SlideShare a Scribd company logo
1 of 2
people deliver projects
project management is easy...then add people
Identifying Resistance
What is Resistance?
It is many things, in many forms. Here we choose to define it
as what we encounter when a person feels emotional
upheaval as a result of a change brought upon them. The
surface behaviour or the ‘presenting issue’ may seem
rational, yet beneath it and shaping it is an emotional
undercurrent. As such, resistance can be evident, or hidden,
and hence ‘explicit’ or ‘veiled’. Even when explicit it is often
ambiguous. Resistance may be a deliberate act or it may be
unconscious where the person is not fully aware of the
emotions driving their surface behaviour. All this makes it devilishly difficult to identify and read, and requires
sensory acuity on the part of the leader of the change.
What are we looking for?
Generally resistance comes in a blend of different forms, which can change during the stages of the change, or can
be mixed up within a single conversation. To help organise the many possible forms, here are five categories.
There might be an explicit attempt to discredit the change, such as ‘it won’t work’, or ‘it’s the wrong change’. This
may be seen as unacceptable and so a shrewder option could be to dilute its impact, for instance delaying it, or by
cherry picking the attractive parts only. In more subtle forms the person evades the change, such as just not
responding or being silent; or entangling the leader in long debates on methodology and detail. There are more
deceptive options too – saying yes when the truth is no, or simply riding the change project out with no intention
of making the change. Sometimes the resisting person may be unaware of their state of denial. Possibly the
person hopes the change will go away; possibly they will become disengaged and continue work as if it isn’t
happening.
Is it resistance?
Before ticking these off ‘yep, seen it’ there is one final crucial
judgement to make. Just about all of the examples above are
potentially quite legitimate positions for a stakeholder to take.
Their view may be accurate and the information very helpful to us.
They are being authentic, meaning that they are conscious of their
feelings and expressing this truthfully just as they see it. (Although
a semantic point) this is not ‘resistance’ at all as we mean it here.
The challenge for the change leader is to help the resisting person
in to an authentic dialogue. Not easy!
people deliver projects
www.peopledeliverprojects.com
Examples of resisting behaviour
Type Description Example
Examples of Rejection
Discredit Counter-position of suggesting it is not the right change. It could be cited as
the wrong thinking or not seeing the potential of the current state.
‘Hasn’t been thought through’
Personal attack If the case against is not strong, the defense can become attack on the
individual or ‘The centre’ or whoever is seen as the ignorant initiator.
‘What experience have you got of
this business?’
Invalidate Latest ‘best practice’ ideas are hard to shoot down, because they appear to
hold morality, so playing the ‘real world’ card is popular line of defense.
‘it may work there, but it can’t be
applied to this business’
Doubt Taking the position of being skeptical can be politically safer than rejection.
It implies being responsible, rather than negative
‘I’m not yet convinced; what is the
evidence…’
Examples of Diluting
Delay Waiting for less busy times, taking small steps or running a pilot can seem a
plausible strategy, and it can also be a neat way to slow the change down.
‘I think we should consider a pilot
first’
Minimise Focusing on quick wins, or what can be delivered in the short term is
eminently sensible, unless it is hoped that this will become as far as it goes.
‘Let’s focus on what is practical
and we can deliver now’
Distort A request for a degree of flexibility in the solution or implementation can be
a disguise for ‘I’m going to do just those things that I want to do’
‘yes, a common approach, but we
also need to adapt to each area’
Select A similar twist, where the scope is cherry-picked for those items that are
either acceptable, or already wanted.
‘Yes, that has merits, I think that’s
a good idea’
Examples of Evasion
Entanglement Debates are constructive and seemingly endless. We find ourselves in
intellectual cul-de-sacs, or debates on methodology, while the change stalls.
‘I don’t think we are asking the
right questions’
Silence This strategy is passive. The person may seem ok, but just not say anything.
By giving no clues, it keeps options open, because no position is declared.
‘…
Compliance The change is not criticised overtly and is apparently moving forwards. It’s
seductive, but watch out when it lands badly and there is low ownership.
‘Yes, fine, making good progress in
the circumstances’
Side-step What happened? It was all going ahead and then suddenly later (probably
quietly) the work stopped. Things got better. There’s a new priority.
‘People seem to have come
around on their own’
Examples of Deceive
Sabotage Briefing against the change is not just a tactic in Whitehall. Alliances are
built and provide a powerful resisting force
‘We should stand firm together on
this’
False Agree Saying ‘yes’ when meaning no, or sometimes meaning ‘not in the way that
you mean’ is a short-term dodge which can often work out in the long term
‘Of course, yes, there’s always
room for improvement’
Endure Especially when change has failed often before, ‘riding it out’ in anticipation
of it foundering for other reasons is a smart way of staying safe in change
‘Let’s just see what happens when
this settles down and they see…’
Blank It seems like an ugly game of not replying to emails and not showing up, yet
there always seems a plausible explanation
(in response to incoming email)
‘delete’
Examples of Denial
Hope Less conscious than blanking is just hoping it is not going to happen. The
more painful it looks, the more hopeful we become.
‘I doubt it will come to much’
Distance Talking about their situation, but in the third person, can be a subtle sign of
an individual seeking comfort in not personally being part of the problem.
‘The problem with these people is
… it’s the culture here’
Disengage When it’s all too much, the pain-free option may be to act as if it just wasn’t
happening. There is comfort in the here and now and the familiar.
(not spoken)
Delusion It often feels a better place to be ‘on board’ and capable, and so being off
the pace can be imagined to be presented as much more successful
‘Yep got it all in hand…’

More Related Content

What's hot

Influencing skills
Influencing skillsInfluencing skills
Influencing skills
Mohit Singla
 
Resolving conflict
Resolving conflictResolving conflict
Resolving conflict
cenriquegf30
 
Influence without authority session handout
Influence without authority session handoutInfluence without authority session handout
Influence without authority session handout
Leadership AdvantEdge
 

What's hot (19)

The 7 Habits of Highly Effectively People - Habit Four
The 7 Habits of Highly Effectively People - Habit FourThe 7 Habits of Highly Effectively People - Habit Four
The 7 Habits of Highly Effectively People - Habit Four
 
Managing Conflict Solving Complex Problems
Managing Conflict Solving Complex ProblemsManaging Conflict Solving Complex Problems
Managing Conflict Solving Complex Problems
 
The 4S collaborative conversational framework
The 4S collaborative conversational frameworkThe 4S collaborative conversational framework
The 4S collaborative conversational framework
 
Influencing skills - Getting results without direct authority
Influencing skills - Getting results without direct authorityInfluencing skills - Getting results without direct authority
Influencing skills - Getting results without direct authority
 
Wood Badge - Managing Conflict
Wood Badge - Managing ConflictWood Badge - Managing Conflict
Wood Badge - Managing Conflict
 
Conflict Management
Conflict ManagementConflict Management
Conflict Management
 
Influencing skills
Influencing skillsInfluencing skills
Influencing skills
 
Resolving conflict
Resolving conflictResolving conflict
Resolving conflict
 
Conflict Management
Conflict ManagementConflict Management
Conflict Management
 
The 7 Habits of Highly Effectively People - Habit Five
The 7 Habits of Highly Effectively People - Habit FiveThe 7 Habits of Highly Effectively People - Habit Five
The 7 Habits of Highly Effectively People - Habit Five
 
Conflict Resolution At Work
Conflict Resolution At WorkConflict Resolution At Work
Conflict Resolution At Work
 
Effective cmmunication
Effective cmmunicationEffective cmmunication
Effective cmmunication
 
Influence without authority session handout
Influence without authority session handoutInfluence without authority session handout
Influence without authority session handout
 
Chapter 7: Interpersonal Skills
Chapter 7: Interpersonal SkillsChapter 7: Interpersonal Skills
Chapter 7: Interpersonal Skills
 
Positive Conflicts
Positive ConflictsPositive Conflicts
Positive Conflicts
 
Influencing skills infographic
Influencing skills infographicInfluencing skills infographic
Influencing skills infographic
 
Avoiding the Five Temptations of a Student Leader
Avoiding the Five Temptations of a Student LeaderAvoiding the Five Temptations of a Student Leader
Avoiding the Five Temptations of a Student Leader
 
Ok - So What Do I SAY?
Ok - So What Do I SAY?Ok - So What Do I SAY?
Ok - So What Do I SAY?
 
Andy Hockley Managing conflict
Andy Hockley Managing conflictAndy Hockley Managing conflict
Andy Hockley Managing conflict
 

Similar to APM 'Project manager to leader' seminar: The what, why and how - Identifying resistance by people deliver projects

short-questions11.jpgshort-questionsChapter.pdf Ch.docx
short-questions11.jpgshort-questionsChapter.pdf  Ch.docxshort-questions11.jpgshort-questionsChapter.pdf  Ch.docx
short-questions11.jpgshort-questionsChapter.pdf Ch.docx
budabrooks46239
 
Chapter One Valuing Diversity 1 Chapter One Valuin.docx
  Chapter One Valuing Diversity 1  Chapter One Valuin.docx  Chapter One Valuing Diversity 1  Chapter One Valuin.docx
Chapter One Valuing Diversity 1 Chapter One Valuin.docx
joyjonna282
 
Organizational Change
Organizational ChangeOrganizational Change
Organizational Change
Rasel Kabir
 
Interpersonal skills
Interpersonal skillsInterpersonal skills
Interpersonal skills
Atul Solanki
 
For this assignment, read the Case Study and write a 2-3 page .docx
For this assignment, read the Case Study and write a 2-3 page .docxFor this assignment, read the Case Study and write a 2-3 page .docx
For this assignment, read the Case Study and write a 2-3 page .docx
budbarber38650
 
Difficult Conversations
Difficult ConversationsDifficult Conversations
Difficult Conversations
kktv
 
Difficult Conversations
Difficult ConversationsDifficult Conversations
Difficult Conversations
kktv
 

Similar to APM 'Project manager to leader' seminar: The what, why and how - Identifying resistance by people deliver projects (20)

powertools
powertoolspowertools
powertools
 
short-questions11.jpgshort-questionsChapter.pdf Ch.docx
short-questions11.jpgshort-questionsChapter.pdf  Ch.docxshort-questions11.jpgshort-questionsChapter.pdf  Ch.docx
short-questions11.jpgshort-questionsChapter.pdf Ch.docx
 
Resilience-Workbook.pptx
Resilience-Workbook.pptxResilience-Workbook.pptx
Resilience-Workbook.pptx
 
Dealing with problematic employees in workplace
Dealing with problematic employees in workplaceDealing with problematic employees in workplace
Dealing with problematic employees in workplace
 
Chapter One Valuing Diversity 1 Chapter One Valuin.docx
  Chapter One Valuing Diversity 1  Chapter One Valuin.docx  Chapter One Valuing Diversity 1  Chapter One Valuin.docx
Chapter One Valuing Diversity 1 Chapter One Valuin.docx
 
Organizational Change
Organizational ChangeOrganizational Change
Organizational Change
 
Empathy by jj
Empathy by jjEmpathy by jj
Empathy by jj
 
Change management at workplace | Bookingjini
Change management at workplace | Bookingjini Change management at workplace | Bookingjini
Change management at workplace | Bookingjini
 
Assertiveness & Confidence Building with Young People
Assertiveness & Confidence Building with Young PeopleAssertiveness & Confidence Building with Young People
Assertiveness & Confidence Building with Young People
 
Assertiveness & Confidence Building with Young People
Assertiveness & Confidence Building with Young PeopleAssertiveness & Confidence Building with Young People
Assertiveness & Confidence Building with Young People
 
Interpersonal skills
Interpersonal skillsInterpersonal skills
Interpersonal skills
 
Being An Assertive Manager
Being An Assertive ManagerBeing An Assertive Manager
Being An Assertive Manager
 
For this assignment, read the Case Study and write a 2-3 page .docx
For this assignment, read the Case Study and write a 2-3 page .docxFor this assignment, read the Case Study and write a 2-3 page .docx
For this assignment, read the Case Study and write a 2-3 page .docx
 
The feedback process
The feedback process The feedback process
The feedback process
 
Active Listening
Active ListeningActive Listening
Active Listening
 
Considering stakeholders
Considering stakeholdersConsidering stakeholders
Considering stakeholders
 
Assertiveness: How to Stand-up for What You Deserve
Assertiveness: How to Stand-up for What You DeserveAssertiveness: How to Stand-up for What You Deserve
Assertiveness: How to Stand-up for What You Deserve
 
Giving Feedback When You’re Conflict Averse.pdf
Giving Feedback When You’re Conflict Averse.pdfGiving Feedback When You’re Conflict Averse.pdf
Giving Feedback When You’re Conflict Averse.pdf
 
Difficult Conversations
Difficult ConversationsDifficult Conversations
Difficult Conversations
 
Difficult Conversations
Difficult ConversationsDifficult Conversations
Difficult Conversations
 

More from Association for Project Management

Team Lead Succeed – Helping you and your team achieve high-performance teamwo...
Team Lead Succeed – Helping you and your team achieve high-performance teamwo...Team Lead Succeed – Helping you and your team achieve high-performance teamwo...
Team Lead Succeed – Helping you and your team achieve high-performance teamwo...
Association for Project Management
 
If AI changes everything – do feelings still matter?
If AI changes everything – do feelings still matter?If AI changes everything – do feelings still matter?
If AI changes everything – do feelings still matter?
Association for Project Management
 
Personal Resilience in Project Management 2 - TV Edit 1a.pdf
Personal Resilience in Project Management 2 - TV Edit 1a.pdfPersonal Resilience in Project Management 2 - TV Edit 1a.pdf
Personal Resilience in Project Management 2 - TV Edit 1a.pdf
Association for Project Management
 

More from Association for Project Management (20)

Making communications land - Are they received and understood as intended? we...
Making communications land - Are they received and understood as intended? we...Making communications land - Are they received and understood as intended? we...
Making communications land - Are they received and understood as intended? we...
 
Spatium Project Simulation student brief
Spatium Project Simulation student briefSpatium Project Simulation student brief
Spatium Project Simulation student brief
 
APM Welcome, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies Across Sectors
APM Welcome, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies Across SectorsAPM Welcome, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies Across Sectors
APM Welcome, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies Across Sectors
 
Projecting for the Future: Harmonising Energy and Environment, APM North West...
Projecting for the Future: Harmonising Energy and Environment, APM North West...Projecting for the Future: Harmonising Energy and Environment, APM North West...
Projecting for the Future: Harmonising Energy and Environment, APM North West...
 
New to Nuclear - Transition into nuclear from other sectors, APM North West N...
New to Nuclear - Transition into nuclear from other sectors, APM North West N...New to Nuclear - Transition into nuclear from other sectors, APM North West N...
New to Nuclear - Transition into nuclear from other sectors, APM North West N...
 
Tell us what to do, not how to do it, APM North West Network Conference, Syne...
Tell us what to do, not how to do it, APM North West Network Conference, Syne...Tell us what to do, not how to do it, APM North West Network Conference, Syne...
Tell us what to do, not how to do it, APM North West Network Conference, Syne...
 
The Future is Fractional, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies Across...
The Future is Fractional, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies Across...The Future is Fractional, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies Across...
The Future is Fractional, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies Across...
 
Lessons learned across projects, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies...
Lessons learned across projects, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies...Lessons learned across projects, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies...
Lessons learned across projects, APM North West Network Conference, Synergies...
 
Agile Adaptability: Navigating Project Management in a Dynamic World, APM Nor...
Agile Adaptability: Navigating Project Management in a Dynamic World, APM Nor...Agile Adaptability: Navigating Project Management in a Dynamic World, APM Nor...
Agile Adaptability: Navigating Project Management in a Dynamic World, APM Nor...
 
Inclusive Practices in Project Management: Leveraging Digital Frameworks for ...
Inclusive Practices in Project Management: Leveraging Digital Frameworks for ...Inclusive Practices in Project Management: Leveraging Digital Frameworks for ...
Inclusive Practices in Project Management: Leveraging Digital Frameworks for ...
 
Leadership - the project professionals secret weapon, 24 April 2024
Leadership - the project professionals secret weapon, 24 April 2024Leadership - the project professionals secret weapon, 24 April 2024
Leadership - the project professionals secret weapon, 24 April 2024
 
APM Project Management Awards - Hints and tips for a winning award entry webi...
APM Project Management Awards - Hints and tips for a winning award entry webi...APM Project Management Awards - Hints and tips for a winning award entry webi...
APM Project Management Awards - Hints and tips for a winning award entry webi...
 
The Vyrnwy Aqueduct Modernisation Programme webinar, 17 April 2024
The Vyrnwy Aqueduct Modernisation Programme webinar, 17 April 2024The Vyrnwy Aqueduct Modernisation Programme webinar, 17 April 2024
The Vyrnwy Aqueduct Modernisation Programme webinar, 17 April 2024
 
Team Lead Succeed – Helping you and your team achieve high-performance teamwo...
Team Lead Succeed – Helping you and your team achieve high-performance teamwo...Team Lead Succeed – Helping you and your team achieve high-performance teamwo...
Team Lead Succeed – Helping you and your team achieve high-performance teamwo...
 
Staurt Earl - ARCC Programme for APM Awards.pptx
Staurt Earl - ARCC Programme for APM Awards.pptxStaurt Earl - ARCC Programme for APM Awards.pptx
Staurt Earl - ARCC Programme for APM Awards.pptx
 
If AI changes everything – do feelings still matter?
If AI changes everything – do feelings still matter?If AI changes everything – do feelings still matter?
If AI changes everything – do feelings still matter?
 
AI in the project profession: examples of current use and roadmaps to adoptio...
AI in the project profession: examples of current use and roadmaps to adoptio...AI in the project profession: examples of current use and roadmaps to adoptio...
AI in the project profession: examples of current use and roadmaps to adoptio...
 
Katharine Fox, WRAP - Valuing sustainability
Katharine Fox, WRAP - Valuing sustainabilityKatharine Fox, WRAP - Valuing sustainability
Katharine Fox, WRAP - Valuing sustainability
 
The silent project disruptor: Building AI solutions
The silent project disruptor: Building AI solutionsThe silent project disruptor: Building AI solutions
The silent project disruptor: Building AI solutions
 
Personal Resilience in Project Management 2 - TV Edit 1a.pdf
Personal Resilience in Project Management 2 - TV Edit 1a.pdfPersonal Resilience in Project Management 2 - TV Edit 1a.pdf
Personal Resilience in Project Management 2 - TV Edit 1a.pdf
 

Recently uploaded

Russian Escort Service in Delhi 11k Hotel Foreigner Russian Call Girls in Delhi
Russian Escort Service in Delhi 11k Hotel Foreigner Russian Call Girls in DelhiRussian Escort Service in Delhi 11k Hotel Foreigner Russian Call Girls in Delhi
Russian Escort Service in Delhi 11k Hotel Foreigner Russian Call Girls in Delhi
kauryashika82
 

Recently uploaded (20)

Russian Escort Service in Delhi 11k Hotel Foreigner Russian Call Girls in Delhi
Russian Escort Service in Delhi 11k Hotel Foreigner Russian Call Girls in DelhiRussian Escort Service in Delhi 11k Hotel Foreigner Russian Call Girls in Delhi
Russian Escort Service in Delhi 11k Hotel Foreigner Russian Call Girls in Delhi
 
TỔNG ÔN TẬP THI VÀO LỚP 10 MÔN TIẾNG ANH NĂM HỌC 2023 - 2024 CÓ ĐÁP ÁN (NGỮ Â...
TỔNG ÔN TẬP THI VÀO LỚP 10 MÔN TIẾNG ANH NĂM HỌC 2023 - 2024 CÓ ĐÁP ÁN (NGỮ Â...TỔNG ÔN TẬP THI VÀO LỚP 10 MÔN TIẾNG ANH NĂM HỌC 2023 - 2024 CÓ ĐÁP ÁN (NGỮ Â...
TỔNG ÔN TẬP THI VÀO LỚP 10 MÔN TIẾNG ANH NĂM HỌC 2023 - 2024 CÓ ĐÁP ÁN (NGỮ Â...
 
ICT Role in 21st Century Education & its Challenges.pptx
ICT Role in 21st Century Education & its Challenges.pptxICT Role in 21st Century Education & its Challenges.pptx
ICT Role in 21st Century Education & its Challenges.pptx
 
Key note speaker Neum_Admir Softic_ENG.pdf
Key note speaker Neum_Admir Softic_ENG.pdfKey note speaker Neum_Admir Softic_ENG.pdf
Key note speaker Neum_Admir Softic_ENG.pdf
 
On National Teacher Day, meet the 2024-25 Kenan Fellows
On National Teacher Day, meet the 2024-25 Kenan FellowsOn National Teacher Day, meet the 2024-25 Kenan Fellows
On National Teacher Day, meet the 2024-25 Kenan Fellows
 
Mixin Classes in Odoo 17 How to Extend Models Using Mixin Classes
Mixin Classes in Odoo 17  How to Extend Models Using Mixin ClassesMixin Classes in Odoo 17  How to Extend Models Using Mixin Classes
Mixin Classes in Odoo 17 How to Extend Models Using Mixin Classes
 
Grant Readiness 101 TechSoup and Remy Consulting
Grant Readiness 101 TechSoup and Remy ConsultingGrant Readiness 101 TechSoup and Remy Consulting
Grant Readiness 101 TechSoup and Remy Consulting
 
ComPTIA Overview | Comptia Security+ Book SY0-701
ComPTIA Overview | Comptia Security+ Book SY0-701ComPTIA Overview | Comptia Security+ Book SY0-701
ComPTIA Overview | Comptia Security+ Book SY0-701
 
Unit-V; Pricing (Pharma Marketing Management).pptx
Unit-V; Pricing (Pharma Marketing Management).pptxUnit-V; Pricing (Pharma Marketing Management).pptx
Unit-V; Pricing (Pharma Marketing Management).pptx
 
How to Give a Domain for a Field in Odoo 17
How to Give a Domain for a Field in Odoo 17How to Give a Domain for a Field in Odoo 17
How to Give a Domain for a Field in Odoo 17
 
Holdier Curriculum Vitae (April 2024).pdf
Holdier Curriculum Vitae (April 2024).pdfHoldier Curriculum Vitae (April 2024).pdf
Holdier Curriculum Vitae (April 2024).pdf
 
Explore beautiful and ugly buildings. Mathematics helps us create beautiful d...
Explore beautiful and ugly buildings. Mathematics helps us create beautiful d...Explore beautiful and ugly buildings. Mathematics helps us create beautiful d...
Explore beautiful and ugly buildings. Mathematics helps us create beautiful d...
 
Energy Resources. ( B. Pharmacy, 1st Year, Sem-II) Natural Resources
Energy Resources. ( B. Pharmacy, 1st Year, Sem-II) Natural ResourcesEnergy Resources. ( B. Pharmacy, 1st Year, Sem-II) Natural Resources
Energy Resources. ( B. Pharmacy, 1st Year, Sem-II) Natural Resources
 
microwave assisted reaction. General introduction
microwave assisted reaction. General introductionmicrowave assisted reaction. General introduction
microwave assisted reaction. General introduction
 
ICT role in 21st century education and it's challenges.
ICT role in 21st century education and it's challenges.ICT role in 21st century education and it's challenges.
ICT role in 21st century education and it's challenges.
 
Z Score,T Score, Percential Rank and Box Plot Graph
Z Score,T Score, Percential Rank and Box Plot GraphZ Score,T Score, Percential Rank and Box Plot Graph
Z Score,T Score, Percential Rank and Box Plot Graph
 
Application orientated numerical on hev.ppt
Application orientated numerical on hev.pptApplication orientated numerical on hev.ppt
Application orientated numerical on hev.ppt
 
Advanced Views - Calendar View in Odoo 17
Advanced Views - Calendar View in Odoo 17Advanced Views - Calendar View in Odoo 17
Advanced Views - Calendar View in Odoo 17
 
Asian American Pacific Islander Month DDSD 2024.pptx
Asian American Pacific Islander Month DDSD 2024.pptxAsian American Pacific Islander Month DDSD 2024.pptx
Asian American Pacific Islander Month DDSD 2024.pptx
 
Presentation by Andreas Schleicher Tackling the School Absenteeism Crisis 30 ...
Presentation by Andreas Schleicher Tackling the School Absenteeism Crisis 30 ...Presentation by Andreas Schleicher Tackling the School Absenteeism Crisis 30 ...
Presentation by Andreas Schleicher Tackling the School Absenteeism Crisis 30 ...
 

APM 'Project manager to leader' seminar: The what, why and how - Identifying resistance by people deliver projects

  • 1. people deliver projects project management is easy...then add people Identifying Resistance What is Resistance? It is many things, in many forms. Here we choose to define it as what we encounter when a person feels emotional upheaval as a result of a change brought upon them. The surface behaviour or the ‘presenting issue’ may seem rational, yet beneath it and shaping it is an emotional undercurrent. As such, resistance can be evident, or hidden, and hence ‘explicit’ or ‘veiled’. Even when explicit it is often ambiguous. Resistance may be a deliberate act or it may be unconscious where the person is not fully aware of the emotions driving their surface behaviour. All this makes it devilishly difficult to identify and read, and requires sensory acuity on the part of the leader of the change. What are we looking for? Generally resistance comes in a blend of different forms, which can change during the stages of the change, or can be mixed up within a single conversation. To help organise the many possible forms, here are five categories. There might be an explicit attempt to discredit the change, such as ‘it won’t work’, or ‘it’s the wrong change’. This may be seen as unacceptable and so a shrewder option could be to dilute its impact, for instance delaying it, or by cherry picking the attractive parts only. In more subtle forms the person evades the change, such as just not responding or being silent; or entangling the leader in long debates on methodology and detail. There are more deceptive options too – saying yes when the truth is no, or simply riding the change project out with no intention of making the change. Sometimes the resisting person may be unaware of their state of denial. Possibly the person hopes the change will go away; possibly they will become disengaged and continue work as if it isn’t happening. Is it resistance? Before ticking these off ‘yep, seen it’ there is one final crucial judgement to make. Just about all of the examples above are potentially quite legitimate positions for a stakeholder to take. Their view may be accurate and the information very helpful to us. They are being authentic, meaning that they are conscious of their feelings and expressing this truthfully just as they see it. (Although a semantic point) this is not ‘resistance’ at all as we mean it here. The challenge for the change leader is to help the resisting person in to an authentic dialogue. Not easy!
  • 2. people deliver projects www.peopledeliverprojects.com Examples of resisting behaviour Type Description Example Examples of Rejection Discredit Counter-position of suggesting it is not the right change. It could be cited as the wrong thinking or not seeing the potential of the current state. ‘Hasn’t been thought through’ Personal attack If the case against is not strong, the defense can become attack on the individual or ‘The centre’ or whoever is seen as the ignorant initiator. ‘What experience have you got of this business?’ Invalidate Latest ‘best practice’ ideas are hard to shoot down, because they appear to hold morality, so playing the ‘real world’ card is popular line of defense. ‘it may work there, but it can’t be applied to this business’ Doubt Taking the position of being skeptical can be politically safer than rejection. It implies being responsible, rather than negative ‘I’m not yet convinced; what is the evidence…’ Examples of Diluting Delay Waiting for less busy times, taking small steps or running a pilot can seem a plausible strategy, and it can also be a neat way to slow the change down. ‘I think we should consider a pilot first’ Minimise Focusing on quick wins, or what can be delivered in the short term is eminently sensible, unless it is hoped that this will become as far as it goes. ‘Let’s focus on what is practical and we can deliver now’ Distort A request for a degree of flexibility in the solution or implementation can be a disguise for ‘I’m going to do just those things that I want to do’ ‘yes, a common approach, but we also need to adapt to each area’ Select A similar twist, where the scope is cherry-picked for those items that are either acceptable, or already wanted. ‘Yes, that has merits, I think that’s a good idea’ Examples of Evasion Entanglement Debates are constructive and seemingly endless. We find ourselves in intellectual cul-de-sacs, or debates on methodology, while the change stalls. ‘I don’t think we are asking the right questions’ Silence This strategy is passive. The person may seem ok, but just not say anything. By giving no clues, it keeps options open, because no position is declared. ‘… Compliance The change is not criticised overtly and is apparently moving forwards. It’s seductive, but watch out when it lands badly and there is low ownership. ‘Yes, fine, making good progress in the circumstances’ Side-step What happened? It was all going ahead and then suddenly later (probably quietly) the work stopped. Things got better. There’s a new priority. ‘People seem to have come around on their own’ Examples of Deceive Sabotage Briefing against the change is not just a tactic in Whitehall. Alliances are built and provide a powerful resisting force ‘We should stand firm together on this’ False Agree Saying ‘yes’ when meaning no, or sometimes meaning ‘not in the way that you mean’ is a short-term dodge which can often work out in the long term ‘Of course, yes, there’s always room for improvement’ Endure Especially when change has failed often before, ‘riding it out’ in anticipation of it foundering for other reasons is a smart way of staying safe in change ‘Let’s just see what happens when this settles down and they see…’ Blank It seems like an ugly game of not replying to emails and not showing up, yet there always seems a plausible explanation (in response to incoming email) ‘delete’ Examples of Denial Hope Less conscious than blanking is just hoping it is not going to happen. The more painful it looks, the more hopeful we become. ‘I doubt it will come to much’ Distance Talking about their situation, but in the third person, can be a subtle sign of an individual seeking comfort in not personally being part of the problem. ‘The problem with these people is … it’s the culture here’ Disengage When it’s all too much, the pain-free option may be to act as if it just wasn’t happening. There is comfort in the here and now and the familiar. (not spoken) Delusion It often feels a better place to be ‘on board’ and capable, and so being off the pace can be imagined to be presented as much more successful ‘Yep got it all in hand…’