The ACT Matrix
What Every Counselor Should Know
with Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes
Executive Director, AllCEUs
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Objectives
 Review the main points of Acceptance and
Commitment Therapy
 Review how to apply the matrix
 Identify the shortcut question
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The Main Principles of ACT
 The goals are to:
 Create a rich and meaningful life, while accepting the
pain that inevitably goes with it.
 Learn to perceive difficult thoughts and feelings as
harmless, even if uncomfortable, transient
psychological events.
 Take effective action guided by your deepest values
and in which you are fully present and engaged. (No
autopilot)
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Control is the Problem, Not the Solution
 Clean Discomfort: When emotions and reactions
are accepted, it leads to a natural level of
physical and emotional discomfort
 Dirty Discomfort: Once you start struggling with
it, your “struggle switch is turned on” and
discomfort increases rapidly.
 Struggle switch is like an emotional amplifier—switch it
on, and you can have anger about your anxiety, anxiety
about your anger, depression about your depression, or
guilt about our guilt.
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Experiential Avoidance
 The more time and energy spent trying to avoid or
get rid of unwanted feelings in general, the more we
are likely to suffer “Quicksand”
 Anxiety (Fear things won’t get better)
 Anger (Frustration things aren’t getting better)
 Depression (Hopelessness and helplessness---resignation
that things can’t get better)
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Changeable Variables in Context
 Emotions are a natural way your body prompts
you to act.
 Focus on changeable variables in the context
in which the issue occurs
 Physical vulnerabilities (sleep, nutrition, pain)
 Relationships (boundaries and communication)
 Thoughts (Distress Tolerant)
 Behaviors (DBT/CBT)
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Six Core Principles of ACT
 Values Awareness
 Contact with the Present Moment
 The Observing Self
 Acceptance
 Diffusion
 Committed Action
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 A lack of clarity about values can underlie much
of people’s distress or keep them “stuck.”
 Like going on a road trip without a destination
 They can get caught up spinning their wheels
trying to fight against something or use that same
energy to work toward something.
 “What is the most effective use of your limited energy
and time to help you achieve your goals?”
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Clarifying the Destination
Values & Goals Awareness
• Values Awareness
• Contact with the
Present Moment
• The Observing Self
• Acceptance
• Diffusion
• Committed Action
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Clarifying the Destination
Values & Goals
 Clarifying
 Relationships: Who is most important to you?
Which people?
What do you want those relationships to be like?
 What events, things, experiences are meaningful to you?
Work
Health
Personal Growth
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Clarifying cont…
 Values
 What values do you want to embody (Choose 5)?
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Achievement
Adventurousness
Altruism
Ambition
Assertiveness
Being the best
Calmness
Commitment
Compassion
Competitive
Consistency
Courtesy
Creativity
Decisiveness
Dependability
Determination
Discipline
Effectiveness
Efficiency
Faithfulness
Family-
orientedness
Fidelity
Generosity
Gratitude
Intelligence
Openness
Reliability
Resourcefulness
Restraint
Selflessness
Self-reliance
Strength
Tolerance
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ACT Matrix: Destination Identification
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GOALS &
VALUES
DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
From Goals
and Values
Noticing
and
Choosing • Work
• Recreation/Personal
Growth
• Health
• Relationships
Details in a Notebook
• Values Awareness
• Contact with the
Present Moment
• The Observing Self
• Acceptance
• Diffusion
• Committed Action
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The Observing Self
The Audience
 Fly on the Wall /Scientist/Nurse doing bed check
 Curious
 Objective
 Nonjudgmental
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• Values Awareness
• Contact with the
Present Moment
• The Observing Self
• Acceptance
• Diffusion
• Committed Action
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Mindfulness in the Present Moment
Awareness of What Is
 Contact with the Present Moment/Bringing full
awareness to your here-and-now experience
 How do I feel?
 What are my thoughts, wants and urges?
 What physical sensations am I experiencing?
 Describe the environment—smell, temperature, colors,
objects, people, sounds, etc…
I (see, hear, smell) ______ It reminds me of _____
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• Values Awareness
• Contact with the
Present Moment
• The Observing Self
• Acceptance
• Diffusion
• Committed Action
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Acceptance (Radical)
 Making room for unpleasant feelings, sensations,
urges
 Allowing them to come and go without running from
them or giving them undue attention.
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• Values Awareness
• Contact with the
Present Moment
• The Observing Self
• Acceptance
• Diffusion
• Committed Action
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Cognitive Diffusion
Unhooking Thoughts and Behaviors
 Cognitive diffusion means:
 “Stepping back” and recognizing that thoughts are just
temporary, automatic events
 Unhooking:
 Thoughts/feelings don’t always have to lead to action
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Cognitive Diffusion
Unhooking Thoughts and Behaviors
 Here’s a simple exercise in cognitive diffusion:
 Think of a negative behavior. “I need to X” “I need to
have a drink.”
Think about it. Believe it as much as you can.
Notice how it affects you.
 Now insert the phrase “I’m having the thought that….”
in front of “I need to X.”
Think about it.
Notice what happens.
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Cognitive Diffusion
Unhooking Thoughts and Behaviors
 Here’s another exercise in cognitive diffusion:
 Think of a negative self-judgment that takes the form “I
am X” such as “I’m stupid.”
Think about it. Believe it as much as you can.
Notice how it affects you.
 Now insert the phrase “I’m having the thought that….”
in front of “I am X.”
Think about it.
Notice what happens.
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Other Unhooking Techniques
 Thoughts are not causes. “Is it possible to think
that thought, as a thought, AND do x?”
 Who is in charge here? Treat thoughts as bullies
 OK, you are right. Now what?
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Committed Action
 Commit to:
 Mindfulness to identify diversions
 Being willing to accept what is (Distress Tolerance)
 Actively unhooking to examine the situation objectively
so you can:
Choose/commit to behaviors that will move you toward
your goals and values
Choose to let go of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that
divert you from your goals.
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Matrix: General
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
Noticing
and
Choosing
Behaviors that move
you TOWARD your
Goals & Values
Vulnerability prevention,
IMPROVE, ACCEPTS, CBT,
Challenging ?s, goals
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
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Toward Behaviors Cheat Sheet
IMPROVE
 Imagery
 Meaning
 Prayer
 Relax
 One thing at a time
 Vacation
 Encouragement
ACCEPTS
 Activities
 Contributing
 Comparisons
 Opposite Emotion
 Pushing Away
 Thoughts
 Sensations
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Vulnerability
Prevention
 Sleep
 Nutrition
 Recreation
 Physical Health
 Interpersonal Effectiveness
 Time Management
Have clients complete an “I can do this by…” worksheet for each of the above
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ACT Matrix
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
Noticing
and
Choosing
• Getting my work done
• Spending time with my family
• Vulnerability Prevention
• Mindfulness
• IMPROVE /ACCEPT
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
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ACT Matrix
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
Noticing
and
Choosing Thoughts & Feelings that
move you TOWARD your
Goals & Values
Distress Tolerant Thoughts
Positive feelings
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
• Getting my work done
• Spending time with my family
• Healthy living /Vul. Prev.
• Mindfulness
• IMPROVE /ACCEPT GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
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ACT Matrix
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
Noticing
and
Choosing • Courage
• Hope/Optimism/Enthusiasm
• Patience
• Compassion with self and
others
• Willingness to let stuff go
• Self-Esteem
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
• Getting my work done
• Spending time with my family
• Healthy living /Vul. Prev.
• Mindfulness
• IMPROVE /ACCEPT
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
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ACT Matrix
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GOALS &
VALUES
DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Noticing
and
Choosing
Behaviors that move
you AWAY FROM your
Goals & Values
(Escape/Quick Fix)
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
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ACT Matrix
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Noticing
and
Choosing
• Sleeping too much
• Avoiding life by being a
couch potato
• Self-soothing with food
• Drinking
• Lashing out/being
irritable, impatient
• Self-handicapping
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
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ACT Matrix
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Noticing
and
Choosing
Thoughts & Feelings
that move you AWAY
FROM your Goals & Values
Distress Intolerant Thoughts
Unpleasant feelings
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
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ACT Matrix
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Noticing
and
Choosing• I can’t do this
• People suck
• I am helpless to change
anything/What’s the point
• Bad guys/rule breakers always
win
• No good deed goes unpunished
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
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ACT Matrix
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Noticing
and
Choosing• I can’t do this
• People suck
• I am helpless to change
anything/What’s the point
• Bad guys/rule breakers always
win
• No good deed goes unpunished
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
• Sleeping too much
• Avoiding life by being a
couch potato
• Self-soothing with food
• Drinking
• Lashing out/being
irritable, impatient
• Self-handicapping
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ACT Matrix
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GOALS &
VALUES
DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
Noticing
and
Choosing
Behaviors that move you
TOWARD your Goals &
Values
IMPROVE, ACCEPT, ABCs,
Challenging Thoughts Activity
Thoughts & Feelings
that move you TOWARD
your Goals & Values
Courage, Hope, Compassion
etc.
Thoughts & Feelings
that move you AWAY
FROM your Goals & Values
Distress & Distress Intolerant
Thoughts
Behaviors that move
you AWAY FROM your
Goals & Values
Escape/Quick Fix
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
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Put It Together
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DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Noticing
and
Choosing• I can’t do this
• People suck
• I am helpless to change
anything
• Bad guys/rule breakers
always win
• No good deed goes
unpunished
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
How can you think about things
in a way that increases…
• Courage
• Optimism/Enthusiasm
• Patience
• Compassion with self and
others
• Willingness to let stuff go
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
• Sleeping too much
• Avoiding life by being a
couch potato
• Self-soothing with food
• Drinking
• Lashing out/being
irritable, impatient
• Self-handicapping
• Getting my work done
• Spending time with my family
• Healthy living /Vul. Prev.
• Mindfulness
• IMPROVE /ACCEPT
UNHOOKING is
the key
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Example: Do Something Embarrassing
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• Continue with my day
and serving my clients
(One thing at a time—
IMPROVE)
• Laugh about it if it
comes up (I.E.)
• Push it away (IMPROVE)
• Other people do
embarrassing things
(Compassion)
• It could have been worse
(Optimism)
• Humbler/Compassion
Grower (Willingness)
• Leaving work
• Hiding in my office
• Self-Soothing with food
• Get defensive if it
comes up
• Embarrassment
• Feeling stupid
• Wanting to hide out
• “Everyone is laughing at
me”
Noticing
and
Choosing
DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
GOALS &
VALUES
Good Mother
Dependable
Loyal
Compassionate
Successful
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Example: Chronic Illness
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• Have good sleep habits
• Eat healthfully
• Do my therapy exercises (Activities)
• Focus my attention on things I can
control (Encouragement)
• Get support from friends (Encourage)
• Set small achievable goals (One
thing)
What thoughts will increase…
• Happiness
• Hope
• Gratitude
• Determination
• Empowerment
• Compassion
• Stay in bed
• Drink
• Use pain pills excessively
• Lash out at others for not
understanding
• Helplessness
• Hopelessness/Depression
• Resentment at people who
are healthy
• Anger at myself for being
weak/lazy
• Anxiety that I will lose people
and things important to me
• Guilt
Noticing
and
Choosing
DISTRESS &
DIVERSION
Mindfulness
(Here and Now Sensations)
Internal Events
(Thoughts & Feelings)
Autopilot
GOALS &
VALUES
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Shortcut Question
 Are my current thoughts, feelings and actions
moving me closer to, or further away from my
goals and values.
 Is [this] worth my energy?
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Summary
 The goal of ACT is to create a rich and meaningful
life, while accepting the pain that inevitably goes
with it
 Therapeutic Interventions focus around two main
processes:
 Developing acceptance of unwanted private experiences
which are out of personal control.
 Commitment and action toward living a valued life.
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Summary
 Every event is an opportunity to choose thoughts
and behaviors that will help you use your energy
to move toward your goals and values
 Acceptance means accepting, without judgement,
how you feel and the situation as it is instead of
fighting against it.
 Commitment and purposeful action mean that you
choose to use your energy on thoughts and
behaviors that move you closer to your goals
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ACT, What Every Counselor Should Know

  • 1.
    The ACT Matrix WhatEvery Counselor Should Know with Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes Executive Director, AllCEUs Host: Counselor Toolbox & Happiness Isn’t Brain Surgery AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 1
  • 2.
    Objectives  Review themain points of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy  Review how to apply the matrix  Identify the shortcut question AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 2
  • 3.
    The Main Principlesof ACT  The goals are to:  Create a rich and meaningful life, while accepting the pain that inevitably goes with it.  Learn to perceive difficult thoughts and feelings as harmless, even if uncomfortable, transient psychological events.  Take effective action guided by your deepest values and in which you are fully present and engaged. (No autopilot) AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 3
  • 4.
    Control is theProblem, Not the Solution  Clean Discomfort: When emotions and reactions are accepted, it leads to a natural level of physical and emotional discomfort  Dirty Discomfort: Once you start struggling with it, your “struggle switch is turned on” and discomfort increases rapidly.  Struggle switch is like an emotional amplifier—switch it on, and you can have anger about your anxiety, anxiety about your anger, depression about your depression, or guilt about our guilt. AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 4
  • 5.
    Experiential Avoidance  Themore time and energy spent trying to avoid or get rid of unwanted feelings in general, the more we are likely to suffer “Quicksand”  Anxiety (Fear things won’t get better)  Anger (Frustration things aren’t getting better)  Depression (Hopelessness and helplessness---resignation that things can’t get better) AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 5
  • 6.
    Changeable Variables inContext  Emotions are a natural way your body prompts you to act.  Focus on changeable variables in the context in which the issue occurs  Physical vulnerabilities (sleep, nutrition, pain)  Relationships (boundaries and communication)  Thoughts (Distress Tolerant)  Behaviors (DBT/CBT) AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 6
  • 7.
    Six Core Principlesof ACT  Values Awareness  Contact with the Present Moment  The Observing Self  Acceptance  Diffusion  Committed Action AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 7
  • 8.
     A lackof clarity about values can underlie much of people’s distress or keep them “stuck.”  Like going on a road trip without a destination  They can get caught up spinning their wheels trying to fight against something or use that same energy to work toward something.  “What is the most effective use of your limited energy and time to help you achieve your goals?” AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 Clarifying the Destination Values & Goals Awareness • Values Awareness • Contact with the Present Moment • The Observing Self • Acceptance • Diffusion • Committed Action 8
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    Clarifying the Destination Values& Goals  Clarifying  Relationships: Who is most important to you? Which people? What do you want those relationships to be like?  What events, things, experiences are meaningful to you? Work Health Personal Growth AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 9
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    Clarifying cont…  Values What values do you want to embody (Choose 5)? AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 Achievement Adventurousness Altruism Ambition Assertiveness Being the best Calmness Commitment Compassion Competitive Consistency Courtesy Creativity Decisiveness Dependability Determination Discipline Effectiveness Efficiency Faithfulness Family- orientedness Fidelity Generosity Gratitude Intelligence Openness Reliability Resourcefulness Restraint Selflessness Self-reliance Strength Tolerance 10
  • 11.
    ACT Matrix: DestinationIdentification AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 GOALS & VALUES DISTRESS & DIVERSION From Goals and Values Noticing and Choosing • Work • Recreation/Personal Growth • Health • Relationships Details in a Notebook • Values Awareness • Contact with the Present Moment • The Observing Self • Acceptance • Diffusion • Committed Action 11
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    The Observing Self TheAudience  Fly on the Wall /Scientist/Nurse doing bed check  Curious  Objective  Nonjudgmental AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 • Values Awareness • Contact with the Present Moment • The Observing Self • Acceptance • Diffusion • Committed Action 12
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    Mindfulness in thePresent Moment Awareness of What Is  Contact with the Present Moment/Bringing full awareness to your here-and-now experience  How do I feel?  What are my thoughts, wants and urges?  What physical sensations am I experiencing?  Describe the environment—smell, temperature, colors, objects, people, sounds, etc… I (see, hear, smell) ______ It reminds me of _____ AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 • Values Awareness • Contact with the Present Moment • The Observing Self • Acceptance • Diffusion • Committed Action 13
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    Acceptance (Radical)  Makingroom for unpleasant feelings, sensations, urges  Allowing them to come and go without running from them or giving them undue attention. AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 • Values Awareness • Contact with the Present Moment • The Observing Self • Acceptance • Diffusion • Committed Action 14
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    Cognitive Diffusion Unhooking Thoughtsand Behaviors  Cognitive diffusion means:  “Stepping back” and recognizing that thoughts are just temporary, automatic events  Unhooking:  Thoughts/feelings don’t always have to lead to action AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 15
  • 16.
    Cognitive Diffusion Unhooking Thoughtsand Behaviors  Here’s a simple exercise in cognitive diffusion:  Think of a negative behavior. “I need to X” “I need to have a drink.” Think about it. Believe it as much as you can. Notice how it affects you.  Now insert the phrase “I’m having the thought that….” in front of “I need to X.” Think about it. Notice what happens. AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 16
  • 17.
    Cognitive Diffusion Unhooking Thoughtsand Behaviors  Here’s another exercise in cognitive diffusion:  Think of a negative self-judgment that takes the form “I am X” such as “I’m stupid.” Think about it. Believe it as much as you can. Notice how it affects you.  Now insert the phrase “I’m having the thought that….” in front of “I am X.” Think about it. Notice what happens. AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 17
  • 18.
    Other Unhooking Techniques Thoughts are not causes. “Is it possible to think that thought, as a thought, AND do x?”  Who is in charge here? Treat thoughts as bullies  OK, you are right. Now what? AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 18
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    Committed Action  Committo:  Mindfulness to identify diversions  Being willing to accept what is (Distress Tolerance)  Actively unhooking to examine the situation objectively so you can: Choose/commit to behaviors that will move you toward your goals and values Choose to let go of thoughts, feelings and behaviors that divert you from your goals. AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 19
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    Matrix: General AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot Noticing and Choosing Behaviors that move you TOWARD your Goals & Values Vulnerability prevention, IMPROVE, ACCEPTS, CBT, Challenging ?s, goals Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful 20
  • 21.
    Toward Behaviors CheatSheet IMPROVE  Imagery  Meaning  Prayer  Relax  One thing at a time  Vacation  Encouragement ACCEPTS  Activities  Contributing  Comparisons  Opposite Emotion  Pushing Away  Thoughts  Sensations AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 Vulnerability Prevention  Sleep  Nutrition  Recreation  Physical Health  Interpersonal Effectiveness  Time Management Have clients complete an “I can do this by…” worksheet for each of the above 21
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot Noticing and Choosing • Getting my work done • Spending time with my family • Vulnerability Prevention • Mindfulness • IMPROVE /ACCEPT Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful 22
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot Noticing and Choosing Thoughts & Feelings that move you TOWARD your Goals & Values Distress Tolerant Thoughts Positive feelings Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) • Getting my work done • Spending time with my family • Healthy living /Vul. Prev. • Mindfulness • IMPROVE /ACCEPT GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful 23
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot Noticing and Choosing • Courage • Hope/Optimism/Enthusiasm • Patience • Compassion with self and others • Willingness to let stuff go • Self-Esteem Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) • Getting my work done • Spending time with my family • Healthy living /Vul. Prev. • Mindfulness • IMPROVE /ACCEPT GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful 24
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 GOALS & VALUES DISTRESS & DIVERSION Noticing and Choosing Behaviors that move you AWAY FROM your Goals & Values (Escape/Quick Fix) Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot 25
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Noticing and Choosing • Sleeping too much • Avoiding life by being a couch potato • Self-soothing with food • Drinking • Lashing out/being irritable, impatient • Self-handicapping Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful 26
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Noticing and Choosing Thoughts & Feelings that move you AWAY FROM your Goals & Values Distress Intolerant Thoughts Unpleasant feelings Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful 27
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Noticing and Choosing• I can’t do this • People suck • I am helpless to change anything/What’s the point • Bad guys/rule breakers always win • No good deed goes unpunished Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful 28
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Noticing and Choosing• I can’t do this • People suck • I am helpless to change anything/What’s the point • Bad guys/rule breakers always win • No good deed goes unpunished Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful • Sleeping too much • Avoiding life by being a couch potato • Self-soothing with food • Drinking • Lashing out/being irritable, impatient • Self-handicapping 29
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    ACT Matrix AllCEUs CounselorEducation Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 GOALS & VALUES DISTRESS & DIVERSION Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot Noticing and Choosing Behaviors that move you TOWARD your Goals & Values IMPROVE, ACCEPT, ABCs, Challenging Thoughts Activity Thoughts & Feelings that move you TOWARD your Goals & Values Courage, Hope, Compassion etc. Thoughts & Feelings that move you AWAY FROM your Goals & Values Distress & Distress Intolerant Thoughts Behaviors that move you AWAY FROM your Goals & Values Escape/Quick Fix Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) 30
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    Put It Together AllCEUsCounselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 DISTRESS & DIVERSION Noticing and Choosing• I can’t do this • People suck • I am helpless to change anything • Bad guys/rule breakers always win • No good deed goes unpunished Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot How can you think about things in a way that increases… • Courage • Optimism/Enthusiasm • Patience • Compassion with self and others • Willingness to let stuff go GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful • Sleeping too much • Avoiding life by being a couch potato • Self-soothing with food • Drinking • Lashing out/being irritable, impatient • Self-handicapping • Getting my work done • Spending time with my family • Healthy living /Vul. Prev. • Mindfulness • IMPROVE /ACCEPT UNHOOKING is the key 31
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    Example: Do SomethingEmbarrassing AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 • Continue with my day and serving my clients (One thing at a time— IMPROVE) • Laugh about it if it comes up (I.E.) • Push it away (IMPROVE) • Other people do embarrassing things (Compassion) • It could have been worse (Optimism) • Humbler/Compassion Grower (Willingness) • Leaving work • Hiding in my office • Self-Soothing with food • Get defensive if it comes up • Embarrassment • Feeling stupid • Wanting to hide out • “Everyone is laughing at me” Noticing and Choosing DISTRESS & DIVERSION Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot GOALS & VALUES Good Mother Dependable Loyal Compassionate Successful 32
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    Example: Chronic Illness AllCEUsCounselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 • Have good sleep habits • Eat healthfully • Do my therapy exercises (Activities) • Focus my attention on things I can control (Encouragement) • Get support from friends (Encourage) • Set small achievable goals (One thing) What thoughts will increase… • Happiness • Hope • Gratitude • Determination • Empowerment • Compassion • Stay in bed • Drink • Use pain pills excessively • Lash out at others for not understanding • Helplessness • Hopelessness/Depression • Resentment at people who are healthy • Anger at myself for being weak/lazy • Anxiety that I will lose people and things important to me • Guilt Noticing and Choosing DISTRESS & DIVERSION Mindfulness (Here and Now Sensations) Internal Events (Thoughts & Feelings) Autopilot GOALS & VALUES 33
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    Shortcut Question  Aremy current thoughts, feelings and actions moving me closer to, or further away from my goals and values.  Is [this] worth my energy? AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 34
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    Summary  The goalof ACT is to create a rich and meaningful life, while accepting the pain that inevitably goes with it  Therapeutic Interventions focus around two main processes:  Developing acceptance of unwanted private experiences which are out of personal control.  Commitment and action toward living a valued life. AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 35
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    Summary  Every eventis an opportunity to choose thoughts and behaviors that will help you use your energy to move toward your goals and values  Acceptance means accepting, without judgement, how you feel and the situation as it is instead of fighting against it.  Commitment and purposeful action mean that you choose to use your energy on thoughts and behaviors that move you closer to your goals AllCEUs Counselor Education Unlimited CEUs $59 | Specialty Certificates $89 36
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