This document discusses the "Wise Way" approach to mental health. It states that working on oneself is difficult but important for healthy relationships. The Wise Way can help by reducing anxiety, depression, and rumination, as well as setting boundaries and managing emotions. It teaches awareness of one's thoughts and openness to different perspectives. Rigid or fixed thinking is identified as a primary cause of human misery. The Wise Way promotes acceptance, gentleness, and being open to change by using the word "AND" to see multiple perspectives rather than thinking in an "either/or" way.