Feeling Crap
When Life Sucks Most people experience times when they feel crap This can mean different things for different people Feeling crap might include feeling sad, angry, stressed, or fed up It might also be a sense of not feeling like yourself or feeling physically sick
Why You Might be Feeling Crap Sometimes it is difficult to work out why you are feeling crap.    Identifying the things that are contributing to the feeling might help you to work out how to deal with it.  Remember - it's just a feeling and is likely to pass.
Some reasons you  may be feeling crap   You have experienced one or several big or small stressful events or tough times.    People around you are experiencing tough times. It is not uncommon for other people's tough times to influence how you're feeling. This may be because they are people you care about and it is hard to see them unhappy, or the way they are coping with their tough times means they are difficult to be around.  
Not Knowing Not being able to identify the reason for how you are feeling is not uncommon.
Factors that might contribute to feeling crap include:
Psychological Factors Stress or Anxiety - stress can come from many different sources, eg. exams, parents, teachers or your own expectations, pressures at school, work or home.  Grief or loss - the death of a loved one, or the end of a relationship or friendship, Depression and other mental illnesses.
Social Factors Family problems - parents getting a divorce or fighting, step family issues. Problems at Tafe or work - bullying, dealing with expectations/pressure.  Relationship or friendship problems - breaking up with someone or fighting. 
More  Social Factors Moving into a new house. Starting at a new school or job. Being a carer or living with someone with a mental or physical illness.  Feeling bored or unstimulated, e.g. in the school holidays.
Physical Factors Physical or biological factors might also influence your feelings and reactions, and how you think about things and yourself.  Not eating well  Not getting enough exercise  Not getting enough sleep  Drugs or alcohol
More  Physical Factors Illness - being sick, or fighting off illness, can make you feel run down and unwell. Chronic illness or other medical conditions. Hormonal changes in females during your menstrual cycle can make you feel crap. This may happen a few days before you get your period and you may not make the connection immediately.
What to do if You're Feeling Crap When you feel crap, you might feel the urge to lash out at someone or something, even if they had nothing to do with your feeling. 
Here are some tips that might stop you from lashing out
Get Informed Once you work out what might be causing you to feel crap, you can do something about it.  You'll also find suggestions on how to manage stuff and where you can get help.
Talk to Someone  Talking to someone you feel comfortable with, such as a friend, parent or counsellor can be a great way of expressing your feelings. These people are also well placed to help you identify why you are feeling crap and help you work out strategies you might use for dealing with it.
Get Some Head Space/Chill Out  Sometimes getting some head space and a change of scenery can be helpful. This might include going for a walk or listening to your favourite music, reading a book, going to the movies - whatever works for you.
Express your Feelings  Writing down your feelings, using scream it/dream it, or keeping a journal, can be a great way of understanding your feelings and a particular situation.  It can also help you think about alternative solutions to problems.
Look After Yourself  Feeling crap may be your body telling you it needs to take time out, and pushing yourself might just make things worse.  Take time out to spoil yourself by doing something that you usually enjoy.  Getting plenty of sleep can also help.
Exercise Exercise helps stimulate hormones, such as endorphin, which help you feel better about yourself and your life.  Even though you might not feel like it, exercising and eating well can help. If you haven't done a lot of exercise before, it might be a good idea to start doing something small a couple of times each week, such as a 15 minute walk or 2 or 3 laps of a pool.
Professional Help Visiting your GP for a general check up can be a way of making sure there isn't any physical problem.
Get Creative!  Find things to do to distract yourself from feeling crap and that get you thinking creatively. This can be chatting to friends on msn, going for a walk, playing a game.  Even though you might not feel like it at first, it might be enough to shift your mood.
Avoid Drugs and Alcohol  Try not to use alcohol or other drugs (including lots of caffeine or other energy boosting drinks) in the hopes of feeling better.  The feeling is usually temporary and the after effects often make you feel worse.

Feeling Crap

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    When Life SucksMost people experience times when they feel crap This can mean different things for different people Feeling crap might include feeling sad, angry, stressed, or fed up It might also be a sense of not feeling like yourself or feeling physically sick
  • 3.
    Why You Mightbe Feeling Crap Sometimes it is difficult to work out why you are feeling crap.   Identifying the things that are contributing to the feeling might help you to work out how to deal with it. Remember - it's just a feeling and is likely to pass.
  • 4.
    Some reasons you may be feeling crap You have experienced one or several big or small stressful events or tough times.   People around you are experiencing tough times. It is not uncommon for other people's tough times to influence how you're feeling. This may be because they are people you care about and it is hard to see them unhappy, or the way they are coping with their tough times means they are difficult to be around.  
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    Not Knowing Notbeing able to identify the reason for how you are feeling is not uncommon.
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    Factors that mightcontribute to feeling crap include:
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    Psychological Factors Stressor Anxiety - stress can come from many different sources, eg. exams, parents, teachers or your own expectations, pressures at school, work or home. Grief or loss - the death of a loved one, or the end of a relationship or friendship, Depression and other mental illnesses.
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    Social Factors Familyproblems - parents getting a divorce or fighting, step family issues. Problems at Tafe or work - bullying, dealing with expectations/pressure. Relationship or friendship problems - breaking up with someone or fighting. 
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    More SocialFactors Moving into a new house. Starting at a new school or job. Being a carer or living with someone with a mental or physical illness. Feeling bored or unstimulated, e.g. in the school holidays.
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    Physical Factors Physicalor biological factors might also influence your feelings and reactions, and how you think about things and yourself. Not eating well Not getting enough exercise Not getting enough sleep Drugs or alcohol
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    More PhysicalFactors Illness - being sick, or fighting off illness, can make you feel run down and unwell. Chronic illness or other medical conditions. Hormonal changes in females during your menstrual cycle can make you feel crap. This may happen a few days before you get your period and you may not make the connection immediately.
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    What to doif You're Feeling Crap When you feel crap, you might feel the urge to lash out at someone or something, even if they had nothing to do with your feeling. 
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    Here are sometips that might stop you from lashing out
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    Get Informed Onceyou work out what might be causing you to feel crap, you can do something about it. You'll also find suggestions on how to manage stuff and where you can get help.
  • 15.
    Talk to Someone Talking to someone you feel comfortable with, such as a friend, parent or counsellor can be a great way of expressing your feelings. These people are also well placed to help you identify why you are feeling crap and help you work out strategies you might use for dealing with it.
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    Get Some HeadSpace/Chill Out Sometimes getting some head space and a change of scenery can be helpful. This might include going for a walk or listening to your favourite music, reading a book, going to the movies - whatever works for you.
  • 17.
    Express your Feelings Writing down your feelings, using scream it/dream it, or keeping a journal, can be a great way of understanding your feelings and a particular situation. It can also help you think about alternative solutions to problems.
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    Look After Yourself Feeling crap may be your body telling you it needs to take time out, and pushing yourself might just make things worse. Take time out to spoil yourself by doing something that you usually enjoy. Getting plenty of sleep can also help.
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    Exercise Exercise helpsstimulate hormones, such as endorphin, which help you feel better about yourself and your life. Even though you might not feel like it, exercising and eating well can help. If you haven't done a lot of exercise before, it might be a good idea to start doing something small a couple of times each week, such as a 15 minute walk or 2 or 3 laps of a pool.
  • 20.
    Professional Help Visitingyour GP for a general check up can be a way of making sure there isn't any physical problem.
  • 21.
    Get Creative! Find things to do to distract yourself from feeling crap and that get you thinking creatively. This can be chatting to friends on msn, going for a walk, playing a game. Even though you might not feel like it at first, it might be enough to shift your mood.
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    Avoid Drugs andAlcohol Try not to use alcohol or other drugs (including lots of caffeine or other energy boosting drinks) in the hopes of feeling better. The feeling is usually temporary and the after effects often make you feel worse.