COME OUT OF
YOUR SHELL!
PART 1
JenYoder, CPSM, ETM
Barbi Stiles, CPSM, Jacobs
BAD NETWORKING
PRESENTER’S BACKGROUND
REPUTATION VS. TITLE
• It is not cold calling
• It is not selling
• It is not about getting leads
(although this happens)
Networking is the exchange of
information, ideas and resources
WHAT IS NETWORKING?
WHY IS NETWORKING IMPORTANT?
 The job market is competitive
 You can gain valuable
information and connections
 Your competitors network
 Winning work is competitive &
often won by relationships
Competition
WHY IS NETWORKING DIFFICULT
 We are taught as children:
 Don’t talk to strangers
 Wait to be properly
introduced
 Good things come to
those who wait
Talk to strangers
3 ADVANTAGES INTROVERTS
HAVE AT NETWORKING
 Good listeners
 Focus on quality conversations
 Less likely to say something
stupid
Introverts have advantages
NETWORKING STRATEGY
BAD NETWORKING
HANDSHAKES ARE IMPORTANT
 Show up early & stay
late
 Eliminate tardiness &
absences,
make networking a
priority
Make networking a PRIORITY!
FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
 SPLIT UP from your friend /
business associate
 Don’t sit and talk to the same
old people…take a risk
 Don’t sit at an empty table or
stand by yourself…empty has
no value
PRACTICE Makes Perfect!
 There are no strangers,
only friends we haven’t met
 Shyness is a habit not a
trait
 Practice & plan for success
Shyness is a habit
FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
 Best way to start a
conversation? LISTEN. The
person who listens best will win
 Everyone has something
interesting to impart. Assume
everyone you meet has
valuable information…
LISTEN
 Character counts…do
not gossip, use foul
language or off-color
humor
 Honesty begets honesty
 Remember networking
circles are BIG
Character Counts
FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
 Don’t follow the crowd, follow
the targets…choose
events/activities carefully
 Know your 30 sec. elevator
speech
Follow the Targets
FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
ELEVATOR SPEECH
COME OUT OF
YOUR SHELL!
PART 2
JenYoder, CPSM, ETM
Barbi Stiles, CPSM, Jacobs
YOU NEED A GAME PLAN
 Where do you network now?
 Where should you network?
 Where do your targets network?
 What are the best organizations
or associations to get involved
with?
Where, what, when, how
YOU NEED A GAME PLAN
 Pre-plan the event or outing…
do your homework & be prepared
 What are your networking goals?
 Do you have the skills and tools
necessary to network successfully?
 Who is great at networking that you
can ask for help or guidance?
Prepare, Prepare, Prepare
6 DEGREES
WORKING THE ROOM
WORKING THE ROOM
WORKING THE ROOM
 Every room has a current
 The current leads to an
energy point
 Energy points attract
people
 Follow the path of energy
WORKING THE ROOM
BREAKING THE ICE
MAKING YOUR NETWORK WORK
 Share information &
exchange ideas
 Give first & give again
 Commit, be persistent &
patient…
The primary rule of networking
is staying in touch.
MAKING YOUR NETWORK WORK
 Be seen & known as a leader
 Be genuine & purposeful
 Offer value
 Can’t send someone else to
network for you
You can’t send someone to
network for you
 Do you have stacks of
business cards you have
done nothing with?
 Have you kept in touch with
your network?
 How do you maintain your
network?
Is your network in hibernation?
MAKING YOUR NETWORK WORK
 Follow Up - most important
aspect of networking!
 Networking window of
opportunity closes quickly
 Proper follow up will enhance
your reputation. Lack of follow
up can ruin your reputation.
The primary rule of networking
is staying in touch.
MAKING YOUR NETWORK WORK
A wise man knows
everything, a shrewd
man knows everyone.
~Chinese proverb
Have Fun, Be Positive,
Be Passionate

Networking for Introverts

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    COME OUT OF YOURSHELL! PART 1 JenYoder, CPSM, ETM Barbi Stiles, CPSM, Jacobs
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    • It isnot cold calling • It is not selling • It is not about getting leads (although this happens) Networking is the exchange of information, ideas and resources WHAT IS NETWORKING?
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    WHY IS NETWORKINGIMPORTANT?  The job market is competitive  You can gain valuable information and connections  Your competitors network  Winning work is competitive & often won by relationships Competition
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    WHY IS NETWORKINGDIFFICULT  We are taught as children:  Don’t talk to strangers  Wait to be properly introduced  Good things come to those who wait Talk to strangers
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    3 ADVANTAGES INTROVERTS HAVEAT NETWORKING  Good listeners  Focus on quality conversations  Less likely to say something stupid Introverts have advantages
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     Show upearly & stay late  Eliminate tardiness & absences, make networking a priority Make networking a PRIORITY! FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
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    FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING… SPLIT UP from your friend / business associate  Don’t sit and talk to the same old people…take a risk  Don’t sit at an empty table or stand by yourself…empty has no value PRACTICE Makes Perfect!
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     There areno strangers, only friends we haven’t met  Shyness is a habit not a trait  Practice & plan for success Shyness is a habit FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
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    FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING… Best way to start a conversation? LISTEN. The person who listens best will win  Everyone has something interesting to impart. Assume everyone you meet has valuable information… LISTEN
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     Character counts…do notgossip, use foul language or off-color humor  Honesty begets honesty  Remember networking circles are BIG Character Counts FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
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     Don’t followthe crowd, follow the targets…choose events/activities carefully  Know your 30 sec. elevator speech Follow the Targets FUNDAMENTALS OF NETWORKING…
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    COME OUT OF YOURSHELL! PART 2 JenYoder, CPSM, ETM Barbi Stiles, CPSM, Jacobs
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    YOU NEED AGAME PLAN  Where do you network now?  Where should you network?  Where do your targets network?  What are the best organizations or associations to get involved with? Where, what, when, how
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    YOU NEED AGAME PLAN  Pre-plan the event or outing… do your homework & be prepared  What are your networking goals?  Do you have the skills and tools necessary to network successfully?  Who is great at networking that you can ask for help or guidance? Prepare, Prepare, Prepare
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     Every roomhas a current  The current leads to an energy point  Energy points attract people  Follow the path of energy WORKING THE ROOM
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    MAKING YOUR NETWORKWORK  Share information & exchange ideas  Give first & give again  Commit, be persistent & patient… The primary rule of networking is staying in touch.
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    MAKING YOUR NETWORKWORK  Be seen & known as a leader  Be genuine & purposeful  Offer value  Can’t send someone else to network for you You can’t send someone to network for you
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     Do youhave stacks of business cards you have done nothing with?  Have you kept in touch with your network?  How do you maintain your network? Is your network in hibernation? MAKING YOUR NETWORK WORK
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     Follow Up- most important aspect of networking!  Networking window of opportunity closes quickly  Proper follow up will enhance your reputation. Lack of follow up can ruin your reputation. The primary rule of networking is staying in touch. MAKING YOUR NETWORK WORK
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    A wise manknows everything, a shrewd man knows everyone. ~Chinese proverb Have Fun, Be Positive, Be Passionate