This document analyzes the author's past and present romantic relationships using a BCG matrix format. It summarizes that the author's current relationship ranks highly compared to other relationships but that awareness of the relationship is low. Charts show the relationship has strong physical characteristics but some incompatibility in personal interests like sex and shopping. While some friends have positive reactions, the current girlfriend feels her needs are not being met and says she plans to end the relationship.

1. Romance: A BCG Analysis
Original by Andy Meyer
June, 1996

2. Agenda
My relationships
• Past
• Present
Our relationship in detail
Evaluation
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3. Different relationships provide different things
Illustrative Example
Share of time (%)
100
7%
14% Guilt
80 41%
34%
28% Sex
60 Beer
10% Sports
28% 17% Talk
40
19%
17% Companionship
8%
10%
20
21%
17% 21% Love
0
Family Da Guys You
Source of item
Source: Internal focus groups; BCG analysis
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4. Increase in relationship duration and intensity
Psycho a set back, but recovery under way
Intensity of relationship (%)
High Europe
“The Psycho” You
(ex-girlfriend)
College
Senior year Recovery period
First try
Low
1987 1988 1989 1990 1991 1992 1993 1994 1995 1996
Time of relationship
Source: Emotional baggage; BCG analysis
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5. You rank highly among existing relationships
Value of relationship
High
Low
Family You (new) Partner Principal Rommmate You (old) Client
Voice mail lady Friend "A" Client IT guys Street vendor
UA flight attendant Dry cleaner Sushi place waiter
Officemate Friend "B"
Ex-girlfriend
Avg. time spent on relationship per week
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6. Relationship drivers
Significant share of key drivers met
Love
Companionship Affection Compatibility
Eating Entertainment Physical Non-physical Personality Physical
Asian food Movies Romantic Verbal Humor Height
Pizza Theater Non-sexual Visual Intelligence Attractiveness
Pasta Partying Character
Sports
Source: Poets; Romantics; Self-Help books; BCG analysis
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7. Personal interests mostly compatible
Greatest gap in sex, shopping
Movies
Sense of Humor Sex
Shopping Food
Me
You
Sports Talking
Source: Cosmo Magazine questionnaire; BCG analysis
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8. Physical characteristics strong
Name Eyes Hair Height Body Legs Face
You
Sharon Stone
“The Psycho”
(ex-girlfriend)
Your sister
Rosanne Barr1
1. For reference only
Source: Individual Hormonal Response; BCG analysis
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9. Overall ranking is top box
Sister also a top prospect
Size of bubble = likelihood of going out in near future
Physical appearance
High
Supermodels Your sister
You
"The Psycho"
(ex-girlfriend)
Co-worker
Rosanne Barr1
Low Personality
Low High
1. For reference only
Source: Thin air
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10. Response to relationship has been mixed
Reaction has been positive... ...but awareness of relationship is low
“They make a cute couple”
– Mutual friend
“I didn’t even know they were going out”
– Co-worker
“I think it’s great”
– Officemate
“She doesn’t look Jewish”
“She’s hot”
– Parent
– Male friend
“If she wants him, fine. They deserve each
“I thought he was gay”
other”
– Female friend
– “They Psycho” (ex-girlfriend)
In sum: relationship and long-term prospects strong, but
need to maintain awareness of possible roadblocks
Source: Unsolicited opinions; BCG analysis
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11. Response from current girlfriend
Clear disconnect between customer
needs and existing service In conclusion
Share of item (%)
100 Analysis Relationship weakening
Listening
• Formal
80 Empathy
• Uncommunicative
Companionship
60 Long term prospects dwindling
Affection
40
Roadblocks are here today
20 Love
Speak in English, not in slides
0
What you provide What I need
“I’m outta here!”
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