MANAGE YOUR STRESS
(Or it will manage you!)
Stress is Normal
 Everyone deals with stress
 It is normal, natural, and necessary
 As with everything…it is important to know
how to cope with it.
What is Stress?
 The arousal of the mind
& the body in response
to the demands made
upon you
 Physical demands
 Psychological demands
 Environmental
demands
There are Two Types of
Stress
 Internal Stress – the
pressure that you internally
place upon yourself when
you experience the
stressful event
 External Stress - the
outside pressures that
create a stressful
environment
Types of Stressors
 Major Life Events
SuchAs:
 Marriage
 Divorce
 Move
 Children
 Job Change
 Illness
Daily Events
 Conflict
 Deadlines
 Being asked to do
more for less
 Multi-tasking
Physiological Responses
 Fight or flight
 Sweating
 Increased Heart Rate
 Increased Blood
Pressure
 Increased Muscle
Tension
 Increased Respiration
 Indigestion
difficulties
Psychological Reactions
 Depression
 Guilt
 Anxiety
 Perfectionism
 Anger
 Sadness
You Know You Are In Trouble
 Headaches
 Decreased Productivity
 Intermittent Sleep Disturbance
 Fatigue or Lethargy
 Frequent Illness or Absences fromWork
 Depression
 Intermittent Explosive Disorder
If You Find Yourself Saying
 I can’t get out of bed
 I can’t relax
 I don’t enjoy life
 I am procrastinating
about everything
 Everything gets on my
nerves
Or If You Run on Automatic
 Do you multitask?
 Do you take care of
others first?
 Are you constantly
thinking of the next
activity?
You know you are stressed
if…………
 You are too tired to brush or floss your teeth
 You are too bust to exercise
 You go to bed without washing your face
 You forget your thoughts
Your Six Needs
 Emotional
 Social
 Intellectual
 Spiritual
 Physical
 Recreational
How do You Combat Stress?
Attend to Your Physical needs.
 Get 7-8 hours of
sleep
 Learn how to
balance your body
 Find ways to
replenish yourself
 Put rest and
relaxation into your
day
Your Physical Needs
 Do you have a balanced day of rest,
relaxation, and activity?
 Do you hug people?
 Do you have physical contact with other
people?
 Do you go to the doctor?
Emotional Needs
 There are 5 primary
feelings
 Anger
 Sadness
 Happiness
 Fear
 Loneliness
 Mad
 Sad
 Glad
 Afraid
 Alone
Identifying & Expressing
Your Feelings
 Do you know your emotional
needs?
 Do you honor your feelings?
 Do you express feelings?
 Do you implode or explode?
 Do you have safe people to talk
about your feelings?
You Are Important!!!
There will only be one of you at all
times….
Fearlessly have the courage to be
yourself!

Chapter 7 manage your stress

  • 1.
    MANAGE YOUR STRESS (Orit will manage you!)
  • 2.
    Stress is Normal Everyone deals with stress  It is normal, natural, and necessary  As with everything…it is important to know how to cope with it.
  • 3.
    What is Stress? The arousal of the mind & the body in response to the demands made upon you  Physical demands  Psychological demands  Environmental demands
  • 4.
    There are TwoTypes of Stress  Internal Stress – the pressure that you internally place upon yourself when you experience the stressful event  External Stress - the outside pressures that create a stressful environment
  • 5.
    Types of Stressors Major Life Events SuchAs:  Marriage  Divorce  Move  Children  Job Change  Illness
  • 6.
    Daily Events  Conflict Deadlines  Being asked to do more for less  Multi-tasking
  • 7.
    Physiological Responses  Fightor flight  Sweating  Increased Heart Rate  Increased Blood Pressure  Increased Muscle Tension  Increased Respiration  Indigestion difficulties
  • 8.
    Psychological Reactions  Depression Guilt  Anxiety  Perfectionism  Anger  Sadness
  • 9.
    You Know YouAre In Trouble  Headaches  Decreased Productivity  Intermittent Sleep Disturbance  Fatigue or Lethargy  Frequent Illness or Absences fromWork  Depression  Intermittent Explosive Disorder
  • 10.
    If You FindYourself Saying  I can’t get out of bed  I can’t relax  I don’t enjoy life  I am procrastinating about everything  Everything gets on my nerves
  • 11.
    Or If YouRun on Automatic  Do you multitask?  Do you take care of others first?  Are you constantly thinking of the next activity?
  • 12.
    You know youare stressed if…………  You are too tired to brush or floss your teeth  You are too bust to exercise  You go to bed without washing your face  You forget your thoughts
  • 13.
    Your Six Needs Emotional  Social  Intellectual  Spiritual  Physical  Recreational
  • 14.
    How do YouCombat Stress? Attend to Your Physical needs.  Get 7-8 hours of sleep  Learn how to balance your body  Find ways to replenish yourself  Put rest and relaxation into your day
  • 15.
    Your Physical Needs Do you have a balanced day of rest, relaxation, and activity?  Do you hug people?  Do you have physical contact with other people?  Do you go to the doctor?
  • 16.
    Emotional Needs  Thereare 5 primary feelings  Anger  Sadness  Happiness  Fear  Loneliness  Mad  Sad  Glad  Afraid  Alone
  • 17.
    Identifying & Expressing YourFeelings  Do you know your emotional needs?  Do you honor your feelings?  Do you express feelings?  Do you implode or explode?  Do you have safe people to talk about your feelings?
  • 18.
    You Are Important!!! Therewill only be one of you at all times…. Fearlessly have the courage to be yourself!