How to Deal  With Envy
Introduction Envy is the desire for what others have: Status, lifestyle, possessions, characteristics, or relationships.
Important If it is not controlled, it can develop into contempt, malice, and the destruction of others.  It is fueled by expectations that one deserves recognition and success over another individual.
Envy - Definition T he distress people feel when others get what they want . A feeling of discontent and resentment aroused by and in conjunction with desire for the possessions or qualities of another. A strong desire for something that another person has.
Envy – Main Causes Dissatisfaction (Focusing on what one doesn’t have rather than what one does have). Comparison to others. Pride (The false idea that one deserves a life filled with personal gain and satisfaction).
Envy – Main Causes Seeking significance/Low self-esteem (lack of self-worth). Desire for worldly gain. Seeking money, appearance, status, achievements, or talents that are of only temporary value.
Ways to Deal With Envy Be honest. Do not deceive yourself; reveal your true feelings, attitudes, and motivations. Develop a lifestyle of gratitude.  Think about what you do have and be grateful. Avoid activities that encourage comparison. Ask yourself why.  When feeling envious, ask yourself what it is about someone else that you are envious of.
Ways to Deal With Envy Take a step back.  When feeling envious, stop and realize it. Grow.  Make a plan to develop your own positive qualities and unique gifts.  Don’t give up.  Jealousy and envy can be a constant struggle for some individuals and can be indicative of an unresolved past pain.
Conclusion Envy is the opposite of love because while love celebrates the good of another, envy seeks to destroy another in order benefit oneself.
Lico Reis Consultoria  & Línguas Prof. Lico Reis www.licoreis.com [email_address] E-books: www.migre.me/oQ5 Linkedin: www.migre.me/1d9r Twitter: @licoreis

How to Deal with Envy

  • 1.
    How to Deal With Envy
  • 2.
    Introduction Envy isthe desire for what others have: Status, lifestyle, possessions, characteristics, or relationships.
  • 3.
    Important If itis not controlled, it can develop into contempt, malice, and the destruction of others. It is fueled by expectations that one deserves recognition and success over another individual.
  • 4.
    Envy - DefinitionT he distress people feel when others get what they want . A feeling of discontent and resentment aroused by and in conjunction with desire for the possessions or qualities of another. A strong desire for something that another person has.
  • 5.
    Envy – MainCauses Dissatisfaction (Focusing on what one doesn’t have rather than what one does have). Comparison to others. Pride (The false idea that one deserves a life filled with personal gain and satisfaction).
  • 6.
    Envy – MainCauses Seeking significance/Low self-esteem (lack of self-worth). Desire for worldly gain. Seeking money, appearance, status, achievements, or talents that are of only temporary value.
  • 7.
    Ways to DealWith Envy Be honest. Do not deceive yourself; reveal your true feelings, attitudes, and motivations. Develop a lifestyle of gratitude. Think about what you do have and be grateful. Avoid activities that encourage comparison. Ask yourself why. When feeling envious, ask yourself what it is about someone else that you are envious of.
  • 8.
    Ways to DealWith Envy Take a step back. When feeling envious, stop and realize it. Grow. Make a plan to develop your own positive qualities and unique gifts. Don’t give up. Jealousy and envy can be a constant struggle for some individuals and can be indicative of an unresolved past pain.
  • 9.
    Conclusion Envy isthe opposite of love because while love celebrates the good of another, envy seeks to destroy another in order benefit oneself.
  • 10.
    Lico Reis Consultoria & Línguas Prof. Lico Reis www.licoreis.com [email_address] E-books: www.migre.me/oQ5 Linkedin: www.migre.me/1d9r Twitter: @licoreis