Your Social Media…You
Social media has become a part of our everyday lives. Our friends and families want us to join Facebook to keep up
the latest information about kids, vacations, photographs and events. Current and former coworkers, clients and
vendors look for us on LinkedIn to maintain that business relationship regardless of our current job situation. And
Twitter, well Twitter is a unique experience for every user with opportunities to learn, educate and listen.

There are challenges and opportunities that exist for any social media. The question you have to ask yourself, is
what do I miss if I choose not to participate and what do I gain or miss by participating? Social Media will be with
us until the next great wave comes along. Below are suggestions to attempt to stay safe within the online world,
places to go to for help and understanding of the media and new opportunities that continue to grow within the
social media environment.


                                            Important Considerations
 1. Use appropriate photo (Profile section)                4. Include your maiden or former married
       • Professional dress                                    name (Profile section)
       • Professional demeanor                             5. Utilize and participate in groups (Groups or
 2. Get recommended (Profile section)                          Search section)
       • Former colleagues/bosses
                                                                  • Learn from others experience
       • Vendors
                                                                  • Increases your credibility
       • Clients
 3. Complete information (Profile section)
                                                           6. Customize your URL’s (Profile section)
       • Education                                                • Work
       • Employment history                                       • Personal
                                            Additional LinkedIn Help
 • LinkedIn for Dummies
       o www.dummies.com
 • LinkedIn Learning Center                                • LinkedIn Blog
       o http://learn.linkedin.com/                               o http://blog.linkedin.com/


                                            Common Facebook Mistakes
 1. Ignoring security settings                                5. Allowing access to photos
        o Set these first                                            o Review your security settings, you never
        o Have a friend review your account to ensure                   know who is looking
           you are comfortable with settings                         o Remove pictures that even have the potential
 2. Accepting everyone as a friend                                      to cause problems
        o Build slowly and safely                             6. Tagging others in photos
        o You can always add, it can be harder to                     o   Ask before you tag or name someone in a
           remove someone                                                 photo
 3. Friends from work                                                 o   Check often for photos you are tagged in
        o Be sure you are comfortable with work               7. Using personal for business
           people seeing your pictures and activities as              o   Keep personal and business separate. The
           well as your friends’ pictures and activities                  information is directed toward different
 4. Becoming addicted                                                     audiences
        o Set your priorities and stick to them, it is        8. Negatively discussing job or coworkers
           very easy to lose track of time                            o   Save the negativity for a phone call or face-
        o Be selective on how much and when you                           to-face discussion, or better yet, skip it all
           post information and respond to others                         together
Additional Facebook Help
•   Facebook Help
       o http://www.facebook.com/help/
•   Facebook for Dummies                                     •     Facebook Blog
       o http://www.dummies.com                                       o http://blog.facebook.com/




                                           Eight Tweeting Suggestions
1. Be positive – avoid negative messages                     7. Allow others to know you
2. Be direct                                                    • People like the connections
3. Define your purpose                                          • Share with care
   • Personal                                                8. Relax and enjoy the ride
   • Business                                                   • Twitter can be a great learning and interacting
4. What are you doing right now                                     opportunity
   • Avoid the trivial                                          • Take the time to learn this media for the most
   • Make it pertinent to others                                    effective use
5. Learn from others
6. Avoid negative work comments
                                                    Twitter Help
Twitter for Dummies
   • http://www.dummies.com
Twitter Dictionary
   • http://www.webopedia.com/quick_ref/Twitter_Dictionary_Guide.asp
Twitter Blog
   • http://blog.twitter.com/

                                                  Upcoming Players
Focus – Answers to business decisions
   • Research topics pertinent to your business              Flickr – Share and manage photos and video
           o http://www.focus.com/                               • Making content available to who you want to
Netparty – Networking for young professionals                         share with
   • Networking events in a party atmosphere                              o http://www.flickr.com/
           o http://www.netparty.com/                        Ning – Chinese for “Peace”
Xing – Global networking                                         • Create your own social media site
   • Currently Europe and Asia focused                                    o http://www.ning.com/
       https://www.xing.com/




                                                 Kristy Vetter
                                  Directly Speaking Seminars and Coaching
                 kristy@directlyspeakingseminars.com www.directlyspeakingseminars.com
                                    http://www.linkedin.com/in/kristyvetter
                                                 816-868-8415

Your Social Media You! Handout

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    Your Social Media…You Socialmedia has become a part of our everyday lives. Our friends and families want us to join Facebook to keep up the latest information about kids, vacations, photographs and events. Current and former coworkers, clients and vendors look for us on LinkedIn to maintain that business relationship regardless of our current job situation. And Twitter, well Twitter is a unique experience for every user with opportunities to learn, educate and listen. There are challenges and opportunities that exist for any social media. The question you have to ask yourself, is what do I miss if I choose not to participate and what do I gain or miss by participating? Social Media will be with us until the next great wave comes along. Below are suggestions to attempt to stay safe within the online world, places to go to for help and understanding of the media and new opportunities that continue to grow within the social media environment. Important Considerations 1. Use appropriate photo (Profile section) 4. Include your maiden or former married • Professional dress name (Profile section) • Professional demeanor 5. Utilize and participate in groups (Groups or 2. Get recommended (Profile section) Search section) • Former colleagues/bosses • Learn from others experience • Vendors • Increases your credibility • Clients 3. Complete information (Profile section) 6. Customize your URL’s (Profile section) • Education • Work • Employment history • Personal Additional LinkedIn Help • LinkedIn for Dummies o www.dummies.com • LinkedIn Learning Center • LinkedIn Blog o http://learn.linkedin.com/ o http://blog.linkedin.com/ Common Facebook Mistakes 1. Ignoring security settings 5. Allowing access to photos o Set these first o Review your security settings, you never o Have a friend review your account to ensure know who is looking you are comfortable with settings o Remove pictures that even have the potential 2. Accepting everyone as a friend to cause problems o Build slowly and safely 6. Tagging others in photos o You can always add, it can be harder to o Ask before you tag or name someone in a remove someone photo 3. Friends from work o Check often for photos you are tagged in o Be sure you are comfortable with work 7. Using personal for business people seeing your pictures and activities as o Keep personal and business separate. The well as your friends’ pictures and activities information is directed toward different 4. Becoming addicted audiences o Set your priorities and stick to them, it is 8. Negatively discussing job or coworkers very easy to lose track of time o Save the negativity for a phone call or face- o Be selective on how much and when you to-face discussion, or better yet, skip it all post information and respond to others together
  • 2.
    Additional Facebook Help • Facebook Help o http://www.facebook.com/help/ • Facebook for Dummies • Facebook Blog o http://www.dummies.com o http://blog.facebook.com/ Eight Tweeting Suggestions 1. Be positive – avoid negative messages 7. Allow others to know you 2. Be direct • People like the connections 3. Define your purpose • Share with care • Personal 8. Relax and enjoy the ride • Business • Twitter can be a great learning and interacting 4. What are you doing right now opportunity • Avoid the trivial • Take the time to learn this media for the most • Make it pertinent to others effective use 5. Learn from others 6. Avoid negative work comments Twitter Help Twitter for Dummies • http://www.dummies.com Twitter Dictionary • http://www.webopedia.com/quick_ref/Twitter_Dictionary_Guide.asp Twitter Blog • http://blog.twitter.com/ Upcoming Players Focus – Answers to business decisions • Research topics pertinent to your business Flickr – Share and manage photos and video o http://www.focus.com/ • Making content available to who you want to Netparty – Networking for young professionals share with • Networking events in a party atmosphere o http://www.flickr.com/ o http://www.netparty.com/ Ning – Chinese for “Peace” Xing – Global networking • Create your own social media site • Currently Europe and Asia focused o http://www.ning.com/ https://www.xing.com/ Kristy Vetter Directly Speaking Seminars and Coaching kristy@directlyspeakingseminars.com www.directlyspeakingseminars.com http://www.linkedin.com/in/kristyvetter 816-868-8415