4th to 7th habit of highly effective teens

1. PUBLIC VICTORY
PART III & IV
Group # 3
Members:
1. Syed Jamal Shah
2. Priya Balani
3. Mahrukh Noor
4. Akshah Kumar
5. Santosh Kumar
6. Yashpal Advani
7. Abbas Khan
• The Relationship Bank Account
• HABIT # 4 Think win win
• HABIT # 5
• HABIT # 6
• HABIT # 7
Submitted to: Ma’am Ambreen Ahmed

2. PUBLIC
VICTORY PART
• YOU CAN LEARN TO
LIVE COOPERATIVELY
WITH OTHERS…YOUR
RELATIONSHIPS
YOU BECOME
INTERDEPENDENT
• I AM A TEAMPLAYER &
HAVE A POWRE OF
INFLUENCE WITH
PEOPLE / RELATIVES.
YOU CAN SAY:
Presentation by: Mahrukh Noor

3. PUBLIC VICTORY PART…BASED ON THE
ELEMENT OF RELATIONSHIP BANK
ACCOUNT

4. RBA REPRESENTS
WHAT…………????

5. MAJOR
HEADS:
SEAN COVEY ASKED :
“WHAT IS THE MOST POWERFUL
DEPOSIT
SOMEONE CAN MAKE FOR THE
RELATIONSHIP OR THE RBA?”
HE GOT RESPONSES AND FIND MAIN KINDS OF DEPOSITS ALONG WITH
WITHDRAWALS

6. RBA DEPOSITS RBA WITHDRAWALS
•KEEPING PROMISES •BREAKING PROMISES
•DO SMALL ACTS OF
KINDNESS
•DON’T DO SMALL
ACTS OF KINDNESS
OR KEEP IT TO
YOURSELF
TABLE: THE TWO
HEADS OF RBA

7. I . RBA DEPOSIT ……
“KEEPING PROMISES”

8. Small commitments and promises are
really important to build TRUST in
relationships
IF YOUR RBA WITH YOUR PARENTS ( OR WITH ANY
OTHER RELATION) IS LOW, TRY TO BUILD IT BY KEEPING
YOUR WORDS, PROMISES AND COMMITMENTS BECAUSE
WHEN YOUR PARENTS TRUST YOU EVERY THING GOES
MUCH BETTER

9. •When someone says something really nice to you & simply
make your whole day
•Sometimes the smallest thing……………. A HELLO, A KIND NOTE, A
SMILE, ACOMPLIMENT OR A HUG CAN MAKE A BIG
DIFFERENCE TO YOUR RELATION
II . RBA DEPOSIT…. DO SMALL ACTS O F KINDNESS

12. Loyal person Is like as precious as gold and
being a loyal to everyone is like diamond

13. Gossip is dangerous then dynamite.
1. it can be easily destroy reputation and
relation

14. Loyal people keep secrets
1. Just between you and me
2. if you want to keep a secret you must also hided
from your self.

15. Loyal people always try to keep out
of gossip environment

16. It is very hard to admit your mistake but
very easy say I am sorry or I apologize
it can solve your problems with in a
seconds

17. Don’t be unclear or unreal stick
expectation

18. It is big deal but try to be in first
to rebuild important relationship which
destroyed in past

19. 1. Keep promise
2. Do good and be good
3. Try to help needy person
4. Say thank you on every act of kindness
Listen Good, speak Good, say sorry don’t gossip
at all

20. Presentation by Syed jamal shah
Habit #4 Think Win-Win

21. Habit #4: Think Win-Win
Win-Win
 Win-Win is an attitude toward life; a mental frame of
mind that says, I can win and so can
 you It is not about me or you, it is about both of us
 It begins with the belief that we are all equal, that no
one is inferior or superior to anyone else and not needs
to be the winner
 Life is not all about the competition, the way it may be in
business, sports and/or school

22. Win-Lose: The Totem Pole
 Full of pride
 Try to get ahead at the expense of
others
 Always insist on getting your way
without considering the feelings of
others
 Become jealous and envious when
something good happens to
someone close to you

23. Lose-Win: The Doormat
 Looks good on the surface, but is just as dangerous
was Win-Lose
 Weak and easily gets stepped on
 It is easy to be the nice person and give in all the time
in the name of being a peacemaker
 You will find yourself setting low expectations and
compromising your standards
 Fin when the issue is not important to you, but can
cause serious damage when the issue is important

24. Lose-Lose: The Downward
Spiral
 “If I’m going down, then you are going down with me,
sucker!”
 War is a great example
 Usually happens when two Win-Lose people get
together
 If you both want to win at all costs, than you are both
to lose

25. Win-Win: The All-You-
Can-Eat-Buffet
 Belief that everyone can win
 Nice and tough at the same time
 You care about others, but want to succeed as well
 Plenty of success to go around

26. Two major blocks to the Win-
Win attitude are:
Competition Comparing
Can be extremely healthy Comparing yourself to others is
nothing but bad news
Drives us to improve We are all on different developmental
timetables
Without it you would never know how
far you can push yourself
You end up feeling inferior one
moment and superior the next
Becomes dark when you tie your self-
worth to winning or when you use it to
place yourself above another

27. VIDEO

28. HABBIT# 5
SEEK FIRST TO
UNDERSTAND THEN TO
BE UNDERSTOOD

29. Seek first to Understand, and
then to be Understood
Listen to
people
sincerely
You Have
Two Ears
and one
Mouth

30. To be
recognized and
remembered
To feel valued
and
appreciated
To feel
respected and
to be
understood
To feel
comfortable
about want or
need
The Deepest Need of the
Human heart

31. Types of Poor Listening
Spacing Out
• When someone is talking to us, but we
ignore them because our mind is wandering
off in another galaxy.
Pretend Listening
• We don't pay attention to the other person
• Making comments at the moment such as:
• ‘Yeah’ ‘Oh Wow’ , ‘Ok’ , ‘Cool’ sounds
Great, etc.

32. Types…
Selective Listening
• Pay attention only to the part of the
conversation
• We talk about what we want and not to give
chance or listen to other person.
Word Listening
• Listen only to the words, not to the body
language.
• By focusing only Words, we hardly get in touch
with the deeper emotions of peoples hearts.

33. Types
Self-Centered Listening
• We see everything from our own Point of
view.
• Game of One-Upmanship
• Listen from our Point of view:
• Judging – making the judgments in the
back of our mind
• Advising – advices given based on own
experiences
• Probing – No one like to be interrogated

34. GENUINE LISTENING
A kind of practice people want to put for use when
communication with someone which there are three parts of
it.
Presented by Santosh Kumar

35. FIRST, LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES,
HEART & EARS
 The first positive listening is listening with your eyes, heart
and ears. Listening with your ears isn’t good because only
7% of people communicate by words.
 Listening with your eyes and heart contains 40% of people
communicate with feelings and 53% of people
communicate with body language.

36. SECOND, STAND IN THEIR
SHOES
Another positive listening is standing in someone's shoes.
This phrase means that you must try to see the world as
people see it and try to feel the same feeling as people
feel.

37. THIRD, PRACTICE
MIRRORING
The last positive genuine listening skill is practicing
mirroring. This simply means “REPEAT BACK IN
YOUR OWN WORDS WHAT THE OTHER
PERSON IS SAYING AND FEELINGS”
Mirroring isn't mimicking remember.

38. GENUINE LISTENING IN
ACTIONS
 Genuine listening can work for many situations especially when
you’re trying to communicate with your PARENTS.
Try listening to your parents like they are one of your friends.
They experience defeat, hurt and all of the same emotions you
do. Genuine listening will do 2 great things for you;
 You will create a greater respect for your parents,
 If you take time to listen to and understand your parents, you
will also get your way much more often. This isn’t manipulation
or magic; JUST GENUINE LISTENING IN ACTIONS.

39. CONCLUSION OF GENUINE
LISTENING
So those were the three main parts of genuine listening
that can lead to a positive experience. With listening
with your eyes, heart and ears, standing in someone else
shoes and practice mirroring, people can understand
and listen to your feelings.

40. SYNERGIZE
PRESENTED BY ABBAS KHAN
HABIT 6

41. WHAT IS SYNERGY ?
“When two are more people
work to gather to create better
solution then either could alone “.
“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much”
(HELEN KELLER)

42. SYNERGY SHOULD BE
EVERYWHERE
Sequoia tree

43. LETS SEE
SYNERGY IS :
 Celebrating differences.
 Team work
 Open -mindedness .
 Finding new and better way.
SYNERGY IS NOT:
 Tolerating differences.
 Working independently.
 Thinking you are always right.
 Compromise.

44. WAYS TO HANDALE DIVERSITY
THERE ARE THREE POSSIBLE APPROCHES LEVEL
1. Shan diversity.
2. Tolerate diversity.
3. Celebrate diversity.

45. WE ARE ALL A MINORITY OF
ONE
DR. THOMAS Armstrong has identified seven kinds of smarts
 LINGUISTIC.
 LOGICAL-MATHEMATICAL.
 BODILY-KINESTHETIC.
 SPATIAL.
 MUSICAL.
 INTERPERSONAL.
 INTRAPERSONAL.

46. GETTING TO SYNERGY
Whether we are arguing with our parents over dating and
curfew guidelines or planning a school or college activity
with our peers, or so simply not seeing eye to eye ,there is
a way to get to synergy.
STEPS PROCESS:
1) Define the problem or opportunity.
2) Their way.
3) My way.
4) Brainstorm.
5) High way.

47. ROAD BLOCKS OF
SYNERGY
Although there are, many ,three of the largest road
blocks of synergy are.
1) IGNORANCE.
2) CLIQUES.
3) PREJUDICE.

48. HABIT
7 7
SHARPEN THE SAW
PRESENTED BY AKASH KUMAR

49. INTRODUCTION
Habit 7 is taking the time to sharpen the saw
By this habit we can work more quickly and
effortlessly. It helps to keep the balance of
Personal Production Capability . Sharpening the
saw is about constantly renewing our self.

50. Balance is Better
 Balancing yourself helps you work better in all
aspects.
 Balancing and moderation in all things.

52. Take Time for a Time-Out
 You need to restore your health and take care of
yourself to be prepared.

53. Caring For Your Body
 Eat good food
 Relax
 Get enough sleep
 Practice yoga
 Play sports
 Take walks
 Stretch out
 Aerobics workout

54. Tips
 You are what you eat.
 Use it or Lose it.
 It’s all about how you feel.
 Looks don’t matter.
 Don’t believe in images.
 You can stop at any time.

55. Caring for Your Brain
 Education
 Extracurricular activities
 Hobbies
 Jobs
 Other experiences
Find your talent!

56. Sharpen Your Mind
 Read newspapers
 Visit a library
 Write a story
 Debate
 Play board games
 Play an instrument
You have to want
something to get it.

57. Post-High School Education
1. Your Desires
2. Standardized test scores
3. Extracurricular skills
4. Letters of recommendation
5. Grade point average
6. Communication skills

58. Caring for Your Heart
1. Relationship Bank Account
 Keep promises
 Be loyal
 Say you’re sorry
 Do small acts of kindness
Love and Cry together

59. Caring for Your Heart
2. Personal Bank Account
 Keep promises to yourself
 Be gentle to yourself
 Be honest
 Renew yourself
You can SURVIVE!

60. Caring for Your Soul
 Renew and awaken your inner self.
 Look for your convictions and values.
 Meditate, pray
 Draw, write, read
 Walk, listen to music

61. Keeping a Journal
 Expressing your feelings
 Strengthens self-awareness
 Find yourself

62. Your Spiritual Diet
 Follow your conscience
 Treat your soul with respect
 Don’t disturb yourself
 Walk away, turn it off, throw it away
 Get real
 You can do it.

63. Summary:
Before you do anything in life, make sure you prepare
your body, brain, heart, and soul for it. This is the only
way you will be able to complete your task successfully
and with a positive outcome in return.