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Assessing Social Skills and Needs
Approaches in Social Skills Training
Other Strategies in Teaching Social Skills
Tips in Teaching Social Skills at Home and in School
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Overview on Autism
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Approaches in Social Skills Training
Other Strategies in Teaching Social Skills
Tips in Teaching Social Skills at Home and in School
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Inappropriate Methods That Deter Cooperation
Method Example
Blaming and
accusing
“Look at the dirty footprints you put on my clean kitchen floor. You never
consider how hard I work.”
Name-calling “You are the sloppiest person, just look at your room!”
Threats “If you don’t start doing your share around here, I’m going to cut your
allowance.”
Commands “Take the garbage out this minute, and no back talk, young man.”
Lecturing and
moralizing
“Now, do you think that was a nice thing to say about your friend? You
should learn to treat your friends the way you want to be treated.”
Warnings “Don’t step off the sidewalk. You’ll get hit by a car.”
Martyrdom “Why are you doing this to me, hard as I work?”
Comparisons “Why can’t you try as hard in school as your sister does?”
Sarcasm “You knew you had to get up early, but you were so smart and stayed up
until midnight.”
Prophecy “If you continue in the same manner, you’ll never amount to anything.”
Skills for Engaging Cooperation
Skill Example
Describe what you
see or the problem
“Your dirty clothes are on the floor in your room.”
Give information “The battery in the flashlight will last longer when you turn it off after each
use.”
Say it with a word. (when milk is left out of the refrigerator) “Susie, the milk.”
Talk about your
feelings
“I am frustrated because you are making so much noise that I can’t hear
your father on the telephone.”
Wrote a note (taped to basket of clean laundry) “Marlin, please fold me.”
Reference: Hamner, T.J. & Turner, P.H. (2001). Parenting in Contemporary Society, 4
th
ed. ____Allyn and Bacon.
Positive Guidance
Children are more likely to respond to positive statements than negative ones. Rewrite each
statement below so it tells the child what he or she is expected to do.
1. “Don’t put the scissors on the floor.”
2. “Don’t spill your milk.”
3. “Don’t walk in front of the slide.”
4. “You’re pouring too fast.”
5. “Don’t walk so slowly.”
6. “Don’t touch all of the muffins.”
Reference: Herr, J. (2008) Working With Young Children; Study Guide. Tinley Park, ILL: Goodheart-Wilcox,
Co. (page 80).
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15 Techniques to use with children which invite cooperation
1. Give children valid, appropriate and limited choices. Limit use of commands. Offering options gives
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in need of a great deal of control. Giving choices eliminates power struggles and “NO” answers.
ie: Do you want your milk poured into the green cup or the blue cup?
ie: You may walk to get your diaper changed or I can carry you. (either way, the diaper is getting
changed).
ie: Say “It’s naptime” rather than “Do you want to take a nap?” which offers the ch.
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Title: Sense of Taste
Presenter: Dr. Faiza, Assistant Professor of Physiology
Qualifications:
MBBS (Best Graduate, AIMC Lahore)
FCPS Physiology
ICMT, CHPE, DHPE (STMU)
MPH (GC University, Faisalabad)
MBA (Virtual University of Pakistan)
Learning Objectives:
Describe the structure and function of taste buds.
Describe the relationship between the taste threshold and taste index of common substances.
Explain the chemical basis and signal transduction of taste perception for each type of primary taste sensation.
Recognize different abnormalities of taste perception and their causes.
Key Topics:
Significance of Taste Sensation:
Differentiation between pleasant and harmful food
Influence on behavior
Selection of food based on metabolic needs
Receptors of Taste:
Taste buds on the tongue
Influence of sense of smell, texture of food, and pain stimulation (e.g., by pepper)
Primary and Secondary Taste Sensations:
Primary taste sensations: Sweet, Sour, Salty, Bitter, Umami
Chemical basis and signal transduction mechanisms for each taste
Taste Threshold and Index:
Taste threshold values for Sweet (sucrose), Salty (NaCl), Sour (HCl), and Bitter (Quinine)
Taste index relationship: Inversely proportional to taste threshold
Taste Blindness:
Inability to taste certain substances, particularly thiourea compounds
Example: Phenylthiocarbamide
Structure and Function of Taste Buds:
Composition: Epithelial cells, Sustentacular/Supporting cells, Taste cells, Basal cells
Features: Taste pores, Taste hairs/microvilli, and Taste nerve fibers
Location of Taste Buds:
Found in papillae of the tongue (Fungiform, Circumvallate, Foliate)
Also present on the palate, tonsillar pillars, epiglottis, and proximal esophagus
Mechanism of Taste Stimulation:
Interaction of taste substances with receptors on microvilli
Signal transduction pathways for Umami, Sweet, Bitter, Sour, and Salty tastes
Taste Sensitivity and Adaptation:
Decrease in sensitivity with age
Rapid adaptation of taste sensation
Role of Saliva in Taste:
Dissolution of tastants to reach receptors
Washing away the stimulus
Taste Preferences and Aversions:
Mechanisms behind taste preference and aversion
Influence of receptors and neural pathways
Impact of Sensory Nerve Damage:
Degeneration of taste buds if the sensory nerve fiber is cut
Abnormalities of Taste Detection:
Conditions: Ageusia, Hypogeusia, Dysgeusia (parageusia)
Causes: Nerve damage, neurological disorders, infections, poor oral hygiene, adverse drug effects, deficiencies, aging, tobacco use, altered neurotransmitter levels
Neurotransmitters and Taste Threshold:
Effects of serotonin (5-HT) and norepinephrine (NE) on taste sensitivity
Supertasters:
25% of the population with heightened sensitivity to taste, especially bitterness
Increased number of fungiform papillae
2. WHAT IS BEHAVIOR?
Behavior is how all animals communicate
Dogs wag their tails when they’re happy
Cats hiss and scratch when they’re angry
Babies cry when they’re hungry
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BEHAVIORS NEVER HAPPEN “OUT OF THE
BLUE”. There will always be a trigger, even if
it’s an internal emotional state that we can’t
see.
3. ALL BEHAVIOR SERVES A PURPOSE
BEHAVIOR is an ACTION
. . . It is measureable
. . . It is how we get our needs met
When the dog wags his tail, it is fed and loved.
When the cat hisses, it is left alone.
When a baby cries, it is fed or diapered.
THE BEHAVIOR (the Action) GETS
REINFORCED (by the Re-Action to it).
4. REINFORCING BEHAVIOR
When we ADD something TO a behavior,
we are
REINFORCING IT (Making it Stronger).
We are increasing the chances that it will occur again.
When a monkey is given a treat for performing a trick,
he is more likely to repeat the trick.
HE LINKS HIS BEHAVIOR TO THE REWARD
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Have you ever asked your child to do
something and then failed to reward him with
praise when he completes the task? What
incentive does he have to repeat this behavior?
5. REINFORCING BEHAVIOR
The Same Goes for Unwanted Behaviors
When we ADD something TO a behavior, we are
REINFORCING IT.
We are increasing the chances that it will occur again.
So. . . If the monkey attacks his trainer and is given the
same treat,
HE LINKS THIS BAD BEHAVIOR TO THE REWARD
Long-Term
Goal:
If your child is receiving positive attention
from his peers for being a class clown, they
are reinforcing his negative behavior.
6. REINFORCING BEHAVIOR
AND SO . . .
If your child throws a tantrum for a candy bar in
the store and
you give him the candy bar . . .
He will link the tantrum to the reward
He has learned a new behavior that got
his needs met and you just increased the
chances that he will tantrum again.
Long-Term
Goal: The longer you allow your child to be
rewarded for negative behavior, the longer
it will take to teach him a new, replacement
behavior.
7. BEHAVIOR IS LEARNED
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING YOU NEED TO
REMEMBER IS:
“ONLY GIVE ATTENTION TO THOSE
BEHAVIORS YOU WANT
REPEATED.”
Long-Term
Goal:
One of our goals as parents should be to
make sure that our children understand the
importance of using appropriate behaviors
to get their needs met.
8. BEHAVIOR IS LEARNED
KIDS AREN’T BORN WITH GOOD
BEHAVIORS
Adults need to teach them appropriate behaviors
This is called “socialization” and all cultures socialize children
to:
Respect Adults, Interact with Peers, and Control Impulses
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It’s really important to learn how to separate bad
behavior from the personal identity of the child.
Try to give the message: “I’m upset by your
behavior – not you as a person who is still
learning right from wrong.”
9. Considering what we’ve learned so far,
it would be logical to assume
that the best way to teach positive behaviors
is to use reinforcement and rewards.
You’re right, but there is a big difference between a Bribe
and a Reward
ARE YOU BRIBING OR REWARDING?
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10. BRIBE VS. REWARD
B R I B E
- Promising reinforcement before
the expected behavior occurs.
- Increases the chances that the
expected behavior will NOT be
repeated.
- Child learns how to manipulate.
“If you give me a cookie, I’ll
clean my room.”
- Child learns that he doesn’t
need to take responsibility for
his own behavior.
R E WA R D
- Reinforcement is given only if
the expected behavior occurs.
- Increases the chances that the
expected behavior WILL be
repeated.
- Child learns to be proud of his
own behavior.
- Child learns to take ownership
of his own behavior.
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You might want to consider removing the
phrase “I’ll make you a deal” from your
vocabulary. If you don’t, you run the risk of
being viewed as a weak negotiator instead
of a parent who’s in charge.
11. REWARDS = REINFORCEMENT
If we want to increase the chances a positive behavior
becomes LEARNED and is REPEATED . . .
We MUST GIVE IT ATTENTION!
(Attach it to a REWARD)
A REWARD DOESN’T HAVE TO BE MONETARY
But it MUST be:
- Administered quickly
- Linked directly to the desired behavior you want repeated
Long-Term
Goal:
As children mature, EXTERNAL rewards
(candy or praise) will be replaced with
INTERNAL rewards (feeling good about
themselves for behaving well.)
12. REWARDS = REINFORCEMENT
Studies have shown that children gain more pride
from
VERBAL PRAISE
than they do from material rewards
HUGS ARE FREE!
REALITY
CHECK
Are you in touch with your child’s favorite way of
being rewarded? He may prefer a “fist bump”
instead of a hug.
13. VERBAL PRAISE – BE SPECIFIC AND
PERSONAL
G O O D
- “Nice Job.”
- “Thanks for helping.”
- “I’m proud of you.”
B E T T E R
- “I really like the way you
put your laundry away.”
- “I couldn’t have done it
without your help.”
- “You put a lot of hard
work into improving
these grades..”
Think of the last time you used verbal praise. How
could you have been more specific and
personalized?
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14. REWARDS = REINFORCEMENT
Remember potty-training?
As soon as your child did what
was expected, you praised him.
If you’d waited two hours later to praise
him – “Oh, by the way. Nice job
using the potty” – he may have
never mastered this learned behavior.
Remember - The faster a reward or praise
is delivered after a behavior, the better
chance it has of being repeated.
15. REWARDS = REINFORCEMENT
Along the same lines,
you probably didn’t praise your child
for wetting his pants.
And yet . . .
Many times, we reinforce and reward unwanted
behaviors we do NOT want repeated.
WE GIVE ATTENTION TO UNWANTED BEHAVIOR
16. REWARDS = REINFORCEMENT
You may have not given into
a tantrum in the grocery store,
But . . . Did you stop for ice cream on the way
home?
YOU ACCIDENTALLY REWARDED BAD BEHAVIOR
BECAUSE IT WAS GIVEN TOO CLOSE TO THE MISDEED.
Your child says she’s sick and can’t go to
school, but you suspect she’s faking. She has
a fun day running errands with you and baking
cookies.
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17. CATCH ‘EM BEING GOOD
One of the best ways to increase positive
behaviors (and increase the chances they’ll be
repeated) is to be on the look-out for them.
THEN, GIVE THOSE BEHAVIORS
LOTS OF ATTENTION.
For some reason, parents seem hard-wired to
only see the bad things kids do. Try to turn
things around by seeing the good.
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18. CATCH ‘EM BEING GOOD
There is ALWAYS something you can find that
kids do right.
It might not be big, but it’s there, if you look hard
enough.
“Thank you for not slamming the door.”
None of us are happy ALL the time or sad all
the time. Same with kids. They’re not bad
ALL the time. Give attention to the times
they’re behaving well.
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19. CATCH ‘EM BEING GOOD
At the laundromat: “You’re doing a great
job of staying busy on your iPad while I’m
folding laundry. That’s a big help to me.”
After school: “Nice job hanging up your
coat without me reminding you. You’re
really growing up.”
Remember to use specific praise. In the
example above, if you’d waited until you were
in the car on the way home from the
laundromat to say, “Good Job”, it’s too little
too late. It’s not specific either.
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20. DON’T GIVE UP
Reversing bad behavior takes time. Your child didn’t
learn unwanted behaviors overnight and they’re not
going to get rid of them overnight.
- Only give attention to those behaviors
you want repeated,
- Catch ‘em being good,
- Use praise and rewards, and
- Be consistent.
No one is a perfect parent. You’re learning new
skills and all new skills take practice.
Be kind to yourself.
I hope this presentation has been helpful.
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