5. BEING POLITE
Say "please" and "thank
you."
You don't like it when someone demands
you do something without asking nicely.
In a family situation, it's easy to
forget that, though and leave off the
niceties. Try to always remember to say
"please," "thank you," and "excuse me"
when appropriate, even to family
members
6. BEING POLITE
•WATCH YOUR TONE.
• THIS STEP GOES HAND IN HAND WITH SAYING
PLEASE AND THANK YOU. THAT IS, NOBODY
LIKES TO BE ORDERED AROUND. IT'S
IMPORTANT TO PAY ATTENTION TO THE TONE
YOU'RE USING WHEN TALKING TO FAMILY
MEMBERS. FOR INSTANCE, INSTEAD OF
DEMANDING IN A RUDE TONE, "GET ME SOME
JUICE!" YOU COULD SAY, "WOULD YOU MIND
GETTING ME SOME JUICE, PLEASE?"
7. BEING POLITE
•BE RESPONSIBLE FOR
YOUR OWN MESS.
• ONE WAY TO BE RESPECTFUL AND POLITE IS
TO CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF. IF YOU
LEAVE A MESS FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO
CLEAN, THAT SHOWS YOU DON'T RESPECT
HIS OR HER TIME. PUT YOUR TOYS AND
ITEMS AWAY, AND PUT AWAY DIRTY
CLOTHES. CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF IN
THE BATHROOM, AND DO YOUR SHARE OF
CHORES IN THE HOUSE.[1]
20. HOW TO BE POLITE?
•LEARN TO
LISTEN
ATTENTIVELY
21. HOW TO BE POLITE?
•RESPECT
OTHER
PEOPLE'S
TIME.
22. HOW TO BE POLITE?
•APOLOGISE
FOR YOUR
MISTAKES.
Editor's Notes
Being respectful towards your family begins with being polite. It also means learning how to disagree and listen to each other even when upset. It can also mean just being there for one another and showing you care.
Being respectful towards your family begins with being polite. It also means learning how to disagree and listen to each other even when upset. It can also mean just being there for one another and showing you care.
Being respectful towards your family begins with being polite. It also means learning how to disagree and listen to each other even when upset. It can also mean just being there for one another and showing you care.
Being respectful towards your family begins with being polite. It also means learning how to disagree and listen to each other even when upset. It can also mean just being there for one another and showing you care.
greet people appropriately, gain eye contact and smile naturally, shake hands or hug where appropriate but say hello, especially to colleagues and other people you see every day. Be approachable. Do not blank people just because you’re having a bad day.
perhaps mention the weather or ask about the other person’s family or talk about something that is in the news. Make an effort to engage in light conversation, show some interest, but don’t overdo it. Remain friendly and positive and pick up on the verbal and non-verbal signals from the other person.
use their spouse’s name, their birthday, any significant events that have occurred (or are about to occur) in their life. Always be mindful of others’ problems and difficult life events.
Make sure you thank people for their input or contribution and always include ‘please’ when asking for something. If somebody offers you something use 'Yes please' or 'No thank you'.
Praise needs to be seen as genuine – this can be difficult if you feel jealous or angry.
be respectful of gender, race, religion, political viewpoints and other potentially controversial or difficult subjects. Do not make derogatory or potentially inflammatory comments.
pay attention to others while they speak – do not get distracted mid-conversation and do not interrupt.
Try to be precise and to-the-point in explanations without appearing to be rushed.
If you say or do something that may be considered rude or embarrassing then apologise, but don’t overdo your apologies.