This document discusses ways to address fear and abuse of power in organizations. It suggests that fear of abuse or being fired unfairly causes conformity, politeness and gossip. To fix this, it proposes a simple tool using signals like a referee's whistle to object to abusive behavior in real-time, by separating the content of discussions from behavior. Members could "yellow card" or "red card" inappropriate actions. If unresolved, the team decides. This aims to democratize power and allow voting people out, creating psychological safety instead of forcing people to walk on eggshells.