This document provides tips and guidance on various business communication and managerial skills. It discusses the importance of communication, language skills, body language, assertiveness, presentation skills, attitude, leadership, motivation, and other soft skills. The key aspects covered include defining communication, the elements and forms of effective communication, tips for public speaking, using language clearly and respectfully, reading and presenting body language, being assertive without aggression, giving polished presentations, maintaining a positive attitude, the characteristics and skills of strong leaders, and motivating teams.
1. Research your audience to understand their needs, concerns, and objections so you can address them specifically in your speech.
2. Identify the goals and objectives of your audience so you can show how your speech will help them achieve their goals.
3. Consider demographics of your audience like size, knowledge level, attitudes, ages, genders, and cultural factors so you can tailor your speech appropriately.
In this presentation, you will get to learn about rules to follow while communicating with someone, and how to make communication effective. Here I have covered the tips and tricks for easy and effective communication to make your life (specially in corporate) easier.
Communication is an integral part of human being. Without this life couldn't be easier. Here is some skills to develop and improve your communication for better presentation.
This document discusses communication skills and effective communication. It covers various topics such as the importance of communication, different types of communication, barriers to effective communication, and tips for overcoming those barriers. It emphasizes the importance of communication for expressing information and understanding others. Both verbal and non-verbal communication are important. Effective communication involves being clear, concise, complete, correct, and considering your audience. Open-ended questions are generally better than closed-ended questions at facilitating dialogue. Public speaking requires skills like planning, using positive non-verbal cues, and confidence. Different communication styles should be considered depending on the individual. Social media also plays a role in modern communication.
Success Interview Body Language Tips.pdfTerry Didcott
Success Interview Body Language Tips: Use body language hacks to give yourself a better chance of success at an interview for a job or other opportunity. Learn how to impress an interviewer through positive gestures, posture and the appearance of confidence, self assuredness and creativity by the way you present yourself and make a good impression.
These great success interview body language tips are essential for impressing at any interview for any reason, be it a new job, a promotion within your company, asking for a bank loan or seling a product or service to someone.
Effective communication skills are important for leadership. Communication involves transmitting information, ideas, and attitudes between people through various methods including speaking, writing, body language, and other visual cues. There are also barriers that can interfere with effective communication such as noise, assumptions, language differences, and poor listening skills. Proper communication requires understanding different components like verbal messages conveyed through words, paraverbal messages in how words are said, and nonverbal messages through body movements.
Communication is the act of transferring information through speech, the written word, or more subtle non-verbal ways
R Ravindra Kumar has 30 years of experience working in worlds largest Life Insurance Company LIC OF INDIA in India and abroad at Fiji Islands. Presently working as Regional Manager in LIC OF INDIA.
As a Coach, Facilitator, Manager and Trainer, He has been Helping Professionals
Achieve their Career Goals since the 1999.. He is having much passion and interest
coaching to Sales Executive, and Management professionals from corporations, as he
is working with employees from all levels of organizations and Internationally Educated
Professionals, as well as students and graduates from colleges and universities.
Throughout his career, he worked with clients of outplacement and career transition
firms, colleges, and community employment centers. In his work, has provided
Coaching and consulting to clients of all levels of organizations - Vice President to
Employees beginning their careers.
Widely travelled Sri Ravindra Kumar is a multilingual leader and Spiritual Mentor with a
wide experience in multi-cultural and global environment. Reading, music,creative
presentations and development of human resources are his areas of special interest.
The document discusses interpersonal communication and the skills needed for effective interpersonal interactions. It defines interpersonal communication as speaking and listening to another person. It describes the Johari window model which represents the open, blind, hidden, and unknown aspects of one's awareness and how they relate to intrapersonal and interpersonal communication. The document outlines several important interpersonal communication skills such as self-awareness, listening, understanding nonverbal cues, giving and receiving feedback, asking questions, being assertive, disagreeing agreeably, and closing interactions positively.
1. Research your audience to understand their needs, concerns, and objections so you can address them specifically in your speech.
2. Identify the goals and objectives of your audience so you can show how your speech will help them achieve their goals.
3. Consider demographics of your audience like size, knowledge level, attitudes, ages, genders, and cultural factors so you can tailor your speech appropriately.
In this presentation, you will get to learn about rules to follow while communicating with someone, and how to make communication effective. Here I have covered the tips and tricks for easy and effective communication to make your life (specially in corporate) easier.
Communication is an integral part of human being. Without this life couldn't be easier. Here is some skills to develop and improve your communication for better presentation.
This document discusses communication skills and effective communication. It covers various topics such as the importance of communication, different types of communication, barriers to effective communication, and tips for overcoming those barriers. It emphasizes the importance of communication for expressing information and understanding others. Both verbal and non-verbal communication are important. Effective communication involves being clear, concise, complete, correct, and considering your audience. Open-ended questions are generally better than closed-ended questions at facilitating dialogue. Public speaking requires skills like planning, using positive non-verbal cues, and confidence. Different communication styles should be considered depending on the individual. Social media also plays a role in modern communication.
Success Interview Body Language Tips.pdfTerry Didcott
Success Interview Body Language Tips: Use body language hacks to give yourself a better chance of success at an interview for a job or other opportunity. Learn how to impress an interviewer through positive gestures, posture and the appearance of confidence, self assuredness and creativity by the way you present yourself and make a good impression.
These great success interview body language tips are essential for impressing at any interview for any reason, be it a new job, a promotion within your company, asking for a bank loan or seling a product or service to someone.
Effective communication skills are important for leadership. Communication involves transmitting information, ideas, and attitudes between people through various methods including speaking, writing, body language, and other visual cues. There are also barriers that can interfere with effective communication such as noise, assumptions, language differences, and poor listening skills. Proper communication requires understanding different components like verbal messages conveyed through words, paraverbal messages in how words are said, and nonverbal messages through body movements.
Communication is the act of transferring information through speech, the written word, or more subtle non-verbal ways
R Ravindra Kumar has 30 years of experience working in worlds largest Life Insurance Company LIC OF INDIA in India and abroad at Fiji Islands. Presently working as Regional Manager in LIC OF INDIA.
As a Coach, Facilitator, Manager and Trainer, He has been Helping Professionals
Achieve their Career Goals since the 1999.. He is having much passion and interest
coaching to Sales Executive, and Management professionals from corporations, as he
is working with employees from all levels of organizations and Internationally Educated
Professionals, as well as students and graduates from colleges and universities.
Throughout his career, he worked with clients of outplacement and career transition
firms, colleges, and community employment centers. In his work, has provided
Coaching and consulting to clients of all levels of organizations - Vice President to
Employees beginning their careers.
Widely travelled Sri Ravindra Kumar is a multilingual leader and Spiritual Mentor with a
wide experience in multi-cultural and global environment. Reading, music,creative
presentations and development of human resources are his areas of special interest.
The document discusses interpersonal communication and the skills needed for effective interpersonal interactions. It defines interpersonal communication as speaking and listening to another person. It describes the Johari window model which represents the open, blind, hidden, and unknown aspects of one's awareness and how they relate to intrapersonal and interpersonal communication. The document outlines several important interpersonal communication skills such as self-awareness, listening, understanding nonverbal cues, giving and receiving feedback, asking questions, being assertive, disagreeing agreeably, and closing interactions positively.
PUBLIC SPEAKING MASTERY - 7 Steps to become a world class speakerSumitKaushik74
Public speaking is a skill in communication
which is valued across business and
personal aspects of life. Many people fear
public speaking, but it is a form of
communication that can add real value to
your personal and business development as
well as building esteem or self worth.
A lack of confidence is
the main cause for people to shy away from
speaking in public. This may hold them back
from progressing in certain aspects of their
life, be it work or personal. Some may hold
off from promotion or certain avenues of
work due the fear of presenting. Confidence
comes as a result of two important factors:
mindset and skillset.
Benefits of good public speaking:
Opens up new career opportunities
for you.
Sets you apart from your
competition
Positions you as an authority.
Improves internal communication.
Establish greater credibility
Increased self-confidence
Increased communication skills
Greater social influence
Enhanced ability to listen
Improved memory
Greater control over emotions and
body language.
Enhanced persuasion ability.
So, it is a very important skill to master for multiple benefits. In this guide we will cover that in 7 easy steps..........
Learn the uncommon skill that make your presentation more attractive to your audience. A few things to add or remove from your presentation to make it highly professional
Introduction to basic communications for secondary school studentsZAINI ABDUL WAHAB
This document provides guidance on effective communication. It discusses communication as an exchange of meaning between an active speaker and listener, involving both verbal and nonverbal elements. Effective communication requires understanding different styles of receiving and processing information. Both language proficiency and avoiding unnecessary jargon or technical terms are important. Nonverbal communication such as tone of voice, body language, and facial expressions also significantly impact delivery of one's message. Cultivating attentive listening skills and adapting to audiences are keys to successful communication.
This document discusses interpersonal communication and provides tips to improve communication skills. It notes that interpersonal communication involves message sending and receiving between two or more people. The quality of communication affects work and life quality. Effective communication skills like conversation, listening, body language and emotional awareness can be learned. The document then provides guidance on various aspects of communication like avoiding unnecessary details, smiling, speaking clearly, and listening actively. It emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and feedback in overcoming barriers to successful interpersonal communication.
The document discusses various aspects of communication including the definition of communication, the communication process, different styles of communication such as passive, aggressive and assertive, the importance of listening, and different types of communication such as verbal, non-verbal and written. It provides details on each of these topics, including the elements and benefits of different communication styles and types. The overall aim is to enhance the reader's understanding of effective communication.
Interpersonal skills & entrepreneur by muhammad shahbaz atishM Shahbaz Atish
Interpersonal Skills presented by Muhammad shahbaz Atish
Interpersonal Skills is intended to provide the basis for class discussion and relatively effective and ineffective situation of a management and personality developments . This slide can be use in modules on decision making, relationship of management, learning and performance.
The skills used by a person to properly interact with others. In the business domain,
the term generally refers to an employee's ability to get along with others while getting the job done.
Interpersonal skills include everything from communication and listening skills to attitude and deportment.
Good interpersonal skills are a requirement for many positions in an organization.
The document discusses communication and presentation skills. It notes that while hard work and good ideas are important, the ability to effectively express those ideas to others is also critical. Many speakers lack confidence and skills to give effective presentations, putting audiences to sleep. Good presentation skills include maintaining eye contact with the audience, using positive body language, speaking clearly, preparing content tailored to the audience, and handling questions confidently without arguing. Mastering these techniques can help presenters engage audiences and accomplish their objectives.
This document provides tips for preparing and delivering an effective speech. It discusses the importance of having a strong introduction that gets the audience's attention and establishes credibility. The body of the speech should answer questions the audience likely has and prioritize key points. Effective delivery requires practicing multiple times, maintaining eye contact with the audience, and using cue cards strategically. The conclusion should signal that the speech is ending and reinforce the central idea. Humor can engage audiences if used appropriately for the context and audience. Body language also significantly impacts delivery, so speakers should communicate positively and naturally.
This document discusses the importance of communication skills, including both oral and written communication. It covers listening skills, barriers to effective listening, techniques for effective listening, non-verbal communication skills, making effective telephone calls, and taking telephone messages. The key points are that communication skills are important for getting and doing well in a job, various forms of oral communication are used in the workplace, and both speaking and listening skills need to be developed.
The document provides information on various aspects of communication skills. It discusses the importance of communication and defines communication as the sharing of information between individuals to reach a common understanding. It outlines different elements of communication including verbal, non-verbal, written and telephone communication. It also discusses perspectives in communication, factors affecting perspectives, and styles of communication including assertive communication.
Body language is non-verbal communication through physical behaviors such as facial expressions, gestures, and posture. It can convey 93% of communication. Effective body language is important for making a positive impression at work and sending clear messages. Forms of non-verbal communication include eye contact, facial expressions, posture, gestures, and clothing and grooming, each of which can signify different meanings that should be considered. The presenter discussed various examples and dos and don'ts of non-verbal communication forms.
The document discusses the history of communication methods from early human transportation of information by foot, ship, and bird to later inventions like the telegraph, radio, television, undersea cables, and satellites. It then provides strategies for effective communication, including developing strong listening skills, understanding barriers to communication, using body language appropriately, asking questions, building trust, and choosing words carefully. Basic communication skills like tone of voice, empathy, and active listening are also addressed.
Effective communication is a skill that can be learned regardless of age, background or experience. With self-confidence and knowledge of basics, one can get their point across. Key aspects of effective communication include choosing the right time and place for discussions, removing distractions, organizing ideas in one's mind beforehand, being clear about the purpose, staying on topic, thanking listeners, speaking articulately without mumbling, using body language like facial expressions and gestures consciously, and listening actively. During conflicts, it is important to listen to others, speak calmly, avoid power struggles and use "I" messages.
This document discusses communication and provides information on key concepts related to communication including content, meaning, process, principles, functions, and barriers. It begins by defining communication and describing the most common ways to communicate including speaking, body language, writing, and visuals. It then covers the basic model of communication and seven principles of communication including completeness, conciseness, consideration, concreteness, clarity, correctness, and courtesy. The document also discusses the functions of communication and barriers to effective communication such as physical, language, psychological, tangible differences, intangible differences, and distortion barriers.
The document provides guidance on improving communication skills, including identifying steps to take responsibility for one's own communication, exploring the use of words, tone of voice, and body language. It discusses techniques for active listening, managing written communication, and ensuring proper communication through establishing rapport and participation. The content also addresses forming effective teams, understanding body language, and developing confidence through proper dressing, posture, and other positive behaviors.
This document discusses personal communication skills and effective communication. It provides tips for establishing rapport through self-confidence, understanding people, enthusiasm, eye contact, and interest in others. Effective communication is critical for careers and personal lives, and requires using a variety of techniques to understand and be understood. Communication is transmitting information from a sender to a receiver through speaking, writing, visual images, and body language. Good communication skills include organizing thoughts, participating in discussions, body language, and listening. Barriers to communication can come from unwillingness to change approaches or lack of confidence. Active listening without distractions is important.
The document discusses effective communication and the communication process. It describes communication as involving a sender who encodes a message and sends it through a channel to a receiver who decodes the message. Good communication requires clear encoding by the sender, including structuring the message for the target audience, and clear decoding by the receiver. Nonverbal cues like eye contact, gestures, facial expressions, and posture also influence effective communication. Feedback from the receiver allows the sender to ensure the message was understood.
The document discusses the importance of self-awareness and effective communication. It introduces the Johari window model for understanding oneself and how others perceive us. It provides tips for effective communication, including active listening, appropriate body language, and dressing professionally. The document emphasizes that first impressions matter and effective communication skills are important for success.
2023 Ngoc 7. Become a master negotiator [Autosaved].pdfk602114110160
This is the presentation of a lecture of Negotiation course in our university. Hope these slides can help you understand more about Negotiation in Business.
Thank you for reading till this line, these slides are very easy to read, however it can have a few pictures on it.
During the defects liability period, the contractor typically has the obligation to repair or replace any defects that arise due to faulty workmanship or materials. It's important for all parties involved to clearly define the defects liability period in the construction contract to avoid disputes and ensure that the project meets the required quality standards.
Negotiation: Navigating the Art and Science
Negotiation is an intricate dance, a delicate interplay of skills, strategies, and communication. Whether it's sealing a business deal, resolving conflicts, or navigating personal relationships, the art of negotiation is a crucial life skill.
1. Understanding the Basics:
Negotiation is not merely about getting what you want. It involves finding common ground, fostering relationships, and creating win-win scenarios. The process typically unfolds in stages - preparation, discussion, clarification of goals, negotiation, and agreement. Each stage demands attention and finesse.
2. Preparation is Key:
Successful negotiators invest time in understanding their own objectives and the other party's interests. Thorough research, knowledge of market conditions, and awareness of potential obstacles empower negotiators to make informed decisions.
3. Building Rapport:
The foundation of successful negotiation often lies in establishing rapport. Trust is the currency of negotiation. Open communication and active listening build a conducive environment for fruitful discussions.
4. The Power of Active Listening:
Listening goes beyond hearing words; it involves understanding the underlying emotions and needs. Active listening promotes empathy and enables negotiators to address concerns effectively.
5. Strategies and Tactics:
Negotiation strategies vary based on the context. Distributive negotiation, where resources are fixed, demands a competitive approach. Integrative negotiation, on the other hand, seeks collaborative solutions that benefit all parties.
6. BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement):
Understanding your BATNA provides a safety net. It's your fallback position if negotiations fail. A strong BATNA strengthens your position and gives you the confidence to walk away if necessary.
7. Overcoming Obstacles:
Negotiations often encounter obstacles. Effective negotiators view challenges as opportunities. Whether it's handling conflict, managing emotions, or navigating cultural differences, adaptability is crucial.
8. Cultural Considerations:
In a globalized world, negotiations often transcend cultural boundaries. Awareness of cultural nuances, customs, and communication styles is vital for building bridges and avoiding misunderstandings.
This document outlines 10 important communication skills: listening actively, using body language and tone, being clear and concise, showing friendliness, having confidence, empathizing with others, being open-minded, showing respect, giving constructive feedback, and choosing the right communication medium. Listening is identified as one of the most important skills, involving paying close attention, asking questions, and restating to confirm understanding. Nonverbal communication and using a friendly tone are also emphasized as ways to encourage open communication.
Originally presented at XP2024 Bolzano
While agile has entered the post-mainstream age, possibly losing its mojo along the way, the rise of remote working is dealing a more severe blow than its industrialization.
In this talk we'll have a look to the cumulative effect of the constraints of a remote working environment and of the common countermeasures.
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Public speaking is a skill in communication
which is valued across business and
personal aspects of life. Many people fear
public speaking, but it is a form of
communication that can add real value to
your personal and business development as
well as building esteem or self worth.
A lack of confidence is
the main cause for people to shy away from
speaking in public. This may hold them back
from progressing in certain aspects of their
life, be it work or personal. Some may hold
off from promotion or certain avenues of
work due the fear of presenting. Confidence
comes as a result of two important factors:
mindset and skillset.
Benefits of good public speaking:
Opens up new career opportunities
for you.
Sets you apart from your
competition
Positions you as an authority.
Improves internal communication.
Establish greater credibility
Increased self-confidence
Increased communication skills
Greater social influence
Enhanced ability to listen
Improved memory
Greater control over emotions and
body language.
Enhanced persuasion ability.
So, it is a very important skill to master for multiple benefits. In this guide we will cover that in 7 easy steps..........
Learn the uncommon skill that make your presentation more attractive to your audience. A few things to add or remove from your presentation to make it highly professional
Introduction to basic communications for secondary school studentsZAINI ABDUL WAHAB
This document provides guidance on effective communication. It discusses communication as an exchange of meaning between an active speaker and listener, involving both verbal and nonverbal elements. Effective communication requires understanding different styles of receiving and processing information. Both language proficiency and avoiding unnecessary jargon or technical terms are important. Nonverbal communication such as tone of voice, body language, and facial expressions also significantly impact delivery of one's message. Cultivating attentive listening skills and adapting to audiences are keys to successful communication.
This document discusses interpersonal communication and provides tips to improve communication skills. It notes that interpersonal communication involves message sending and receiving between two or more people. The quality of communication affects work and life quality. Effective communication skills like conversation, listening, body language and emotional awareness can be learned. The document then provides guidance on various aspects of communication like avoiding unnecessary details, smiling, speaking clearly, and listening actively. It emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and feedback in overcoming barriers to successful interpersonal communication.
The document discusses various aspects of communication including the definition of communication, the communication process, different styles of communication such as passive, aggressive and assertive, the importance of listening, and different types of communication such as verbal, non-verbal and written. It provides details on each of these topics, including the elements and benefits of different communication styles and types. The overall aim is to enhance the reader's understanding of effective communication.
Interpersonal skills & entrepreneur by muhammad shahbaz atishM Shahbaz Atish
Interpersonal Skills presented by Muhammad shahbaz Atish
Interpersonal Skills is intended to provide the basis for class discussion and relatively effective and ineffective situation of a management and personality developments . This slide can be use in modules on decision making, relationship of management, learning and performance.
The skills used by a person to properly interact with others. In the business domain,
the term generally refers to an employee's ability to get along with others while getting the job done.
Interpersonal skills include everything from communication and listening skills to attitude and deportment.
Good interpersonal skills are a requirement for many positions in an organization.
The document discusses communication and presentation skills. It notes that while hard work and good ideas are important, the ability to effectively express those ideas to others is also critical. Many speakers lack confidence and skills to give effective presentations, putting audiences to sleep. Good presentation skills include maintaining eye contact with the audience, using positive body language, speaking clearly, preparing content tailored to the audience, and handling questions confidently without arguing. Mastering these techniques can help presenters engage audiences and accomplish their objectives.
This document provides tips for preparing and delivering an effective speech. It discusses the importance of having a strong introduction that gets the audience's attention and establishes credibility. The body of the speech should answer questions the audience likely has and prioritize key points. Effective delivery requires practicing multiple times, maintaining eye contact with the audience, and using cue cards strategically. The conclusion should signal that the speech is ending and reinforce the central idea. Humor can engage audiences if used appropriately for the context and audience. Body language also significantly impacts delivery, so speakers should communicate positively and naturally.
This document discusses the importance of communication skills, including both oral and written communication. It covers listening skills, barriers to effective listening, techniques for effective listening, non-verbal communication skills, making effective telephone calls, and taking telephone messages. The key points are that communication skills are important for getting and doing well in a job, various forms of oral communication are used in the workplace, and both speaking and listening skills need to be developed.
The document provides information on various aspects of communication skills. It discusses the importance of communication and defines communication as the sharing of information between individuals to reach a common understanding. It outlines different elements of communication including verbal, non-verbal, written and telephone communication. It also discusses perspectives in communication, factors affecting perspectives, and styles of communication including assertive communication.
Body language is non-verbal communication through physical behaviors such as facial expressions, gestures, and posture. It can convey 93% of communication. Effective body language is important for making a positive impression at work and sending clear messages. Forms of non-verbal communication include eye contact, facial expressions, posture, gestures, and clothing and grooming, each of which can signify different meanings that should be considered. The presenter discussed various examples and dos and don'ts of non-verbal communication forms.
The document discusses the history of communication methods from early human transportation of information by foot, ship, and bird to later inventions like the telegraph, radio, television, undersea cables, and satellites. It then provides strategies for effective communication, including developing strong listening skills, understanding barriers to communication, using body language appropriately, asking questions, building trust, and choosing words carefully. Basic communication skills like tone of voice, empathy, and active listening are also addressed.
Effective communication is a skill that can be learned regardless of age, background or experience. With self-confidence and knowledge of basics, one can get their point across. Key aspects of effective communication include choosing the right time and place for discussions, removing distractions, organizing ideas in one's mind beforehand, being clear about the purpose, staying on topic, thanking listeners, speaking articulately without mumbling, using body language like facial expressions and gestures consciously, and listening actively. During conflicts, it is important to listen to others, speak calmly, avoid power struggles and use "I" messages.
This document discusses communication and provides information on key concepts related to communication including content, meaning, process, principles, functions, and barriers. It begins by defining communication and describing the most common ways to communicate including speaking, body language, writing, and visuals. It then covers the basic model of communication and seven principles of communication including completeness, conciseness, consideration, concreteness, clarity, correctness, and courtesy. The document also discusses the functions of communication and barriers to effective communication such as physical, language, psychological, tangible differences, intangible differences, and distortion barriers.
The document provides guidance on improving communication skills, including identifying steps to take responsibility for one's own communication, exploring the use of words, tone of voice, and body language. It discusses techniques for active listening, managing written communication, and ensuring proper communication through establishing rapport and participation. The content also addresses forming effective teams, understanding body language, and developing confidence through proper dressing, posture, and other positive behaviors.
This document discusses personal communication skills and effective communication. It provides tips for establishing rapport through self-confidence, understanding people, enthusiasm, eye contact, and interest in others. Effective communication is critical for careers and personal lives, and requires using a variety of techniques to understand and be understood. Communication is transmitting information from a sender to a receiver through speaking, writing, visual images, and body language. Good communication skills include organizing thoughts, participating in discussions, body language, and listening. Barriers to communication can come from unwillingness to change approaches or lack of confidence. Active listening without distractions is important.
The document discusses effective communication and the communication process. It describes communication as involving a sender who encodes a message and sends it through a channel to a receiver who decodes the message. Good communication requires clear encoding by the sender, including structuring the message for the target audience, and clear decoding by the receiver. Nonverbal cues like eye contact, gestures, facial expressions, and posture also influence effective communication. Feedback from the receiver allows the sender to ensure the message was understood.
The document discusses the importance of self-awareness and effective communication. It introduces the Johari window model for understanding oneself and how others perceive us. It provides tips for effective communication, including active listening, appropriate body language, and dressing professionally. The document emphasizes that first impressions matter and effective communication skills are important for success.
2023 Ngoc 7. Become a master negotiator [Autosaved].pdfk602114110160
This is the presentation of a lecture of Negotiation course in our university. Hope these slides can help you understand more about Negotiation in Business.
Thank you for reading till this line, these slides are very easy to read, however it can have a few pictures on it.
During the defects liability period, the contractor typically has the obligation to repair or replace any defects that arise due to faulty workmanship or materials. It's important for all parties involved to clearly define the defects liability period in the construction contract to avoid disputes and ensure that the project meets the required quality standards.
Negotiation: Navigating the Art and Science
Negotiation is an intricate dance, a delicate interplay of skills, strategies, and communication. Whether it's sealing a business deal, resolving conflicts, or navigating personal relationships, the art of negotiation is a crucial life skill.
1. Understanding the Basics:
Negotiation is not merely about getting what you want. It involves finding common ground, fostering relationships, and creating win-win scenarios. The process typically unfolds in stages - preparation, discussion, clarification of goals, negotiation, and agreement. Each stage demands attention and finesse.
2. Preparation is Key:
Successful negotiators invest time in understanding their own objectives and the other party's interests. Thorough research, knowledge of market conditions, and awareness of potential obstacles empower negotiators to make informed decisions.
3. Building Rapport:
The foundation of successful negotiation often lies in establishing rapport. Trust is the currency of negotiation. Open communication and active listening build a conducive environment for fruitful discussions.
4. The Power of Active Listening:
Listening goes beyond hearing words; it involves understanding the underlying emotions and needs. Active listening promotes empathy and enables negotiators to address concerns effectively.
5. Strategies and Tactics:
Negotiation strategies vary based on the context. Distributive negotiation, where resources are fixed, demands a competitive approach. Integrative negotiation, on the other hand, seeks collaborative solutions that benefit all parties.
6. BATNA (Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement):
Understanding your BATNA provides a safety net. It's your fallback position if negotiations fail. A strong BATNA strengthens your position and gives you the confidence to walk away if necessary.
7. Overcoming Obstacles:
Negotiations often encounter obstacles. Effective negotiators view challenges as opportunities. Whether it's handling conflict, managing emotions, or navigating cultural differences, adaptability is crucial.
8. Cultural Considerations:
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This document outlines 10 important communication skills: listening actively, using body language and tone, being clear and concise, showing friendliness, having confidence, empathizing with others, being open-minded, showing respect, giving constructive feedback, and choosing the right communication medium. Listening is identified as one of the most important skills, involving paying close attention, asking questions, and restating to confirm understanding. Nonverbal communication and using a friendly tone are also emphasized as ways to encourage open communication.
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Business Communincation and basic managerial skills .pdf
1. 1
ESSENTIAL ‘TIPS’
ON THE
BASIC ELEMENTS OF
‘BUSINESS COMMUNICATION’
&
‘BASIC MANAGERIAL SKILLS’
Col Sunil Brijkrishan
Consultant: ‘Soft Skills’ and ‘Behavioural Skills’
Faculty: Management Studies
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CONTENTS
Page No.
The Art and Marvels of Public Speaking 3
- Communicating Skills -
Language 4
Body Language 6
Assertiveness 8
Presentation Skills 9
Attitude 10
Leadership and Motivation 13
Personality 17
‘Self-Belief’ 18
Teamwork and Team building 20
Time Management 21
An Obituary printed in the London Times 23
How to beat dirty negotiating tactics? 10 tips 24
E-mail from the boss - Mail sent by Narayan Murthy 27
to all Infosys staff
On Leadership 29
Leadership Tips 30
6 'Soft' Skills you need for Success 32
Power of Positive Talk 35
How Do We Build Positive Self-Esteem? 38
Activity is not the same as Accomplishment 39
Tips to help you get along Better with ‘Critical’ People 40
The Art of ‘Staying Positive” 43
The Johari Window 45
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THE ART AND MARVELS OF PUBLIC SPEAKING
(COMMUNICATING SKILLS)
What Communication actually is?
Communication is derived from the Latin word ‘communis’ which means “to share”, that
is, sharing of ideas, concepts, feelings and emotions.
It is much more than understanding of the spoken or written language. It is a composite of
symbols, gestures and illustrations that accompany either the spoken or the written word.
It is a two-way process in which there is an exchange and progression of ideas towards a
mutually accepted direction or goal.
The basic elements of communication are:
1. Sender/Encoder/Receiver.
2. Receiver/Decoder/Listener.
3. Message.
4. Medium and ……
5. Feedback.
Communication effectiveness is dependent upon the following message forms:
Words :
– Vocabulary
– Language
– Phrases
– Sentence structure
– Sentence clarity
Para language : Characteristics of the voice such as:
– Rate of speech (speed)
– Diction
– Tone
– Rhythm
– Volume
To be a good Communicator, you need to follow the three pillars of:
• L - Listen
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• L - Learn
• C - Communicate
LANGUAGE
The Rule of the ‘6 C’s
In any business transaction, adherence to the 6 C’s helps the sender in transmitting his
message with ease and accuracy. You need to be . . . .
1. Clear : Unambiguous; without double meaning.
2. Concise : As long as it needs to be. . No longer.
3. Complete : All issues covered with clarity.
4. Correct : Accurate; verifiable; with substance.
5. Courteous : Endearing; positive; tactful; affectionate.
6. Convincing : Believable; trustworthy. No tall claims.
What is the difference between an ‘Argument’ & a ‘Discussion’?
ARGUMENT & DISCUSSION
• Throws heat. Throws light.
• Stems from ego & a closed mind. Comes from an open mind.
• Is an exchange of ignorance. Is an exchange of knowledge
• Is an expression of temper. Is an expression of logic
• Tries to prove WHO is right. Tries to prove WHAT is right.
Why do we Communicate?
• TO INFORM - Most valuable input. The oxygen to any organization.
• TO EDUCATE - Staff needs to be developed, trained and told about the
business and its requirements.
- They need to be educated on how to be effective.
• TO MOTIVATE - You cannot inspire if you do not communicate.
- Your team needs constant encouragement and occasional
censure.
- To make them perform better use persuasive skills.
What are the Forms of Communication.
• Oral - Instant. Only speaking and listening required.
• Written - When organizations are spread. Recorded memory.
• Non Verbal - Sending / Receiving messages by a medium. (Expression,
posture, smile, gestures, stare). Body Language is a
powerful supplement.
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Styles of Verbal Communication
• Blame Game.
• Aggressive style.
• Calculative style.
• Intellectual style.
• Manipulative style.
• Assertive style.
REMEMBER ! !
When you LIE, you lose credibility.
Once you lose CREDIBILITY, even when you say the truth, no one will believe you.
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BODY LANGUAGE
Body language is what the other person sees even before he or she hears a word. It is
those messages that continue to be transmitted unconsciously throughout any encounter.
A person’s body language speaks a message that at times may conflict with his / her words,
but correctly interpreted the unspoken message is the more honest.
People will believe what your body says even if you are trying to use words to say
something different.
You will make the situation worse if you try to hide your body language. What does your
body say when you try to manage people?
How well can you “read” the body language of your boss?
What is the body language of successful executives and how can you learn it?
Context
1. Dress appropriately to the situation.
2. Make the most of your physical appearance through good hairstyling, clean and
well-pressed clothes.
3. Remember! You need not be ‘good looking’ but you surely need to ‘look good’.
4. Your facial expression should reflect the emotion being expressed verbally.
5. As a listener, use your face to show interest. As a speaker, use your face to reinforce
your statements.
6. Make eye contact, but do not stare. Look away when you begin to speak, but look
back at the other person as you finish. Hand the conversation back to him / her.
7. Think of your eyes as a part of your communication tools, just as your voice is.
8. Do not let your posture give a different message than your words. To convey
interest in the speaker, lean forward with your back straight and your arms open.
9. Use appropriate gestures. Nod agreement.
10. Keep an appropriate distance so that the other person is comfortable with the space
between the two of you.
11. Use touch to convey warmth and emotional support as when comforting a bereaved
person, but be wary of touching beyond the firm handshakes in the business world.
12. When speaking, use a resonant tone and moderate volume. Vary the pitch and rate
of speaking.
Reading Body Language.
“The most important thing in Communicating is to hear what isn’t being said”.
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Reading Body Language teaches you to listen with your eyes as well as your ears.
Who decides how good or not so good is your Body Language?
Quite obviously it is your audience – or in other words ‘PEOPLE’.
PEOPLE, therefore is the acronym which actually helps you to make a quick note of your
‘body language’.
Here’s what PEOPLE stands for:
• P - Posture and Gestures.
• E - Eye Contact.
• O - Orientation.
• P - Proximity.
• L - Looks and Appearance.
• E - Expressions of Emotion.
What is the importance of a Good Posture
1. Puts your audience at ease.
2. Helps you personally to stay relaxed.
3. Helps you to stay alert and confident.
What mannerisms do you need to avoid?
1. Swaying from side to side, backwards and forwards.
2. Fiddling with markers, pointers etc.
3. Placing hands in pockets.
4. Meaningless repetitive gestures.
5. Pacing to and fro.
6. Waving arms.
Use the ‘Light House’ Technique
1. Sweep your audience with your eyes staying only 2 - 3 seconds on each person.
2. Avoid looking at one member or at a fixed point on the wall / floor / ceiling.
Facial Expressions / Appearance
1. Smile - It improves your face value.
2. Be enthusiastic.
3. Show sincerity.
4. Dress appropriately.
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ASSERTIVENESS
“To know how to refuse is as important as to know how to consent”.
Assertiveness is nothing but . . . .
1. Confidence translated into Action.
2. Not bullying nor brow beating, but simply allowing convictions to carry
conversation.
Honesty combined with a non-confrontational manner makes ASSERTIVENESS the most
valuable tool in the managerial kit.
Assertiveness ! ! What it comprises.
1. Eye contact.
2. Body posture.
3. Distance.
4. Gestures.
5. Facial expression and tone of voice.
6. Fluency.
7. Timing.
8. Listening.
9. Content.
Always ‘AGREE TO DISAGREE’
WHERE DO YOU NEED TO BE REALLY ASSERTIVE?
1. Dealing with colleagues at work more assertively.
2. Returning faulty goods to a shop or unsatisfactory food in a restaurant.
3. Not responding aggressively in a situation.
4. Being able to speak in front of a group of people or deliver a short speech.
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PRESENTATION SKILLS
A Presentation is what will decide how ‘comfortable’ you are in front of a group of people.
Corporate managers, like you, are expected to make good presentations. Your confidence,
language, presence etc. are all factors which will decide the ‘quality’ of your presentation.
So remember! You need to make an IMPACT.
For that, the ‘BOMBER-B’ acronym will help you overcome stage fear and build
confidence.
What does ‘BOMBER-B’ stand for?
• B – Begin with a BANG.
• O – Make your OPENING remarks.
• M – Convey the MESSAGE.
• B – BRIDGE the gulfs.
• E – Give relevant EXAMPLES.
• R – RECAPITULATE all what you discussed.
• B – End with a BANG.
What does Presentation mean?
1. Confirm the objective(s).
2. Evaluate & understand the audience- their needs, knowledge, expectations.
3. Fine tune the style of the presentation.
4. Brainstorm the content; build ideas & arguments to support objective(s).
5. Anticipate and prepare FAQs.
6. Write speech, design handouts and visual aids.
7. Rehearse the presentation.
8. Condense speech into notes, onto card.
9. Overcome stage fright.
What are the objectives of a Presentation?
1. To establish the objective of your presentation ask yourself the following questions:
2. What is the purpose of this presentation – to inform or reform?
3. What do I want to happen at the end of the presentation?
4. What do I want to achieve through giving the presentation?
5. What action / reaction do I want from the audience as a result of the presentation?
6. What is the one main objective in the presentation and does it contain any
subsidiary goals?
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ATTITUDE
Attitude is a ‘state of mind’.
When the state of mind is ‘positive’, it means the person has a ‘positive attitude’.
Conversely, when the state of mind is ‘negative’, the same person has a ‘negative attitude’.
The three basic components of Attitude are:
1. Emotional - Involves the person’s feelings or affect – positive, neutral or negative –
about an object.
2. Informational - Consists of the beliefs and information the individual has about the
subject. Makes no difference if this info is empirically correct or not.
3. Behavioural - Consists of a person’s tendencies to behave in a particular way
toward an object.
When people get jobs . . . . it is:
85 % because of ATTITUDE, & ONLY 15 % because they are SMART.
How to Recognize people with a Positive Attitude
Positive people are:
1. Caring, Confident, Patient and Humble.
2. They have a high expectation of themselves and others.
3. They anticipate positive outcomes.
Benefits of a Positive Attitude
1. Increases Productivity.
2. Fosters Team Work.
3. Solves Problems.
4. Improves Quality.
5. Makes for a Congenial Atmosphere.
6. Breeds Loyalty.
7. Increases Profit.
8. Fosters better relationships with employers, employees and customers.
9. Reduces Stress.
10. Helps a person to become a contributing member of a society and an asset to the
country.
11. Makes for a pleasing personality.
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Consequences of a Negative Attitude
1. Bitterness.
2. Resentment.
3. Purposeless Life.
4. Ill Health.
5. High Stress level for yourself and others.
How to Build and Maintain a Positive Attitude?
1. Become aware of the Principles that build a positive attitude.
2. Desire to be Positive.
3. Cultivate the discipline and dedication to practice those principles.
The 8 Steps to a Positive Attitude
1. Change focus. Look for the POSITIVE.
2. Make a habit of doing it NOW.
3. Develop an Attitude of Gratitude.
4. Get into a continuous education programme.
5. Build a Positive Self Esteem.
6. Stay away from Negative influences.
7. Learn to like the things that need to be done.
8. Start your day with a POSITIVE.
Why we do not change, even when aware of our Positive Attitude
1. Human nature generally resists change.
2. Change can be stressful.
3. We are comfortable with negativity and do not accept change. We therefore, stay on
with negativity.
FACTORS THAT DETERMINE ATTITUDE
1. Environment.
2. Experience.
3. Education
BENEFITS OF A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
1. Increases Productivity.
2. Fosters Team Work.
3. Solves Problems.
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4. Improves Quality.
5. Makes for a Congenial Atmosphere.
6. Breeds Loyalty.
7. Increases Profit.
8. Fosters better relationships with employers, employees and customers.
9. Reduces Stress.
10. Helps a person to become a contributing member of a society and an asset to the
country.
11. Makes for a pleasing personality.
CONSEQUENCES OF A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE
1. Bitterness.
2. Resentment.
3. Purposeless Life.
4. Ill Health.
5. High Stress level for yourself and others.
THE ‘8’STEPS TO A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
1. Change focus. Look for the POSITIVE.
2. Make a habit of doing it NOW.
3. Develop an Attitude of Gratitude.
4. Get into a continuous education programme.
5. Build a Positive Self Esteem.
6. Stay away from Negative influences.
7. Learn to like the things that need to be done.
8. Start your day with a POSITIVE.
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LEADERSHIP AND MOTIVATION
LEADERSHIP
Is an essential ingredient in effective and successful management. Every manager
therefore, needs to acquire or develop the ‘SKILLS OF LEADERSHIP.’
MORALE
Is a state of mind. It is that tangible force which will move a whole group of men to give
their last ounce to achieve something, without counting the cost to themselves.
‘Myths’ about Leadership.
• Good Leaders are Born and not Made. (Untrue)
(* It is a skill, which can be developed.)
• Leadership is Command and Laying down the law. (Untrue)
(* It is not autocracy.)
• Position Confers Leadership. (Again Untrue)
(* While positions do confirm authority, authority and leadership are not
synonymous.)
• LEADERS ARE NEITHER BORN, NOR MADE; THEY ‘EMERGE’
Effective Leaders
• Effective Leaders are those imbued with a “mix” of desirable and exceptional
characteristics.
• This “mix” gives to each of them a certain ‘charisma’/ ‘mystique’ and elevates
them to a status above ordinary mortals.
• A combination of traits, natural and acquired, thus enables ‘Leaders’ to lead vast
multitudes and accomplish the extraordinary.
What Does a Leader Do?
• He either sets the objectives or clarifies them for his team. If the aims appear to be
vague, he makes them clear and achievable.
• He serves as a role model to his followers.
• He communicates – clearly, succinctly and forcefully.
• He is also a follower. He ‘is able to wear both hats gracefully and also able to
relate both upward and downward’.
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• He fosters, sustains and enhances team spirit. He forges individual efforts into a
result-oriented synergy.
• He resolves conflicts.
To be an efficient Leader, a Manager needs:
• Technical competence sufficient to manage the technology of the job.
• Sufficient knowledge to cover the ‘technical’ aspects of management.
• Ability to get the best work out of those for whose work he is responsible and
accountable.
Characteristics you should exhibit as a Leader.
REMEMBER: To be a good manager, you have to be a Leader.
You can do it this way.
1. Look to the Future
• Have a vision – for your company, your team, yourself. Emphasize the vision –
ALWAYS.
• Teach others about new technologies and innovations in product and process. Let
others also teach you.
• Be a risk taker. Try new ideas. Don’t stagnate.
• Encourage others to innovate. Be influenced when a new idea is brought to you and
seems sound.
2. Be Human
• Be willing to make mistakes, but learn from them. Admit a mistake. Allow others
also to make mistakes. But . . . . . Don’t make the same mistake twice.
• Listen carefully to people. Respond to them, but don’t interrupt. Involve them in
decisions.
• Treat every member as an individual and with respect.
• Do as you tell others to do. Stick to principles. Don’t betray confidences.
3. Work ‘SMART’, not ‘Hard’
• S – Specific
• M – Measurable
• A – Achievable
• R – Realistic
• T – Time Bound
• Be flexible, adaptable. Keep learning and modifying based on new information.
• Be cooperative and encourage cooperation in your team.
• Be a jack of all – conciliator, facilitator, mentor, manager, and evaluator.
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• Acknowledge excellence in others. Don’t feel threatened by it.
• Give credit where it is due – to yourself and to others.
• Get work done w/o procrastination.
4. Develop your team
• Recruit great people – those who are more capable than you.
• Develop those not so naturally talented.
• Encourage teamwork. Measure progress, display results. Celebrate.
• Get people to agree on your values. Reward those who follow and inform those who
don’t, of your dissatisfaction.
• Give feedback on individual and team performance regularly.
5. Exhibit Judgement
• A trait, which separates a good Leader from the ordinary.
• Spend time collecting information and opinions before drawing conclusions.
• Assess the work and qualities of subordinates. Encourage and direct them to make
the best of available opportunities.
6. Display Energy and Enthusiasm
• Leadership is an exhausting activity physically, intellectually and emotionally.
Leader has to show enthusiasm and boundless energy so as to transfer commitment
to the team.
• Enthusiasm is highly contagious – it affects people it touches.
7. Trust your Subordinates
• A Japanese belief says, “Productivity and Trust go hand in hand”.
• Trust, Integrity and Openness are openly related.
• When Trust and Openness exist, chances of conflict are reduced.
• A High-Commitment Organization works when mutual trust between managers and
employees exists.
8. Demonstrate Support & Loyalty
• Faith can only be instilled when the Leader treats his team honestly and fairly.
• The team must believe in the veracity of the Leader communicating goals and
objectives.
• The Leader must also represent and support the team, as also defend them, when
required.
• A Leader’s assured support to his team boosts morale and determination.
9. Keep Your Cool
• Crisis is not the ONLY test of leadership, but it certainly is the ACID test.
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• Demonstration of grace under pressure inspires people to stay calm and act
intelligently.
• Leader needs to be a ‘shock absorber’. He must dissipate tension – not generate it.
10. Simplify
• Effective Leaders have extraordinary abilities to focus on the important aspects and
arrive at simple solutions to complex problems.
• Simplicity is a virtue. If explained simply, human communication is most effective.
• Manifest High Standards of Personal Integrity.
• “The higher up a monkey goes the more of his behind he shows”. What
executives do, believe and value, whom they reward and with what, are watched,
seen and minutely observed by ONE and ALL.
• They are expected to practice what they preach.
12. Acquire Essential Skills
• A Leader must be a good COMMUNICATOR. He must also be a good
LISTENER.
• He must be able to outline goals and objectives.
• He should set clear standards and monitor performance.
• His decisions must be clear headed, sound and far sighted.
• He must know how to encourage and reprimand when needed.
• He should know how to delegate.
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PERSONALITY
Who is a Personality . . .
Any ‘Person with an Attitude’.
• Good Personality – Any person with a positive attitude.
• Not-so-good Personality – Any per with a negative attitude.
A PERSONALITY MUST KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ‘SYMPATHY’
AND ‘EMPATHY’
What is Sympathy . . .
• I Know How You Feel
What is Empathy . . .
• I Feel How You Feel
HE MUST ALSO KNOW WHAT ‘EFFECTIVENESS’ AND ‘EFFICIENCY’,
ACTUALLY MEAN.
What is Effectiveness?
• Doing Right Things
And Efficiency?
• Doing Things Right
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AN ALLY CALLED ‘SELF-BELIEF’
When people think about pursuing something, they first take a look at their resources to
determine whether or not they can do it.
That is a wise thing to do.
But where most people fail in this process is that when they look at their resources, they are
usually taking stock of the wrong resources.
Most people immediately look at money. But money is not the greatest resource. In fact,
there are other resources that are more impacting, than money.
The ‘First’ Ally – DESIRE
Everything that comes from life comes from wanting it.
Really wanting it. Do you have desire in you for something?
A fire in the belly that cannot be put out, no matter what?
Do you have this kind of desire for what you seek?
Then you will accomplish it.
The ‘Second’ Ally - VISION
Robert Schuller once said, "You never have a money problem, only a vision problem."
If you have vision for something, you will attract the money needed.
Vision is that grand spectacular plan that sees the big picture, paints it for others, and draws
them along.
Do you have a vision for what it is you want to accomplish?
Can you see it even if it isn’t here yet?
Can you hear it?
Smell it?
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The ‘Third’ Ally - PERSISTENCE
"Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more
common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; un-rewarded genius is
almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence
and determination alone are omnipotent," said Calvin Coolidge.
Do you persist when the going gets tough?
When it looks like the goal will be a little further off and a little longer in arriving do you
quit and go elsewhere or do you buckle down and attack with even more diligence?
The ‘Fourth’ Ally – GUTS
Courage. Bravery. Nerve, Valour.
Do you have them?
Can you look risk in the eye and not blink?
The men and women of this world who have accomplished tremendous things were not
handed those things.
Every single one of them had moments of pure unadulterated fear.
But what separated them from the rest is that they had the guts to go forward anyway.
When others slunk off into the distance, they forged ahead.
What is your greatest resource?
AN ALLY CALLED ‘SELF-BELIEF’
‘Desire’ ‘Vision’ ‘Persistence’ ‘Guts’
Do you have these?
Then you have all the resources you will ever need to live the life you have always
dreamed of!
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TEAMWORK AND TEAM BUILDING
An ‘Anonymous’ person has rightly said. . . .
The membership of a club is made up of four kinds of bones.
The WISHBONES, who spend their time wishing someone else would do their
work.
The JAWBONES, who do all the talking, but little else.
The KNUCKLEBONES, who knock everything that everyone else tries to do.
And finally, the BACKBONES, who get under the load and do the work.
WHICH OF THESE BONES ARE YOU???
What is a TEAM?
• A ‘TEAM’ is a number of individuals working together to achieve a common
task.
• A ‘TEAM’ is essentially a group with a common aim, in which the technical skills
and personal abilities of all the members are complementary.
Quotes about Teams and Teamwork.
• A ‘TEAM’ is a group in which the individuals have a common aim and in which
the jobs and skills of each member fit in with those of others, as in a jigsaw puzzle,
pieces fit together without distortion and together produce some overall pattern.”
• “It is always the ‘TEAM’ as a whole that is responsible for the task. The individual
contributes his particular skill and knowledge, but is always responsible for the
output and performance of the entire ‘TEAM ’, rather than only for his own work.
The ‘TEAM’ is’ the’ unit”.
• “Leading a ‘TEAM’ is like juggling with eggs. You have to keep them all on the
move simultaneously and if you drop one, you end up with a nasty mess”.
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TIME MANAGEMENT
8 Tips on Managing Time
1. Prioritize Your Work
• Organize your work and task in order of urgency and importance.
• What you actually tend to do, is do the easier tasks first and save the tougher ones
for later on.
• Difficult tasks need more concentration. You need to try and alternate between the
difficult and easy tasks.
2. Prioritize Your Tasks As Under :
• Urgent and Important: These are ‘Must Do’s’.
• Not Urgent, but Important: Try to do these next, as they will add more value to the
organization.
• Urgent but Not Important: Are you sure you want to do? Get a cheaper resource to
work here.
3. Make a List
• Make a ‘to do’ list of all the things you need to do in the day.
• Keep it right in front of your desk so that you remember what you need to do.
4. Mark the Tasks Done
• Your work does not end by just creating a list.
• Keep marking the tasks that are done.
• It is extremely satisfying to see a shrinking list and at the same time gives you an
idea of how close you are to completion.
5. Allow interruptions during work
• Budget for interruptions, as these are bound to happen.
• Forced interruptions can also give you that much needed break.
6. Be Realistic
• Do NOT set targets that are unrealistic and undoable.
• They look good only on paper.
7. Commit to a Start Time
• Allocate time to each task and also approximately how long you will take for each
task.
• This way you will ensure that you complete all your tasks on time.
8. Avoid Procrastination
• Do not put off any job for tomorrow.
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• Remember, tomorrow NEVER comes.
• Identify the areas where you tend to procrastinate and act NOW to reduce panic and
stress.
REMEMBER !
YOU are the MASTER of your TIME and need to LEARN to MANAGE it
EFFECTIVELY to EXTRACT the MAXIMUM from your LIFE.
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An Obituary printed in the London Times........
(Interesting and sadly, rather true.)
'Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, ‘Common Sense’, who has been with
us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was, since his birth records were
long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such
valuable lessons as:
• Knowing when to come in out of the rain; why the early bird gets the worm;
• Life isn't always fair; and maybe it was my fault.
• Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (Don’t spend more than
you can earn).
• Reliable strategies (adults, not children, are in charge).
His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well-intentioned but overbearing regulations
were set in place. Reports of a 6-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a
classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher
fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition. Common Sense lost
ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job that they themselves had failed to
do in disciplining their unruly children. It declined even further when schools were
required to get parental consent to administer sun lotion or an Aspirin to a student; but
could not inform parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.
Common Sense lost the will to live as the churches became businesses; and criminals
received better treatment than their victims. Common Sense took a beating when you
couldn't defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar could sue you
for assault. Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realize
that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly
awarded a huge settlement.
Common Sense was preceded in death, by his parents, ‘Truth and Trust’;
His wife, ‘Discretion’;
His daughter, ‘Responsibility;
His son, ‘Reason’.
He is survived by his 4 stepbrothers; - I Know My Rights. - I Want It Now. - Someone
Else Is To Blame. - I'm A Victim.
Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone. If you still remember
him, pass this on. If not, join the majority and do nothing.
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How to beat dirty negotiating tactics - 10 tips
Much has been written about negotiation styles. There have been many courses about
negotiation, which dedicates entire course work on collaborating and reaching a win-win
scenario. In today's 'flat world' business environment, positional bargaining method or fact
and reference based negotiation model are standard prescriptions for commercial
negotiation. But what do you do, when you sit across the table from somebody whose goal
is not to come to a win-win conclusion, but to really beat you down and manipulate you.
Well, although it is always a drain to combat dirty negotiation tactics, being prepared can
help overcome some of that headache.
6 great tips to do business with Americans
The ten tips described below are designed to help you identify and respond appropriately to
common dirty negotiation tactics used by unscrupulous business people.
1. Shock effect
As much of value selling and convincing you have done, at the end of the deal when the
time comes to discuss price, many customers show some shock effect. What! That much
for enterprise licenses, are you kidding me? It is very easy to fall in the trap of desperately
wanting to close the deal and offer unnecessary concessions like free services, installation
etc. This will be a good time to remind your customer how they will truly benefit using
your offerings. Also, it is not rude to tell them that quality products have a fair price; after
all you get what you pay for.
2. Ongoing discount
Have you ever heard something on these lines, We are so close to signing this contract, if
only we can solve this last issue? You oblige, then comes out another issue followed by
one more and then another. Very soon, you are giving away much more than what you
originally intended. It is a good practice to list all customer issues early in the sales cycle
based on priority. If new issues are added, put it in the list and re prioritize. When your
customer asks for resolving this last issue, get a firm commitment on closing the deal right
then after that issue is resolved. In this way, you only maybe give in to the last demand and
not the ones following it.
3. Boss knows best
I have spent countless hours discussing value props with customers convincing them to buy
from me, only to find out that they are not the true decision makers. They can only
negotiate to receive discounts but really do not have any rights to actually buy from me.
Basically I have negotiated with the wrong person. One way to avoid this is to ask early in
the sales cycle how the decision to buy is being made on the customer side. Who makes the
decision? Who influences the decision? Especially for higher end technical sales, many a
times although the CIO has the final say on the procurement; he is completely dependent
on the class architect to make the call on the vendor. It is important to identify the players
involved in the decision making process and talk to them individually or collectively to
resolve their issues.
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4. Fake deadline
If we cannot sign the agreement today, the deal is off. Be very wary when your customer
puts a time pressure on the day of the meeting trying to get you committed on an unfair
deal. Time is a valuable pressure tactic. Tell your customer that you are trying to create a
true solution for them.
HOW TO NEGOTIATE WITH THE AMERICANS
It is important that you truly understand their issues first and do due diligence. It is unfair
to you and him if you commit on something you do not feel comfortable about.
If they do not want to listen and force the time issue, it is your call whether you want to
walk or budge in to their unilateral demands.
5. Delays
March, June, September and December are hot months for sales folks trying to sprint to
quarter end. Although progress has been made, your customer is deliberately delaying
making a decision. Many manipulative customers feel that they can count on the fact that
you have spent time and money on the sales process for a long time and will not want to go
back without selling. This will be a great way to snag in a few concessions. It is wise to
stay as emotionally detached as possible not caving in and making unnecessary concessions
to close these deals. Remember, that your customer also spent valuable time with you in the
sales cycle. You both have skin in the game. Don't rush to closing; you have mutual
benefits tied to the deal.
6. Unfair trading request
A friend of mine in Dallas built a nice little dashboard for a manufacturing shop that can
track orders online in near real time. When time came to close the deal, the manufacturing
unit wanted sole rights to the product. They wanted to use it for themselves and then resell
it to other similar outfits in the manufacturing space.
However, they did not want to offer my buddy any cuts from the profit for it. This is an
example of unfair trading request. Ask something in return of value always. You may lose
some deals in the short run, but probably will come ahead of the curve in the end when
forcing fair trade.
7. Suddenly cold
Many employers like to play this mind game while trying to hire somebody. They seem
very interested in the early stages of the interview process, and then all of a sudden they
seem to have lost all interest in you. When you pursue your interest for the position again,
they say they will hire you. But they really cannot pay what you think they were going to
pay you. You agree to their terms thinking that they seem to like you moderately and are
not really jazzed up about you. This is a good time to resell yourself again on why they
should pay you what you think they should pay you. Craft your message on what's in it for
them to hire you.
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8. Wrongful summary
The other party summarizes the agreement but misrepresents certain sections on his favor.
If you listen especially carefully to the wrapping up part of the negotiation, you will not fall
in this trap. You should take notes and refer back to them if necessary to make sure that the
summary accurately describes what you agreed upon.
9. False importance to an item
A great deal of importance is placed on a agenda item that your customer knows that you
simply cannot budge in. They make you feel guilty, put pressure etc. hoping that you would
give them other concessions to make up for the one you could not give in. One way to
avoid this is to treat each issue independently and make separate decisions.
10. New player
You feel that you are moving along well and suddenly you see a new person negotiating
with you. He wants to start discussing every item from scratch and do not want to
acknowledge previous agreements. If you cannot pursue him to honor prior understanding,
start fresh again. It may be good to get another negotiator from your side to start dealing all
over again since you may get frustrated dealing over the same issues again. As hard as it
may sound, negotiators are better off remembering that dirty tactics used by manipulative
negotiators are never really personal and it is all part of the game. If you are fair in your
dealings and stay emotionally detached, you will possibly negotiate your way to a win/win
result most of the time. I wish you all the best in your negotiations.
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E-MAIL FROM THE BOSS
MAIL SENT BY NARAYAN MURTHY TO ALL INFOSYS STAFF:
It's half past 8 in the office but the lights are still on. PCs still running, coffee machines
still buzzing. And who's at work? Most of them ??? Take a closer look. All or most
specimens are?? Something male species of the human race. Look closer... Again all or
most of them are bachelors. And why are they sitting late? Working hard? No way!!! Any
guesses??? Let's ask one of them... Here's what he says. 'What's there to do after going
home...Here we get to surf, AC, phone, food, coffee that is why I am working
late...Importantly no bossssssss!!!!!!!!!!!' This is the scene in most research centers and
software companies and other off-shore offices. Bachelors 'Time-passing' during late hours
in the office just because they say they've nothing else to do... Now what are the
consequences? 'Working' (for the record only) late hours, soon becomes part of the institute
or company culture. With bosses more than eager to provide support to those 'working' late
in the form of taxi vouchers, food vouchers and of course good feedback, (oh, he's a hard
worker... goes home only to change..!!). They aren't helping things too. To hell with bosses
who don't understand the difference between 'sitting' late and 'working' late!!! Very soon,
the boss starts expecting all employees to put in extra working hours. So, my dear
bachelors let me tell you, life changes when you get married and start having a family.
Office is no longer a priority, family is... And that’s when the problem starts... because you
start having commitments at home too. For your boss, the earlier 'hardworking' guy
suddenly seems to become an 'early leaver' even if you leave an hour after regular time -
after doing the same amount of work. People leaving on time after doing their tasks for the
day are labelled as work-shirkers. Girls who thankfully always (it’s changing nowadays,
though) leaving on time are labelled as 'not up to it'. All the while, the bachelor’s pat their
own backs and carry on 'working' not realizing that they are spoiling the work culture at
their own place and never realize that they would have to regret at one point of time.
So what's the moral of the story??
1. Very clear, LEAVE ON TIME!!!
2. Never put in extra time ' unless really needed'.
3. Don't stay back unnecessarily and spoil your company work culture which will in turn
cause inconvenience to you and your colleagues. There are hundred other things to do in
the evening.
4. Learn music... Learn a foreign language... Try a sport... TT, cricket......... Importantly,
get a girl friend or boy friend; take him/her around town.
5. And for heaven's sake, net cafe rates have dropped to an all-time low (plus, no fire-
walls) and try cooking for a change.
Take a tip from the Smirnoff ad: *'Life's calling, where are you??'
Please pass on this message to all those colleagues and please do it before leaving time,
don't stay back till midnight to forward this!!!
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IT'S A TYPICAL INDIAN MENTALITY THAT WORKING FOR LONG HOURS
MEANS VERY HARD WORKING 100% COMMITMENT ETC. PEOPLE WHO
REGULARLY SIT LATE IN THE OFFICE DON'T KNOW TO MANAGE THEIR
TIME. SIMPLE!
Regards,
NARAYAN MURTHY
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ON LEADERSHIP
Advancing Your Career
As your career advances, you move along the scale from employee, to supervisor to
manager and finally, to leader. Managers, and some leaders, engage in what is called
transactional leadership, the deployment and management of people and resources to get
results.
Arouse Emotion In Others
However, at the highest end of the leadership scale, we come to what is called
“transformational leadership.” Transformational leadership is defined as leadership that
arouses emotion that taps into the emotional and spiritual resources of an organization.
Transformational leadership empowers people to greatly exceed their previous levels of
accomplishment.
Make People Feel Terrific
Empowerment is the key. Transformational leaders are those who can elicit extraordinary
performance from ordinary men and women. The superior leader is like a catalyst in a
chemical process that causes the other ingredients to work together in a superior fashion.
A Key Function of Leadership
Empowerment as a key function of leadership becomes even more important as the work
force becomes dominated by members of the Generation X. These highly individualistic
men and women are increasingly seeking higher meaning and purpose in their careers.
They are not impressed by authority or hierarchy. If they don't get the satisfaction they are
seeking from their work, they will go somewhere else. And the better they are at what they
do, the more readily they will leave one job for another.
Provide The Emotional Glue
Transactional leadership is essential to getting the job done but transformational
leadership is what provides the emotional glue that causes organizations and the people in
them to excel.
Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do immediately to become a transformational leader and
empower your people.
First, get excited about your work. The more excited and committed you are to your work,
the more excited and committed will be the people around you. The leader always sets the
tone for the department or organization.
Second, continually encourage and praise the people who work for you. The better you
make people feel about themselves and their work, the more empowered they will feel and
the more committed they will be to your company.
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LEADERSHIP TIPS
As a leader, your main priority is to get the job done, whatever the job is. Leaders make
things happen by:
• Knowing your objectives and having a plan how to achieve them.
• Building a team committed to achieving the objectives.
• Helping each team member to give their best efforts.
As a leader you must know yourself. Know your own strengths and weaknesses, so that
you can build the best team around you.
Plan carefully, with your people where appropriate, how you will achieve your aims. You
may have to redefine or develop your own new aims and priorities. Leadership can be
daunting for many people simply because no-one else is issuing the aims - leadership often
means you have to create your own from a blank sheet of paper. Set and agree clear
standards. Keep the right balance between 'doing' yourself and managing others 'to do'.
Build teams. Ensure you look after people and that communications and relationships are
good. Select good people and help them to develop. Develop people via training and
experience, particularly by agreeing objectives and responsibilities that will interest and
stretch them, and always support people while they strive to improve and take on extra
tasks. Follow the rules about delegation closely - this process is crucial. Ensure that your
managers are applying the same principles.
Good leadership principles must cascade down through the whole organization. This means
that if you are leading a large organization you must check that the processes for managing,
communicating and developing people are in place and working properly.
Communication is critical. Listen, consult, involve and explain why as well as what needs
to be done.
Some leaders lead by example and are very 'hands on'; others are more distanced and let
their people do it. Whatever - your example is paramount - the way you work and conduct
yourself will be the most you can possibly expect from your people. If you set low
standards you are to blame for low standards in your people.
... Praise loudly, blame softly. Follow this maxim.
If you seek one single most important behaviour that will rapidly earn you respect and trust
among your people, this is it: Always give your people the credit for your achievements
and successes. Never take the credit yourself - even if it's all down to you, which would be
unlikely anyway. You must however take the blame and accept responsibility for any
failings or mistakes that your people make. Never, never, never, publicly blame another
person for a failing. Their failing is your responsibility - true leadership offers is no hiding
place for a true leader.
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Take time to listen to and really understand people. Walk the job. Ask and learn about
what people do and think, and how they think improvements can be made.
Accentuate the positive. Express things in terms of what should be done, not what should
not be done. If you accentuate the negative, people are more likely to veer towards it.
Have faith in people to do great things - given space and air and time, everyone can
achieve more than they hope for. Provide people with relevant interesting opportunities,
with proper measures and rewards and they will more than repay your faith.
Take difficult decisions bravely, and be truthful and sensitive when you implement them.
Constantly seek to learn from the people around you - they will teach you more about
yourself than anything else. They will also tell you 90% of what you need to know to
achieve your business goals.
Embrace change, but not for change's sake. Begin to plan your own succession as soon as
you take up your new post, and in this regard, ensure that the only promises you ever make
are those that you can guarantee to deliver.
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6 'Soft' Skills you need for Success
A reputed software company in India is all geared up for a client visit. The clients have
indicated that, after inspecting the progress of the project they have outsourced, they would
like to meet the team members working on it. Why? To select one team member for a stint
onsite -- something almost every software engineer aspires for.
Ravi has been one of the most active members in the project and has done a wonderful job.
He is technically brilliant, but has some concerns:
• Will he able to communicate his performance to the client in an impressive manner
so that he is chosen?
• Why do his team mates not prefer to come to him for solutions and go to less
capable people instead?
• His project manager doesn't seem to be very warm towards him either, although he
does drop in those occasional mails appreciating his work.
• Here is a typical scenario in an IT company; or for that matter, any organization
where interpersonal communication is involved. Or, like in Ravi's case, where an
employee suffers from a lack of interpersonal skills.
Are technical/ job-related skills enough?
Technical and job-related skills are a must, but they are NOT sufficient when it comes to
progressing up the ladder.
With the traditional paternalistic style of leadership becoming passé, professional managers
expect their teams to be proactive and communicate openly.
Soft skills are very important in business. It is essential to be technically sound, but one
should also have the ability to convey the idea to the masses in the simplest possible
manner, says Mayurkumar Gadewar, an ERP consultant with Pricewaterhouse Coopers.
With the boom in outsourcing taking root across industries, many professionals and subject
matter experts directly deal with their clients on a regular basis.
Their approachability and people skills are what ultimately sustain the contract their
employers have bagged.
Planning is necessary but execution is also equally important. And it takes soft skills to
execute any idea because it involves dealing with people directly, says Gadewar.
6 Soft Skills for every hard-nosed professional
Behavioural training experts say there are several soft skills are required in these
circumstances. Some of them include:
i. Interpersonal skills
ii. Team spirit
iii. Social grace
iv. Business etiquette
v. Negotiation skills
vi. Behavioural traits such as attitude, motivation and time management.
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Do you have these? If your answer is yes, good for you.
But if your answer is no, then you know it is time to approach either a training organization
or a training consultant.
Will formal training enhance your soft skills?
• There is a lot of argument in the industry as to whether it is possible to enhance soft
skills in a few hours of training, especially when one considers the fact that a person
has lived with those traits all his life. To this, the answer is harsh but real -- a
professional who wants to do well in his/ her career does not really have a choice.
• In the initial years of your career, your technical abilities are important to get good
assignments. However, when it comes to growing in an organization, it is
your personality that matters, more so in large organizations where several people
with similar technical expertise will compete for a promotion.
• Training on soft skills becomes all the more relevant in a country like India where
the education system does not delve into personality development.
• Soft skills’ training is essential because we do not have it in our academic
curricula. Therefore, corporate houses have to take up the task of grooming
employees who are the link between the company and the external world, so that
they are able to present themselves better, “says Sumeet Mehta, an equity research
analyst with Fortis Securities Ltd.
Be your own trainer!
While organizations are definitely investing in augmenting their staff's people skills, here
are some inputs for professionals and students who would like to initiate the process
themselves:
i. Be a part of team activities
It could be either as a part of your church choir, or an NGO, or your local youth circle.
Observe your own behaviour in the group and how you relate to others.
ii. Ask family members or close friends to write down your best and worst traits.
Ideally, have at least four to five people do this for you.
Evaluate the common traits all of them have mentioned. Thus, you can be aware of your
strengths and work improving your weaknesses.
iii. How well do you manage your time?
Think. Can you do more in life? Or is your day too crammed with activities? Effective time
management is very essential in the corporate world.
iv. Introspect on how you react to feedback.
In organizations, people skills mostly come into the picture when there is feedback given --
be it for an idea, an executed project or a presentation.
You are judged by the way you respond to feedback.
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• Do you get defensive?
• Do you insist you were right?
• Do you meekly accept criticism?
Remember, people tend to be judged and stereotyped according to their responses. You
will, too.
v. How good are you at critiquing?
While responding to feedback is one side of the coin, giving feedback is the other side.
Are you aggressive? Pessimistic? Do you believe in constructive criticism? Or prefer to be
the yes-man?
vi. Live consciously
Any organization is manned by people; therefore Soft Skills are all about how you deal
with people and present yourself.
Though it may be easier said than done, soft skills can be enhanced simply by being
aware of oneself and living consciously.
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Power of Positive Talk
I remember my dad teaching me the power of language at a very young age. Not only did
my dad understand that specific words affect our mental pictures, but he understood words
are a powerful programming factor in lifelong success.
One particularly interesting event occurred when I was eight. As a kid, I was always
climbing trees, poles, and literally hanging around upside down from the rafters of our lake
house. So, it came to no surprise for my dad to find me at the top of a 30-foot tree swinging
back and forth. My little eight-year-old brain didn't realize the tree could break or I could
get hurt. I just thought it was fun to be up so high.
My older cousin, Babli, was also in the same tree. She was hanging on the first big limb,
about ten feet below me. Babli's mother also noticed us at the exact time my dad did. About
that time a huge gust of wind came over the tree. I could hear the leaves start to rattle and
the tree begin to sway. I remember my dad's voice over the wind yell, Sunny, hold on
tightly. So I did. The next thing I know, I heard Babli screaming at the top of her lungs,
lying flat on the ground. She had fallen out of the tree.
I scampered down the tree to safety. My dad later told me why she fell and I did not.
Apparently, when Babli's mother felt the gust of wind, she yelled out, Babli, don't fall!
And Babli did fall.
My dad then explained to me that the mind has a very difficult time processing a negative
image. In fact, people who rely on internal pictures cannot see a negative at all. In order for
Babli to process the command of not falling, her nine-year-old brain had to first imagine
falling, then try to tell the brain not to do what it just imagined. Whereas, my eight-year-old
brain instantly had an internal image of me hanging on tightly.
This concept is especially useful when you are attempting to break a habit or set a goal.
You can't visualize not doing something. The only way to properly visualize not doing
something is to actually find a word for what you want to do and visualize that. For
example, when I was thirteen years old, I played for my junior high school football team. I
tried so hard to be good, but I just couldn't get it together at that age. I remember hearing
the words run through my head as I was running out for a pass, Don't drop it! Naturally,
I dropped the ball.
My coaches were not skilled enough to teach us proper self-talk. They just thought some
kids could catch and others couldn't. I'll never make it pro, but I'm now a pretty good
Sunday afternoon football player, because all my internal dialogue is positive and
encourages me to win. I wish my dad had coached me playing football instead of just
climbing trees. I might have had a longer football career.
Here is a very easy demonstration to teach your kids and your friends the power of a toxic
vocabulary. Ask them to hold a pen or pencil. Hand it to them. Now, follow my
instructions carefully. Say to them, Okay, try to drop the pencil. Observe what they do.
Most people release their hands and watch the pencil hit the floor. You respond, You
weren't paying attention. I said TRY to drop the pencil. Now please do it again. Most
people then pick up the pencil and pretend to be in excruciating pain while their hand tries
but fails to drop the pencil.
The point is made.
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If you tell your brain you will give it a try, you are actually telling your brain to fail. I
have a no try rule in my house and with everyone I interact with. Either people will do it
or they won't. Either they will be at the party or they won't. I'm brutal when people attempt
to lie to me by using the word try. Do they think I don't know they are really telegraphing
to the world they have no intention of doing it but they want me to give them brownie
points for pretended effort? You will never hear the words I'll try come out of my mouth
unless I'm teaching this concept in a seminar.
If you try and do something, your unconscious mind has permission not to succeed. If I
truly can't make a decision I will tell the truth. Sorry John. I'm not sure if I will be at
your party or not. I've got an outstanding commitment. If that falls through, I will be
here. Otherwise, I will not. Thanks for the invite.
People respect honesty. So remove the word try from your vocabulary.
My dad also told me that psychologists claim it takes seventeen positive statements to
offset one negative statement. I have no idea if it is true, but the logic holds true. It might
take up to seventeen compliments to offset the emotional damage of one harsh criticism.
These are concepts that are especially useful when raising children.
Ask yourself how many compliments you give yourself daily versus how many criticisms.
Heck, I know you are talking to yourself all day long. We all have internal voices that give
us direction.
So, are you giving yourself the 17:1 ratio or are you shortchanging yourself with toxic self-
talk like, “I’m fat. Nobody will like me. I'll try this diet. I'm not good enough. I'm so
stupid. I'm broke, etc. etc.
If our parents can set a lifetime of programming with one wrong statement, imagine the
kind of programming you are doing on a daily basis with your own internal dialogue.
Here is a list of Toxic Vocabulary words.
Notice when you or other people use them.
Ø But: Negates any words that are stated before it.
Ø Try: Presupposes failure.
Ø If: Presupposes that you may not.
Ø Might: It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener..
Ø Would Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen.
Ø Should Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen (and
implies guilt.)
Ø Could Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen but the
person tries to take credit as if it did happen.
Ø Can't/Don’t: These words force the listener to focus on exactly the opposite of what you
want. This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing the damage
of this linguistic error.
Examples:
Toxic phrase: Don't drop the ball!
Likely result: Drops the ball
Better language: Catch the ball!
Toxic phrase: You shouldn't watch so much television.
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Likely result: Watches more television.
Better language: I read too much television makes people stupid. You might find yourself
turning that TV off and picking up one of those books more often!
Exercise:
Take a moment to write down all the phrases you use on a daily basis or any Toxic self-talk
that you have noticed yourself using. Write these phrases down so you will begin to catch
yourself as they occur and change them.
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How Do We Build Positive Self-Esteem?
If you want to build positive self-esteem quickly, one of the fastest ways is to do something
for others who cannot repay you in cash or kind.
There were some inmates of a jail who had gone through an attitude development
programme. One inmate of this jail said, I want to talk to you. I'm going to be released
from prison in a couple of weeks. On being asked what he learned through the attitude
development program, he thought for a while and then said that he felt good about himself.
He was told, Good doesn't tell anyone anything. Specifically say, as to what behaviour
has changed?
Learning does not take place unless behaviour changes.
The inmate said that ever the attitude development programme had commenced; he read his
Bible every day. On being asked as to what reading the Bible did to him, he replied that he
felt comfortable with himself and others, which he hadn't felt before. He was told that it
was nice, but the bottom line still was, what was he going to do once he was released from
jail? He said that he was going to ‘try’ to be a contributing member of society. When asked
the same question again, he gave the same answer. He was asked this question a third time,
as to what he would do when he left the jail. Quite obviously, the same reply was expected,
but this time, in an angry tone, he said, “I am going to be a contributing member of
society”.
It was then pointed out to him that there was a world of difference in what he said then and
what he said now. Earlier he had said, “I am going to try to be and now he said I am
going to be.
The difference is the word try.
He got rid of the word ‘trying’ and that made sense.
Either we do it or we don't. The word trying keeps the door open for him to come back
to jail.
Another inmate, who was listening in on this conversation, asked, What do you get paid
to do all this? He was told that the feeling of just experiencing what had just been said
was worth more than all the money in the world. He then asked, Why do you come
here? He was told that it for selfish reasons, and the selfish reason was to make this world
a better place to live.
This kind of selfishness is healthy. In a nutshell, what you put into the system, you always
get back, and most times more than you can ever put in. But you don't put it in with the
desire to get something back.
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Another inmate said, What anybody does is their business. When people take drugs, it is
none of your business. Why don't you leave them alone? The reply was, Even though I
disapprove, I will compromise and accept what you are saying that it is none of my
business. If you can guarantee that when someone takes drugs, and when they get
behind the wheel of a car and have an accident, the only thing they will ever hit is a tree.
But if you cannot guarantee that when they take drugs and have an accident, then you or
your kids or I or my kids could be dead under the wheels, you better believe it is my
business.
I have to get this person off the road.
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ACTIVITY IS NOT THE SAME AS ACCOMPLISHMENT
There is a big difference between activity and accomplishment. This was demonstrated by
a French scientist named Fable. He conducted an experiment with processionary
caterpillars. Caterpillars follow the one in front of them blindly. Fable arranged them in a
circle in a flowerpot so that the lead caterpillar actually was behind the last one forming a
circle. He put pine needles (food for the caterpillars) in the centre of the flowerpot. The
caterpillars kept going in a circle in the pot. Eventually, after a week of circling around,
they dropped dead of exhaustion and starvation with food only inches away from them. We
need to learn a lesson from the caterpillars. Just because you are doing something, doesn't
mean you are getting anywhere. One must evaluate one's activity in order to have
accomplishment. A man was out driving with his wife and the wife said, Honey, we are
going the wrong way. The husband replied, Who cares, we are making great time! If
we confuse activity with accomplishment, we could be making great time but we won't get
anywhere.
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Tips to help you get along Better with ‘Critical’ People
We all have to deal with critical people at times. You know the type - the person who can
spot a flaw from across the room, gives unsolicited advice, frequently complains and passes
judgment, is negative and seems impossible to please.
• We can all be critical.
• Every day, we literally critique everything that goes on around us consciously and
unconsciously.
• Unfortunately, some people tend to verbalize the thoughts many of us have learned
to keep to ourselves.
• When things don't go our way or we're in a bad mood it is easy to become critical.
Its true, miserable people prefer miserable company.
• Critical people actually feel better around others who share the same negative
attitudes. Before we spend time learning how to cope with other people's critical
traits let's make sure we have our own well under control.
It can be quite challenging to get along with a critic, especially when we live or work with
them.
Here are 10 tips to help you get along better with critical people.
1. Understand what motivates people to be critical
• Hurting people, hurt people.
• Most critics were criticized themselves as children and did not develop the sense of
security and healthy identity that can come from positive nurturing. They tend to
have a low opinion of themselves and consequently feel best (although often
frustrated) when attempting to achieve the unrealistic standards they set for
themselves and others.
• Critics are often motivated by the need to feel better about themselves by putting
other people down. Understanding their motivation can help us to develop
‘empathy’ and ‘compassion’ - two qualities that will help you get along with critical
people.
2. Don't throw the baby out with the bath water
• Although critical people often lack diplomacy and tact, they also tend to be able to
size up people and situations accurately.
• You may be tempted to discount what you hear, but listen carefully to what they say
because there is often valuable information underneath the sharp edges of the
message.
3. Be willing to confront your critic
• It is not easy to confront interpersonal problems, but it is typically the best
approach. Be willing to tell the critic in your life how you feel about the way they
interact with you.
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• This won't guarantee change; however, by expressing your thoughts and feelings
you are in a better position to manage your own emotions and behaviours.
• Emotional expression will decrease your chances of growing embittered, and
consequently, doing or saying something you'll regret.
4. Focus on the truth, not on the criticism
• If someone puts you down, fight the temptation to dwell on the criticism. If there is
something you can learn from the message, do so, but then move on.
• Instead of dwelling on the negative, comment focus on the gifts, talents and
strengths that you possess.
5. Be careful about what you share with the critical person
• It's not always wise to share personal or important information with a critic about
yourself or anyone else. Providing such information is asking for trouble because
critical people often take things out of context, misinterpret or exaggerate
information and place a negative spin on ideas or opinions.
• Learn how to discern what you should and should not reveal.
• When in doubt, don't share.
6. Don't join in on criticizing others
• It can be easy to fall into the trap of criticizing others when you're around a critical
person. Joining in on the criticism only serves to legitimize the behaviour in the
mind of the critic, and the transition into gossip is close behind.
• Today the criticism is about someone else - tomorrow it could be directed toward
you.
7. Limit the amount of time you spend with critical people
It may be very appropriate to limit the amount of time you spend with a critic. This, of
course, can be difficult if they happen to be your spouse, parent or boss. However, it may
be in your best interest to let the person know that your level of interaction with them will
be based, in part, on their willingness to communicate with you in a constructive and
appropriate manner. If the critic is your spouse, you may benefit from consulting with a
professional marriage counselor.
8. Control your response to critical people
• Pay close attention to how you respond to criticism. If you tend to react with anger,
hurt or intimidation, you will encourage the critical behaviour. Critical people are
often motivated to behave the way they do, because of the response they trigger in
others.
• When you learn to not overreact, the critic will likely move on to someone who
will.
9. Try to understand the needs of the critical person
The emotional gas tank of a critical person is often very low. Criticism is sometimes an
outward expression of an inward need - usually the need to feel worthwhile and significant.
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• It is surprising how a sincere compliment, congratulations or demonstration of care
and concern can improve your relationship. People with full emotional tanks are the
least likely to mistreat others.
10. Maintain realistic expectations
• Critical people don't change overnight. Even if they are making positive progress,
they are likely to revert back to their old ways from time to time, especially under
stress.
• Realistic expectations will help guide your interactions and will likely result in a
healthier relationship.
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The Art of “Staying Positive”
There is a growing volume of research that shows’ staying positive is better for your health;
you can cope better with stress. It's better for relationships; you keep from judging people
and getting into negative talk. It also makes your life more fulfilled; just think of how much
of your life is spent working. Being positive, living in the present will give you energy and
joy in your life.
1. Attitude is everything.
• It is the lens that you look through to experience your reality. Take a look at your
attitude.
• Are you negative?
• Do you colour everything with fear or need? How will your life change if you
change your attitude?
2. Treat people with kindness and respect.
• Everyone who you encounter should be valued, treated with courtesy.
• Acknowledge that they have feelings and their own perspective on life, they may be
different from yours but they are also valid.
3. Avoid comparison
• Whether you are looking down at the people who have not mastered special
strengths or up at people who may be more experienced or accomplished.
• Constantly comparing yourself keeps the focus on the other person instead of what
you can do, want to do, and are good at doing. Look inside and improve from there.
4. Take responsibility for your work, actions, and life.
• Don't pass the buck. Don't make excuses. Take responsibility; acknowledge a
mistake, fix it and learn from it.
• Don't beat yourself up about the mistake, or hang onto past mistakes. Resolve them,
own them and move forward. Today.
5. That doesn't work for me.
• Keep this in mind when someone offers a put down, or when they cross your
boundaries. Your worth comes from you; your being, your true self.
• They cannot change your intrinsic value unless you let them. Make it clear that
what they are doing doesn't work for you, keep your boundaries and move forward.
6. Respect other people's time and boundaries.
• If you are having a bad day, feeling stuck, or you are just enjoying procrastinating.
Make sure you don't use that as an excuse to waste other people's time or cross their
boundaries.
• Time is the most valuable thing we have. If you feel like wasting your time that's
your decision but don't waste other people's time.
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7. Make a what I have accomplished list.
• Too often people make huge to-do lists and then beat themselves up when they have
only accomplished a few things on the list.
• Keep your master list of what you want to accomplish so you don't forget things
that are important to you, but keep a second list you update daily. Each day keep a
specific list of all the things you did and how much time you spent on each thing.
• You'll know where the day went, can feel good about what you did accomplish and
see where you need to focus, to get what's most important to you, done.
8. Take notice of the people around you:
• Co-workers, customers, clients, vendors, and other people you come in contact with
each day. Acknowledge what they are contributing and don't take them for granted.
• Thank them for buying from you, for their help, their value to the relationship, and
for a job well done.
9. Enjoy the little things that happen in your day.
• The compliment someone gave you on the insight you shared at the staff meeting.
The big smile the customer gave you when they picked up their order.
• By recognizing your accomplishments even if they seem small or routine, you are
acknowledging a job well done.
10. Coming from a positive attitude and perspective you will feel more in control.
• Consider each job and interaction as your best performance, rather than just running
them together as part of your day.
• You will see the impact you have and the value you offer. People will be attracted
to this. They will notice how well you do things and they will truly value you.
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Johari Window
(Luft Ingham)
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DESCRIPTION
A Johari window is a cognitive psychological tool created by Joseph Luft and Harry
Ingham in 1955 in the United States, used to help people better understand their
interpersonal communication and relationships. It is used primarily in self-help groups and
corporate settings as a heuristic exercise. The Johari window helps us understand how we
are giving and receiving information. The JW can help to illustrate and improve the self-
awareness between individuals and teams. It can also be used to change group dynamics
within a business context.
The Johari Window model is sometimes called: a 'disclosure/feedback model of self
awareness', and: an 'information processing tool'. It actually represents information:
feelings, experience, views, attitudes, skills, intentions, motivation, etc within or about a
person in relation to their group, from four perspectives:
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An empty Johari window
When performing the exercise, the subject is given a list of 55 adjectives and picks five or
six that they feel describe their own personality. Peers of the subject are then given the
same list, and each pick five or six adjectives that describe the subject. These adjectives are
then mapped onto a grid. Adjectives selected by both the participant and his or her peers
are placed into the Arena quadrant. This quadrant represents traits of the participant of
which both they and their peers are aware. Adjectives selected only by the participant, but
not by any of their peers, are placed into the Façade quadrant, representing information
about the participant of which their peers are unaware. It is then up to the participant
whether or not to disclose this information. Adjectives that are not selected by the
participant but only by their peers are placed into the Blind Spot quadrant. These represent
information of which the participant is not aware, but others are, and they can decide
whether and how to inform the individual about these blind spots. Adjectives which
were not selected by either the participant or their peers remain in the Unknown quadrant,
representing the participant's behaviors or motives which were not recognized by anyone
participating. This may be because they do not apply, or because there is collective
ignorance of the existence of said trait.
Johari adjectives
A Johari Window consists of 55 adjectives used to describe the participant, in alphabetical
order:
• able
• accepting
• adaptable
• bold
• brave
• calm
• caring
• cheerful
• clever
• complex
• confident
• dependable
• dignified
• energetic
• extroverted
• friendly
• giving
• happy
• helpful
• idealistic
• independent
• ingenious
• intelligent
• introverted
• kind
• knowledgeable
• logical
• loving
• mature
• modest
• nervous
• observant
• organized
•
• patient
• powerful
• proud
• quiet
• reflective
• relaxed
• religious
• responsive
• searching
• self-
assertive
• self-
• sensible
• sentimental
• shy
• silly
• spontaneous
• sympathetic
• tense
• trustworthy
• warm
• wise
• witty
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conscious
1. Arena. (OPEN) What is known by the person about him/herself and is also
known by others. Examples: your name, the color of your hair, the fact you own a
dog. One can and should increase the size of this region by increasing Exposure
and Feedback Solicitation. (Diagram 2)
2. Blind Spot. What is
unknown by the
person about
him/herself but what
others know.
Examples: your own
manners, the feelings of
other persons about you.
3. Façade. (HIDDEN)
What the person
knows about him/her
that others do not
know. Such as:
your secrets, your
hopes, desires, what
you like and what you
dislike.
4. The Unknown. What is unknown by the person about him/herself and is
also unknown by others. This information has an unknown potential to
influence the rest of the JW.
In the beginning of a communication process, when you meet someone, the size of the
Arena quadrant is not very large, since there has been little time and opportunity to
exchange information. The general rule of thumb is that you should try to expand the Arena
to become the dominant window, thus demonstrating transparency, openness and honesty
in interactions. Probably when you do this, the other party will also open himself up.
(Diagram 2).
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The writing about this topic often refers to the singular (self). But by changing the word
self into team, the model also allows a team dynamic approach.
ORIGIN OF THE JOHARI WINDOW.
HISTORY
The JW model was developed by American psychologists Joseph Luft and Harry Ingham in
the 1950s, while they were researching group dynamics. Today the JW model is especially
relevant because of the modern emphasis on soft skills, behavior, empathy, cooperation,
inter-group development and interpersonal development. Interestingly, Luft and Ingham
called their Johari Window model 'Johari' after combining their first names, Joseph and
Harrington. In early publications the word actually appears as 'JoHari'. The JW became a
widely used model to understand and train self-awareness, for personal development, to
improve communications, interpersonal relationships, group dynamics, team development
and inter-group relationships.
USAGE OF THE JOHARI WINDOW.
APPLICATIONS
The JW is generally used for teaching and considering and administering an understanding
of:
• How individuals communicate with themselves and with others.
• How individuals present themselves to themselves and to others.
• How individuals perceive their place in the world.
With a little consideration Johari is also suitable for multiple usages:
• Coaching to facilitate conversations around 'actions vs. perceived
motivations'.
• As an Organizational Development tool to visualize the political and
cultural issues that may be in or out of sync within a business.
• As a management tool to demonstrate the dynamics in a team.
• As a self-development tool that helps to consider one's own 'behaviour vs.
reaction'.
STEPS IN THE JOHARI WINDOW.
PROCESS
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There exist questionnaires that will define the place of the individual and or team in
relation to one another.
STRENGTHS OF THE JOHARI WINDOW.
BENEFITS
• Easy to grasp, flexible outcomes.
• The method catalyses open information sharing.
• The method will create a shared reference point.
LIMITATIONS OF THE JOHARI WINDOW.
DISADVANTAGES
• Some things are perhaps better not communicated (your sexual behavior,
mental health problems or large-scale failures).
• Some people may pass on the information they received further than you
desire.
• Some people may react negatively.
• Using the JW is a useless exercise if it is not linked to activities that
reinforce positive behavior, or that correct negative behaviors.
ASSUMPTIONS OF THE JOHARI WINDOW.
CONDITIONS
In reality Johari's assumption is the same as any feedback-tool: the individuals which are
experiencing the process must proceed further to create Development Plans, etc.