Listening to the Future Roy Langmaid
Roy Langmaid Nicky Forsythe Mac Andrews
Early Experiences Matter
“   I have found it of immense value to allow myself to understand other people. To do this I have had to learn to listen to them and face the risk that I might, myself be changed by listening.”
Working at relational depth Empathy Unconditional  positive regard Dependably real CORE CONDITIONS
Listening has character
The myth of the  open mind
Background   Commentary
Foreground   communication
About Closure & Confirmation For Safety Elements of Background Commentary  What I think about you! Not to you!  Give me  the answer  Don’t upset  anyone
Putting the Past  behind us
Listening for possibility
prospective mind . Co-creation describes  a collaborative, inventive style of work, where customers and staff work together to create breakthroughs in products and services. In our expression of this work, we focus on the creative element and the engagement of the
INSERT  MARTIN LUTHER KING  CLIP
Persistence and penetration of culture Inside culture, words and actions become inseparable.” “
Invitation Creating relation-ships Creating  safety Putting the past behind us Creating the future Completion / creating a structure for fulfilment Creating a micro-culture
Everyone is creative . The magic of co-creation resides in interrupting the routine, the normal: in creating a culture where the usual does not apply. Here we get to ‘do ourselves differently’ and that is what leads to new possibilities!
Elements of micro-culture   Invitation Come and  help us invent the future of flying.” “
Name the possibility Let people know what is expected Make it as personal as possible Give examples of the style of work  Be clear that refusal carries no cost Elements of a  Powerful Invitation
Elements of micro-culture   Creating relationships
The 4 primary levels of relationships Professional Transaction based agenda – impersonal and emotion free .  Competence and qualification are issues. People hide messy feelings  and reactions and repress them in others “let’s keep this professional.” Public Popularity and belonging agenda – social face , the one that wins within desired circle – tends to be about fun, entertainment,  attraction. Light relationship, nothing “heavy”. Personal Human agenda – anything deemed to be important   common human experience, shared emotions, likes and  dislikes,matters of importance are exchanged. Dialogue  can switch quickly from Public to Personal if safe. Private Secrets attached to bigger emotions  - anger,  sadness, envy, fear that are not deemed suitable for  public showing. These are usually hidden in pro or semi-pro exchanges
Elements of micro-culture   Creating safety No cutting  off other people’s heads to make yourself look taller!” “
Elements of micro-culture   Putting the Past Behind Us   Telling our  stories and noticing  the past in the future.” “
Elements of micro-culture   Creating the future N.B.The Fifth step!!!   A future  that inspires, moves and touches people.” “
Elements of micro-culture   Completion Creating  a structure for fulfilment. Building the receiver” “
No-one hears the creation in co-creation
Everyone has creative potential Change environments  and activities,  not individuals Facilitating creativity
Csikszentmihaly
Everyone has creative potential Change environments  and activities,  not individuals Create  surplus  energy Facilitating creativity
Art-from-within Tantrum Two chair work Gossip Game Yes But,Yes And Improvisation Spirit Walk Creative Visualisation Social Dreaming Therapy Make a Gang Role play, Role Reversal Look how far we’ve come!
Everyone has creative potential Change environments  and activities,  not individuals Create  surplus  energy Build the receiver Facilitating creativity
8 You need to  enroll your sponsor/client  before, during and after the live work 1 To invent new futures you must  put the past behind you 2 This past is a mixture of  personal history and cultural norms 3 There are  no open minds 4 Co-creation involves a diverse group, but is fundamentally a process of interrupting routines, norms and the status quo –  creating a micro culture 5 Everyone needs to have a sense of the p rimary task : the possibility we’re working on 6 There   are a series of  key preparatory steps : invitation, creating relationships, creating safety, putting the past behind you 7 These are followed by  creative exercises  facilitated by people who appreciate the boundaries and needs of an  environment rich in possibility
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Roy Co creation talk slides

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    Listening to theFuture Roy Langmaid
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    Roy Langmaid NickyForsythe Mac Andrews
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    I have found it of immense value to allow myself to understand other people. To do this I have had to learn to listen to them and face the risk that I might, myself be changed by listening.”
  • 5.
    Working at relationaldepth Empathy Unconditional positive regard Dependably real CORE CONDITIONS
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    The myth ofthe open mind
  • 8.
    Background Commentary
  • 9.
    Foreground communication
  • 10.
    About Closure &Confirmation For Safety Elements of Background Commentary  What I think about you! Not to you!  Give me the answer  Don’t upset anyone
  • 11.
    Putting the Past behind us
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    prospective mind .Co-creation describes a collaborative, inventive style of work, where customers and staff work together to create breakthroughs in products and services. In our expression of this work, we focus on the creative element and the engagement of the
  • 14.
    INSERT MARTINLUTHER KING CLIP
  • 15.
    Persistence and penetrationof culture Inside culture, words and actions become inseparable.” “
  • 16.
    Invitation Creating relation-shipsCreating safety Putting the past behind us Creating the future Completion / creating a structure for fulfilment Creating a micro-culture
  • 17.
    Everyone is creative. The magic of co-creation resides in interrupting the routine, the normal: in creating a culture where the usual does not apply. Here we get to ‘do ourselves differently’ and that is what leads to new possibilities!
  • 18.
    Elements of micro-culture Invitation Come and help us invent the future of flying.” “
  • 19.
    Name the possibilityLet people know what is expected Make it as personal as possible Give examples of the style of work Be clear that refusal carries no cost Elements of a Powerful Invitation
  • 20.
    Elements of micro-culture Creating relationships
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    The 4 primarylevels of relationships Professional Transaction based agenda – impersonal and emotion free . Competence and qualification are issues. People hide messy feelings and reactions and repress them in others “let’s keep this professional.” Public Popularity and belonging agenda – social face , the one that wins within desired circle – tends to be about fun, entertainment, attraction. Light relationship, nothing “heavy”. Personal Human agenda – anything deemed to be important common human experience, shared emotions, likes and dislikes,matters of importance are exchanged. Dialogue can switch quickly from Public to Personal if safe. Private Secrets attached to bigger emotions - anger, sadness, envy, fear that are not deemed suitable for public showing. These are usually hidden in pro or semi-pro exchanges
  • 22.
    Elements of micro-culture Creating safety No cutting off other people’s heads to make yourself look taller!” “
  • 23.
    Elements of micro-culture Putting the Past Behind Us Telling our stories and noticing the past in the future.” “
  • 24.
    Elements of micro-culture Creating the future N.B.The Fifth step!!! A future that inspires, moves and touches people.” “
  • 25.
    Elements of micro-culture Completion Creating a structure for fulfilment. Building the receiver” “
  • 26.
    No-one hears thecreation in co-creation
  • 27.
    Everyone has creativepotential Change environments and activities, not individuals Facilitating creativity
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    Everyone has creativepotential Change environments and activities, not individuals Create surplus energy Facilitating creativity
  • 30.
    Art-from-within Tantrum Twochair work Gossip Game Yes But,Yes And Improvisation Spirit Walk Creative Visualisation Social Dreaming Therapy Make a Gang Role play, Role Reversal Look how far we’ve come!
  • 31.
    Everyone has creativepotential Change environments and activities, not individuals Create surplus energy Build the receiver Facilitating creativity
  • 32.
    8 You needto enroll your sponsor/client before, during and after the live work 1 To invent new futures you must put the past behind you 2 This past is a mixture of personal history and cultural norms 3 There are no open minds 4 Co-creation involves a diverse group, but is fundamentally a process of interrupting routines, norms and the status quo – creating a micro culture 5 Everyone needs to have a sense of the p rimary task : the possibility we’re working on 6 There are a series of key preparatory steps : invitation, creating relationships, creating safety, putting the past behind you 7 These are followed by creative exercises facilitated by people who appreciate the boundaries and needs of an environment rich in possibility
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    Thank you forlistening!