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Cordell M. Parvin

http://www.cordellparvin.com
How Business Clients
Select Lawyers and
Law Firms
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How Clients Select
Visibility
Credibility
Relationships
Recommendations
Client Meetings
Trust & Rapport
Getting Hired
W
eak
Ties
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How Clients Select
Strength of Weak/Dormant Ties
4Who Are Your Weak/Dormant Ties?
How Clients Select
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How Clients Select
Traditional
Selling Skills
Do Not Apply
Not About Technique
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How Clients Select
Traditional Sales Model
Charles Green
How Clients Select
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Screen Based on Reputation and
Recommendations
How Clients Select
Seth Godin 8
How Clients Select
Hire Lawyers Over Law Firms 10
How Clients Select
Hire Lawyers They Trust and
With Whom They Have Rapport 11
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How Clients Select
Trust Development Process
Charles Green
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How Clients Select
If Not Selling and Closing - What?
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How Clients Select
Ask and Listen, Don’t Tell
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How Clients Select
Problem Identification
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Perspective
How Potential Client is Thinking
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Empathy
How Potential Client is Feeling
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Collaborate
Don’t Dictate
How Clients Select
How Clients Select
Simon Sinek 19
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Components of Trust
TRUSTC=credibility
R=reliability
S=self-orientation
I-intimacy
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Identify Your Best Opportunities
Commodity Work - Low Price Determines
Bet the Company They Hire the Best
Real Opportunity
30%
10%
60%
Trust and Rapport
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Skills Capital-
Trust
Social Capital-
Rapport
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Persuasion
Engage
Six Principles
1. Reciprocation
2. Commitment/Consistency
3. Authority
4. Social Validation
5. Scarcity
6. Liking/Friendship
How Client Select
Jeffrey Gitomer 25
Relationship and Reputation
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How to Gain Trust
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Ask the Right Questions
How to Gain Rapport
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Charisma May Not Be
What You Think
How to Gain Rapport
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Charisma: What It Is
What Questions to Ask
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“I can always tell how
experienced and
insightful a prospective ...
lawyer is by the quality of
their questions and how
intently they listen. That’s
how simple it is.”
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What Questions to Ask
Situation Questions
Problem Questions
Implication Questions
Need Payoff Questions
Relationship Building
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Friendliness
Relevance
Empathy
Realness
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DO
Identify
Problem,
Opportunity
or
Change
Takeaways
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DO
Find Ways to
Add Value
Takeaways
Takeaways
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DO
Gain Trust and
Rapport, Ask
Questions and
Listen
Takeaways
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DO
Ask or Tell Your
Client You Want
to Help Them

How Business Clients Select Lawyers and Law Firms