This document provides guidance for children on resolving conflicts. It begins with an introduction and instructions to watch a video about forgiving freely. It then discusses competencies around resolving issues involving oneself and others. The next sections provide examples of resolving a conflict between siblings over what to watch on TV, and a quote about conflict being inevitable but combat being optional. It includes activities where children answer questions about the example and describe how different body parts can help resolve conflicts smartly and calmly.
4. Competency – Live effective ways in resolving issues that involve oneself
and others.
Standard - Apply ability to protect oneself and others towards effective ways of
problem- solving.
Most Essential Learning Competency – Increase the
level of ability to appropriately address personal and social issues. HGIPS-IIIc-7
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HOMEROOM GUIDANCE PROGRAM
Worksheet Q3 W3
7. remember
-To make peace with others,
we need to work to display
humility, insight, patience, and
love. But peaceful relations
are surely worth it!
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✗ One evening, Mother
heard from her place in the
kitchen that her children Alma
and Berna are having a
confrontation on what to watch
on television. Alma want the
cooking channel, while Berna
choose to watch basketball.
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From the kitchen, Mother is just watching them.
Waiting if they will be needing a mediator. Later, she saw
her elder child, Alma, smiled and say, “Okay, you can now
watch basketball. I will just visit You Tube for cooking show
videos.” Berna suddenly smiled in return and replied, “You
are so considerate”. “Thank you, Ate”. “Next time, I will give
way to you. Promise.”
10. Both were happy on
how they resolve the conflict
between them.
But Mother was the
happiest of all and smilingly
said to herself; “Oh, I’m so
glad, I raised my children
well!”
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11. ACTIVITY 1: Answer the following questions:
1.What is the conflict or the problem between Alma and Berna?
2. How did they face their conflict?
3.Do you agree on how they resolved the problem? Why?
4.What kind of good example did they show? _
5.Do you believe that smart way to resolve conflict or problem
plays a very important role to avoid a fight or quarrel? Explain.
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12. “Conflict is inevitable, but combat is optional.” This
quote is from Max Lucado, an author, a pastor and a
speaker .
All of us may feel the anger when we are being
opposed by others on what we believe, but a smart way in
handling it helps a lot in order to maintain our good
relationship with our love ones and peers.
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13. ACTIVITY 2: MY BODY PARTS ACT SMARTLY AND CALMLY IN
RESOLVING CONFLICTS
Directions: Draw your body with head, ears, eyes,
mouth, hands, and feet. Write how the following
parts act smartly and calmly during every conflict
situation.
Example:
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