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2. Most guys don't know what to say
when they talk to a girl.

3. To be sure, walking up is one thing.

4. But once you've stopped your
approach, and she's waiting for you to
say something, it can get pretty nerve
wracking.

5. There are a few ways to help.

6. One way is to have a few opening
questions.

7. Not memorized patterns mind you,
but just a few easy things to say, so
you don't have to come up with
something on the spot.

8. To be sure, when you're in the
moment, you can easily riff off each
other.

9. She'll say something that reminds you
of something, which you'll say, then
that gets her thinking of something.

10. When both people feel relaxed and
open enough to share whatever pops
in their head, AND there's plenty of
stuff popping in each other's heads,
that's a pretty good feeling.

11. That's when you're creating that
seemingly magical back and forth
energy flow that can take on a life of
its own.

12. That's when the minutes turn into
hours, and before long you wonder
where all the time has gone.

13. But getting to that point isn't always
easy, nor is it automatic.

14. It can only happen between two
people that have enough in common,
and enough natural rapport.

15. One way to test the waters, when you
first start the conversation, is to simply
know a few easy things to say.

16. The best thing is to simply pace the
situation.

17. This means to say things that are
absolutely true.

18. Things that she'll naturally agree with.

19. When you do so, mix in a little about
yourself, your opinions, your feelings.

20. This is to let her know that you're not
going to put her on the spot and make
her do all the talking.

21. Something like this is pretty good:

22. "Hi, I saw you across the room and I
thought you seemed interesting, so I
decided to come over and introduce
myself and maybe find out more about
you. My name's George."

23. You're not putting her on the spot, you
just said what happened, so you're not
saying anything crazy.

24. You've said something about your
intentions, AND you've said your
name.

25. And because you said "maybe" there's
not any kind of pressure.

26. Then you simply see how she
responds.

27. If she looks like she's under attack,
she's not feeling it.

28. If she clearly closes off her body
language, she's not feeling it.

29. If she looks around desperately for her
friends or a cop, she's not feeling it.

30. But if she looks at you, faces you, and
gives you her name, then it's on.

31. Just keep it easy.

32. Talk about easy stuff.

33. Explain what you're doing there.

34. Avoid direct questions.

35. If you say something, and she naturally
reciprocates, that's a GOOD sign.

36. If you're talking and she's listening
politely, but not really adding much to
the conversation, that's not exactly
bad, but it's not that great, either.

37. What you're looking for are girls that
are comfortable enough around you,
and self confident enough around you,
to actively participate in the
conversation.

38. You find someone like this, you're
doing pretty good.
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