This document discusses the importance of testing a girl's level of attraction before pursuing a relationship. It advises men to avoid "blazing full speed ahead" without knowing if the girl is interested. Some suggested tests of attraction include kino escalation like touching her arm to gauge her response, changing body language to see if she follows, and taking her to a new location within an establishment to see if she will follow without hesitation. The goal of testing is to avoid misunderstandings by clearly determining if a girl is interested before getting her number or pursuing further.

2. One very crucial skill to have when
meeting girls for potential
relationships is to test their attraction.

3. Most guys blaze full speed ahead, not
really knowing one way or the other.

4. This tends to get a lot of false
positives.

5. Meaning he's over there chatting her
up, she's not really interested, and he
doesn't really notice.

6. So he number closes, and she gives
him the number just to get rid of him.

7. Then he thinks he's succeeded, but in
reality he's got a very low probability
candidate.

8. He calls her, she blows him off, and he
gets angry and vents online about how
all women are flakes and not to be
trusted.

9. Sound familiar?

10. All this can be avoided with some
simple testing.

11. That way, you KNOW she's interested
in you before you ask for the number.

12. Now, some people say that asking for
her number is the ultimate test, but
this will get you a lot of false numbers.

13. It's WAY too easy to simply give a guy a
number and then later blow him off, or
string him along.

14. Now, most guys don't get this, but
when a girl strings a guy along, she's
really just not assertive enough to say
no.

15. She's hoping he'll get the hint, but he
thinks he's still got a chance.

16. This, of course, leads to further
misunderstandings.

17. Anyhow, how do you test?

18. Many ways.

19. Kino is one way.

20. You simply touch her on an
appropriate place, like the shoulder of
forearm, and see how she responds.

21. If she recoils in horror, or freezes, she's
not into you.

22. If she opens up slightly, or even
touches you back within a minute or
so, that's a pretty clear sign.

23. Another way is to close off rapport
slightly, by switching from matching
body language to mismatching body
language.

24. If she follows you, she's into you.

25. If she doesn't, she's not.

26. Another way is to take her to another
location, within the same
establishment.

27. Like if she's in a bookstore, take her
over to show her your favorite
photography book.

28. If you're in a club, take her to a
different place.

29. If she follows without hesitation, she's
into you.

30. If she mentions her friends or
anything, she's probably not.

31. Now, if she's not clearly into you, what
you do next is up to you.

32. You can back off and try to build more
attraction, if you think you're close.

33. Or you can simply excuse yourself and
go talk to somebody else.

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