This document discusses teaching and learning goals, methods, and outcomes. It questions traditional approaches that focus solely on knowledge transfer and completion goals, suggesting alternative goals like personal growth, creative thinking, humility and helping others. It critiques measuring success by adherence to rules alone and advocates allowing for deviation. It argues that how we design learning - what we measure and the rules we set - impacts who can succeed and perpetuates existing power structures. It calls for rethinking syllabi, pedagogy and definitions of success to focus less on completion and more on curiosity, pace and path personalization, and getting learning design right to be inclusive of all.