Of all the types the ENFJ (Harmony/Perspectives in the Personality Hacker system) has the most social awareness and direct understanding of social situations. Other types have strong social inclinations, but it is this type that combines complex emotional understanding with how people think. At their best they handle sensitive situations and people with seeming ease. They are master diplomats. Their distinctive approach is that of a compassionate teacher. People of this type have a strong inclination to bring out the best in each person. They slip into the skins of others so easily that they’ll quickly find themselves adopting their habits, beliefs, and the like in order to truly empathize.

1. ENFJ
“Harmony” “Perspectives”
PersonalityHacker.com
Facebook.com/PersonalityHacker
Twitter.com/PersonalityHack
Copyright © 2015 Personality Hacker LLC www.PersonalityHacker.com

2. Copyright © 2015 Personality Hacker LLC www.PersonalityHacker.com
ENFJ Cognitive Functions
Dominant (Driver) :
Extraverted Feeling
“Harmony”
Auxiliary (Co-Pilot) :
Introverted Intuition
“Perspectives”
Tertiary (10 Year Old) :
Extraverted Sensing
“Sensation”
Inferior (3 Year Old) :
Introverted Thinking
“Accuracy”

3. Copyright © 2015 Personality Hacker LLC www.PersonalityHacker.com
ENFJ Fast Personal Growth
Perspectives (Introverted
Intuition) – a deeply
introspective process –
encourages an ENFJ to slow
down and go inward,
remembering who they are
internally and that they have a
unique identity separate from
others. It also reminds the
ENFJ that they’re part of
“everyone” when getting
Slow down when making decisions to ensure they’re right for you.
Your happiness
depends upon you
slowing your pace.
everyone’s needs met. Without this reminder,
there’s a tendency to be reactionary instead of responsive to others.

4. Copyright © 2015 Personality Hacker LLC www.PersonalityHacker.com
ENFJ Defensive Strategy
Tertiary (10 Year Old) :
Extraverted Sensing
“Sensation”
Sensation (Extraverted Sensing) is a seductive
process for an ENFJ. It keeps you in the here-and-
now, prevents you from having to fear disapproval
for your more intuitive side and allows you to
indulge in sensual delights. But it can also keep
the ‘real you’ hidden from others.
You develop far more intimate and satisfying
relationships when you’re willing to bring your
intuitive side forward. If your 10 year old
overshadows your Co-Pilot, you’ll end up in a lot of
surface, one-sided relationships where you’re
making most of the effort with little reciprocity.
Other people won’t know how to meet your needs
since they will only have a surface understanding
of the real you.
Make concerted effort to have “me time,” and
focus on quality over quantity in every aspect of
your life.

5. Copyright © 2015 Personality Hacker LLC www.PersonalityHacker.com
How ENFJs Communicate Love

6. Copyright © 2015 Personality Hacker LLC www.PersonalityHacker.com
ENFJ - Where To Go From Here
Auxiliary (Co-Pilot) :
Introverted Intuition
“Perspectives”
The enemy of Perspectives is restlessness and
sensory over-indulgence. Perspectives requires
patience and serenity to dive deep inside your
inner wisdom. It encourages you to focus on
quality relationships and experiences instead of
quantity ‘quick hits’. Taking a metaperspective
gives you some distance to respond to the world
around you instead of merely reacting or judging
it.
Set up your conditions to access this mental
process as much as possible.
Practice this technique by identifying a person or
situation that you can’t see yourself ever condoning.
Instead of jumping to condemn the action, take a
moment to really get inside the head of that person.
How did their action make complete sense to them at
the time? Can you understand it so well you could
defend it to another person? What about a truly
heinous or confusing act? Don’t focus on the act, but
on the mind of the person who committed it.

7. Learn more about the
ENFJ personality type
PersonalityHacker.com
Copyright © 2015 Personality Hacker LLC www.PersonalityHacker.com