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Emotional Intelligence (EI) Self-Test Assessment
Objective - The four parts of this self-test are designed to raise your awareness, & enhance your
understanding of your emotional intelligence skills.
Instructions - Read each question & select one response (A, B, or C) that best describes you. It may help
to think of a specific example to demonstrate your response.
Part 1. Identifying Emotions: Assess your emotional awareness
1. Awareness of emotions
A [ ] I am aware of my feelings
B [ ] At times I am aware of my feelings
C [ ] I don’t pay much attention to my feelings
2. Expression of feelings
A [ ] I am open about how I feel & show this through emotional expression
B [ ] I show some of my feelings
C [ ] I am not good at expressing my feelings
3. Reading of other people’s emotions
A [ ] I always know how someone else feels
B [ ] I sometimes pick up on the feelings of others
C [ ] I tend to misread people’s feelings
4. Ability to read subtle, nonverbal emotional cues
A [ ] I can read between the lines & pick up on how another person feels
B [ ] At times, I can read nonverbal cues such as body language
C [ ] I don’t pay much attention to these cues
5. Awareness of false emotions
A [ ] I always pick up on lies
B [ ] I am usually aware of when a person is lying
C [ ] I can be fooled by people
6. Perception of emotion in art & music
A [ ] I am sensitive to & moved by the emotional content of art & music
B [ ] At times I can feel it
C [ ] I’m not moved by art or music
7. Ability to monitor emotions
A [ ] I am always aware of my own feelings
B [ ] I am usually aware
C [ ] I rarely know
8. Awareness of manipulative emotions
A [ ] I always know when a person is trying to manipulate me
B [ ] I usually know
C [ ] I rarely know
Part 2. Using Emotions to help you to think – Assess your ability to regulate your emotions
1. When people describe experiences to me
A [ ] I often can feel what they feel
B [ ] I have an understanding of what they feel
C [ ] I prefer to focus on the rational facts & information
2. I can generate emotions on demand
A [ ] Easily, for all emotions
B [ ] For most emotions
C [ ] Rarely, or with great difficulty
3. Before an important event
A [ ] I can get into a positive, energetic mood
B [ ] I may be able to psych myself up for it
C [ ] I keep my mood just the same
4. Is my thinking influenced by my feelings?
A [ ] Different moods affect my thinking & decision making
B [ ] It may be important to be in a particular mood at different times
C [ ] My thinking is not clouded by emotions
5. What is the influence of strong feelings on my thinking?
A [ ] Feelings help me focus on what’s important
B [ ] Feelings have little impact on me
C [ ] Feelings distract me
6. My emotional imagination is
A [ ] Very Strong
B [ ] Mildly interesting
C [ ] Adds little value
7. I can change my mood
A [ ] Easily
B [ ] Sometimes
C [ ] Rarely
8. When people describe powerful emotional events
A [ ] I feel what they feel
B [ ] My feelings change a little
C [ ] My feelings stay the same
Part 3. Understanding Emotions - Assess your emotional knowledge
1. My emotional vocabulary is
A [ ] Very detailed & rich
B [ ] About average
C [ ] Not very large
2. My understanding of why people feel the way they do usually produces
A [ ] Excellent insights
B [ ] Some insight
C [ ] Some missing pieces
3. My knowledge of how emotions change & develop is
A [ ] Sophisticated
B [ ] Somewhat developed
C [ ] Limited & of little interest to me
4. The ability to anticipate the impact that my emotions will have upon others
A [ ] Accurate prediction of responses in most situations
B [ ] A good prediction sometimes
C [ ] I tend not to be able to predict how people will feel / respond to me
5. When I try to determine what causes emotions, I
A [ ] Always link the feeling to an event or trigger
B [ ] I sometimes link feelings to an event or trigger
C [ ] I believe that feelings aren’t always triggered by an event
6. I believe that contradictory emotions
A [ ] Can be felt, such as love & hate at the same time
B [ ] May be possible
C [ ] Make little sense
7. I think emotions
A [ ] Change / develop following a predictable pattern
B [ ] Sometimes follow other emotions in a set pattern
C [ ] Usually occur in a random order
8. My emotional reasoning could be described this way:
A [ ] I have a sophisticated emotional vocabulary
B [ ] I can usually describe emotions
C [ ] I struggle for words to describe feelings
Part 4. Managing Emotions: Assess your emotional intelligence
1. I listen to my to feelings
A [ ] Usually
B [ ] At times
C [ ] Rarely
2. I act on my feelings
A [ ] Immediately
B [ ] At times
C [ ] Hardly ever
3. Strong emotions
A [ ] Motivate me & help me
B [ ] At times take over
C [ ] Should be controlled & dealt with, or even forgotten
4. I am clear about how I feel
A [ ] Usually
B [ ] At times
C [ ] Rarely
5. The influence feelings have on me
A [ ] Is usually understood in terms of how feelings affect me
B [ ] Is understood at times
C [ ] Is rarely processed or felt
6. I process strong emotions
A [ ] In order not to exaggerate or minimise them
B [ ] At times
C [ ] So as to either minimise or maximise
7. I am able to change a bad mood
A [ ] Usually
B [ ] At times
C [ ] Rarely
8. I can keep a good mood going
A [ ] Usually
B [ ] At times
C [ ] Rarely
What do your answers mean? Check how many times you selected A, B or C responses for each of the
four sets of questions. Then create a score for each of the four parts of the self-test by giving yourself 2
points for every A response, 1 point for a B response, & 0 points for a C response.
The four skills of EI A B C
Total Total Total Total Score
Part 1 – Identifying Emotions
Part 2 – Using Emotions
Part 3 – Understanding Emotions
Part 4 – Managing Emotions
This quick self-test can help you better understand your emotional intelligence skills – it is designed to
stimulate your thinking regarding your Emotional Intelligence, not as a diagnosis. A lower score is one
that is around 8 or less, & a higher score one that is about 9 or above.
You can interpret these scores as follows:
Identifying Emotions: Your score indicates how you feel about identifying emotions accurately. Do you
attend to this source of data, or do you ignore it? If you do try to figure other people out, are your
guesses accurate or not?
Using Emotions: Your score gives you an idea or whether you use your feelings to help you gain insight
into others or to enhance the way you think & make decisions.
Understanding Emotions: Your score for this set of questions helps you better understand the depth of
your emotional knowledge.
Managing Emotions: Your score on managing emotions indicates the extent to which you allow your
feelings to positively affect your decision-making.
Consider your highest scoring area & ask yourself:
• What strengths do I have?
• How might I approach a situation?
Consider your lowest scoring area & ask yourself:
• What obstacles do I face?
• What possible problems might I have in a given situation?
This gives you a picture of your Emotional Intelligence strengths & areas for development

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Emotional intelligence EI Self Test assessment - free insights for Coaching Mentoring Supervision etc.

  • 1. Emotional Intelligence (EI) Self-Test Assessment Objective - The four parts of this self-test are designed to raise your awareness, & enhance your understanding of your emotional intelligence skills. Instructions - Read each question & select one response (A, B, or C) that best describes you. It may help to think of a specific example to demonstrate your response. Part 1. Identifying Emotions: Assess your emotional awareness 1. Awareness of emotions A [ ] I am aware of my feelings B [ ] At times I am aware of my feelings C [ ] I don’t pay much attention to my feelings 2. Expression of feelings A [ ] I am open about how I feel & show this through emotional expression B [ ] I show some of my feelings C [ ] I am not good at expressing my feelings 3. Reading of other people’s emotions A [ ] I always know how someone else feels B [ ] I sometimes pick up on the feelings of others C [ ] I tend to misread people’s feelings 4. Ability to read subtle, nonverbal emotional cues A [ ] I can read between the lines & pick up on how another person feels B [ ] At times, I can read nonverbal cues such as body language C [ ] I don’t pay much attention to these cues 5. Awareness of false emotions A [ ] I always pick up on lies B [ ] I am usually aware of when a person is lying C [ ] I can be fooled by people 6. Perception of emotion in art & music A [ ] I am sensitive to & moved by the emotional content of art & music B [ ] At times I can feel it C [ ] I’m not moved by art or music 7. Ability to monitor emotions A [ ] I am always aware of my own feelings B [ ] I am usually aware C [ ] I rarely know 8. Awareness of manipulative emotions A [ ] I always know when a person is trying to manipulate me B [ ] I usually know C [ ] I rarely know Part 2. Using Emotions to help you to think – Assess your ability to regulate your emotions 1. When people describe experiences to me A [ ] I often can feel what they feel B [ ] I have an understanding of what they feel C [ ] I prefer to focus on the rational facts & information
  • 2. 2. I can generate emotions on demand A [ ] Easily, for all emotions B [ ] For most emotions C [ ] Rarely, or with great difficulty 3. Before an important event A [ ] I can get into a positive, energetic mood B [ ] I may be able to psych myself up for it C [ ] I keep my mood just the same 4. Is my thinking influenced by my feelings? A [ ] Different moods affect my thinking & decision making B [ ] It may be important to be in a particular mood at different times C [ ] My thinking is not clouded by emotions 5. What is the influence of strong feelings on my thinking? A [ ] Feelings help me focus on what’s important B [ ] Feelings have little impact on me C [ ] Feelings distract me 6. My emotional imagination is A [ ] Very Strong B [ ] Mildly interesting C [ ] Adds little value 7. I can change my mood A [ ] Easily B [ ] Sometimes C [ ] Rarely 8. When people describe powerful emotional events A [ ] I feel what they feel B [ ] My feelings change a little C [ ] My feelings stay the same Part 3. Understanding Emotions - Assess your emotional knowledge 1. My emotional vocabulary is A [ ] Very detailed & rich B [ ] About average C [ ] Not very large 2. My understanding of why people feel the way they do usually produces A [ ] Excellent insights B [ ] Some insight C [ ] Some missing pieces 3. My knowledge of how emotions change & develop is A [ ] Sophisticated B [ ] Somewhat developed C [ ] Limited & of little interest to me
  • 3. 4. The ability to anticipate the impact that my emotions will have upon others A [ ] Accurate prediction of responses in most situations B [ ] A good prediction sometimes C [ ] I tend not to be able to predict how people will feel / respond to me 5. When I try to determine what causes emotions, I A [ ] Always link the feeling to an event or trigger B [ ] I sometimes link feelings to an event or trigger C [ ] I believe that feelings aren’t always triggered by an event 6. I believe that contradictory emotions A [ ] Can be felt, such as love & hate at the same time B [ ] May be possible C [ ] Make little sense 7. I think emotions A [ ] Change / develop following a predictable pattern B [ ] Sometimes follow other emotions in a set pattern C [ ] Usually occur in a random order 8. My emotional reasoning could be described this way: A [ ] I have a sophisticated emotional vocabulary B [ ] I can usually describe emotions C [ ] I struggle for words to describe feelings Part 4. Managing Emotions: Assess your emotional intelligence 1. I listen to my to feelings A [ ] Usually B [ ] At times C [ ] Rarely 2. I act on my feelings A [ ] Immediately B [ ] At times C [ ] Hardly ever 3. Strong emotions A [ ] Motivate me & help me B [ ] At times take over C [ ] Should be controlled & dealt with, or even forgotten 4. I am clear about how I feel A [ ] Usually B [ ] At times C [ ] Rarely 5. The influence feelings have on me A [ ] Is usually understood in terms of how feelings affect me B [ ] Is understood at times C [ ] Is rarely processed or felt
  • 4. 6. I process strong emotions A [ ] In order not to exaggerate or minimise them B [ ] At times C [ ] So as to either minimise or maximise 7. I am able to change a bad mood A [ ] Usually B [ ] At times C [ ] Rarely 8. I can keep a good mood going A [ ] Usually B [ ] At times C [ ] Rarely What do your answers mean? Check how many times you selected A, B or C responses for each of the four sets of questions. Then create a score for each of the four parts of the self-test by giving yourself 2 points for every A response, 1 point for a B response, & 0 points for a C response. The four skills of EI A B C Total Total Total Total Score Part 1 – Identifying Emotions Part 2 – Using Emotions Part 3 – Understanding Emotions Part 4 – Managing Emotions This quick self-test can help you better understand your emotional intelligence skills – it is designed to stimulate your thinking regarding your Emotional Intelligence, not as a diagnosis. A lower score is one that is around 8 or less, & a higher score one that is about 9 or above. You can interpret these scores as follows: Identifying Emotions: Your score indicates how you feel about identifying emotions accurately. Do you attend to this source of data, or do you ignore it? If you do try to figure other people out, are your guesses accurate or not? Using Emotions: Your score gives you an idea or whether you use your feelings to help you gain insight into others or to enhance the way you think & make decisions. Understanding Emotions: Your score for this set of questions helps you better understand the depth of your emotional knowledge. Managing Emotions: Your score on managing emotions indicates the extent to which you allow your feelings to positively affect your decision-making. Consider your highest scoring area & ask yourself: • What strengths do I have? • How might I approach a situation? Consider your lowest scoring area & ask yourself: • What obstacles do I face? • What possible problems might I have in a given situation? This gives you a picture of your Emotional Intelligence strengths & areas for development