12. So what is
Guiding our own growth & development
Enhanced capabilities over time
Better choices in-the-moment
Self-directed â Solitary
self-coaching?
25. Driving forces favor change
Restraining forces resist it
Change
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26. Driving force = Survival anxiety
I must change in order to
to achieve my goals
Change
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27. Restraining force = Learning anxiety
Change means a new identity
or loss of self-esteem
Change
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28. Increase survival anxiety to change?
Or decrease learning anxiety?
Both are necessary
Change
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29. Three steps to unfreezing
1. Disconfirmation
Dissatisfaction created
by confounding data
Necessary but insufficient
(Dismissal, denial, blame)
Change
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30. Three steps to unfreezing
2. A little survival anxiety
Confounding data =
I need to change
Change
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31. Three steps to unfreezing
3. Psychological safety
Critical to overcoming
defensiveness & denial
Change
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32. Threat from survival anxiety must
be balanced by sufficient safety
to decrease learning anxiety
Change
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33. Change =
Survival anxiety > Learning anxiety
Psychological safety
All factors influenced
by our mental models
Change
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34. Photo by Mike Disharoon [link]
Carol Dweck, Stanford
A mental model about ourselves
How do we perceive our abilities?
How do we perceive our mistakes?
Mindset
35. Mindset
Adapted from Carol Dweck [link]
Fixed Growth
Abilities Inherent Plastic
Mistakes Flaws Opportunities
Response Negative Neutral
36. Mindset
Adapted from Carol Dweck [link]
Fixed Growth
Agency Diminished Heightened
Seeking Approval Challenges
Risk Averse Tolerant