The document discusses several topics related to family relationships and adolescent development. It addresses how parents change during midlife, transformations in family relations as adolescents mature, different parenting styles and their effects, and how families are changing in modern society. Key factors that influence adolescent development include parental relationships, economic stress, divorce, remarriage, and parental employment. Overall, supportive family relationships promote healthier adolescent adjustment.
Introduction
Adulthood - Adult and Family Development
Finding a Mate: Courtship Patterns
Parent-Arranged Marriages
The American Dating System
Marriage
Types of Marital Relationships
The Family Life Cycle
Leaving Home and Becoming a Single Adult
Developmental Tasks of The Family Establishment Phase
Establishing a Home Base to Call Their Own
Introduction
Adulthood - Adult and Family Development
Finding a Mate: Courtship Patterns
Parent-Arranged Marriages
The American Dating System
Marriage
Types of Marital Relationships
The Family Life Cycle
Leaving Home and Becoming a Single Adult
Developmental Tasks of The Family Establishment Phase
Establishing a Home Base to Call Their Own
Causes of family breakdown and its effects on Children by David MetaloroDavid Metaloro
Abstract
The increase of family breakdown down rate in Juba City has been due to alcohol and drugs addiction, financial problems, death, plus psychological, sexual and emotional abuse, threatening diseases like HIV/AIDs and inability to resolve conflict among others.
The objective of the study was to investigate the causes of family breakdown and its effects on the children in Juba City. The effects of family breakdown on children include difficulties in school, stress, early engagement in sexual activities, insecure and afraid of the future, depression and fear of being abandoned. The forms of family breakdown identified during the study include death, separation and divorce.
The rate of the family breakage was indicating 78.3%, though the study was based in Juba city, it reflects the entire country since all of the ten states’ habitants were included in study. Some of the cultural practices were found of backing up the high rate of family breakdown and such practices include force marriage, polygamy marriage, inheritance of widowers and high bride wealth.
The study proved communication skills, creation of family laws, supporting the children of the low families, marriage preparation and parenting new initiatives and information giving and mediation are the fundamental alternative solution to family breakdown.
In conclusion, the study proved the family breakdown affects the children performance in schools in line with other effects such as; stress, depression, fear of being abandoned, insecure and afraid of the future and torn in two among others.
In the end, the study recommended that the three stakeholders; government, NGOs and the academia to play respective role suggested to them by the researcher in accordance with the findings.
Challenges and Threats to Filipino Familiesgraecha
Disintegration of families, juvenile delinquency, domestic violence, substance abuse, dangers of drugs, ways to help children say "NO' to drugs, parental absenteeism, economic difficulties, absence of family goals and values, early sexual involvement, negative influence of media. A POPCOM Learning Package on Parent Education on Adolescent and Health and Development.
A manifesto in the fight for children's rightsHans Hageman
This is a manifesto setting forth what Jitegemee, Inc. stands for in its work with children in Kenya. We want you to join us as we fight for children everywhere.
PPT presentation that looks at some basic aspect of the family. It looks at what a family is, types of families and the functions of the family. It is done in a newspaper format.
Family and its Influence : Consumer BehaviorKaushik Deb
With the exception of those very few people who are classified as hermits, most individuals interact with other people on daily basis, especially with members of their own families. The family commonly provides the opportunity for product exposure and trial and imparts consumption values to its members. As a major consumption group, the family is also a prime target for many product and services.
I created this to ultimately present to my Child Life department at the hospital I work at in order to raise awareness of the importance of peer support to the sick and hospitalized adolescent. Perhaps there will be further development of this type of program where I work. Hope you enjoy!
Causes of family breakdown and its effects on Children by David MetaloroDavid Metaloro
Abstract
The increase of family breakdown down rate in Juba City has been due to alcohol and drugs addiction, financial problems, death, plus psychological, sexual and emotional abuse, threatening diseases like HIV/AIDs and inability to resolve conflict among others.
The objective of the study was to investigate the causes of family breakdown and its effects on the children in Juba City. The effects of family breakdown on children include difficulties in school, stress, early engagement in sexual activities, insecure and afraid of the future, depression and fear of being abandoned. The forms of family breakdown identified during the study include death, separation and divorce.
The rate of the family breakage was indicating 78.3%, though the study was based in Juba city, it reflects the entire country since all of the ten states’ habitants were included in study. Some of the cultural practices were found of backing up the high rate of family breakdown and such practices include force marriage, polygamy marriage, inheritance of widowers and high bride wealth.
The study proved communication skills, creation of family laws, supporting the children of the low families, marriage preparation and parenting new initiatives and information giving and mediation are the fundamental alternative solution to family breakdown.
In conclusion, the study proved the family breakdown affects the children performance in schools in line with other effects such as; stress, depression, fear of being abandoned, insecure and afraid of the future and torn in two among others.
In the end, the study recommended that the three stakeholders; government, NGOs and the academia to play respective role suggested to them by the researcher in accordance with the findings.
Challenges and Threats to Filipino Familiesgraecha
Disintegration of families, juvenile delinquency, domestic violence, substance abuse, dangers of drugs, ways to help children say "NO' to drugs, parental absenteeism, economic difficulties, absence of family goals and values, early sexual involvement, negative influence of media. A POPCOM Learning Package on Parent Education on Adolescent and Health and Development.
A manifesto in the fight for children's rightsHans Hageman
This is a manifesto setting forth what Jitegemee, Inc. stands for in its work with children in Kenya. We want you to join us as we fight for children everywhere.
PPT presentation that looks at some basic aspect of the family. It looks at what a family is, types of families and the functions of the family. It is done in a newspaper format.
Family and its Influence : Consumer BehaviorKaushik Deb
With the exception of those very few people who are classified as hermits, most individuals interact with other people on daily basis, especially with members of their own families. The family commonly provides the opportunity for product exposure and trial and imparts consumption values to its members. As a major consumption group, the family is also a prime target for many product and services.
I created this to ultimately present to my Child Life department at the hospital I work at in order to raise awareness of the importance of peer support to the sick and hospitalized adolescent. Perhaps there will be further development of this type of program where I work. Hope you enjoy!
Second ppt of adolescence development. This power-point will brings you scope of adolescent. There are 6 aspects of adolescence development: physics, emotions, personal, cognitive, psychosocial, moral and value.
Men must salvage the boy child and young menKIGUME Karuri
Men, particularly young men, are experiencing difficulties in today's society. Indications of these difficulties can be found in the predominance of males in marginalized groups, such as the homeless, in the greater number of behavioural problems experienced by young men and boys.
Where are the men who can mentor and bring hope and a future to these young men?
Families share how they have maintained and grown their wealth from generation to generation. While creating wealth is a wonderful achievement, business families are also concerned with how their wealth is used to support their values, the lives of their children and the well-being of the community.
Over several generations, families who are successful in growing their wealth have been able to reinvent themselves and their business in the face of significant environmental transformations and internal differences cause by family dynamics.
Borrowed from my Grandchildren is a fascinating look at how large, long-lasting business families succeed across generations. Author Dennis T. Jaffe, one of the leading architects of the field of family enterprise consulting, has interviewed members of successful, well known, 100-year family enterprises from 20 countries, who serve as role models for those wishing to see their wealth positively impact their children, employees, and communities. Half continue to own their legacy business and others have gone on to become family offices with a portfolio of shared assets, but all these families have sustained their values and identity as a family over more than three generations.
Offering the collected wisdom of nearly 100 global business families, this insightful book shares the real-life stories of partners in business and wealth management over three of more generations. Families that generate rather than reduce their wealth across generations, known as Generative Families, focus on engaging across generations and develop collaborative governance for both family and business to ensure responsible stewardship from one generation to the next. This unique resource: Presents real-life stories of families sustaining wealth over generations Explores both the successes and failures of retaining family wealth Includes rare private insights from members of prominent wealthy families Examines the nature of global family enterprises and their evolution over generations Discusses the financial, human, and social dimensions of wealth Borrowed from my Grandchildren: The Evolution of Stewardship in 100-Year Families is an essential read for family members, non-family executives, family offices, estate planning lawyers, family business consultants, trust officers, philanthropic and foundation advisors, financial advisors, financial planners, CPAs, and other finance professionals.
Happy Reading & Implementation
McGraw-HillIrwinParenthood Satisfaction and Chal.docxARIV4
McGraw-Hill/Irwin
Parenthood:
Satisfaction and
Challenge
CHAPTER 12
12-2
Parenting
Often presents challenges for couples
Impacts couple relationship
Requires balancing work and family more
than before
Requires decisions regarding:
Parenting styles and approaches to
childrearing (punishment, rules, etc)
Number of children and spacing
12-3
Myths and Realities of Parenthood
Myths Realities
Children will turn out well if they have
good parents
Parenting is not the only factor in
development
Children are sweet and cute Children can be selfish, destructive, and
extremely active
Good parents can manage any child, no
matter what the child’s nature
Some degree temperament is present in
infants at birth
Today’s parents are not as good as
yesterday’s parents
Standards for raising children have
gotten higher and challenging
One child is too few It has both advantages and
disadvantages
All parents are adults Many adolescent become parents
12-4
Myths and Realities
Myths Realities
Parenthood receives top priority
in our society
Making money receives priority in
our society
Love is enough to guarantee
good parental performance
Parenting also requires hard work
and good parenting skills
Single-parent families are
problematic
There are countless strong single-
parent families in which children
are growing up happy and
healthy
Parenting gets easier as children
get older
Parenting issues change and
become more difficult with time
Parenting ends when the
children leave home
Adult children often return home
to live after some life crisis
The empty-nest syndrome leaves
many parents lonely and
depressed
Many parents enjoy the freedom
that comes with not having
adolescents at home
12-5
Transition to Parenthood
Role of a parent takes priority over other
roles
Change of relationship with family of origin
Parent develops a new relationship with the
child
New stressors and sources of emotional
support
Change in quality of couple relationship
changes
12-6
Financial Issues and Children
Cost of raising children high and often
surprising for parents
Socialization of children to financial issues
and management important:
Allowance
Savings account
Common expenditures
Family income
Use of credit
12-7
Figure 12.1 - Cost of Raising a
Child from Birth Through Age 17
Source: Lino & Carlson, 2009, U.S. Dept. of Agriculture, Center for Nutrition Policy and Promotion.
12-8
Adoption
Estimate that 3% of Americans are adopted
Open Adoption Practices
Contact between adoptive and birth families
Mediated: by adoption agency
Fully disclosed: direct contact between parents
Confidential Adoption Practices
No information shared between adoptive and birth
families
12-9
Adoptees
Face Stereotypes by Others
Unhappy, poorly adjusted, and
malfunctioning
Studies suggest most adoptees do fine
Adolescent adoptees may be at ...
Meaning ,definition concept ,family support and coping skillsDeenaGeorge2
Here talking about family . How a family and its members adjust their family environment and their life to accept and protect a persons with disability in the family.
Contrary to popular stereotypes, adolescents and their parents tend to remain close and do see eye to eye on a variety of issues
Share similar values
Parents who believe in negative stereotypes of adolescent behavior tend to have more negative relationships with their adolescent children, and this is known as “self-fulfilling prophecy”
Although most people believe there is a generation gap, holding of different values between adolescents and adults; not the case
When sharp differences exist, they are generally around the area of personal tastes such as music and dress, rather than fundamental attitudes and values
One potential source of conflict between adolescents and adults is the different ways in which they define the same issues
For example, making sure that there rooms are tidy is something that parents believe is their own jurisdiction, where teenagers likely define their rooms as their own private space, and decisions about neatness as matters of personal choice
Other topics that fall under personal choice could include styles of dress or speech
Smetana believes that parents and teens tend to clash over the definitions of stress, and in whose jurisdiction the issue falls
Adolescence is, for both parents and their teens, a period of reorganization and change
Family systems theorists believe that families must adapt to the transformations in roles of each of their members
Families move through stages and phases in their development that make up a family life cycle; so just as individuals have a life cycle, so do families
Because of changes in the adolescents, the entire family system, especially parents, must adjust, with resultant changes in family functions and needs
And this emergence of adolescence for the youngster is generally coinciding with the period of midlife for the parents
For many parents, this is a period of crisis, at least temporarily
For many adults, midlife is a period of heightened introspection and self-evaluation
Because many parents are in the period of midlife (35-45) when their child reaches adolescence, the so called midlife crisis may coincide with the adolescent identity crisis
At midlife, parents must contrast their adolescent hopes and dreams with what they have achieved thus far as adults
Parents have increased concern about their bodies, physical attractiveness, and their sexual appeal
Parents are beginning to feel that the possibilities for change are limited
Most adults reach their occupational plateau
In general, parents who have strong interests outside the family and who have a positive sense of self esteem tend to cope better with the changes of their adolescents than do other parents
The belief than mental health declines when adolescents leave home, what is sometimes called “the empty nest phenomenon” is a myth, especially among mothers
And adolescence presents a challenge to most families
The adolescent’s desire for autonomy in particular may be especially stressful for parents.
In families with middle-aged adults, however, adjusting to adolescence may take more of a toll on the mental health of parents than on the mental health of adolescents.
Parents who are deeply involved in work outside the home or who have an especially happy marriage may be buffered against some of these negative consequences, however, whereas single mothers may be especially vulnerable to these effects.
At different points in the family life cycle, the family members have different needs and functions
Changes in the family as a unit
Changes in economic circumstances
Changes in its relationship to other social institutions
Changes in its functions
One of the most important changes that the family undergoes during the period of adolescence is financial
All parents are burdened with maintaining their adolescent’s clothing and school/activity related expenses and may also face the burden of saving for college
Friction in the family may also arise from perceptions that the adolescent is more capable of shouldering a greater portion of the family’s obligations
The financial demands placed on parents in the sandwich generation, that is, they’re sandwiched between their adolescent children and their aging parents, also requires considerable adjustment
So often at midlife, parents are taking care of their their teens and younger children and also helping their parents
The financial demands placed on parents in the “sandwich generation” (that is, sandwiched between their adolescent children and their aging parents) require considerable adjustment.
Adolescents are more in need of support than nurturance, of guidance more than protection, of direction more than socialization.
Early adolescence marks the shift of the adolescent’s desire for a more egalitarian role in the family structure
As a result, it is during early adolescence that we observe the most disruption in the family
Adolescents begin to play a more forceful role in the family
The adolescent’s biological and cognitive maturation play a role in unbalancing the family system during early adolescence
Although puberty has often been associated with diminished closeness and physical affection, this type of distancing diminishes during late adolescence
When examining the role of gender between the parent and the adolescent, the gender of the parent with whom the parent interacts seems to be the most influential factor in the relationship
Adolescents, both boys and girls, relate to mothers and fathers differently, with adolescents feeling more connected to their mothers than to their fathers
Now, most of the research on changes in family relations at adolescence have been focused on first born children
I wonder if the results would differ in studies of later born
Several researchers have demonstrated that family relationships change during puberty, with conflict between adolescents and their parents increasing slightly, and closeness between adolescents and their parents diminishing.
Conflicts between teenagers and parents tend to be resolved not through compromise but through submission (i.e., giving in) or disengagement (i.e., walking away), neither of which enhances the quality of their relationship.
Food for Thought:
Most research on changes in family relations at adolescence has been focused on first-born children. Do you think the results would differ in studies of later-borns?
Two aspects of parents’ behavior their children’s behavior have been shown to influence adolescent development
These are parental responsiveness and parental demandingness
Parent-adolescent relationships impact the adolescent, but there is also an interaction with genetic factors in influencing behavior and development
Parental responsiveness=how the parent responds to the child’s needs in an accepting, supportive manner
In addition, there seems to be an interaction between genetic factors and behavior
Parental demandingness=how the parent expects and demands mature, responsible behavior from the child
Authoritative parents are warm but firm
Authoritarian parents place a high value on obedience and conformity
Adolescents raised in authoritative homes are more responsible, more self-assured, more adaptive, more creative, more curious, more socially skilled, and more successful in school.
Adolescents raised in authoritarian homes, in contrast, are more dependent, more passive, less socially adept, less self-assured, and less intellectually curious.
These results seem to be consistent with adolescents from a variety of ethnic backgrounds
So there must be a balance of autonomy and structure
This kind of balance helps adolescents to develop healthy relationships with their peers and with their families
Family discussions where rules, decisions, and boundaries are explained also help the child to understand social systems and relationships, and ultimately, those kids are going to become better parents themselves
Adolescents raised in indulgent households are often less mature, more irresponsible, more conforming to their peers, and less able to assume positions of leadership.
Adolescents raised in indifferent homes are often impulsive and more likely to be involved in delinquent behavior and in precocious experiments with sex, drugs, and alcohol.
So there must be a balance of autonomy and structure
This kind of balance helps adolescents to develop healthy relationships with their peers and with their families
Family discussions where rules, decisions, and boundaries are explained also help the child to understand social systems and relationships, and ultimately, those kids are going to become better parents themselves
When considering the impact of various kinds of parenting styles on adolescent development, you must keep in mind that socialization of the adolescent is really a two-way street
It is product of both how the parent influences the adolescent, and how the adolescent influences the parent
Both parenting styles and genetic factors influence adolescent development
So parenting styles are going to influence different personality types in different ways, so we have to be careful in making broad generalizations
This graph shows us the differential effects of parenting style according to the adolescent’s temperament
So the blue line reflects adolescents high in impulsivity, and the red line reflects adolescents low in impulsivity
Impulsive kids tend to have higher levels of delinquency in general, where kids who are low in impulsivity tend to have lower levels of delinquency in general
And the kids with less impulsivity tend to have less differential, or that is, the level of maternal control matters less, so they are quite similar in their behavior regardless of whether there is a high level of maternal control or a lower level
Kids who are impulsive tend to have a very marked interaction between parenting style and delinquency
So when there is low maternal control, impulsive adolescents will tend to demonstrate high rates of delinquency
So delinqency is almost linearly decreased among impulsive adolescents when mothers exhibit higher levels of control
The research shows that there are ethnic differences in parenting practices,
It’s important to distinguish between the prevalence of parenting styles in different populations and the effect of different styles
In general, Authoritative parenting is less prevalent among African-American, Asian-American, or Hispanic-American families than among white families
Authoritarian parenting is more prevalent among ethnic minority than among white families
Although the research is still open to confirmation, some research suggests that authoritarian parenting is more prevalent among ethnic minority than among white families
By contrast, their may be finer distinctions between what constitutes authoritative parenting than these research categories resolve
Studies of parent-adolescent relationships show that the healthiest families are those that permit the adolescent to develop a sense of autonomy while staying emotionally attached to the family
This is most common when relationships between parents and adolescents are characterized by problem solving and empathy on the part of parents (enabling interactions) rather than by constraining interactions (that is,distracting or judging)
So Adolescents who are permitted to assert their own opinions within a family context that is secure and loving, develop higher self-esteem and more mature coping abilities
So, considering some of the relationships between autonomy and attachment, we see
Adolescents whose autonomy is squelched, are at risk for developing feelings of depression
Adolescents who do not feel connected are more likely than their peers to develop behavior problems
So that’s a lack of attachment in the family
So even though adolescents are getting older and they want more autonomy, it is a time where family connections are very, very important and need to be maintained
Food for Thought:
What makes parents choose the sort of parenting they use? Why are some parents authoritative but others not?
Now let’s consider adolescent’s relationships with their siblings
Siblings can learn a great deal from one another, both positive and negative
Over the course of adolescences, adolescents’ relationships with siblings tend to become more equal, but more distant, less influential and less emotionally intense
More egalitarian, nurturant and socially supportive especially with younger siblings
It can become more distant and less emotionally intense and marked by conflict and rivalry
Siblings relationships improve as adolescents move into adulthood
So moving through adolescence they may distance themselves a bit, and become less attached
But in later adolescence and moving into adulthood they tend to reconnect
In general, adolescents’ relationships with parents are different from those with parents, or with friends
A considerable amount of research indicates that the quality of the parent-adolescent relationship influences the quality of relations among adolescent brothers and sisters, which in turn influences adolescents’ relationships with peers.
There seems to be considerable stability in sibling relationships over time, with those who were relative close during childhood remaining close throughout adulthood
Research suggests that adolescents are quite dissimilar from their brothers and sisters, despite the strong genetic and environmental influences that they have in common
Behavioral genetics distinguishes between two types of environmental influences
Shared environmental influences are factors in the environment that individuals, such as siblings, have in common and that make them similar in personality and behavior. Nonshared environmental influences are factors in the environments of individuals that are not similar and that, as a consequence, make them different from one another.
Research suggests that aggression, antisocial behavior, delinquency, and emotional distress are all strongly influenced by genetic factors
And this is why kids going through the same family could have quite different experiences
So now we can better understand how siblings can be so different
Studies of siblings find that brothers and sisters, who share many genes in common, are often very different. These differences are attributed to the influence of nonshared environmental factors.
Siblings often differ from one another because they experience the family differently
That is, interactions with mom and dad, and their environment, school, family, friends differently
In addition, parents often treat siblings differently
Not necessarily a bad thing, because it allows them to see themselves as unique and thus lessens siblling rivalry
When siblings see themselves as too much alike, they sometimes tend to differentiate themselves deliberately, a process known as “sibling deidentification”
Four of the most important changes that have occurred among American families with adolescents are the increase in the rate of divorce, the increase in the prevalence of single-parent households, the increased participation of mothers in the labor force, and the increase in the proportion of families living in poverty.
Although divorce is generally associated with short-term difficulties for the adolescent, several studies show that at least some of the differences between adolescents from divorced versus nondivorced homes were present before the parents divorced.
Although divorce is generally associated with short-term difficulties for the adolescent, several studies show that at least some of the differences between adolescents from divorced versus nondivorced homes were present before the parents divorced.
For girls, financial difficulty is likely to lead to more demands for maturity and increased responsibility around the house (perhaps to take over some of mother’s duties while she works or looks for employment).
For boys, in contrast, disruptions in family finances seem to lead to more frequent conflict, especially with fathers.