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2. One of the most powerful skills you
can have is verbal flexibility.

3. Any goof can memorize a bunch of
pick up lines and patterns.

4. But a true natural will take ANYTHING
she gives him, and can flip it around to
mean pretty much anything else.

5. Imagine a fighter who only knows one
punch, or a football team who only
knows how to run up the middle.

6. They run into any opponent that can
defeat that one move, and they're
done.

7. On the other hand, any team that can
easily adjust their offense based on
the defense of their opponent will win
every game they plan.

8. Of course, this is a HORRIBLE
metaphor for meeting girls.

9. Why?

10. In sports, both teams can't win.

11. One team can ONLY win if the make
the other team lose.

12. This absolutely the wrong attitude to
have when meeting girls.

13. Unless you're the type of guy who
sneaks up behind girls and starts
talking to them completely
unexpectedly, she WANTS you to
succeed.

14. If she's NOT giving you obvious signs
she wants you to go away, she WANTS
you to keep going.

15. She WANTS you to seduce her. She
WANTS you to bang her silly.

16. Now, not the way you think.

17. She doesn't really know you yet.

18. But she HOPES that you are the guy
she's been looking for, who will know
how to spin all her propellers.

19. But in order to figure out if you're
THAT guy or not, she needs to TEST
you.

20. Most guys are terrified of this.

21. You should absolutely WELCOME tests.

22. Why?

23. There are two ways for a girl to get to
know a guy enough to know she wants
to slip in between the sheets.

24. One is to go on a several dates, see
him operate in various situations, see
how he interacts with all levels of
society, see how he handles himself
under pressure.

25. This is pretty much the whole reason
for the dating process.

26. Most guys know right off the bat if
they like a girl, since our criteria are
pretty much based on her physical
appearance.

27. But girls based their attraction on
behavior.

28. Now, this is all unconscious.

29. It's not like they have a spreadsheet
with a bunch of qualities they tick off
every time they finish a date.

30. But they need to interact with a guy
for a while before they KNOW they are
attracted.

31. UNLESS, of course, they throw out
some tests.

32. Most guys assume that tests mean
she's mean, or wants to hurt you, or is
trying to chase you away.

33. But in reality, when she tests you, her
cave girl brain is trying to ACCELERATE
the attraction process.

34. She wants you to pass, so she can be
attracted to you.

35. How do you pass?

36. Have the verbal flexibility and sense of
humor to see they are no big deal.

37. Like sparring with a five year old.

38. They are trying to hit you in the nuts.
But you just playfully knock their
punches away, and have fun while
doing it.

39. See tests the same way.

40. With a solid sense of self, some strong
frame control and verbal flexibility, her
tests will be a welcome acceleration to
your bedroom.

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