Surviving the Digital
   Playground:

Keeping Our Kids Safe
   on the Internet



                        Edgewood School
                             2010
From:
    Institute of Education Sciences,
National Center for Education Statistics
78% of the incoming college class in 2009 have
  had Internet access their entire K-12 career.



 98% of the incoming Freshman class of 2012
         will have had Internet access
            their entire K-12 career.



                                              From:
                                Institute of Education Sciences,
                            National Center for Education Statistics
Evolving Concerns
Evolving Concerns

     Pornographic Web Sites
     Chat Rooms
     Social Networking
     Cyberbullying
The Realities
“Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
Common Wisdom: Online
      predators are driving up sex
             crime rates.


Sexual assaults on teenagers DECREASED from
                1993 to 2005.




                         “Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
“Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
Common Wisdom: Online
       predators trick or abduct
            their victims.


Most victims willingly meet online predators
                face to face.




                          “Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
“Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
Common Wisdom: Online
     predators pose as other
          teens online.


The vast majority of online predators
 do not hide their age or intentions.

    Only 5% pose as teenagers.



                       “Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
In 2005, a study found that 20% of children
 between 11 and 19 had been cyberbullied.




                          “Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
The Realities
at Edgewood
The Realities
at Edgewood
12% have been or know someone
      who has been bullied
or contacted by a stranger online.




                     Edgewood Student Survey
                           Grades 3-5
75% responded that cyberbullies and
threatening strangers must be reported.
82% have an account with
 a social networking site.



                 Edgewood Student Survey
                       Grades 3-5
Moshi Monsters
Facebook
                              Dragon Fable
           Webkinz

    82% have an account with
     a social networking site.

                         YouTube
           Runescape

Club Penguin             Edgewood Student Survey
                               Grades 3-5
How do you stay safe online?

79% responded with the following:
How do you stay safe online?

  79% responded with the following:

Do not give out personal information

Only visit “parent approved” web sites

 Do not communicate with strangers
   Do not click on ads or pop-ups

Do not download files or attachments

 Use computers with “parent controls”
Can parents trust their kids online?
What can you tell them so they don’t worry?
Can parents trust their kids online?
   What can you tell them so they don’t worry?



 “Yes. I mean, no one wants to be bullied, and on
some social networking sites they have a "Report
Abuse" button (at least in mine). Parents can help
 kids understand that not all people are nice, and
kids can help parents understand that the world is
          not made up of only evil people.
          Parents, chill, kids, be careful.”

             - Edgewood 5th grader
Elementary School
Acceptable Use and Internet Safety Policy
• Students may not reveal personal information,
such as their name and address, when using the
Internet or E-mail.

 • Students may not harass other students by
 sending them electronic messages.


• Students must respect the privacy of others.
Students may only access networked computers
with their own name and password.


• Students may only visit “teacher approved” web
sites or search engines when using the Internet.


 • The Internet may only be used for gathering
 information related to school work.
What Can Parents Do to Keep their
     Children Safe Online?
What Can Parents Do to Keep their
           Children Safe Online?

   Set limits for using the computer, such
as when and where online activity takes place

      Know usernames and passwords

Check browser History to see a record of web
              pages visited

Set your computer’s Parent Controls to restrict
             computer activity

     Purchase Internet filtering software
The best way to
protect your kids
online? Talk to them.
The best way to
 protect your kids
 online? Talk to them.
Start Early
The best way to
 protect your kids
 online? Talk to them.
Start Early
   Create an honest,
   open environment.
The best way to
 protect your kids
 online? Talk to them.
Start Early
   Create an honest,
   open environment.
      Initiate conversations.
The best way to
 protect your kids
 online? Talk to them.
Start Early
   Create an honest,
   open environment.
      Initiate conversations.
          Communicate your values.
The best way to
 protect your kids
 online? Talk to them.
Start Early
   Create an honest,
   open environment.
      Initiate conversations.
          Communicate your values.
               Be patient.
Cisco: The Human Network
The Realities
at Edgewood

Digital Citizenship


Internet Research


Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts
Digital Citizenship
        Enforce copyright law

 Respect ideas and opinions of others

   Preserve a safe online community

Promote a sharing of ideas and resources

Demonstrate appropriate online behavior
            and language
A Class Wiki
A Class Wiki
Internet Research
Internet Research
 Develop New Literacy skills
Internet Research
       Develop New Literacy skills

Internet search begins on the library page
Internet Research

       Develop New Literacy skills

Internet search begins on the library page
Internet Research

           Develop New Literacy skills

   Internet search begins on the library page

Dissect a web page to help evaluate for accuracy

Google is the last place to visit for online research
Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts
Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts
Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts
Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts
Connor on Pointball
Connor on Pointball
The Circuit Rap
by Elizabeth and Zoe
The Circuit Rap
by Elizabeth and Zoe
The Realities
at Edgewood

Digital Citizenship


Internet Research


Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts
Adora Svitak
12 years old
Adora Svitak
12 years old
Questions

Internet safety2010

  • 1.
    Surviving the Digital Playground: Keeping Our Kids Safe on the Internet Edgewood School 2010
  • 2.
    From: Institute of Education Sciences, National Center for Education Statistics
  • 3.
    78% of theincoming college class in 2009 have had Internet access their entire K-12 career. 98% of the incoming Freshman class of 2012 will have had Internet access their entire K-12 career. From: Institute of Education Sciences, National Center for Education Statistics
  • 5.
  • 6.
    Evolving Concerns Pornographic Web Sites Chat Rooms Social Networking Cyberbullying
  • 7.
  • 8.
    “Is it Safe”2008 Michael Miller
  • 9.
    Common Wisdom: Online predators are driving up sex crime rates. Sexual assaults on teenagers DECREASED from 1993 to 2005. “Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
  • 10.
    “Is it Safe”2008 Michael Miller
  • 11.
    Common Wisdom: Online predators trick or abduct their victims. Most victims willingly meet online predators face to face. “Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
  • 12.
    “Is it Safe”2008 Michael Miller
  • 13.
    Common Wisdom: Online predators pose as other teens online. The vast majority of online predators do not hide their age or intentions. Only 5% pose as teenagers. “Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
  • 15.
    In 2005, astudy found that 20% of children between 11 and 19 had been cyberbullied. “Is it Safe” 2008 Michael Miller
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    12% have beenor know someone who has been bullied or contacted by a stranger online. Edgewood Student Survey Grades 3-5
  • 19.
    75% responded thatcyberbullies and threatening strangers must be reported.
  • 20.
    82% have anaccount with a social networking site. Edgewood Student Survey Grades 3-5
  • 21.
    Moshi Monsters Facebook Dragon Fable Webkinz 82% have an account with a social networking site. YouTube Runescape Club Penguin Edgewood Student Survey Grades 3-5
  • 22.
    How do youstay safe online? 79% responded with the following:
  • 23.
    How do youstay safe online? 79% responded with the following: Do not give out personal information Only visit “parent approved” web sites Do not communicate with strangers Do not click on ads or pop-ups Do not download files or attachments Use computers with “parent controls”
  • 24.
    Can parents trusttheir kids online? What can you tell them so they don’t worry?
  • 25.
    Can parents trusttheir kids online? What can you tell them so they don’t worry? “Yes. I mean, no one wants to be bullied, and on some social networking sites they have a "Report Abuse" button (at least in mine). Parents can help kids understand that not all people are nice, and kids can help parents understand that the world is not made up of only evil people. Parents, chill, kids, be careful.” - Edgewood 5th grader
  • 26.
    Elementary School Acceptable Useand Internet Safety Policy
  • 28.
    • Students maynot reveal personal information, such as their name and address, when using the Internet or E-mail. • Students may not harass other students by sending them electronic messages. • Students must respect the privacy of others. Students may only access networked computers with their own name and password. • Students may only visit “teacher approved” web sites or search engines when using the Internet. • The Internet may only be used for gathering information related to school work.
  • 29.
    What Can ParentsDo to Keep their Children Safe Online?
  • 30.
    What Can ParentsDo to Keep their Children Safe Online? Set limits for using the computer, such as when and where online activity takes place Know usernames and passwords Check browser History to see a record of web pages visited Set your computer’s Parent Controls to restrict computer activity Purchase Internet filtering software
  • 32.
    The best wayto protect your kids online? Talk to them.
  • 33.
    The best wayto protect your kids online? Talk to them. Start Early
  • 34.
    The best wayto protect your kids online? Talk to them. Start Early Create an honest, open environment.
  • 35.
    The best wayto protect your kids online? Talk to them. Start Early Create an honest, open environment. Initiate conversations.
  • 36.
    The best wayto protect your kids online? Talk to them. Start Early Create an honest, open environment. Initiate conversations. Communicate your values.
  • 37.
    The best wayto protect your kids online? Talk to them. Start Early Create an honest, open environment. Initiate conversations. Communicate your values. Be patient.
  • 38.
  • 39.
    The Realities at Edgewood DigitalCitizenship Internet Research Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts
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    Digital Citizenship Enforce copyright law Respect ideas and opinions of others Preserve a safe online community Promote a sharing of ideas and resources Demonstrate appropriate online behavior and language
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    Internet Research DevelopNew Literacy skills
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    Internet Research Develop New Literacy skills Internet search begins on the library page
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    Internet Research Develop New Literacy skills Internet search begins on the library page
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    Internet Research Develop New Literacy skills Internet search begins on the library page Dissect a web page to help evaluate for accuracy Google is the last place to visit for online research
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    The Circuit Rap byElizabeth and Zoe
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    The Circuit Rap byElizabeth and Zoe
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    The Realities at Edgewood DigitalCitizenship Internet Research Blogs, Wikis, Podcasts
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Editor's Notes

  • #2 A few short years ago, these Internet safety presentations relied on scary anecdotes and lead crime stories on the 11 oclock news. A lot has happened with the Internet and how people use it since then. One can argue the merits and demerits of the Internet, but one thing is certain, the Internet and all the services it provides, is here for the long haul.
  • #3 It’s estimated that... read stats. The Internet is providing students with learning experiences that are vastly different from those of a generation ago. And of course, the Safety concerns adults might have for their children are also very different from a generation or two ago.
  • #4 It’s estimated that... read stats. The Internet is providing students with learning experiences that are vastly different from those of a generation ago. And of course, the Safety concerns adults might have for their children are also very different from a generation or two ago.
  • #6 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. For children of this generation, it’s the Internet that’s front and center of these challenges. And many parents today may look at these Internet offerings as a choice between Distracting or Dangerous. They might say ‘choose your poison.
  • #7 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. For children of this generation, it’s the Internet that’s front and center of these challenges. And many parents today may look at these Internet offerings as a choice between Distracting or Dangerous. They might say ‘choose your poison.
  • #8 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. For children of this generation, it’s the Internet that’s front and center of these challenges. And many parents today may look at these Internet offerings as a choice between Distracting or Dangerous. They might say ‘choose your poison.
  • #9 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. For children of this generation, it’s the Internet that’s front and center of these challenges. And many parents today may look at these Internet offerings as a choice between Distracting or Dangerous. They might say ‘choose your poison.
  • #10 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. For children of this generation, it’s the Internet that’s front and center of these challenges. And many parents today may look at these Internet offerings as a choice between Distracting or Dangerous. They might say ‘choose your poison.
  • #11 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. Helping children satisfy their needs These days, the Internet can play a huge role in challenging as well as promoting a child’s development.
  • #12 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. Helping children satisfy their needs These days, the Internet can play a huge role in challenging as well as promoting a child’s development.
  • #13 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. Helping children satisfy their needs These days, the Internet can play a huge role in challenging as well as promoting a child’s development.
  • #14 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. Helping children satisfy their needs These days, the Internet can play a huge role in challenging as well as promoting a child’s development.
  • #15 Every child, in every generation, faces challenges to growing up. Helping children satisfy their needs These days, the Internet can play a huge role in challenging as well as promoting a child’s development.
  • #16 But let’s take a look at the realities of some of these concerns...
  • #17 Sexual assaults on probably the heaviest online user group, teenagers, actually dropped during this time.
  • #18 Sexual assaults on probably the heaviest online user group, teenagers, actually dropped during this time.
  • #19 Research indicates that victims are also experiencing other risk factors in their lives.
  • #20 Research indicates that victims are also experiencing other risk factors in their lives.
  • #24 Bullying, whether or online or in person is a serious problem. Bullies thrive when the victim is scared, ashamed, and silent. at Edgewood we encourage students to make their voices heard and we give them opportunities, especially through our lunch clubs, to be heard.
  • #25 Let’s take a look at how some of these online concerns play out at Edgewood. Edgewood realities.
  • #26 In a recent survey, of about 146 students in grades 3-5, about 12% of students who responded said “12% have been or know someone who has been bullied or contacted by a stranger online.
  • #27 When asked what they do if they or someone they know is ever bullied or contacted by a stranger online 75% say cyberbullies and threatening strangers need to be reported. If you look at a site like Moshi Monster’s you’ll see a number of discussion postings in the Forum about cyberbullies. Kids encouraging others to speak up, kids exchanging the usernames of those who have been hurtful... and reporting them to the web site. How many of you are on Facebook?
  • #28 82% of those surveyed are involved with some form of online social networking. Once upon a time ago, the thought of young students, especially those in elementary school, being involved in some online social networking activity would ‘ve been frightening for parents. And if you still do find it frightening, you should know that many of our Edgewood kids have a sense of how to protect themselves while online.
  • #29 82% of those surveyed are involved with some form of online social networking. Once upon a time ago, the thought of young students, especially those in elementary school, being involved in some online social networking activity would ‘ve been frightening for parents. And if you still do find it frightening, you should know that many of our Edgewood kids have a sense of how to protect themselves while online.
  • #30 82% of those surveyed are involved with some form of online social networking. Once upon a time ago, the thought of young students, especially those in elementary school, being involved in some online social networking activity would ‘ve been frightening for parents. And if you still do find it frightening, you should know that many of our Edgewood kids have a sense of how to protect themselves while online.
  • #31 82% of those surveyed are involved with some form of online social networking. Once upon a time ago, the thought of young students, especially those in elementary school, being involved in some online social networking activity would ‘ve been frightening for parents. And if you still do find it frightening, you should know that many of our Edgewood kids have a sense of how to protect themselves while online.
  • #32 82% of those surveyed are involved with some form of online social networking. Once upon a time ago, the thought of young students, especially those in elementary school, being involved in some online social networking activity would ‘ve been frightening for parents. And if you still do find it frightening, you should know that many of our Edgewood kids have a sense of how to protect themselves while online.
  • #33 82% of those surveyed are involved with some form of online social networking. Once upon a time ago, the thought of young students, especially those in elementary school, being involved in some online social networking activity would ‘ve been frightening for parents. And if you still do find it frightening, you should know that many of our Edgewood kids have a sense of how to protect themselves while online.
  • #34 82% of those surveyed are involved with some form of online social networking. Once upon a time ago, the thought of young students, especially those in elementary school, being involved in some online social networking activity would ‘ve been frightening for parents. And if you still do find it frightening, you should know that many of our Edgewood kids have a sense of how to protect themselves while online.
  • #35 So the safety message from parents and teachers seem to be getting through. They are taking responsibility for their own action or at least they recognize behavior or actions that can cause problems for them and others.
  • #36 So the safety message from parents and teachers seem to be getting through. They are taking responsibility for their own action or at least they recognize behavior or actions that can cause problems for them and others.
  • #37 So the safety message from parents and teachers seem to be getting through. They are taking responsibility for their own action or at least they recognize behavior or actions that can cause problems for them and others.
  • #38 So the safety message from parents and teachers seem to be getting through. They are taking responsibility for their own action or at least they recognize behavior or actions that can cause problems for them and others.
  • #39 So the safety message from parents and teachers seem to be getting through. They are taking responsibility for their own action or at least they recognize behavior or actions that can cause problems for them and others.
  • #40 So the safety message from parents and teachers seem to be getting through. They are taking responsibility for their own action or at least they recognize behavior or actions that can cause problems for them and others.
  • #41 We still have so much to learn about how kids are using and learning from their computer acitivites, but we need to engage them in conversation.
  • #42 The Elementary School Acceptable Use and Internet Safety Policy is reviewed each year with students in grades 3-5. And since second graders now access the Internet for research, we also talk to them about keeping safe on the Internet.
  • #43 We explain that the purpose of these rules is not to be a wet blanket on their Internet experience, but to promote a learning environment that is safe, productive and fun. In presenting this policy we’ve also begun the discussion on ethics and responsibilities of the online user, which until recent years has not been a discussion taking place in schools. This is what we’re doing in school, what can parents do at home?
  • #44 We explain that the purpose of these rules is not to be a wet blanket on their Internet experience, but to promote a learning environment that is safe, productive and fun. In presenting this policy we’ve also begun the discussion on ethics and responsibilities of the online user, which until recent years has not been a discussion taking place in schools. This is what we’re doing in school, what can parents do at home?
  • #45 We explain that the purpose of these rules is not to be a wet blanket on their Internet experience, but to promote a learning environment that is safe, productive and fun. In presenting this policy we’ve also begun the discussion on ethics and responsibilities of the online user, which until recent years has not been a discussion taking place in schools. This is what we’re doing in school, what can parents do at home?
  • #46 We explain that the purpose of these rules is not to be a wet blanket on their Internet experience, but to promote a learning environment that is safe, productive and fun. In presenting this policy we’ve also begun the discussion on ethics and responsibilities of the online user, which until recent years has not been a discussion taking place in schools. This is what we’re doing in school, what can parents do at home?
  • #47 We explain that the purpose of these rules is not to be a wet blanket on their Internet experience, but to promote a learning environment that is safe, productive and fun. In presenting this policy we’ve also begun the discussion on ethics and responsibilities of the online user, which until recent years has not been a discussion taking place in schools. This is what we’re doing in school, what can parents do at home?
  • #53 For more information for online safety visit the district web site or my school page. I know this is an Internet Safety presentation, but I think we need to look at how the Internet can transform students into highly motivated learners.
  • #54 Ultimately, the values you convey to them will always be the little voice in their head, nudging them in the right direction.
  • #55 Ultimately, the values you convey to them will always be the little voice in their head, nudging them in the right direction.
  • #56 Ultimately, the values you convey to them will always be the little voice in their head, nudging them in the right direction.
  • #57 Ultimately, the values you convey to them will always be the little voice in their head, nudging them in the right direction.
  • #58 Ultimately, the values you convey to them will always be the little voice in their head, nudging them in the right direction.
  • #59 I know this is an INternet Safety presentation, but there is more at stake here. Here’s an ad from Cisco to explain.
  • #60 In Scarsdale, we block access to many web sites that are inappropriate and unrelated to the curriculum and we limit the use of technology that interferes with schoolwork. But rather than emphasizing the denial of resources, our approach is to focus student efforts on Digital Citizenship, developing research skills, and making meaningful contributions to a global conversation. All areas of learning are essential to helping today’s children compete on the global market in future.
  • #61 We also had teachers take part in a mandatory training session on digital citizenship in which they took a close look at scenarios which teetered on the ethics fence.... We take the last item to heart when working on wikis.
  • #62  A wiki gives each student a public voice. It is not flip or loose in language. we maintain the same standards for writing and rigor that we would in the classroom. The difference is that a wiki lives online so it allows for seamless work between school and home.
  • #63 Mrs. Huang’s class used a wiki to develop their public service announcement scripts. And students provided feedback on one another’s drafts. (Click) but early in the process, we developed a class set of standards for commenting on each other’s writing. Comments praise, encourage, provide constructive feedback. And user comments in our school community, should not be anonymous. We’re working on establishing that with our Edgewood news site. although most comments are appropriate.
  • #64 Even though the forum for communication has changed from in person, or letter writing, to an online venue, the fundamentals of communication must stay intact. This gets back to the analogy of Digital Natives v Immigrants. Kids today are the digital natives. They are immersed in technology and use it seemingly with ease. The adults are the Immigrants having to learn a new language, new customs, and struggling to know what their kids know.
  • #65 Even though the forum for communication has changed from in person, or letter writing, to an online venue, the fundamentals of communication must stay intact. This gets back to the analogy of Digital Natives v Immigrants. Kids today are the digital natives. They are immersed in technology and use it seemingly with ease. The adults are the Immigrants having to learn a new language, new customs, and struggling to know what their kids know.
  • #66 Even though the forum for communication has changed from in person, or letter writing, to an online venue, the fundamentals of communication must stay intact. This gets back to the analogy of Digital Natives v Immigrants. Kids today are the digital natives. They are immersed in technology and use it seemingly with ease. The adults are the Immigrants having to learn a new language, new customs, and struggling to know what their kids know.
  • #67 When researching online, students are practicing skills of a New Literacy. These skills include traditional literacy skills as well as those that are specific to the digital age-- skimming text, clicking hyperlinks, maintaining multiple web pages, etc. These skills are necessary to help us analyze and evaluate content on the web during Internet research. At Edgewood , we begin our search on the web. If you haven’t seen our library page we have lots of resources that are teacher approved for their language, content that’s related to the curriculum, and user friendliness.
  • #68 When researching online, students are practicing skills of a New Literacy. These skills include traditional literacy skills as well as those that are specific to the digital age-- skimming text, clicking hyperlinks, maintaining multiple web pages, etc. These skills are necessary to help us analyze and evaluate content on the web during Internet research. At Edgewood , we begin our search on the web. If you haven’t seen our library page we have lots of resources that are teacher approved for their language, content that’s related to the curriculum, and user friendliness.
  • #69 You can access this site and these resources from home. These are resources that are for the most part are user friendly for young students, appropriate to reading level, and provides content info realated to the curriculum.
  • #70 Is it a dot com or an edu or gov. Locate the link that explains the background of the author or organization that’s providing the information. We’re looking for clues to help us determine if the information is reliable. Finally, Google may be the world’s most popular search engine, but it’s the last place we visit for Internet research. Google searches are based on keyword queries and cannot be adjusted to meet the research needs of a 9 year old.
  • #71 Is it a dot com or an edu or gov. Locate the link that explains the background of the author or organization that’s providing the information. We’re looking for clues to help us determine if the information is reliable. Finally, Google may be the world’s most popular search engine, but it’s the last place we visit for Internet research. Google searches are based on keyword queries and cannot be adjusted to meet the research needs of a 9 year old.
  • #72 The final reality at Edgewood is that the Internet is a place where all voices, big and small, can be heard. Through blogs, wikis, and podcasts students have that voice. You can find podcasts on at least three Edgewood web sites -- Classical Cafe, the Historical Society, and Edgewood News.
  • #73 The final reality at Edgewood is that the Internet is a place where all voices, big and small, can be heard. Through blogs, wikis, and podcasts students have that voice. You can find podcasts on at least three Edgewood web sites -- Classical Cafe, the Historical Society, and Edgewood News.
  • #74 The final reality at Edgewood is that the Internet is a place where all voices, big and small, can be heard. Through blogs, wikis, and podcasts students have that voice. You can find podcasts on at least three Edgewood web sites -- Classical Cafe, the Historical Society, and Edgewood News.
  • #75 The Media Club is a lunch club where students work on slides for Eaglevision and audio stories or photographs to be published on EN. Students develop ideas and teachers provide both editorial and technical guidance. When we publish student work to a web site, we only use the first name, no last name. This applies to print and audio work. When we upload a video we show the student’s face, but we do not include a first or last name. We try to balance the sensitivity towards uploading personal information to the web with the need to give appropriate credit to the student who created the work.
  • #77 These are the realities at Edgewood. We’re striving to create a community of learners, leaders, participants on a world stage. We start by giving students here opportunities to pursue their interests and passions and the guidance to help get them there. Cue Whitney Houston song... children are the future...
  • #78 I’m going to end this presentation with the words of Adora Svitak, who is 12 and recently presented at a TED conference, Technology, Education & Design... and her thoughts on what parents can learn from children.