APPRENDRE À MIEUX GERER SES EMOTIONS CONTENU: 1.  LES EMOTIONS 2.  L’INTELLIGENCE EMOTIONNELLE 3.  LE  CERVEAU 4.  LE CONTROLE DE SON IMPULSIVITE 5.  LA CHAINE EMOTIVO-RATIONNEL  6.  LE  STRESS 7.  EVALUATION /  EXAMEN.
Emotional Intelligence  (EQ)
Emotional Intelligence
Definition of Emotional intelligence  The Common Definition of Emotional Intelligence is use by Goleman, BarOn, Meyer, Salovey and Caruso to define the concept of emotional intelligence Emotional intelligence is the innate potential to feel, use, communicate, recognize, remember, learn, manage and understand emotions.
Emotional Intelligence  Leadership  development   is  primarily a  function  of emotional development
An emotionally intelligent leader is one who can persuade others to do the same thing and to make them feel good about it and want to wake up in the morning and keep doing it. Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence  Feelings   are indispensable for rational decision making.  Feelings   are like a compass, they guide us in the right direction.
Motivation   =   20 %  du Raisonnement analytique (Intelligence ‘classique ’) + 80  %  de l’Intelligence émotionnelle Emotional Intelligence
The capacity for recognizing our own feelings and those of others. The ability to identify emotion in one‘s physical states, feelings and thoughts. What  is Emotional Intelligence ? John Mayer & Peter Salovey
Why For motivating  ourselves  and  for managing emotions  well in  ourselves and others Emotional Intelligence
the ability to acquire and apply knowledge from your emotions and the emotions of others   skill to use your emotions to help you make choices  effective control over yourself and your impact on others.  Why Emotional Intelligence
Intelligence Quotient ( IQ ) Based on cognitive abilities verbal perceptual analytical
Emotional Intelligence  ( EQ ) Based on emotional abilities Signals internal   external   Emotions governed  the relationship changed
A major difference EQ has more upside potential than IQ  EQ helps people work with others. EQ can help people overcome their frustrations and get along with others  EQ skills can be learned: Skills needed: self-awareness & self-control IQ   /  EQ
Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
Self-Awareness Self-Management Social Awareness Relationship Management Emotional Intelligence Competencies
Self-Awareness Knowing one’s internal states, preferences, values, needs, resources and intuitions Emotional Self-Awareness Self-Esteem Self-Confidence Values Needs
Knowing one’s internal states Emotional Self-Awareness  – Recognize your own inner signals, note how decisions and values match Accurate Self-Assessment  –  Know your real limits and strengths, be graceful in learning, know when to ask for help Realistic Self-Confidence  – Be willing and able to play to your strengths, admit you have them!
Self-Management Managing one’s internal state & impulses. Emotional Self-Control Transparency Optimism Adaptability Innovation Achievement
Emotional Self-Control  –   Manage our own disturbing emotions, stay calm and clear-headed Transparency  –   Live our values & admit mistakes. Optimism  – Expect the best of everyone. Adaptability  – Flexible, fluid, comfortable with ambiguity Innovation  – Seize opportunities, or create them Achievement  – Continually learning – and teaching– ways to do things better Managing one’s internal states & impulses.
Social Awareness Awareness of other’s feelings & needs. Empathy Organizational Awareness Service Orientation
Awareness of other’s feelings & needs. Empathy  – Listen to other’s perspectives Organizational Awareness  –   know the values and unspoken rules  Service Orientation  – be available to people, serve and receive excellent service
Relationship Management  Inspirational Influence Developing Others Conflict Management Building Bonds Teamwork & Collaboration
Awareness of one’s effect on others. Ability to work effectively and efficiently with others Inspirational  – Embody what you ask of others Influence  – Be persuasive and engaging Developing Others  – Cultivate people’s abilities Conflict Management  – acknowledge and redirect Building Bonds  – Cultivate relationships Teamwork & Collaboration  – Be a model of respect, helpfulness and cooperation
How can  we  use  Emotional Intelligence Concepts  in a Leadership Context??? EI  is our ability to acquire and apply knowledge from our emotions and the emotions of others in order to solve problems, and live a more successful, fulfilling life.
Emotional Intelligence A Leader’s Primer
Emotional Intelligence Competencies Intra-personal  (invisible to others and occur inside of us) Emotional Self-Awareness   Emotional Self-Regulation   Emotional Self-Motivation   Inter personal Empathy   Nurturing Relationships
Enhance your career and success potential   Improve your personal productivity   Increase your Motivation & Satisfaction   Work easily with your family & team members   Improve life balance so we can enjoy our personal life.  Why Emotional Intelligence?
Mental Clarity   Higher Productivity   Developing  Talent   Inspire People   Less Chaos   Take decisions  Rely on more people  Accountable  Lead organizational change Inspiring and energizing  Team members changing Optimism leads to persistence Can stay mentally focused To work smoothly with people Why Emotional Intelligence? Behavior  Influence attitudes Influence performance Influence  satisfaction  A ccountable positive environment  Eliminate roadblocks  Organizations can cause a lot of frustration, anxiety, suspicion, and resentment  Teams may Collapse Team members changing Strong positive relationships Eliminate vicious negative emotional cycle
Why Emotional Intelligence? Volume of work, New requirements, New policies and procedures We are worried, confused, fearful, even guilty Depressive state,  Health, attitude, and morale suffer  Pressure to do more, work long hard hours  Interact with people of different functions, To do tasks, they would like to avoid Communication hampered, mistakes & errors  made, creativity blocked  Deal with nervous, mad, disgusted and angry , frustrated people  verbally abused
 
 
 
Emotional Bank Account
Emotional Bank Account WITHDRAWALS Angry words Unforgiving Cruel joke Ignoring Excluding DEPOSITS Understanding Apology Attention to little things Keeping commitments Consideration
PHYSICAL SPIRITUAL EMOTIONAL / SOCIAL MENTAL
Recharge Your Batteries Physical Exercise, nutrition, stress management Emotional – Social Relationships, service, empathy, security Mental Reading, planning, visualizing, writing Spiritual Values, commitment, study, meditation
Everyday of Your Life Be the person you want to be! Make someone happy!
 
Increase  our  Emotional Intelligence
People take action (mostly) based on one of three emotions: Fear Hope Love
time A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step. Lao-Tzu
Emotional Intelligence 5  Ways to Increase our Emotional Intelligence
Five Ways  to Increase our  Emotional Intelligence
  I love you
I am sorry
Please forgive me
  I was wrong
Thank you
How Do You Feel?

Apprendre A Mieux Gerer Ses Emotions

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    APPRENDRE À MIEUXGERER SES EMOTIONS CONTENU: 1. LES EMOTIONS 2. L’INTELLIGENCE EMOTIONNELLE 3. LE CERVEAU 4. LE CONTROLE DE SON IMPULSIVITE 5. LA CHAINE EMOTIVO-RATIONNEL 6. LE STRESS 7. EVALUATION / EXAMEN.
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    Definition of Emotionalintelligence The Common Definition of Emotional Intelligence is use by Goleman, BarOn, Meyer, Salovey and Caruso to define the concept of emotional intelligence Emotional intelligence is the innate potential to feel, use, communicate, recognize, remember, learn, manage and understand emotions.
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    Emotional Intelligence Leadership development is primarily a function of emotional development
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    An emotionally intelligentleader is one who can persuade others to do the same thing and to make them feel good about it and want to wake up in the morning and keep doing it. Emotional Intelligence
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    Emotional Intelligence Feelings are indispensable for rational decision making. Feelings are like a compass, they guide us in the right direction.
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    Motivation = 20 % du Raisonnement analytique (Intelligence ‘classique ’) + 80 % de l’Intelligence émotionnelle Emotional Intelligence
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    The capacity forrecognizing our own feelings and those of others. The ability to identify emotion in one‘s physical states, feelings and thoughts. What is Emotional Intelligence ? John Mayer & Peter Salovey
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    Why For motivating ourselves and for managing emotions well in ourselves and others Emotional Intelligence
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    the ability toacquire and apply knowledge from your emotions and the emotions of others skill to use your emotions to help you make choices effective control over yourself and your impact on others. Why Emotional Intelligence
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    Intelligence Quotient (IQ ) Based on cognitive abilities verbal perceptual analytical
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    Emotional Intelligence ( EQ ) Based on emotional abilities Signals internal external Emotions governed the relationship changed
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    A major differenceEQ has more upside potential than IQ EQ helps people work with others. EQ can help people overcome their frustrations and get along with others EQ skills can be learned: Skills needed: self-awareness & self-control IQ / EQ
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    Self-Awareness Self-Management SocialAwareness Relationship Management Emotional Intelligence Competencies
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    Self-Awareness Knowing one’sinternal states, preferences, values, needs, resources and intuitions Emotional Self-Awareness Self-Esteem Self-Confidence Values Needs
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    Knowing one’s internalstates Emotional Self-Awareness – Recognize your own inner signals, note how decisions and values match Accurate Self-Assessment – Know your real limits and strengths, be graceful in learning, know when to ask for help Realistic Self-Confidence – Be willing and able to play to your strengths, admit you have them!
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    Self-Management Managing one’sinternal state & impulses. Emotional Self-Control Transparency Optimism Adaptability Innovation Achievement
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    Emotional Self-Control – Manage our own disturbing emotions, stay calm and clear-headed Transparency – Live our values & admit mistakes. Optimism – Expect the best of everyone. Adaptability – Flexible, fluid, comfortable with ambiguity Innovation – Seize opportunities, or create them Achievement – Continually learning – and teaching– ways to do things better Managing one’s internal states & impulses.
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    Social Awareness Awarenessof other’s feelings & needs. Empathy Organizational Awareness Service Orientation
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    Awareness of other’sfeelings & needs. Empathy – Listen to other’s perspectives Organizational Awareness – know the values and unspoken rules Service Orientation – be available to people, serve and receive excellent service
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    Relationship Management Inspirational Influence Developing Others Conflict Management Building Bonds Teamwork & Collaboration
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    Awareness of one’seffect on others. Ability to work effectively and efficiently with others Inspirational – Embody what you ask of others Influence – Be persuasive and engaging Developing Others – Cultivate people’s abilities Conflict Management – acknowledge and redirect Building Bonds – Cultivate relationships Teamwork & Collaboration – Be a model of respect, helpfulness and cooperation
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    How can we use Emotional Intelligence Concepts in a Leadership Context??? EI is our ability to acquire and apply knowledge from our emotions and the emotions of others in order to solve problems, and live a more successful, fulfilling life.
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    Emotional Intelligence ALeader’s Primer
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    Emotional Intelligence CompetenciesIntra-personal (invisible to others and occur inside of us) Emotional Self-Awareness Emotional Self-Regulation Emotional Self-Motivation Inter personal Empathy Nurturing Relationships
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    Enhance your careerand success potential Improve your personal productivity Increase your Motivation & Satisfaction Work easily with your family & team members Improve life balance so we can enjoy our personal life. Why Emotional Intelligence?
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    Mental Clarity Higher Productivity Developing Talent Inspire People Less Chaos Take decisions Rely on more people Accountable Lead organizational change Inspiring and energizing Team members changing Optimism leads to persistence Can stay mentally focused To work smoothly with people Why Emotional Intelligence? Behavior Influence attitudes Influence performance Influence satisfaction A ccountable positive environment Eliminate roadblocks Organizations can cause a lot of frustration, anxiety, suspicion, and resentment Teams may Collapse Team members changing Strong positive relationships Eliminate vicious negative emotional cycle
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    Why Emotional Intelligence?Volume of work, New requirements, New policies and procedures We are worried, confused, fearful, even guilty Depressive state, Health, attitude, and morale suffer Pressure to do more, work long hard hours Interact with people of different functions, To do tasks, they would like to avoid Communication hampered, mistakes & errors made, creativity blocked Deal with nervous, mad, disgusted and angry , frustrated people verbally abused
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    Emotional Bank AccountWITHDRAWALS Angry words Unforgiving Cruel joke Ignoring Excluding DEPOSITS Understanding Apology Attention to little things Keeping commitments Consideration
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    Recharge Your BatteriesPhysical Exercise, nutrition, stress management Emotional – Social Relationships, service, empathy, security Mental Reading, planning, visualizing, writing Spiritual Values, commitment, study, meditation
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    Everyday of YourLife Be the person you want to be! Make someone happy!
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    Increase our Emotional Intelligence
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    People take action(mostly) based on one of three emotions: Fear Hope Love
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    time A journeyof a thousand miles must begin with a single step. Lao-Tzu
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    Emotional Intelligence 5 Ways to Increase our Emotional Intelligence
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    Five Ways to Increase our Emotional Intelligence
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    Ilove you
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    Iwas wrong
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