of physical
appearance
•Standards of beauty are unattainable for most women
•Media uses young females who are on strict diets or starving to portray
the images of beauty
•Young women see models in the media and feel the need to look like
them to be attractive
TWO TYPES OF FUNCTIONS:
MANIFEST FUNCTION
•Can be applied to the desired intent of
the advertiser
•They use the human image and its
sexuality to create interest in a product
by appealing to the desires of the
person
•Pictures of beautiful models are shown
in hopes that the viewer will see it and
think that they need the product to
obtain that level of human perfection
•Has proven itself over time to be
effective

LATENT FUNCTION
Unrecognized by the media
Consumers can view any
fashion magazine and see
multiple adds with
subliminal, if not direct,
messages
“In 1992, the ten most
popular magazines most
commonly read by men and
women were reviewed for
ads and articles related to
weight loss. The women’s
magazines contained 10.5
times more articles related
to dieting and weight loss
than did the man’s
magazines.”
Research
Media Emphasis
13%

Physical Traits

87%

Personality
Characteristics
Research
Are appearances misused in the
media?
11%

Yes
No

17%
72%

UnDecided
Research
Has fashion in media affected you?

Yes

26%
55%
19%

No
Sometimes
SELF-IMAGE:
The way we see ourselves
SELF-ESTEEM:
The way we feel about
ourselves
SELF CONFIDENCE:
Belief about our ability to
do something
Causes of poor Self-Image
 Negative

Environment
 Unfair or Unnecessary
Comparison
 Lack of self awareness
 Negative Self talk
 Unrealistic Expectations
STEPS TO BUID A POSITIVE SELF
IMAGE:
 Take

Inventory: Make a list of all your strengths and
Weaknesses.
 Set Goals.
 Associate with people of High Moral Character.
 Accept Responsibility.
 Give yourself Positive Autosuggestions.
DEFINITION: SELF CONFIDENCE

Self confidence relates to self-assuredness in one’s personal
judgment, ability ,power etc.
Freedom from doubt; belief in yourself and your abilities.
Famous Quote on Self Confidence by Raj Persaud
“Promiseyourself, no matter how difficult the problem life
throws at you, that you will try as hard as you can to help
yourself. You acknowledge that sometimes your efforts to help
yourself may not result in success, as often being properly
rewarded is not in your control”.
How to build Self Confidence: 12
Steps
1. RECOGNIZE YOUR
INSECURITIES


Whatever is making
you feel unworthy,
ashamed, or inferior,
identify it, give it a
name, and write it
down. You can also
tear these written
pieces to start feeling
positive on those
points.

2. TALK TO FRIENDS
AND LOVED ONES


Get to the root of the
problem, speak to
someone to let it out and
make it easier. Learn to
accept yourself.
4. IDENTIFY YOUR
SUCCESSES

3.BOUNCE BACK FROM
YOUR MISTAKES


Remember that no one
is perfect. Even the most
confident people have
insecurities. At some
point in any of our lives,
we may feel we lack
something. That is
reality.



Everyone is good at
something, so discover
the things at which you
excel, then focus on your
talents. Give yourself
permission to take pride
in them. Give yourself
credit for your successes.




A lot of the times, at
the root of insecurity
and lack of confidence
is a feeling of not
having enough of
something, whether it's
emotional validation,
good luck, money, etc.
By acknowledging and
appreciating what you
do have, you can
combat the feeling of
being incomplete and
unsatisfied. Finding
that inner peace will do
wonders for your
confidence.

5. BE THANKFUL FOR
WHAT YOU HAVE
6. BE POSITIVE




Avoid self-pity, or the pity
and sympathy of others.
Never allow others to
make you feel inferior-they can only do so if you
let them. If you continue
to loathe and belittle
yourself, others are going
to do and believe likewise.
Instead, speak positively
about yourself, about your
future, and about your
progress.

7. ACCEPT COMPLAINTS
GRACEFULLY


Don't roll your eyes and
say, "Yeah, right," or
shrug it off. Take it to
heart and respond
positively("Thank you"
and a smile works well).
8. LOOK AT THE MIRROR
AND SMILE




Studies surrounding
what's called the "facial
feedback theory" suggest
that the expressions on
your face can actually
encourage your brain to
register certain emotions.
So by looking in the
mirror and smiling every
day, you might feel
happier with yourself and
more confident in the long
run.

9. FAKE IT


Along the same lines of
smiling to make yourself
feel happy, acting
confident might actually
make you believe it.
Pretend you're a
completely confident
version of you; go
through the motions and
see how you feel!
10. STICK TO YOUR
PRINCIPLES




It might be tough, but if
you don't have something
you can believe in, you
don't have anything. If you
don't stand for something,
you will fall for anything.
No matter what's
happened in your life, you
can always lay claim to
the fact that from this day
forward, you've followed
your principles to the best
of your ability.

11. HELP OTHERS


When you know you're
kind to the people around
you, and are making a
positive difference in
other people's lives (even
if it's just being kinder to
the person who serves
you coffee in the
morning), you'll know that
you are a positive force in
the world--which will
boost your self
confidence.
12. AVOID PERFECTIONISM


Perfectionism paralyzes you and keeps you from
accomplishing your goals.
BASIC NEEDS THAT FORM
OUR IDENTITY
1. Need to Feel Loved & Accepted:
• A sense of Belonging
2. Need to Feel Valued & Acceptable:
• A sense of Worthiness
3. Need to Feel Adequate:
• A sense of Competence
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The 'self-image' is the key to human
personality and human behavior. Change the
self image and you change the personality and
the behaviour.
Maxwell Maltz

“To be b
eautiful
means t
o be you
rself.
You don
’t need t
o be
accepted
by other
s.
You nee
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yourself
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-Thich N
hat
Hanh-
GIVING THANK TO…
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
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





Positive thinking. An imperative vibrant fostering self
image. 19 February 2013
- S. Kamatchi, A.H. Komala
The impact of media on self image and aapearance.
19 October 2008
- T. Hustad, C. Senescall, A. Statz, R. Werner, J. Zylka
Self Analysis 8 February 2010
- M. Varghese
Self Confidence and Motivation. 12 September 2013
- S. Govindan
A healthy self image. 13 October 2009
- riverstravel

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Self Image. A positive and Negative Outlook

  • 1. SELF IMAGE A POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE OUTLOOK
  • 2. POSITIVE THINKING     Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conducive to growth, expansion and success. It is a mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. Positive thinking helps with stress management and can even improve ones health.
  • 3. SELF IMAGE  Self-image is how you view yourself, your characteristics and abilities.  It is the value you place on yourself and how worthy you feel.  Self-image is influenced by your selfesteem and your body image.
  • 4.
  • 5. FACTORS THAT AFFECT ONE’S SELF-IMAGE            Peers Friends Mentors Parents Teachers Media Television Movies Magazines Successes Failures
  • 6. CORRELATION BETWEEN POSITIVE THINKING AND SELF IMAGE Positive Thinking Self Image Positive Thinking 1.00 Self Image 0.78 1.00 0.78
  • 7. Women In The Media •Women are used much more than men •Media teaches women to measure themselves in terms of physical appearance •Standards of beauty are unattainable for most women •Media uses young females who are on strict diets or starving to portray the images of beauty •Young women see models in the media and feel the need to look like them to be attractive
  • 8. TWO TYPES OF FUNCTIONS: MANIFEST FUNCTION •Can be applied to the desired intent of the advertiser •They use the human image and its sexuality to create interest in a product by appealing to the desires of the person •Pictures of beautiful models are shown in hopes that the viewer will see it and think that they need the product to obtain that level of human perfection •Has proven itself over time to be effective LATENT FUNCTION Unrecognized by the media Consumers can view any fashion magazine and see multiple adds with subliminal, if not direct, messages “In 1992, the ten most popular magazines most commonly read by men and women were reviewed for ads and articles related to weight loss. The women’s magazines contained 10.5 times more articles related to dieting and weight loss than did the man’s magazines.”
  • 10. Research Are appearances misused in the media? 11% Yes No 17% 72% UnDecided
  • 11. Research Has fashion in media affected you? Yes 26% 55% 19% No Sometimes
  • 12. SELF-IMAGE: The way we see ourselves SELF-ESTEEM: The way we feel about ourselves SELF CONFIDENCE: Belief about our ability to do something
  • 13. Causes of poor Self-Image  Negative Environment  Unfair or Unnecessary Comparison  Lack of self awareness  Negative Self talk  Unrealistic Expectations
  • 14. STEPS TO BUID A POSITIVE SELF IMAGE:  Take Inventory: Make a list of all your strengths and Weaknesses.  Set Goals.  Associate with people of High Moral Character.  Accept Responsibility.  Give yourself Positive Autosuggestions.
  • 15. DEFINITION: SELF CONFIDENCE Self confidence relates to self-assuredness in one’s personal judgment, ability ,power etc. Freedom from doubt; belief in yourself and your abilities. Famous Quote on Self Confidence by Raj Persaud “Promiseyourself, no matter how difficult the problem life throws at you, that you will try as hard as you can to help yourself. You acknowledge that sometimes your efforts to help yourself may not result in success, as often being properly rewarded is not in your control”.
  • 16. How to build Self Confidence: 12 Steps 1. RECOGNIZE YOUR INSECURITIES  Whatever is making you feel unworthy, ashamed, or inferior, identify it, give it a name, and write it down. You can also tear these written pieces to start feeling positive on those points. 2. TALK TO FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES  Get to the root of the problem, speak to someone to let it out and make it easier. Learn to accept yourself.
  • 17. 4. IDENTIFY YOUR SUCCESSES 3.BOUNCE BACK FROM YOUR MISTAKES  Remember that no one is perfect. Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. That is reality.  Everyone is good at something, so discover the things at which you excel, then focus on your talents. Give yourself permission to take pride in them. Give yourself credit for your successes.
  • 18.   A lot of the times, at the root of insecurity and lack of confidence is a feeling of not having enough of something, whether it's emotional validation, good luck, money, etc. By acknowledging and appreciating what you do have, you can combat the feeling of being incomplete and unsatisfied. Finding that inner peace will do wonders for your confidence. 5. BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE
  • 19. 6. BE POSITIVE   Avoid self-pity, or the pity and sympathy of others. Never allow others to make you feel inferior-they can only do so if you let them. If you continue to loathe and belittle yourself, others are going to do and believe likewise. Instead, speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about your progress. 7. ACCEPT COMPLAINTS GRACEFULLY  Don't roll your eyes and say, "Yeah, right," or shrug it off. Take it to heart and respond positively("Thank you" and a smile works well).
  • 20. 8. LOOK AT THE MIRROR AND SMILE   Studies surrounding what's called the "facial feedback theory" suggest that the expressions on your face can actually encourage your brain to register certain emotions. So by looking in the mirror and smiling every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run. 9. FAKE IT  Along the same lines of smiling to make yourself feel happy, acting confident might actually make you believe it. Pretend you're a completely confident version of you; go through the motions and see how you feel!
  • 21. 10. STICK TO YOUR PRINCIPLES   It might be tough, but if you don't have something you can believe in, you don't have anything. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything. No matter what's happened in your life, you can always lay claim to the fact that from this day forward, you've followed your principles to the best of your ability. 11. HELP OTHERS  When you know you're kind to the people around you, and are making a positive difference in other people's lives (even if it's just being kinder to the person who serves you coffee in the morning), you'll know that you are a positive force in the world--which will boost your self confidence.
  • 22. 12. AVOID PERFECTIONISM  Perfectionism paralyzes you and keeps you from accomplishing your goals.
  • 23. BASIC NEEDS THAT FORM OUR IDENTITY 1. Need to Feel Loved & Accepted: • A sense of Belonging 2. Need to Feel Valued & Acceptable: • A sense of Worthiness 3. Need to Feel Adequate: • A sense of Competence
  • 24. SUMMING UP… e“lAs long as you look s i th ed w ern conc an your or e Be m aracter th se your “ ch au your tion, bec you really t a reput ter is wha utation is c u ep chara ile your r rs think yo h e are, w what oth ly m er e n oode are.” nW ― Joh e to vali for some date wh one o yo u ar seeking t eb hei setting y r approval, you y ou ar You hav rself up for disa e et ste in yours o be whole and c r. elf om that. Yo . No one can giv plete uh ey are - wh ave to know wh ou o yo u at irrelevan others say is t.”― Nic Sheff The 'self-image' is the key to human personality and human behavior. Change the self image and you change the personality and the behaviour. Maxwell Maltz “To be b eautiful means t o be you rself. You don ’t need t o be accepted by other s. You nee d to acc ept yourself .” -Thich N hat Hanh-
  • 25. GIVING THANK TO…       Positive thinking. An imperative vibrant fostering self image. 19 February 2013 - S. Kamatchi, A.H. Komala The impact of media on self image and aapearance. 19 October 2008 - T. Hustad, C. Senescall, A. Statz, R. Werner, J. Zylka Self Analysis 8 February 2010 - M. Varghese Self Confidence and Motivation. 12 September 2013 - S. Govindan A healthy self image. 13 October 2009 - riverstravel